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Logelin, Elizabeth Ann “Liz” Was born September 1977 in Minneapolis, MN and was abruptly taken from our lives on March 25, 2008. Her joyful spirit and infectious smile touched everyone she met. Liz didn’t just enter a room; she lit up a room. Her boundless energy was inspiring to all, and her love was truly a blessing. She had a way of extracting a stranger’s life story within minutes, and welcoming them into her heart. With Blackberry in hand, and a lot of spunk, she met both personal and professional challenges head-on. Although small in stature, her impact on the world was immeasurable.
Liz spent the last months of her life devoted to her husband, her unborn daughter and the family they dreamed of having. She is survived by her loving husband, Matt; and her precious daughter, Madeline, born on March 24, 2008.
She is also survived by parents, Candee and Tom Goodman; and sister, Debbie; as well as many friends and family around the world.
A memorial service will be at Cabot and Sons, 27 Chestnut Street, Pasadena, CA 91103 on Saturday, March 29 at 1 PM. (626) 793-7159.
Memorial contributions may be made to The Logelin Family Memorial, care of: Wells Fargo, 3250 Glendale Blvd, Los Angeles CA 90039 or any Wells Fargo Bank branch. (323) 663-8023
51 Comments
That was a beautiful, perfect descriiption of Lizzie. I wish I could be there to share in this undescribable grief with all who loved Lizze, as I consider myself one of those lucky group members. I truly loved her energy, her charm, her whole self. I have nothing but warm thoughts and happy memories of my time with her. I couldn’t wait to see Lizzie as a mom. What joy. I know her daughter will learn all about her mom from all of us who already love her as Matt and Lizzie’s daughter. Take care, dear Matt and Madeline…you arewrapped in many arms of love.
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to school with Liz in Claremont, and she was just so bright, in all sense of the word.
Dear Matt,
Liz and I studied economics at Scripps together. What and intellegent, charismatic woman. I enjoyed every second with her…always so attentive and engaged. I didn’t spend much time with you both while we were both in LA, but I cherish the times she and I met at the Grove for coffee while you were living at Park La Brea. I will always remember Liz as the bright, smiling sunshine she always was. I admired her very much for her dedication to her career and her tremendous drive. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Madeline. May you both find comfort in your memories of Liz and in each other.
Please let me know if there’s anything the greater Scripps community can do to help, as we are all her sister alumnae. She will be truly missed.
With love and hugs,
Sarah Belanger Lantz
Matt,
I’ve been thinking about you guys all week…let alone reflecting on my life.
Though I did not know Liz personally, I have turned to people that are important to me, told them how much I love them and value them in my life. Her passing has made look at my own life.
Madeline will forever be the shining light of Liz’s and your bond.
God bless you all.
love,
Devin
Matt,
I am so sorry for your loss. Death is such a terrible thing but you must remember all the great things you and Liz were able to share! Please remember that there are hundreds of people you, your family and Liz’s family can look to for support. You and Liz made a lot of friends and touched a lot of lives… never forget the moments you were able to share.
God bless,
Drew
Dear Matt,
My heart goes to you and your new daughter.
My last chance to see Liz was a few years back at Scripps for our reunion. Seeing her 5 years on from graduation only confirmed what an amazing woman she was–so bright and full of energy, you couldn’t miss her.
Words cannot do her justice but please know that her spirit touched many and she will always be missed.
Dearest Matt,
We cannot stopping thinking about you, Liz’s family, your family and of course Liz. You were so well spoken and strong at the Memorial Service and we know Liz heard everything and laughed. All the people who showed up (what was it, all of LA and MN?) represents you and how many people were touched by Liz’s magnetism. Our tears are not drying up but there has been so much comfort in praying for you and her beautiful soul. It is true that it is miraculous and such a blessing that Madeline is here to live on for Liz’s legacy. It’s unbelievable how much she is going to be loved. She sure is beautiful. We actually picture Liz looking like that at birth, for real!
We miss Liz so much already and cannot imagine how this is for you. We continue to pray for you everyday and certainly know that we want to do everything we can to keep you busy and upbeat the way Liz would. No one will ever replace her, we know and everyone knows but maybe we needed an extra angel here on earth. One thing’s for sure, she’ll never have roots or split ends in heaven!!
You are truly an inspiration to us all and we hope that the hole in your heart will be filled with tremendous peace and comfort knowing that Liz maximized her life here by sharing so much love and joy each minute she was present.
God bless you and Madeline and we will talk soon-
Jennifer
Dear Matt,
My heart goes out to you, your daughter Madeline, and your families during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of knowing Liz at Scripps and being a long time neighbor in LA. At every encounter – from run ins at Ralph’s on Wilshire & Hauser to seeing her at The Grove, Liz brightened the world around her just by being there – oh and with that infectious laugh and smile. There are no words that can describe what an outstanding loss this is. May the blessing of your daughter comfort you in knowing that the joyful, fun, loving and giving spirit of Liz lives on in her and will be with you always.
My deepest sympathies,
Lauren Burchett
Dear Matt and Madeline,
I am honored to have known Liz since our salad days in Toll’s “Freshman Corridor” at Scripps. As all who knew her can attest to, she was beautiful in spirit and full of life. Her humor, courage and joy were infectious.
Matt, may she always smile and laugh in your memories, ecstatic at the thought of being your wife and mother to Madeline. And Madeline, please seek out your mother in the love of your father and your family, because so much of who Liz was and worked to be was loving.
With prayers for more blessings and the utmost in sympathy,
Indira-Josina Odamtten
Matt-
My heart breaks for both you and Madeline. I hope that all the memories you shared with Liz, especially those most recent, will help ease your pain and heartbreak.
I feel so fortunate having had the chance to meet and know Liz. I know there are so many people that feel the same way, even if it was for only a short moment in time.
Please know you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers for the last week and will continue to be. I know Madeline will always be a constant reminder of Liz’s energy, spirit, and love to you and your families.
Sincerely,
Stacy Kluck
I never had the chance to meet Liz, but from all the photos and blog entries I feel a connection. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and if you need anything at all, please don’t hesitate to ask.
Matt,
Liz was the most warm hearted person I’ve ever met…this is heart breaking. I’ll miss so much about Liz – she really did have an infectious smile – you couldn’t help but be in a good mood around her. I’m thinking of you and beautiful Madeline and praying for you & your family. I wish I was there, but am with you both in spirit…
Dear Matt,
We’ve never met. I worked with Liz briefly at Disney. My heart aches for your loss, and I am grieving with you. I hope you stay strong and take care of yourself in this difficult time. Liz is watching over you and Madeline. You are forever blessed.
Yan
Matt-
This is Jennifer and Jeanette’s brother Leonard from Blush Salon..I wasnt too close but I am a great judge of character and with that said, I know how special of a person Liz was to this world. I remember her as the smiling gal always booking an appointment for her and some guy named Matt whenever I was helping out at the store. I remember her blonde goldy locks floating around that smiling face excited to go back to her husband after getting the “Blush” experience lol. Matt, hang in there and dont EVER forget that you have a lot of people who care about you, Liz, and the baby. My family is very familar with what youre feeling and going through so remember that we have your back bro. Godbless.
-Leonard
Matt,
Great to hear your voice Friday. Madeline is sure a lucky girl to have you. But weren’t WE all lucky to have had Liz touch our lives.
No one will ever forget the times they shared with Liz. She was truly amazing.
Its amazing how you can go though life complaining, and suddenly realize……given the short time we have here, how petty those things are, or we are being. Liz was better at understanding this than the rest of us. And she continues to inspire us to remember what is important. Family, friends, and especially Madeline.
Please say hello for all of us, and goodbuy for us…
Thinking of you and your families, with warm wishes…
Tj
Matt,
Great to hear your voice Friday. Madeline is sure a lucky girl to have you. But weren’t WE all lucky to have had Liz touch our lives.
No one will ever forget the times they shared with Liz. She was truly amazing.
Its amazing how you can go though life complaining, and suddenly realize……given the short time we have here, how petty those things are, or we are being. Liz was better at understanding this than the rest of us. And she continues to inspire us to remember what is important. Family, friends, and especially now Madeline.
Please say hello for all of us, and goodbuy for us…
Thinking of you and your families, with warm wishes…
Tj
Dear Matt and baby Madeline,
While we haven’t been in touch for a long time, you and Liz were never far from mine and Kris’ thoughts. We shared in your joy at the news of your engagement, marriage and pregnancy. And now in this challenging time of loss and grief, we share in that as well. I knew Liz well when I lived at Park La Brea with Maleeda. From the moment I met her she completely embodied a contagious warmth and effervescence that few people truly possess. Liz was and is an unforgettable person who left an indelible mark on this world and everything she came in contact with.
I always admired Liz for her determination, success and wholehearted pursuit of everything from life, to friendships, to family and work. There was nothing Liz didn’t set her sights on that she didn’t go after without complete passion and love. From what I know about her last moments, it sounds like that’s exactly what she was doing as a new mom. Madeline is gorgeous and I know she will carry Liz’s spirit with her forever.
While this loss is tough on everyone whose lives she touched, I know it is most difficult for her family and close friends. Please know that you are in our thoughts and we extend our love to you.
All our love,
Kris and Michelle Andrews
Dear Matt and Madeleine,
I knew Liz from Scripps. Liz was one of those people you meet so rarely in life who is just BEAUTIFUL–inside and out. I have never met anyone else like her. Make sure Madeleine knows that she has an army of women who went to college with her mommy who are available to her at any time at a moment’s notice. You are both in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Robyn (Terrell) Widmer,
Scripps Class of 2000
Matt,
We wanted you to know that you, your beautiful daughter Madeline and your family are in our thoughts and prayers always. Please know that we will always be there anytime you need anything.
All our love,
Tom & Kelly Berreau
Dearest Matt and Baby Madeline,
We became avid readers of this site as soon as Anya sent it our way, when Madeline considered making her grand debut a little bit too early. Since then, our thoughts and prayers have been with all of you, constantly.
We would log on to get the latest news on Liz and the baby, and Anya — who was our link to Liz — would keep us posted on the little exciting details.
Today we continue to send you our love and support. Madeline is a princess-like angel and we are so happy to hear that she is doing so well!
Matt, you are an amazing soul. Both Liz and Madeline will treasure that forever.
All our blessings & happy wishes,
Malin & Tim Kennedy
Matt – Words cannot describe how sorry I am. I will always have the fondest memories of Liz. Inspiring, friendly, amazing, energetic. I can’t imagine how difficult these times are. Know that you, Madeline and your entire family are in my family’s prayers. I am glad to hear that Madeline is doing well. I hope she continues to improve. She is a blessing in this time of turmoil. If there is ever anything I can do, please call or email. – Jason
Matt –
I am so sorry for your loss. You, your family and your baby girl are in my thoughts and prayers. I have many fond memories of Liz from our days at Scripps and was thrilled to immediately connect with a fellow Minnesotan during Freshman Orientation. She has an undeniable spirit that will live on for years to come.
There are few words that bring comfort in a time like this but I hope the words of the Lebanese poet, Khalil Gibran, bring you peace: “If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.”
May you find peace, love and comfort with each passing day,
Jolie
Dear Matt and Madeline,
We wish we were still with you and Tom and Candee today, but have had to return to our worksites after being with you all this past weekend.
We too loved Liz so much! Our Christmas gatherings and those memories are now our treasures. We also have precious memories from from Liz’s birth forward.
Matt, we hope to be able to spend more time with you and Madeline soon. While we are so grief stricken by the loss of Liz we hope to be present with you and Madeline as much as possible. We hope to be able to share with you and Madeline the peace, love, and joy we know through Christ as our saviour and friend.
Madeline, your mom was truly a special person and we were blessed to know her. We hope to share our memories of her with you.
God’s blessings to you Matt and Madeline and to your great circle of friends and family who are here for your support.
Dear Matt,
I know we’ve been out of touch for quite a while now but I was so shocked to come across this news last night I couldn’t sleep.
I just wanted to say that I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I never knew Liz, other than by the photographs in your blog and what you had told me about her, so I only have a small inkling of what a beautiful person she was. I did know how fearsomely you loved her though and it breaks my heart to think of what you must be going through.
All my love to you and your baby girl…may you take great comfort in each other.
Jessica Mason
Dear Matt and Madeline,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for the both of you. It has been many years since we have seen eachother, but I remember very well her beautiful spirit and kind soul.
I hope Madeline continues to improve and thrive. I send my love and support.
Tara Pavelka
Matt,
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. I remember when you and Liz first met and all the time you spent together and how happy you were. In reading everything that has been written about her, it sounds like things never changed. You were lucky to have had her in your life and she has brought you a beautiful daughter.
Wishing you and Madeling the best. You are in my family’s thoughts and prayers.
Mike Snell
Matt,
This world has truly lost a special person with the passing of Liz. I admired Liz for her happy and beautiful ease and her no-nonsense ways. And although we had not been in touch after graduation I often thought of her (and you) and of her bright smile.
On a small-world side note, I ran into your friend AJ and his wife at a BBQ this past week. Apparently, he and my boyfriend went to the same college (Michigan Tech). I took it as a sign that even though I waited too long to find Liz that I shouldn’t let the opportunity slip by to be there for you and Madeline.
So I am sincerely offering you anything you need of me. Especially, if you are in our great state of Minnesota. I would love to meet your beautiful daughter.
chenney gruber
Matt-
I just recently heard about Liz’ passing, and I cannot adequately describe how sorry I am. I obviously did not know her, but wrong things always seem to happen to good people. I am SO sorry, and I hope you are hanging in there. If there is anything I can do – anything at all – please let me know.
Todd Lotzer
Matt, I don’t know you but was directed to your site through a friend of mine. You are an inspiration to many people. The life you had with Liz seemed so full and joyous and the life you are now living, without her, is awe inspiring and courageous. For you to still be able to use your creativity and talent to share your loss with others while single parenting your beautiful daughter and dealing with the death of your wife is absolutely amazing. The words that your friends use to describe Liz make me want to be a better person. To leave such a legacy is the goal of so many people–yet so many people fall short…Liz clearly was a beautiful person inside and out, she chose to marry you and have a child with you. You are obviously an exceptional human being also. I’m certain there are no words that one can say that could ever take away your pain–but know that you were so lucky to have had a person like Liz in your life–she brought you joy and she gave you Madeline. You will have a piece of Liz with you always as you watch Madeline grow in to an individual that, I’m sure, will be equally as wonderful as both you and Liz, clearly, are. It is not often that men end up single parenting. You already look like a pro–I wish you happiness in your future and all the best for you and Madeline. You are in my thoughts.
Kristy
matt-
i cannot believe the immense impact your story had on me. your bravery during such a heartbreaking and yet joyous time gives me hope in this world. i cannot even begin to imagine what going through this has been like. thank you for sharing your life with the world, you are truly inspring. i know that GOD will take care of you, and he has plans for that special little girl of yours.
Matt and Madeline,
I think of you often and can’t imagine the thoughts, memories, and things that go through your head daily Matt remembering your times with your amazing wife. Liz was one in a million and made everyone better for knowing her. You daughter will grow up with such wonderful stories, and a heart that beats with every ounce of Liz. Much love!
Sara
I can’t beleive she died the day after, Very sad ,but she has a whonderfull baby!I think this story is heart touching and i know how it feels to just have somone taken out your life but you always have them in your heart.
We don’t know each other and I didn’t know Liz, but since my name is Elizabeth I also go by the name Liz. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I know that you love her and miss her. She gave you a precious daughter and she’s a gift from God. She needs you right now, even when you’re hurting. You’re very lucky to have her and all the friends and family that you have.
They will give you the help and support that you need to go on.
Matt-
Although we have never met I feel like there is a connection in a wierd sort of way in what you have gone through. First off before I say anything I want to tell you how sorry I am of everything that happened. 2/23/04 was a date that changed my life for ever as it was a mix of one of the happiest and scariest days of my life. My daughter Madilyn Elizabeth (which is another reason your story hit me so hard) was born but there were many complications. We went in that morning for a scheduled C-Section and all was going fine until about 3:14 in the afternoon out of nowhere my wife started screaming that her back hurt and in an instant she blacked out and my daughters heart rate dropped from 140 to about 70. Nurses & Dr.s were running in and it seemed like a movie where I was standing still and everything was moving 100 miles per hour around me. By the time I got on the hospital gown and ran down to the room where they did the emergency C-Section Madilyn was already out and not breathing. Luckily after a short time that seemed like an hour she began breathing and got her color back. They said that the next 48 hours were critical to see if there were any long term effects. In my mind C-Sections happened all the time and I thought everything would be fine and we would be home in 2-3 days but I had no idea at that time how serious my wifes condition was. I went with Madi to the NICU where they began running a bunch of tests on her and literally an hour or so passed and it dawned on me that nobody had said anything about my wife. When I went to find out what room she had been moved to I found out she was in the ICU and had suffered an amnoitic embolism which has a survival rate of about 30%. The babies amnotic fluid somehow enters the mothers bloodstream and it disolves all the blood clotting factors in your body. We spent the next 14 days in the hospitial my wife spending 10 in ICU and had multiple blood transfusions and my daughter Madilyn spent 7 in the NICU. Somehow we all went home 14 days later and now 4 yrs after the fact Madilyn has had no lasting effects and is smart as they come. My wife has no real lasting effects other than some short-term memory issues from time to time. I had nightmares for months about all the events and really thanked God everyday about the results. Reading your story took me back 4 years and I can’t begin to tell you how sorry I feel for what you have experienced. I hope that through time and each new thing your Madeline does your healing will continue. I will keep you in my prayers
Hello Matt. A friend pointed me here and told me to read. I haven’t gotten that far, but I plan to read a lot more. From what I have learned so far you have been through something terrible but yet so miraculous at the same time. I don’t know what to say really. How do you say I’m sorry and Congratulations in the same time without sounding all mixed up? Well, I am so sorry for the loss you have suffered, but so glad you have Madeline.
I am a mother of two young girls. I had cesareans with both and they each had complications and it was scary. My mother also passed away when I was just a girl too, so I feel so connected to Liz and Madeline both. The loss of Liz, someone I never knew about until today is really affecting me. Right now it’s forcing me to sit back and relax and enjoy what I have, not to be a cynic. Not today.
I hope you don’t mind that I added you as a flickr friend, but I think I really need to follow you along your journey of healing, recovery and parenthood. If that’s okay.
Mr. Matt,
SO VERY SORRY to hear about your loss. Ever since I was told this story I’ve been wanting to contact you and offer whatever help I can. With a baby on the way for us and having my wife on bed rest, for the past 4 weeks, with a mild form of a blood clotting disorder I can identify with what you felt before the terrible tragedy. There are not enough words that I can say other than I am here if you ever need anything. The National Alliance for Thrombosis and Thrombophilia – NATT (www.NATTINFO.org) is also available for whatever you need. I am sure they will contact you eventually but I wanted to do it as quickly as I could as I find myself in and out of the hospital while my wife and baby are being monitored.
Please let me know if there is anything that I can do.
Kindest Regards,
Roland “The Clot Buster” Varga
http://clot-buster-triathlete.blogspot.com/
Dear Matt,
A parents’ group told me about your story and that led me here. Your daughter is so beautiful and it is so clear she is so well loved by you. I’m so sorry you don’t have your wife there every minute to share that with. I’m not a religious person, except I guess for things like this, and you and Medeline will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Katie Murphy, a Los Angeles parent
Dear Matt
I have just finished catching up on the blog. You are an amazing person and I know that Liz would be so proud of you and all you are doing. Liz is an amazing person whose smile and vivacious energy kept all of us going for four years at Scripps and beyond. I can still here her voice echoing in freshman corridor in Toll Hall. Please know that you are all in my heart.
Michelle Cleveland
Scripps College 2000
I am so sorry.
I came across this through the Scripps website (I graduated in 1992). I would love to say I knew Liz, because from the pics she was such a phenomenal young woman. I’m so sorry for your loss. Merely from viewing the pictures I know you have enough of Liz to show her daughter what a beautiful, vibrant woman she was. I am so sorry for your loss. As a member of the Scripps Community, please know you are in my heart and prayers and if there is anything you need, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Our love goes out to you and your near and extended family….
Dear Matt, Madeline and family,
I learned of your loss through a friend at Blake and had no idea that Liz also attended Scripps until just now. I am a Blake and Scripps alum, but I was three years behind Liz and sadly never had the opportunity to know her. Out of respect for the parallels in our lives and the many wonderful stories I have heard of her, if there is anyway I–or any of us alums–can support you both, please let me know.
Warmest regards and deepest sympathies,
Brooke
Hi
I just came across your story. I’m sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife.. I know of loss myself my daughter died in May 2006:(
Your daughter is so precious. My youngest daughter was born March 24 1991. I thought that was sweet they have the same birthday. Also I have a 2yr old granddaughter named Madeline and my 3 yr old grandson’s name is Matthew.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Teresa
I feel so Bad for u!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so sorry!
Dear Matt and Madeline..
I came across your story on the Rachael Ray show.
And even though some people may think that it’s late, I am really sorry for your loss.
But after what I’ve read on your blog, Liz must have been an amazing person. And I really admire her strength during the pregnancy.
I also wanted to tell you that you have an amazing and a really cute daughter! I admire you as well, for raising her alone.
I also read that Madeline was born in March so her birthday is coming up soon
I wish your daughter a happy upcoming birthday!
Take care!
Love sent all the way from Norway.
I am watching the Oprah show right now and it is the one that got me to this website.I am so sorry for your loss.
Dear Matt,
I’ve just come across your blog and in the last hour I have cried, laughed and read in amazement your entries. I am a PE survivor of 6 years and thank God that I am because 17 months ago I had a beautiful baby girl. I don’t even have words to describe what an incredible daddy you are. Maddie is one lucky little girl and I’m sure Liz is smiling down from Heaven. I have to ask though, with your wife being on bed rest for so long, did they not have her on blood thinners? If not, I cannot fathom why!
If you and Maddie ever get to the Toronto, Canada area it would be our pleasure (Alexandra (my daughter) and I) to show you and Maddie the sites! Keep doing the incredible job your doing. You are an inspiration to not just single/widowed dads everywhere but also to single/widowed moms.
Hi Matt, and Madeline,
I am writing from Australia. Just seen u on Oprah!..yeah i know 10 yrs later, Just wanted to let u know my heart goes out to you and your daughter..youre such a good person. Hope all is well…Your wife will be looking down on you and im sure shes smiling and happy..god bless you both, keep up the good work.. Super daddy..
I just read your story from Jan. this year PEOPLE magazine about your love and sad story with the loss of your beloved wife Liz. I actually delivered my son Michael on March 10, 2008 via C-section. Right around the same time Liz had your baby. I was really touched by your story and I can share the feeling of joy of having a newborn daughter and I can’t imagine the sorrow of losing your lifelong love. I’m really happy for you that people are pouring their love out to support you in raising your precious daughter. My husband is the one who takes care of our son right now since I returned back to work. It’s NOT easy. Please hang in there. Good luck with everything! Keep the blog going…keep Liz’s memorial going so Maddie can know how fortunate she is when she grows up.
Dear Matt, I am Jennifer from Holland, and the Oprah show about you is now aired this moment.
I googled for you and found the site.
It’s terrible what happened. But just like Liz is living though Madeline. You do a great job.
All the best, lots of strength and love for you two.
zuhal hi,Iam writing from Turkey. I watched you and your daughter in Rachelrey program and very touched. Have afather like you are in the world. I congratulate you for your daughter you do not levae you alone. You and your daughter for life, happiness
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