slept for two hours
last night.
woke up early and stared at
madeline for a long
time.
it’s birthday week #11/52.
so hard to believe
she’s so old.
to celebrate, she cried
most of the morning.
(the return of little miss fuss).
seems to be a common theme
on mondays.
i think she’s like many
people i know who hate
their birthdays ’cause
they’re another year (week) older.
we hung out together,
madeline still crying,
until jeanette and jennifer
arrived to take us out
to lunch.
as soon as they walked in
the door, madeline stopped crying.
(i think she needs another break from dad).
we went to an awesome
place in the eagle rock,
one i’ve always wanted
to visit, but i’ve been
unwilling to stand in the
long line while starving.
we sat at table on the sidewalk,
enjoying the beautiful
california day
(madeline in the shade with me),
knowing that the weather in the mn
is going to suck.
saw a super old guy punch
a woman’s car window
’cause she was going to
take his wife’s parking spot.
he was pretty worked up.
i wanted to tell
him to calm down,
but i don’t like getting punched
by super old guys.
after lunch we headed
back to the house.
j&j held madeline
while i ate cupcakes.
anya and her mom stopped by
to say goodbye to madeline
before she heads to the mn.
everyone left
and we took a nap on the
couch.
woke up and opened some packages.
grandpa tom g. and grandma candee sent
a bunch or fishing-related
clothing to rub it in to madeline
that she will not be
joining me on my
fishing trip in the mn.
grandma broccoli and grandpa rodney bought madeline
a princess tooth-fairy pillow
(to be picked up when we arrive).
bob & anna called
and invited us for
dinner at one of the
vietnamese restaurants in the
neighborhood.
went there a few times with
liz
while she was pregnant ’cause
for about 3 months, she only
wanted to eat pho ga.
met them there
and they handed me
a father’s day card
(first one of those i’ve received)
’cause we’re going to be
in the mn
on that day.
enjoyed some delicious food
as madeline stared at the buddha.
toward the end of dinner
the little one started
smiling.
smiling in response to me.
(i think she was responding to me…she was probably smiling at bob, anna, the waiter or the buddha statue).
that was nice.
first time i’ve seen that with
witnesses to verify.
(i was slow with camera though, so no photos).
said goodbye to bob and anna
and we headed home.
madeline was exhausted
so she slept
on the couch
as i spent the evening
answering e-mails .
later i spent 3 hours on the
phone with a
new friend in the tx, talking
until 5:00am.
this song went through
my head during the entire conversation.
a good birthday
for madeline,
except for the sighting of
ol’ man violence in the eagle rock.
i need some help.
madeline’s going on her first plane ride on wednesday
(heading to the mn to meet her fans).
i’ve never traveled with a baby,
so please give me some travel tips…
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She’s a good (young) age right now. The most important thing is to have her nursing on a bottle (or sucking something) on both take off and landing. Bring lots of formula. You can carry it pre-made with your baby, in the bottle, whatever anyone says- that is a security exemption. then whatever you play with at home, things to dangle and amuse her. Do you already give her formula cold/room temp? My two never had any problem so that makes travelling a lot easier. Don’t forget your bottle brush and there’s a great microwave sterilizer from Avent if you still need to sterilize bottles rather than washwith hot, soapy water.
At that age, I’ve heard a Baby Bjorn (or a sling) is the best way to cart them around the airport or while in the plane. And like G said above, definitely have her sucking on something on takeoff and landing–that’s the most important thing. She’s young enough that hopefully flying with her should be relatively painless; hopefully she’ll sleep most of the time. You can gate-check a stroller and check her carseat as luggage, if you won’t have one in mn. And oddly enough, you don’t need any paperwork or anything for Madeline to fly with her; grownups have to show photo ID, but a baby–nothing…no birth certificate showing you’re her legal guardian, nada. It’s always has struck me as odd, somehow. Don’t forget to take plenty of diapers, wipes, and 1 or 2 changes of clothes in case she blows out, spits up, etc. multiple times on a flight. Best of luck with the trip!
Ditto everything they said- might want to also add a gallon sized ziplock bag to the diaper bag incase you do indeed have a blowout so you have somewhere to put the soiled clothes (from experience).
Also put her diaper creme, tylenol, or whatever else in one of those quart sized bags before you get to security.
Matt, it’s been a while for us but I know that our pediatrician recommended bringing a pacifier or something for the baby to suck on to help eliviate ear pain or pressure. Also remember that crying helps in that too. Kinda helps “pop” the ears open. You can also gently rub the front of the baby’s throat from the chin to the base of the throat, which causes them to swallow.
We got a great tip once from someone who said if you have to go to one of the bathrooms to change the baby, take off all their clothes at your seat first, leaving them in just a diaper. That way you’re not trying to undress them in the tiny bathrooms. Then you can head back there with just your baby, a diaper and some wipes.
Other than that, all I can say is, you can never overpack the diaper bag. Make sure to stick plenty of extra outfits in there too, just in case! Good luck, Matt. Safe travels.
Bring more diapers than you think you’ll need. My last two flights with kids were delayed 3-4 hours and we used every diaper we had brought along.
I second the sling suggestion. My last trip, I was allowed to wear my daughter through security which made it very easy.
Pack an extra shirt for yourself in the carry on. I learned this one the hard way after my son threw up on me at the beginning of a flight.
Good luck!
Yep, like everyone is saying…have Maddy suck on a bottle or pacifier during take off and landing. Try to check most stuff in…it’s a pain to lug everything through the security machine (strollers and everything must go through there). It can take forever! You can gate check strollers and/or car seats, but again, more to take through security! Bottles with pre-made formula are OK to bring on board. Just pull them out and let the security person know that you have them and that they’re for Maddy. If you have to mix powder formula with water, you’ll have to either buy the water once you pass through security or ask the flight attendant for some as soon as you get on the plane. (They won’t let you bring water through security even if it’s for the formula.) Also regarding the sling, bring it on board and you may also want to use it when you go to the bathroom to change her. Otherwise, it’ll be really hard to use the sink. Give her lots to drink on the plane (babies…and people…tend to get really dehydrated on planes). Ask the flight attendants if/where they have a changing table when you get on the plane. Sometimes they don’t have one…and if they do have one, they often don’t have one in every bathroom on the plane. Have fun and see you when you get back!
*takes notes* We’ll need to know this in a few months.
Happy bday Maddy!
Ask for a seat next to a grandmother ~wink~
(yes, I am )
make sure she’s sucking on a bottle or pacifier when you take off and land. even if she’s sleeping, wake her up to suck on somewthing. i made the mistake with my oldest when she was sleeping peacefully as we were landing once, so she woke up crying to let me know not to do that again. everyone’s given such good advice. you definately want to have enough of the basics with you (wipes, diapers, formula, outfits, lil blanket, burp cloth, pacifiers). also pick a couple of her favorite distractions (books, little toy, etc..) just in case. hope all goes well. happy b-day madeline.
I flew with my youngest son at 8 weeks and the advise someone gave you about the sling or bjorn is the best advice. The bjorn gives you 2 hands in the airport and use the stroller to hold the car seat, diaperbag, etc that you need- and gate check it, it will be there when you land. Going through security can be a pain, just be prepared for them to wand Madeline front and back. Take your time and don’t worry about holding people up. Also, changing on a plane is a bummer. Some planes have the changing thing above the toilet, on the wall. Just look for it – or ask. Also, feed her or have her suck on something during take-off and landing like everyone said.. it helps. Have a great flight.
I agree with what’s already been posted. Just have 1 thing to add. Bring enough diapers for your plane trip, plus a few more but then buy the rest there. I doubt you want to pack an extra bag just for her diapers. You’ll do fine. I actually think it’s easiest to fly with babies up until 8 months of age or thereabouts. When they are mobile…well, trouble starts then.
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Oh, also I flew internationally when my son was 7 months old and when I had to go to the bathroom, I asked a flight attendant to sit with him. They were always more than happy to, so hopefully you’ll have a good experience with that too. And also, they should let you be one of the first to board the plane since you’re flying with a child. The extra boarding time without being herded helps.
With any luck, she’ll sleep through the flight… They tend to do that at that age. But definitely give her a bottle/pacifier on take off and landing- And make sure you pack a few spare outfits & lots of diapers/wipes in the carry on (I once forgot to pack a spare outfit on a 12 hour flight & my daughter had a MAJOR blowout right after take off- fun stuff).
Also, I found it easier to keep my kids in their car seats & stroller when in the airport- It can be a bit hectic going through the security check with all that stuff but, I found that people are generally willing to help out and, once you are through it is worth the aggravation to have the stroller with you. You can wheel the stroller up to the plane gate, leave it there &, 9 out of 10 times, it will be there when you exit the plane. If you have a plane seat for Madeline, keep her in the car seat so you can be hands free to do things like- get her bottle ready, etc.. If there is no seat, you can store the car seat in the over head compartment.
Good luck!
I took mine home from Ethiopia at 5 months old. She had blow-outs at every take off and landing. A blanket between you and her will protect you from the goo. You’ve already heard sucking at take off and landing. Using saline drops in her nose willhelp her fight “bugs’ in the air.
happy birthday madeline!
and like everyone else said, take plenty of bottles and pacis for her to be sucking on during take off and landing. the changing tables have been in the bathrooms in the back of every plane i’ve been on. ask the stewardess, they’ll let you know.
is she going to be a lap child or do you have a seat for her?
if you have a seat, keep her in the carseat. if not, try to get an empty seat next to you if possible to spread out.
also, everything to go through security. you’ll have to fold the stroller up and put it through. same with the carseat. if it doesn’t fit through the xray machine TSA will take it to search it.
pack an extra change of clothes for madeline. because you never know what may happen. one flight we were on marion was great. but it was the 7 year old in front of us who puked on us that was the problem.
last thing, relax and have fun!
oh, and i would recommend gate checking botht the stroller and the carseat. more to take through security but it has a shorter distance to go to the plane (and less chance to get banged up/ruined).
My son has taken 16 round trip flights in his short life, and only once have we been “that damn family with the screaming kid” that gets all sorts of dirty looks. Chances are, she (and you) will do just beautifully. I agree with all of the suggestions so far especially having a couple of large ziploc bags for dirty clothes, diapers, etc. I usually brought two extra entire clean outfits, each one in a bag, and then used the bag for the dirty stuff after the change was made.
I’d also try your best to get an aisle seat (or aisle and middle if M has her own seat) so that it’s easier to walk the aisles when she and you need to move around. My son liked to be walked around a bit when he flew for the first time at 6 weeks with just me. When I myself had to use the restroom, a nice flight attendant held him for me. Most won’t let you keep the baby in the sling during takeoff and landing (that always seemed very odd to me) but the baby needs to be in her own carseat strapped in or in your arms.
First time poster but wanted to add my travel tips. I second everyone who said bring more diapers and formula than you think you will need for the plane. If possible though, have someone in the mn pick up the diapers, wipes, and formula you may need. Greatly reduces the amount of luggage you will have to cart around. Also, try to borrow a car seat from someone while you are in the mn, you then don’t have to worry about getting that check as luggage or at the gate. I would be more than happy to lend you ours while you are visiting here, work in eden prairie, live in robbinsdale.
Also, noticed you were a Johnny! Bennie here, class of ’98!
Good luck on the travel! I’m sure Madeline will be the angel she always is!
I don’t have any advice as I don’t have kids myself…but I will definitely be keeping my eyes peeled for you here in the MN!
Hope today is easier than the last.
It’s Tuesday, and I’m thinking of you
I have never flown with my baby yet, but I talked with a mom who did and they made her dump out the water in the baby bottle, they won’t let you take it. She was told she get some on the plane and when she got on the plane was told they were out. She should have bought some at the airport. So maybe just in case they are out buy a bottle of water at the airport before you board the plane, you don’t want Madeline to get hungry and not enjoy her trip! Just a suggestion.
Lots of luck to you. I hope you have a great vacation!
Hi Matt,
All of the above are great suggestions. I have one more. Bring a extra little blanket or diaper changing pad in case there is no clean place to lay Maddy down for a diaper change. I would also include a small bottle of hand sanitizer for yourself. She is a content baby, so I am sure she will travel well.!
Patty
You will definitely need a sling that you can pop on/off easily (pouch style is great for this). On takeoff/landing, be sure she’s sucking on a paci or her bottle. Be sure to find out what they will/won’t allow as far as her bottles go….I think you’ll need to have pre-filled bottles with you rather than powder to be mixed w/ water or bottles you’ve made up.
Pack additional clothing in the diaper bag, just in case of a diaper blowout.
Happy 11 weeks to Miss M! Hope you both had a great day. Hoping that today (Tuesday) is not as rough as last for you.
Amy
Happy Birthday, Madeline!!!
I agree w/ what’s been said, and the most important thing – an extra set of clothing. Every kid wants to send poo up their back when you are the least prepared…. trust me on this…. **shudders**
long time reader, first time poster. i think you will be fine with her on the plane. she is still so little she will prob sleep the whole time. i would wear her in your sling so you dont have one more thing to worry about and then have a bottle ready for take off and landing. for the ear pressure. we traveled when my babe was 3 1/2 months last yr and she did amazing. your peanut seems to be a pretty happy baby so i am sure she will do great on the plane. next yr when she is a toddler DIFFERENT STORY! if all she has is a pee pee diaper you can probably change her on your lap, poops are different. we got lucky and had an extra seat next to us bc those bathrooms are tiny. like the person above ask the flight attendants they will help you.
oh and one more thing, not sure about cali but in atlanta you get to go to the front of all the lines if you have a baby. you can check your stroller and car seat at the gate.
good luck!
If you’re bringing a stroller, you can bring that with you to the door of the plane. They will then bring it down and stow it in the luggage area – and have it waiting for you when you get off the plane! ~ I’m flying with my 3 girls today (8, 6 and 2) by myself. Grant me patience!
Good luck, and please know that you are in my thoughts daily!
Yep agree with everyone.
1) Take along 1-2 pacifiers for take off and landing. Helps them with the air pressure.
2) Bring a sling or baby carrier for sure. It’ll make her feel secure and help you carry your bags on and have two free arms to put your carry ons in the storage bins.
3) Bring extra diapers, wipes, outfits, burping cloths and formula.
4) You can bring your full-size stroller and check it in at the gate. That way Maddy can stay in her infant carrier until you board the plane. Then you can just put her in her sling and leave your stroller right before boarding. When the plane lands your stroller should be waiting for you when you get off.
We flew from the MN to Denver when my daughter was 10 weeks old and it went pretty well. Our plane didn’t have a changing table so we had to put a blanket on the floor and change her way in the back of the plane. I think she got naseaous from the turbulence because she threw up when we got back to our seat. Just be prepared for the unexpected. Sounds like Maddy is pretty mellow. She might like the humming noise of the plane and sleep through the flight. Good thing it’s only 3 1/2 hours. The flight attendants love babies and will totally help you guys out.
Good luck to you both!
I don’t have children, so I know nothing about travelling with them. I just wanted to say Happy Birthday Maddy! And safe travels for you both on Wednesday.
I know from experience the pacifier, bottle, and diaper changing ideas listed above are right on the money. I am a mother of 3 children ages 8, 5, and 2, and I have traveled several times with them. One thing I know works is to give your child a decongestant about 1/2 hour before take off. It helps with the pressure in the ears. With the travel restrictions nowadays, it can be a bit of a challenge to find a liquid small enough, but they have quick dissolving strips that work just as well. Maddy may be too young to take a decongestant now, but something to keep in mind for future adventures. Check with the doctor. If she is allowed to take it, they may have some samples that you can take that are below the 3oz limit. Another thing that helps is trying to keep them awake prior to boarding so they will sleep during the flight. Sometimes that is difficult especially if the plane is delayed. Enjoy your trip and good luck!
Do as told above, and if she still makes a fuss…Tylenol. Let her sleep through the remainder of the trip.=) Some may call this tylenol child abuse, I call it necessary intervention.
I am in total agreement with Madeline drinking a bottle or pacifier for both take off and the landing. Sometimes their ears start to bother them as soon as there is the initial descent so be ready.
I don’t know if Madeline will have her own seat or not. If she does, then it is nice to have the extra room and if she likes her car seat, she will probably be very content sitting in there. If she doesn’t have a seat, I think she will be comfortable as well in the sling but it limits you in an already confined space. Either way, you will be amazed that the lull of the engines may put her to sleep pretty fast.
Also, definitley, definitely, definitely pack more than you think you will need in the diaper bag. It can be amazing to see how fast you go through things, especially if there is a delay. You will need back up clothes, diapers, tylenol, burp cloths, desitin and a small blanket. It is important to have the blanket since sometimes it can get very cool on the plane. Good luck and I just want to say that I am really proud of you and let you know that you are an incredible father. Have fun! : )
Bring a receiving blanket to put on the floor, in case you have to change her on the floor because there’s no changing table (and you probably want to put something down on the changing table, too, and receiving blankets fold up tinier than those changing pads).
Bring about twice as many diapers as you think you’ll need for the flight, but don’t pack any for the time that you’re away – just buy them when you get there. That’ll save room in your bags.
She’s really young for this, but with my kids I’ve always used suckers to get them to behave and to encourage them to swallow. Check with your ped. And while you’re on the phone, ask about Benadryl. I’ve used it with mine to help them sleep on flights. But again, she’s really young for that.
Apply hand sanitizer liberally. Planes are really germy – all that recycled air – and you don’t want her to catch anything. The only thing worse than traveling with a baby is traveling with a sick baby!
If you can afford it, consider buying the seat next to you, too, so that you have a place to lay her down if she goes to sleep, or if you just need a break from holding her for a minute or two. You’ll also have a lot more elbow room that way for all your gear, and you could even do (wet) diaper changes without leaving your seat.
Alternatively, let the gate attendants know that you’re traveling with a baby, and they might keep the seat next to you empty as a courtesy. Never hurts to ask. Or you could ask for an upgrade…
I wrote a long blog post about traveling with my daughter. She was 14 months old at the time, but some of it may still apply. Especially the stuff about the stroller, which is too much to rewrite here.
http://prettybabies.blogspot.com/2007/06/baby-jet-set.html
Good luck!
Amy
The sling or baby carrier seems to be the easiest way to get through the airports with a baby. My last few trips, I just left the stroller at home and walked right through security with my Baby Bjorn on.
Good luck. Maddy seems to be a great baby, so hopefully you don’t have any problems.
Good luck Matt! I will be flying wednesday for the first time with a 2 year old and a 6 month old. Ill be thinking of Yall!
I also ditto everything already said. On my daughter’s first plane trip, I took the individual packets of formula and then, once past security checkpoint, asked a coffee shop to give me some hot water (there’s a Starbucks in every corner, it seems). The water was very hot but I just mixed it with some cold water and it became the perfect temperature.
Definitely take a pacifier or bottle for Maddy to suck on during take off and landing.
Extra clothes is a must. For everyone.
Take a few more diapers than you’ll think you need.
One note – I was told this before I flew – make sure you tell security that you are traveling with powdered or canned formula as you go through the check point. I put all the food and formula in one ziplock bag and then all her medicine (Motrin, Tylenol, etc) in another bag for security.
Have fun!! Take lots of pictures – the first plane trip is a big deal!
Agree with what others have said. I’d also pack an extra outfit or two and extra formula in a ziplock bag and have it with you in your carry on. If you’re luggage gets lost you don’t want her sitting in a wet onesie or hungry while you get to the store to get more formula or clothes. If you have a seat for her you’ll bring the carseat on with you so she can sit in it. See if you can get put in a row with an empty seat, you might be able to change her right there. Bring small toys (not too small that they’re unsafe for her of course) that she’s never seen before to keep her interested/distracted. And if you have a lot of stuff, you can always ship a box there or back so you don’t have to lug around all your things and Madeline and the stroller, carseat, etc. Have a safe trip.
Like people said — have her sucking on a paci or bottle during take off.
Bring enough formula and diapers to get you through 24 hours.
You *can* bring pre-made formula on a plane.
Bring extra clothes.
Bring patience… people are really really nasty (to your face) to parents traveling with infants.
I would advise against checking the car seat… if you gate check it you know it won’t be lost. That’s something you’ll need as soon as you land.
Remember you can “pre-board” because you’re traveling with a child. You’ll need that extra time to get situated.
The white noise of flying will probably put her right to sleep.
Have a good trip!
You can get a special pass at check-in that will allow someone to help you through security and they can wait with you until you board the plane.
Pack an extra shirt for yourself.
Matt-
Long-time lurker here. Ditto what everyone else said about take-off and landing…give her a bottle each time.
-Know how to put the infant seat in the car with out the base (you may already know how to do that…but I didn’t my first time traveling)
-Before take off, ask if there’s a changing station in the bathroom. We flew once and there wasn’t one…had to change a dirty diaper in the seat. Our neighbors loved us
-Know that if she’s fed and clean and still screaming (although she sounds like an easy baby, so I doubt that will happen), there isn’t much you can do while stuck in the air. You may get looks from strangers, but just have a beer and smile.
Hope it goes well, Matt!
Everyone else has given great tips so far. My number one tip is to not get flustered if Madeline is screaming. You’ll feel like everyone is giving you the evil eye, but in reality, most people are very sympathetic to someone traveling with a young child. A lot of us have been there before and we know what you’re going through. Also, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Most people are very willing to help out a guy with a baby
My son was four months on his first plane ride. Make sure you have a coule bottles, dipers, wipes and a nuk. Check everything else. I carried him in a sling through airport, it’s easier than carrying a car seat. Check the car seat, or ask around someone in MN may have one that you can use for the week. Try to time the bottle with take off and you may be lucky enough that she’ll sleep for most of ride. Be sure to have nuk handy for landing. I have never had any problems with my son the three times we have flown home to MN to visit family. Good Luck, and I can guarantee that there will be people willing to give you a hand if needed on the plane. Please email me is you have any other questions I would be happy to let you know what I did.
Happy Birthday Maddy!!!
Happy Birthday Miss M.
Your first plane ride! Wow!
To Mr. M – I would only add to the above suggestions not to be afraid to get up and walk around if you need to. Ask for an isle seat just in case you need to do alot of moving!
Just thought of something else. That first plane ride Will wore a babygown. No snaps, just lift it up and instant access to diper.
same as everyone else! you’ve already gotten all the advice i was going to give. oh and don’t forget to pack double the amount of clothing you think you’ll need for Maddy. the minute you think she won’t have a diaper explosion..she will! have a great trip. takes lots of pictures!
hugs from NJ,
erica and Landon
And one other thing: be sure you bring a spare t-shirt for yourself in Madeline’s carry-on bag. If she should get a little motion sick and give back a bunch of formula, you don’t want to have to wear it for the rest of the flight. (We learned this the very hardest way: on a transatlatinc flight with our then-10-month-old. O teh stink!)
Good Luck, she should be fine and if she is not don’t get stressed that only makes it worse. The people on the plane will make faces but they will get over it. Try to avoid changing tables, they are gross! An extra shirt for you is a great idea. Also pack all of Maddy’s stuff in a backpack so you have your hands and arms free. I always felt like a pack mule carrying all the stuff but I my opinion better to be safe than sorry! I always put empty ziplock bags in my diaper bag just incase. Also they may scented poop bags that cut down on the smell, they always came in handy.
Just got back from flying to VA with our 6 month old. I would definitely fly with him again. Slept most of the way. Ditto everything above, especially the baby bjorn/sling. That way you can have a hand free for yourself for beverages, etc. Also the diaper bag doesn’t count as your one carry on, so you may also bring one. Highly recommend a backpack.
Does Madeline have a favorite toy/distraction? Make sure you have that handy.
Didn’t encounter any pedophiles
, but did get some exasperated looks in the gate area from the ‘business travellers’ when they saw that a baby was going to be on the plane with them. Just ignore them. The more relaxed you are the more relaxed Madeline will be.
Have a safe trip. Happy Birthday hugs to Madeline!
1. her carseat
Can’t wait to read all about how well it went.
2. a babycarrier (if you put her in it when going through security there’s a good chance they won’t make you take her out – her carseat will have to go through the x-ray machines)
3. 2 extra diapers than you think you need (in case you’re delayed)
4. 2 extra bottles than you think you need
5. 1 extra change of clothes than you think you need
6. a couple of plastic grocery bags (you have no idea how handy these come in until you need one)
7. baby tylenol or motrin (just in case)
8. a good book (in case she sleeps the whole time)
9. make sure she’s having a bottle or pacifier during take off and landing to help her equalize her ears, if this doesn’t work usually a good cry will take care of it after you land.
Nothing to add here, except that when Teen/Child was an infant, I wrote a bitter complaint letter to the corporate carrier that dominates the MN airport to say that my infant son had a frequent flier membership, but that there was no changing table in the bathrooms on the airplane for him to use.
This situation has been remedied. BTW, the sky is blue here in the mn. Madeline will love it.
Yep, if you time one of her feedings during takeoff it solves the ear-popping issue and with a full tummy she may sleep through most of the flight!
I also brought a ziplock bag of small dangly toys, a pacifier, drool cloth, etc. for sitting on the plane so I could keep them together and didn’t have to reach into the diaper bag all the time.
I don’t have kids so I don’t know of any tips..
Just wanted to say that I hope you and Madeline have a safe trip.
How awesome is it that she has such a huge fan club?
Matt- Dress her lighter than you think. You’ll be holding her and you can always put socks and sweaters on or even a blankie around the two of you. You will do fine sounds like you have great advice. Definitely use the bags for her stuff they are sticklers at the airport.
The sling or baby bjorn is handy so you have your hands free to pay etc.
Bottle and paci is a must. If your flight is not full you can change her on the seat in between too.
She is so tiny that she will likely sleep both ways. I traveled with 6 mos old to Florida and Denver. The older they are the more you have to entertain.
I wish we could meet up with you but I know how weird that must sound this is the internet afterall. Heather from Elk River,MN
Ditto everyone else and good luck!
One more thing, if you are short on luggage space, buy formula, diapers and wipes when you get to your destination. Make sure you bring enough along, plus a few extras for the plane ride.
not sure about the way in, but on the way out NWA has set up “parent security” so you dont have to worry about annoyed business travelers thinking you are slowing them down in line.
But my biggest advice is be prepared for delays and rescheduling — esp if you are traveling northwest. They’ve been really bad about it in the last two weeks, which makes me think they may be refusing to run planes that aren’t fully booked or are having another pilot “sick out”.
Good luck — I’m still not brave enough to try it yet.
Don’t worry, the white noise of the plane will knock her out, it’s a beautiful thing!
Don’t forget your car seat to have when you get to the MN! I’m sure you wouldn’t forget that, but I know what it’s like when you have your hands full and you have never done this before. Easy age to travel with. Maddie can sleep in a dresser drawer in the MN if there is no bed!!!! I remember doing that with Alex in a hotel room when she was little……..BUT, her big sister rolled out of the bed in the night and landed on her so I guess it turned out not to be such a swell idea ; ) Have fun in the MN and say hello to my bro and sis if you see them!! Good luck with the trip and I’m sure they will have diapers and formula in MN if you happen to forget anything, and I’m sure so many friends/strangers/family members will be there just waiting to take Maddie off your hands. Like someone else said, gallon size ziploc bags are great for traveling to hold smelly/dirty/leaky things. Maddie is so tiny she is probably still small enough for you to change in your lap rather than use the yuck airplane bathrooms. Good luck Matt and we’ll be waiting for stories and pictures from your travels, “Maddie Flies to the MN”!!!!
This is a great age to fly with her. We flew from CA to TX with my son around that age. Definitely feed her during take off and if you’re lucky, she’ll actually fall asleep with the combination of food and the movement of the plane taking off. My son slept most of the flight and because she’s not at the age that she wants to get down and move around it’ll be easier. Wearing her in a carrier (I think you’ve mentioned you have a wrap of some kind) will make it easier to carry her while you handle your boarding pass, ID, security, etc. They won’t ask you to take her out of it when you go through security. Put any liquids or creams (purell, tylenol, diaper rash cream, etc) in a plastic baggie. Some airports require this for those things to go through security. Good luck! I’m sure she’ll do great!
I think everyone has given great advice – loads of diapers, paci or bottle for take off and landing, extra clothes for you and Maddy, some blankets (planes can get cold) and maybe a few extra bucks for a stiff drink for yourself!
Definitely take a sling or Bjorn, check the stroller and car seat (they are a pain in the ass to lug around an airport and Maddy will be much happier snuggled up to daddy anyway). Bring a favorite toy or book – even at this age they are great distractors, if only for a bit. You can take prepared formula through security, no problem – just tell them you have it. They will usually ask anyway. As far as warming formula, you can ask the flight attendants for hot water to put a bottle in. Might want to bring a big plastic cup for this purpose.
Good luck!
Happy Birthday Maddy!
Apparently I got button happy before I was done with my post LOL
Extra diapers (learn from my bad experience), a little bottle of Purell, extra soothers…
If you get in a pinch (as in, you have to pee), the stewardesses are usually happy to hold a baby! I have peed while holding a baby (TMI?) but the logistics are sort of different for men!
No real tips other than to just wish you luck. You’ll do great!
get on the plane last. tell them at check in that you are here. no need to get on the plane early and sit there for 30 minutes while everyone else finds their seat.
if you plan to travel there often, just invest in a stroller and such and leave it there. the 100 bucks for pack and play and stroller, even a car seat is worth it. second hand shops are great for that stuff.
Some people will be against messing with her sleep schedule, but I traveled a lot with Carter when he was little and I kept him away as long as I could until we boarded the plane so he would be certain to sleep through most of it. If she’s anything like him, he passes out as soon as he is in a car and the plane was just the same. And see if you can get an aisle seat, it’s just easier. And try to sit by other people with kids (if possible) or on the wings of the plane because its typically louder and can drown out her crying if necessary
Melissa
I don’t have any advice as my own miracle was taken from me much to soon, but wanted to send 11/52 birthday wishes to Maddy and hope you have a safe flight!
Happy Bday Maddy!!
I don’t have any kids yet, so no personal tips, but I found this and thought it might be helpful too.
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/index.shtm
Good luck and have a safe and wonderful trip to the MN!
I traveled from Kathmandu, Nepal to the MN with my infant daughter (4 flights, some very long!) and many shorter flights since so I think I have some helpful tips for your 3+ hour flight to the MN. By the way I loved your pictures from Nepal on Flickr!
Only use one carry on if possible, Maddy will have to share the diaper bag with you. Yes, remember to bring extra diapers and outfits for Maddy and an extra shirt for you. and premixed formula is the most convenient. Wear slip on shoes, it makes security a lot easier. I would suggest using the baby sling instead of a stroller at this age, strollers are great when you’re trying to contain them and keep them occupied during the gate wait but just an extra hassle now. You will most likely have to remove the sling at Security but it’s easier than trying to fold the stroller and you will be able to wear it until you get to your seat, but not during flight. If possible try to borrow a car seat and stroller in MN so you don’t have to check them as luggage. If you do need to bring the infant car seat, remember to bring the base also, it doesn’t work without it!
Take advantage if they offer preboarding, at least at this age, it’s a lot easier to manuever the narrow aisles and carry on bags with less people. Offer Maddy the pacifier or bottle during take off and landing to help her ears pressurize. Make sure you have books, rattles and small toys for Maddy, don’t bother with a book for yourself you won’t have time, but you might want to bring some music. If you need to use the restroom, ask someone seated nearby if they would mind holding Maddy, how could anyone resist? Besides it is not as if they can go anywhere and there will be plenty of other passengers watching with jealousy that they were not asked!
Believe it or not, the warm weather has finally arrived in the MN but sunblock and insect repellent are not recommended for such a young age so be sure to keep her covered up when outside.
Happy traveling and maybe we’ll see you around town!
Bring Antibacterial wipes — airports and planes are the germiest places, esp. the restrooms!
Use the Family restrooms if available. (Do the Mens restrooms even have baby changing tables??)
Get disposable changing table liners (babiesrus) or wipe it down really good with antibacterial wipes before placing Madeline on it.
Avoid people who are coughing! I know that sounds very weird, but on a flight to Japan from Houston (while my son was less than a year old) the lady behind us kept coughing and hacking, and I couldn’t handle it after a while that I asked to be reassigned to another seat with my son.
I also sit away from the crowds while waiting by the gate, again to avoid coughing strangers.
P.S. I was very vigilant about germs when my boys were newborns/below 2 years old. Now that they are almost 5 years and 7 years old, I don’t even carry the “wet ones ” wipes any more. Just some diaper wipes for potty breaks.
I don’t think I could add any specifics to all this good advice except this, be flexible, and ready for anything. If you can “roll with it” whatever happens, and realize the best made plans never happen the way they’re supposed to, it’ll be easier on you when it goes awry, lol. That’s the best rule for traveling with children.
Honestly Matt, traveling w/a tiny one like M is a piece of cake: something to suck on for when her ears are bothered by the pressure, a few extra outfits, and lots of extra formula and diapers. That’s it. When she’s older, like a toddler, that is when it becomes more difficult and you have to really be organized about traveling on a plane. You will can cross that bridge when you come to it, so don’t worry about now. If you are only going to the MN, maybe you’ll be lucky and she will snooze the entire way. It’s only about 3.5 hours, right? Safe travels!
Hi! Abby (9months) has logged more frquent flier miles than some of our adult friends flying to see Grandma in MN! I *think* I have this down to a science…so this may be long. In addition to bottle or paci and take off and landing…these are the things that make it easier for me.
-Ziplock bags!! Gallon size for dirty colthes, quart size for a stinky diaper that you had to change in your seat on your lap! Also good for throwing used bottles in there until you get to your destination so there is no smell or leakage onto everything else in your bag! Always keep them in your bag!
–Tylenol/Motrin make sure you bring some and know what you can give Maddy if needed on the flight and/or while in MN.
–Number to your ped and if I see them I let them know I am traveling (ecspecially at Maddy’s age!) so they knew if I called I was out of town and needed an answer ASAP
–Diapers/wipes–pack what you think and double that for the plane!
–Buy diapers/wipes, formula when you get there or have someone get them for you to save room in your suitcase. Grandma’s love to help out!
–Bring a familar blanket from home in your checked luggage for Maddy to sleep with, play with, etc…a different one with you on the flight. Then, wash the plane blanket when you get there!! Same with going home…
–Travel/disposable changing pads are great too! Easier on the plane and in the airport!
–Sling/baby bjorn is key. If you have here in the sling, she does not have to go through Xray (ha ha!) It is just easier to have your arms free. and throw your stuff in a backpack…again keep arms free. And, throw you boarding pass in your pocket so it is easy to get out at any time.
Also key if you are not bringing stoller through to gate check it, you need something to hold baby when you have to use the washroom!
–Stoller if you are carrying it on, get it tagged prior to boarding while you are in the gate area.
–MSP security have always been pretty nice with helping out with the baby (Chicago is not so good!)
–Pack the diaper bag as early as possible and keep adding until you leave. Also a t shirt for Daddy is always a good idea in addition to pjs for Maddy. No socks or anything…zipper pj’s are the easiest for Maddy to travel in at this age
–Sweet talk the gate agent and if there is an extra seat, they may let you bring her infant carrier/car seat on. This is really nice! Try to work some magic.
Anyway, I have RAMBLED way too much. Email me if you need more. I love to travel and have taken our daughter a lot of places since she was 6 weeks old.
I flew with my daughter at 2 1/2 months to the MN. She’s been on lots of plane rides at this point.
* Take your car seat and stroller to the gate and have them “gate checked” so they’ll be waiting for you when you get off the plane….not somewhere in Texas. Makes getting through the airport easier.
* Buy a bottle of water after you pass through security. Ask if they have any room temp bottles. If Madeline needs a warm bottle ask the flight attendant for a cup of hot water to set the bottle in for warming… or bring your own empty cup for the same purpose. Make sure she is drinking formula she’s used to drinking.
* Change diaper just before getting on plane. This doesn’t always work though. My daughter audibly filled her pants as we were walking to our seat on plane. Had to lay her on changing pad on closed toilet seat while the whole plane waited for us.
* Tell people at ticket counter of your flying with premie baby and ask if they think you got the best seat for the situation. Must be aisle though!! Ticket agents have always been very helpful for me.
* If she cries, she cries. Just apologize to those around you and smile. They’ll know you’re doing everything you can.
* Bring a toy or two for her to look at, she may want to hold them.
* Oh, almost forgot, bring hand sanitizer and use it constantly. I’m serious.
* You’ll be getting a lot of mom questions, no doubt. So hang in there. Enjoy MN.
I don’t have any other good flying tips, but just wanted to warn you…. if by some strange chance I happen to run into you in the mn, you will be bombarded with a big hug. I hope you don’t find that strange.
I’ve traveled with both of my kids at this age – all good advice with the pacifier and/or bottle. Make sure that you give her some Tylenol about 30 minutes before you get on the plane – this will help with any discomfort she feels in her ears. You won’t be able to “wear” Madeline in the sling upon take off, so make sure that you get her resting comfortably on your shoulder or lap after you’ve gotten yourself situated. ALSO and this is big – if you need help (which you will) – go to your airlines “unaccompanied minors” window (ask when you get there). If someone is dropping you off at the airport, these nice people can give them a pass that will allow your friend to help you through security all the way to the gate so that you don’t have to try and wrangle all of your gear alone. This was a godsend when I traveled with my 2 kids in January – and not a lot of folks know that the service is available. Have a safe trip.
I was so eager to have my baby sucking on something during takeoff that I started right when we sat down (mistake!). He was totally done eating before we even taxied! So, don’t start the bottle until you know you’re really taking off! I’d leave the stroller home unless you really need it (it’s a pain in my opinion). ditto with the carseat. Hopefully, someone in the mn can just meet pick you up with a car seat already installed. That way, you just pop her in the bjorn/sling and you’re free to go! Have a good trip.
I have yet to travel with my kids, but my cousins bring a big pack of disposable ear plugs that they can pass out to the people sitting around them just in case their baby screams the whole way! I thought that was a cute idea
Matt,
Check with MN Moms page. I will start a post if you’d like more advice. Good luck!
Ditto everything noted above………………a few more personal recommendations would be to give her a little Tylenol before boarding to help ease any ear pain if she has any at all. I also highly suggest bringing along some of those good smelling small plastic bags made for dirty diapers. That way if she does have an accident on the plane and you have to throw the dirty one in the trash it doesn’t stink up the tiny bathroom – even though they already smell bad enough as is! Another good idea is to try to catch flights during her normal sleeping or nap times. That way she will be much more likely to sleep through the entire event making it painless for everyone. Good luck and have a relaxing, fun and safe trip!
Happy Birthday Maddy! I’m travelling w/ my 9 mo old in July and have learned to pack extra outfits for you and her, bring something to suck on (paci, bottle), and wear her as much as possible. This would be a good time for you to break in the Baby Hawk! GL and safe travels!
Never written before but this seemed like a good time. I just flew out here to NY from SF alone with my 5 month old Julian. They did let me bring water for baby formula through security. Also, I brought premade formula in 3 oz glass bottles on board. They dont need to be refrigerated and you just put a nipple on it. Very convenient. I flew United and they did have changing tables on the bathroom. I also suggest an aisle seat so you can walk up and down. Most people are very helpful. we took a red eye and it was rough because baby Julian was asleep in my arm so I couldnt really fall asleep, I was afraid to drop him.
Anyway good luck! I follow your story everyday and It has made me love life and the time with my baby so much more precious.
Oh yeah…one more thing. Pack some warm clothes for Maddy….it’s still a little chilly here!
How about calling Maddy’s pediatrician. =) Im sure she would have some really good tips. I would just try to remember extra diapers, plenty of formula ,change of clothes, Diaper bag for sure…and as everyone else said have her sucking on her pacifier as you take off. When we flew my youngest was small (age3) and the doctor advised her to chew gum to alleviate the pressure in her ears on take off. I would think Maddy’s pacifier might help with that… Her pediatrician would be able to give some great tips im sure. Happy Birthday Maddy! Keep up the great work Matt! your doing soooo well with your baby girl! =]
Hi! I have been reading your blog for a few but have commented yet. This is defiantly a subject I am a pro at. I traveled with my son when he was 4 months old. It was a total of 30 hours of travel and 5 flights! We had to bring 2 diaper bags! Defiantly bring extra clothes, diapers, formula and if you have a layover bring everything with you! I didn’t once because we were told the layover would be only 30 minutes, but 2 hours later I was asking another mother for a diaper! We also brought empty bottles (lighter) and only a few bottles of water (for at the airport) and got water from the stewardess during flight. Saves lots of room and weight! If you will not be using her car seat during flight, then either bring a change of clothes for you or use one of those disposable changing pads (you can find them in grocery or department stores) for your lap. They are also great for using on the changing table in the bathroom. If you need to change her during flight make sure you have her very very secure during the entire change. You will need to become an expert of changing her with one hand! All the plane change tables I have used are flat and flimsy, a little turbulence can send her flying if you are not holding her securely. I have done wet only diaper changes in my lap (with a lap pad of course) because it was easier than using the bathroom changing table! So if you have no problem with other people seeing you change her that might be the best way to do it, depending on how much room you have.
I also traveled with him alone a few times which is harder. And I know some of the people above say you won’t have any trouble with her going through security but when I was traveling alone with him, I was carrying a diaper bag, my purse and had a stroller with a carrier seat attached. They searched me, the stroller, all my bags (and made a mess of all the baby supplies) and they even had to pat down my son! He was 6 months old at the time too! We would have missed our flight if it had not been delayed due to snow. So make sure you get there early. You never know what can happen.
I flew with my daughter when she was 3 months. She slept most of the time. I used the baby bjorn to carry her thru the airport and to hold her on the plane (she was a lap passenger). I also checked her carseat with my regular luggage, and gate checked her stroller. It was easier to push the stroller with our carry on’s and have her in the baby bjorn than to have her in the stroller and trying to carry all the carry on’s.
You have to fold your stroller and put it thru x-ray, but you don’t have to un-strap the baby bjorn.
I used the ready to feed formula. You can carry on as much as you need, just tell the TSA what it is.
I took a few toys for her, but she slept the entire flight, both directions. I fed her during take off and about two minutes afterward she was asleep.
Make sure to bring a changing pad or blanket for the bathroom at the airport. I noticed in all the airports we were in there were no changing stations and I had to hold her in my lap to change her or lay her on the floor. I also changed her a few minutes before boarding so I didn’t have to change her on the plane. I was told by the flight attendant that the front bathroom has more room to change her.
Good luck!
I’m just a stranger, but I read your blog daily. Your story and strength make me a better parent to my daughter.
So in return, I thought I’d share what I know. I flew with my daughter for the first time when she was 14 weeks old this spring.
I agree with the person that said it is VERY difficult to get all the baby gear through the security checkpoint. Last time, I held up the whole line trying to get the carrier, stroller, diaper bag, shoes, etc through the scanner and other airport patrons were very vocal about it (overly rude, but a hassle nonetheless). If I did it again, I would just carry her through in a sling. They will not let you wear the sling once you are seated on the plane for takeoff (safety rules) but you can use it to get her around the airport and onto the plane.
Change her diaper RIGHT before you get on the plane. It will save you a possible diaper change in the cramped plane. And if you need to change her on the flight and it’s just a wet diaper, I changed my baby on my lap. It was less confining than the bathroom with no changing table. (provided the person next to you doesn’t mind!)
If you can choose your own seat, try to sit up in the first row. There’s more room. And if you need to stand up to sooth her or get to the bathroom, you can do so easily.
Best of luck!
Hi Matt
Been a lurker from the mn for awhile, but traveled with the little one from 6 weeks on… so I thought this would be a good one to post on. She’s gonna be so dang easy right now… I miss those days. Wait til she’s 15 months and wants nothing to do with sitting- thats when it gets interesting!
If you are bringing a stroller- I would actually check that with your luggage and keep the carseat if not using the sling. It’ll give you an extra hand and Maddy can be comfy in her seat as you’re going through the airport (only downside, you will have to take her out of the seat to go through security);
gate check the carseat (you carry through security, once you get to the gate- go to the desk and let them know you want to gate check the carseat; they will tag it- you drop it at the bottom of the ‘tunnel’ before getting on the plane and it’ll be waiting for you when you get off the plane);
Change her diaper right before its time to board the plane and hopefully she’ll make it through the flight; Pacifier or bottle at take-off and landing;
If you don’t want to make a bunch of bottles- just make one to get you through security- and use your formula cup (I saw somebody sent you one) to measure out for 3 more bottles. You could then purchase a bottle of water to bring on the plane, and it’ll get to room temp before you’ll ever need it.
Diaper bag- extra diapers, wipes, extra outfit, the gallon ziplock bag (great idea from somebody else- i’ll definitely add it to mine), another ziplock or something to put a poopy diaper in, burpcloth/bib for spit up, extra pacifier (or 2) in case one hits the floor; bring a little rattle toy or something she likes to try to grab at and a board book or 2
For you- easy shoes to get on/off thru security; maybe a book or magazine, but take advantage of the downtime and close your eyes.
Can’t wait to hear how the travels went… you’ve done a fabulous job with every single other thing you have tackled- I’m sure she’ll be fantastic too. It’s kinda stressful getting through the security line, but most people understand when they see you with a little one!
Good luck- and welcome back home for a little trip!
More than anything have no expectations of what’s going to happen; with a baby you never know and the sooner you roll with that the more calm you’ll be.
Ditto on the bottle though…..I started flying with a baby at 6 weeks, so have had a bit of experience…..definately get Madeline used to room temp or even frig temp formula
I was always anal about getting it to wrist temp until one night my second one started screeching while I ran to get a bottle, warm it etc….Thought…shoot, I HATE warm milk maybe he’ll drink frig temp. Stuck the cold bottle in his mouth and never warmed again……
Main thing is look forward to a great trip and that will help…..Have fun
For sure have her sucking something, she is at an age that she will do fun Im sure. Last time we flew we only had the two boys and they were 5 & 1…my younger son was a MESS! I said never again with a young one. But Madeline is at a good age to do it in my opinion. Can’t wait to hear about your trip!
She is the perfect age for traveling. She is content to be held and will most likely sleep the whole time, but do have something for her to suck on at take off and landing. Bring some small toys to make it easier and check with the gate attendant to see if the flight is full (they will let you take the baby seat on if it is not – which is awesome because you don’t have to hold them the entire time. You will also need to seem them to gate check your stroller and car seat (if it is full). Don’t pack formula in your suitcase. We had a brand new container of powder in ours and I guess the bag handlers are really rough because it exploded everywhere and 1) it stinks and 2) it forms little balls that stick to everything because of the condensation and that is a mess.
Take lots more diapers and clothes than you think you will need. Talk with whomever you are going to visit and see if they can pick you up somethings (formula, diapers, bottle brush, etc.) so you don’t have to pack so much of that.
We usually pack our car seat base when we travel because it is so much easier. Sure, you can use the belt every time, but it is a pain in the ass if you are visiting a lot of people and going in and out and in and out. The first time we didn’t bring the base and our rental car didn’t have the locking mechanism on the belts, so we had to use the locking clip each time and that is a giant pain in the ass. It is so much easier to just pack the base in a suitcase and not have to spend the time making sure you install the carseat correctly everytime time you go somewhere.
Good luck and have a nice flight. And take lots of pictures for Madeline to remember her first plane ride.
You will be fine. Your instincts have been correct so far.
When traveling with a little one…
1. Take something to wrap your carseat in or it will be destroyed in the luggage.
2. Take plenty of bottles and pacis for take off and landing
3. Take a few bottles with a touch of sugar in case she refuses formula when she needs that sucking motion.
4. Extra change of clothes for her and a shirt for you in carry on
5. Have her wear a dress for easy diaper changes
6. Buy bottled water once you get through security
7. Ipod with familiar music for daddy and baby is calming
8. Relax…..people make it in to a bigger deal than it is. You will be just fine.
They make these bags that are for breast pumps, but they also clean bottles. They are by Medela. They are a bag that fits 2-8oz bottles or less and you put 1 inch of water and they steam in the microwave for 3 minutes. They work great for traveling. Good luck!
I had a friend just travel with her baby. Make sure you check to see how many items you can check at baggage claim. If you’re taking a suitcase for you and her, plus a car seat for her, stroller, travel pack and play you may be in trouble. She could only check two items. Thankfully her mom was with her and she could check more things for her. I agree with the things to suck on to help her ears adjust for the take off and landing. I’m sure the stewardesses will warm up formula for you if you need. They will be in love with Maddy and want to hold her for you! Good Luck!
Be sure to bring some extra outfits for her, and one for you (no one wants to sit in spit up for a few hours!) Wearing her in a sling is the easiest way to go, especially when trekking through the airport with all of your things.
If you are bringing her stroller you can gate check it (convenient because that way you can pile your carry-ons on the stroller to make it to the gate).
Bottles of formula, etc. are exempt from the 3 oz liquids rule, but still put them in a separate bag and let security know you have it when going through security.
Change her diaper right before getting on the plane to hopefully avoid mid-flight changes.
You guys will do great!
Not all airlines do this, but some still do—they allow parents with young kids to board early. This is somewhat nice if you are taking a carseat onto the plane, as it is easier to get down the aisle with it when there are less people on board…also easier to install it. However, if you aren’t taking a carseat on board, boarding early just means you’ll be on the plane longer with her. I usually wait until the last minute to board. Also, when you get to the gate, inform them there that you have a lap child (your ticket needs to say this). If it doesn’t, they will print a new one for you. They will also try to keep the seat next to you empty if you ask them to (if the plane is not full).
Every time I’ve ever used a sling in the airport, I’ve had to take the child out of it to go through security. As as you approach, ask if you have to or not so that you can be prepared. Wear shoes that you can just slide on so that you aren’t trying to tie a shoe with a baby attached to the front of you. If you need to take a stroller and carseat along, call and ask your airline about it. Some airlines do NOT count those as part of your checked baggage (basically they are FREE items). If you have to transfer planes, I’d say a stroller is a good thing to have because you can put her and all your carry ons in it and go. It is a bit hard to manage all the carry ons and have a baby strapped to you. As others have said, if you have a stroller, you can gate check it. When you get to the gate, you’ll have to go to the counter and get a tag for it. When you get on the plane, you leave it right before you enter and when you get off at your next stop (whether it is final destination or not) they will bring it back to right off the plane. This pretty much means don’t rush to be the first off the plane because more often than not, you’ll have to wait for the stroller. If you have a tight connection it can cause problems, so if that is the case it is probably better to skip the stroller.
Lastly, there are times when you just gotta pee and that isn’t the easiest thing to do with a baby strapped to you. Ask a flight attendant if they would mind holding her while you use the restroom if need be. They really can’t get far with her
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These are all great suggestions…When I took my son on his first plane ride he was 3 months old. I carried him in the baby sling which made it so easy for me having my hands free. When I checked in I asked if the flight was full and the lady actually told me that the flight was not full so I may want to carry on the car seat b/c the flight attendants would give me a new sit with an open sit next to it for the car seat so the baby didn’t have to sit on my lap the whole way. They seem to be accommodating with a new born in your arms. It was also nice that I did have the car seat instead of checking it b/c I had a 3 hour lay over so I put the baby in the car seat while I ate and read my magazines, but when its time to board you will want to put Maddy back in sling. The best part is that you get to board the plane first and the pilot actually had my son and I sit in the cockpit to take our picture. Good Luck and I hope you have a wonderful time.
It’s been almost 10 years since I traveled with a baby (and it was only a flight from Vegas to California) so I don’t have anything to add but I do want to say good luck and have a great time!! The little cutie pie is just darling and getting so big already. Don’t you wish they could just stay that small?
The important thing is that she has a bottle or nuk to suck on during take off and landings (or any other time thre’s a big change in air pressure) so that her little ears can pop. If you carry Madeline in a sling make sure it’s one that you can get her in and out of alone. I flew with my daughter when she was 11 weeks and I had to take her out of her sling to go through airport security.
If you find yourself in the St Cloud area and needing someone to watch Madeline just give me a call. Because you totally know my phone number and who I am. Except not so it probably a little bit creepy that I just offered that.
I second the sling. The stoller is a pain in the a$$ folding up with one hand, trying to not drop your baby with the other. Ensure your diaper bag is something you can either wear as a backpack or sling across your body — that’s helpful since your limited to two arms/hands. On the plane, my daughter always liked to look at books. And of course something to suck on for her ears. Have you mastered the art of changing her on your lap? You might want to try it once before the plane, just in case they don’t have a changing table.
My daugther never had an issue flying. We (er, I) held her a lot, so being held on the plane wasn’t a big deal.
Good luck! I hope the beautiful Minnesota weather holds out until you get here.
Don’t forget the infant Tylenol. My family swears by this. Give her a little bit before take off and she should be good to go. This will help ease any pain that she might experience in her ears…it might also make her sleepy, which is good too! Pack extra clothes for you and Maddie in case of major spit up etc.
Have a wonderful trip!
Hi Matt, I’m new and have been laughing/crying along for about a week. Madeline is adorable and I hope all goes well on your trip.
Everyone here has great suggestions! We always change our girls at the seat because the bathroom “changing tables” are the size of dinner plates. It’s always okay to give her tylenol about 20 minutes before takeoff, all the better if she’s sleeping! Bring a familiar toy she loves, and something new and exciting. Definitely recommend the sling, but all airports are different, some will make you take the sling off to go through security, some will let you leave it on, just so you know what to expect. (oh, and if she’s wearing shoes, they’ll make you take those off too…baby shoes, definitely a threat to national security!)
OK, this one sounds crazy, but really did work for me. Now you may need an extra set of hands for this — but during takeoff and landing, if you have Madeline working on a bottle or pacifier, then very gently tug her tiny earlobes down slightly toward her shoulders. You can even try this on yourself and you can feel how it opens up the ears — I know it sounds ridiculous — but if this simple thing can save Madeline from discomfort and save you from having to quiet a screaming baby — then I say tug away! Also — if she does cry and fuss — even if it’s the whole entire flight — Don’t let that cause you to become unglued. It’s OK. She’s a teeny tiny little gal — There are other parents on board who understand what it’s like to travel with a little one. If you get glares and dirty looks, they are most likely from folks who have never had a child. They don’t get it…And I do think that tiny babies can feel our stress somehow — so grab that iPod, take a deep breath, and enjoy making these memories with Madeline — One day you’ll look back and remember all of the trials and tribulations of her first flight with a smile. May God bless you both and carry you safely in His loving care.
You’ve got all the advice you need for Maddy but keep this in mind, IF she does have a rough flight, DO NOT let it stress you out! All those other people, if they don’t know what it’s like to have such a little one along or they forgot, too bad for them. Not to sound selfish but you will never see them again and if you let them stress you out it will be harder to focus on soothing her. ENJOY your trip to the mn, hopefully we have nice weather for you while your here!
Hi Matt, I’m new to your blog and wanted to say hi! It sounds like you’ve received some great advice about traveling w/ an infant so I don’t have too much more to offer. I would just say bring those pre-made bottles of formula (that are already sealed and just need a nipple)–they’re kind of heavy to lug but SO easy to use! Also, try to have everything organized in the diaper bag in those quart-sized Ziploc bags–that will make it easier for you to find things and easier at security.
The tip about bringing an extra shirt(s) for yourself is a REALLY good one! As everyone has said, the bottle/pacifier turning takeoff and landing is super important.
You might might to call your pediatrician before you go and ask if it’s ok to give her a little Tylenol about 1/2 hour before takeoff–that could help relax her and take the edge off any ear pain.
Wishing you lots of luck and a safe trip!!
You have lots of great advice! If you have time on your trip, you should stop by Peapods on Snelling and St. Clair in Saint Paul (midway). They are a natural parenting store with tons of wooden/cloth baby toys, slings, baby legs, cloth diapers (probably not ready to go that route!) and fun/awesome things.
http://www.peapods.com
I hope you have an easy plane ride. The weather here is beautiful and sunny, but not near as hot as where you are, so remember to bring a sweater for the two of you!
Slings are SO nice. I absolutely love ours for travel, but I take my stroller too. It’s easier to put bags in it. Take both!
Change of clothes for both of you. Check everything and only carry the diaper bag and what you need on the plane.
Make sure you have phone numbers of your ped and someone she recommends in MN if possible.
Relax and allow for extra time. It’s actually a LOT easier at this stage than around 1 or so when they need entertainment all the time.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
Matt, I consider myself a bit of a professional packer when it comes to traveling with kids.
One of the best things I’ve found is to pack several changes of clothes in a ziploc. I pack every outfit in it’s entirety including the diaper in the ziploc. Then all you have to do is grab the ziploc instead of digging through a diaper bag and finding out that a bottle leaked all over the clean changes of clothes you packed. I actually pack all my kids that way no matter what their age so I don’t have to try to help them match up clothes or put outfits together when we are traveling and things are hectic. I just toss them the prefilled ziploc which I marked on the outside whether it was shorts or pants, casual or dress. It saves me lot’s of time and drama! My husband taught me the Six p’s……prior planning prevents piss poor performance. (It’s an air force pilot mantra)
I also like the prefilled formula packets for travel or ready made formula since I am never entirely sure about the water in other locations. Either way the plane will land whether you were short a diaper or her outfit got dirty. Parenting a newborn is like bootcamp. You learn to think smart and fast as training to stay ahead of her later.
I’m quite sure you’ll do fine. Have happy and safe travels!
A first flight for Madeline. Oh the memories of flying with a new baby. What an adventure. You will have so much fun.
The only thing I might comment on is to prepare for delays. I always feel so bad for the parents and babies who are delayed and don’t have enough formula to make the baby comfortable. The less you have to keep up with the better.
I’ve traveled many times with both of my boys. All good advice above. Only different suggestion is to push Maddy in her stroller all the way to the gate, you’ll fold it up and leave it before you step on the plane and it will be there for you when you walk out of the plane. Also, as you check in ask if its a full flight and if so could you be seated in the row with an empty seat. This way you can keep Maddy in her car seat and put her right next to you. This will make here feel secure,she travels everywhere in her car seat and this is no different. It might be a pain to go through security, but it is anyways and as you notice most people are very understanding when it come to traveling with a baby. Have fun back home.
She’s still little, so you shouldn’t have too much trouble with her (as opposite to a MOBILE toddler, say).
Bring formula and a bottle and plan on feeding her during take off and landing. This will help with the ear popping.
When you get to the airport, get there a little early and ask for the bulkhead seats … it’ll be easier to maneuver around. If you can’t get them because some other asshat asked first, when you get on the plane, ask the person sitting there (if they aren’t handicapped) if you can switch.
I found it easier to gate check the stroller, because then it was RIGHT THERE when we got off the plane.
Sometimes the stewardesses will hold the baby for you if you have to go to the bathroom, but sometimes they won’t. Judge if you have a sympathetic one before you ask.
They can warm up water for you, if you bring powdered formula.
Carry with you on board a bag that has two changes of clothing for Maddie in a plastic zip lock bag. Also, a change of clothes for you with a zip lock bag. If she has a blow out diaper, spits up, throws up, etc. you can put the soiled clothes in the zip lock and not worry about where to put the dirty stuff.
GL! It’s a lot scarier BEFORE you do it … it’s not so bad once it’s over!
I traveled with my daughter when she was 6 days old. Use the sling/Baby Bjorn instead of a stroller/car seat. Much easier to manuever through the airport. I tried giving Sophia a bottle or pacifier during take off to help with the ears, but she wouldn’t take it…and ultimately she was fine. No troubles at all. I would recommend packing an extra shirt for yourself in the diaper bag, as well as clothes for Maddy. Just in case you have a diaper or spit-up incident
Good luck traveling back to the MN — it’s 70 and sunny in Rochester right now. Hopefully similar weather will great you on your arrival!
Try to avoid a “red eye”, just in case she decides not to sleep, everyone else will be upset trying to sleep with a crying baby. Daytime flights are better becasue people will understand if she is up and fussy. Enjoy your trip!!!
i have a 5 month old daughter, and i’m so amazed at what you are doing. madeline is blessed to have you for her dad and liz would be so proud.
you have already gotten some great tips, but i’ll reiterate them anyway.
1) wear madeline in a frontpack. the baby bjorn made all the difference for me and let me have both hands free to carry stuff.
2) give a bottle to help her swallow during takeoff.
3) give her gum… JUST KIDDING!
4) wear slip on shoes or flip flops so you don’t have to get in and out of shoelaces while holding your sweet girl
5) if you didn’t get her a ticket it never hurts to ask if the flight is full when you check in. we brought adelaide’s carseat/carrier and were planning to have them check it under the plane since we didn’t buy her a ticket. however she only sat in my lap on one of the flights though because on the other ones they had room for her in a seat.
6) have SO much fun with her adoring fans!!!
I’ll just reiterate what people said here. Have her sucking on something during the take offs and landings. If you’re giving her a bottle, bring a lot of extra formula so you don’t run out if you end up stuck on the plane a while before take-off. I tried to do diaper changes right before the flight would leave so we wouldn’t have to do changes on the plane, cause it’s just tight in those little bathrooms. I like the idea of undressing her in the seat before hitting the bathroom. If you can borrow a car seat in MN so you don’t have to carry one with you on the plane, that’s best, because they’re a huge pain to be lugging around (actually, we might have one if you need one to borrow – we live in Mpls – I can’t remember if we’ve gotten rid of ours, but I don’t think so). But we’ve done it before, and gone through with a stroller and carseat and just taken our time with everything. Show up plenty early so you don’t feel like you’re rushed going through security. Let flight attendants and other passengers help you out with carrying stuff. I (tried to) travel alone with my daughter when she was 4 months. The flight was eventually canceled after spending 6 hours in the airport and close to an hour on the plane. It wasn’t fun, but it really restored my faith in humanity, because everyone I ran into was so helpful (maybe it’s a MN thing, but I think it’s also that people are generally nice and helpful if you let them be that way). Ask the gate agent if you can get a row to yourself, or at least be sitting next to an empty seat. With all the overbooking, it’s not likely, but it’s worth asking. Be ready for lots and lots of questions. People already interact more with people who have babies, and it seems to happen even more on flights because there’s just not much else to do. Good luck! I found that the flying was not as bad as I had worried about.
Bottle on the way up to help with the sucking and her ears and bottle on the way down for the same purpose. works really well. or her orange passy… that will help too…. but then again… she knows you’re alone and she’s almost always such a doll… she might sleep the whole time
Have a great time in MN… I’ll be thinking of you!
Jenny (Maleeda’s friend)
Instead of worrying about cranky fellow passengers, expect kindness and understanding at every turn. Trust me.
AND … if you’re near the western part of the MN, you know there’s a cup of coffee waiting for you!
Madeline is young enough that she may well sleep through the flight with no problem. I have 2 (8 months and 3 and 1/2 years) and have dealt with my share of fussing on planes. As my baby screams away, I always remind myself that the flight is a finite amount of time and I will likely never see my fellow passengers again. Most people are understanding about a crying baby (especially parents who have been there, done that). For formula, I like the premade glass bottles of formula…you can put a disposable nipple right on and just toss when you are done. That way you don’t have to try to mix formula while holding her. If you need to warm it, try to catch a flight attendant before the flight for hot water. Our last flight, she used hot water in a barf bag to warm the bottle. I agree a sling/bjorn is essential while traveling since it allows you to free your hands through security and she may sleep well in the sling. Good luck!
I ditto everyone else. What a great network…. my only other advise… get to the airport early enough to sit down and have a beer…. at least one of you will be a little more relaxed
Jenny (Maleeda’s friend)
happy bday Madeline! You got some great advice here! We took Ethan at 10 weeks and it was great. The one mistake we made was take full size baby products on our carry on, they made me throw away lotions and such. Now we have mini sized stuff for the diaper bag/carry on and pack the big stuff in the luggage. Might be common sense, but I honestly had no idea they would make me get rid of that stuff. Enjoy your trip!
Great advice from everyone. My only other suggestion is to arrive at the airport a little early for two reasons…. you’ll be stopped by cooing members of society and you’ll want to have a beer so at least one of you can relax a bit.
best,
Jenny (maleeda’s friend)
Ditto the sucking on something for her ears. The formula premade is great idea. We traveled with our daughter at around this age (and multiple times since) and this one was by far the easiest, becuase she was so happy to sleep in her carseat. Ask when you get to the gate ask if they have any extra seats and you can take her seat on board and put her next to you. If not, check it at the gate so it is ready for you when you deplane and they can’t lose it and leave you without a seat when you get to MN. Buy or take and few new toys or ones she hasn’t played with in a few weeks. Simple things to play with too, like baby spoons, are great and serve a usful purpose later. Extra diapers, extra clothes, bags for the soiled stuff are all great ideas. Don’t forget a blanket so if you are waiting in the airport a whiel she can play on the floor. Two last thoughts…get there in plenty of time and be calm (I always felt rushed to get through security and holding people up, but they often offer to help) and lastly….if you forget anything, remember you can always buy it there.
Good luck and I can’t wait to read the update on your travels.
Definitely wear her in the airport. A stroller is not worth the hassle. We’ve flown with our toddler several times and this is the best thing to do. Personally, I wouldn’t even bring a stroller at all. But, I wear my child absolutely everywhere, so that’s just me. If you can, bring pre-mixed formula rather than powder. They won’t give you a hard time.
Biggest piece of advice: if anyone, absolutely anyone, on the plane says one single negative word to you, tell them to go jump off a cliff.
I have a Maddie, too, and she took her first flight around the same time as your Maddy will. I used a sling but they made me take her out to go through security, which can be a bummer if they’re asleep. They also made me remove Maddie’s shoes (yes, the soft little slipper-like robeez) and outer jacket, FYI. So dress accordingly. If you do opt for a sling and also push a stroller/carseat combo, find a friendly person near you in line and ask them to serve as backup so when you get to the front they can help you get things disassembled and on the security belt, if needed. Once I couldn’t get the stroller to snap shut and I swear my heart was beating so fast with the anxiety of holding up the line while every suit around me just watched. Argh. Have her suck on the takeoff and landing (unless she’s asleep, then don’t wake her up b/c that means she’s okay and not bothered). I opted to change Maddie’s diaper on my lap because the bathroom grossed me out and was way too small for such a feat. I asked my neighbors if they didn’t mind. Usually if you board early, someone who actually likes babies will choose to sit next to you and will understand these sorts of situations. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.
I agree with all of the above. Make sure she is sucking on a bottle or a pacifier when you take off and land, pack a lot of diapers. I always laughed at my mom when she would do this but looking back it was always a great idea. She would always take a damp wash cloth in a zip lock baggie and a dry one in another baggie. Baby wipes can irritate a baby’s face and sometimes they leave you feeling sticky but a damp washcloth always works and you would be amazed at what you end up using it for. On a hot day if you put an ice cube or two in the washcloth you can have a cool cloth is wipe off baby’s face with and make her feel fresh. Good luck and have a wonderful trip.
I traveled with my daughter when she was 6 days old. Use the sling/Baby Bjorn instead of a stroller/car seat. Much easier to manuever through the airport. I tried giving Sophia a bottle or pacifier during take off to help with the ears, but she wouldn’t take it…and ultimately she was fine. No troubles at all. It’s still a good thing to try, though, from what I hear. In addition to the regularly-stocked diaper bag, I would strongly recommend tossing in an extra shirt for yourself, too! Just in case you have an “incident.” Good luck traveling back to the MN — it’s 70 and sunny in Rochester right now. Hopefully similar weather will great you on your arrival!
My daughter was about Maddy’s age when she took her first plane ride and yes for some reason she had a major blowout, tinkle issue. It had never happened before then, lots of burp clothes and spare bags for soiled items and they did not have a changing table on the plane I took, but maybe thats changed. Good luck, shell do fine.
Good luck Matt. You got lots go good advice. It’ll be fine. Just remember that should she cry don’t fret, she is a baby and that is what they do sometime. Have a good trip.
Louis
I’m so glad you’re soliciting advice on this. Sadly, I don’t have any for you. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! I mean, I’d tell ya to have a cocktail or pop a tranq, but that probably won’t work under the circumstances. So I’ll leave the truly helpful comments to others.
Okay — hold on — something’s coming to me… Yes, this will work… Have a t-shirt made up real quick that says WIDOWER TRAVELING ALONE WITH TINY DAUGHTER. That oughtta do it. You will either get help or sympathy or both! (I was gonna say “gorgeous young widower” but, y’know, why push it?)
@Shawna O’Reilly: OMG! Your baby is SOOOO CUTE!!!!!!!!
Everybody, click on her blog link!
We just did this with our little girl last month when she was three months old. One thing that hasn’t been mentioned is to rely on the kindness of strangers. You will be overwhelmed with how many people will just offer to help with whatever you need! Relax and know that she will exceed your expectations and that the other travelers will not only tolerate a baby on the plane, many will welcome her as they have left their own children at home.
One tip I read was to try to smile at everyone and if you get frustrated just look at Madeline and talk to her and smile at her.
Enjoy it! She (and you!) will do just fine.
????? for everyone can we bring Tylenol, butt cream, etc in our diaper bags?????
Flying when they are little (or any other type of traveling) is so much easier than when they are toddlers!! They are so compact now and easy to tote around!!
I was going to add to pack a change of clothes for you too!! my daughter threw up all over me in the plane -got my shirt, the seat of my pants and plane seat, down my leg and into my shoe! I had to take a connecting flight which was delayed and I wreaked of vomit!! It was awful! The flight attendant was less than helpful, there is no place to change your baby on a plane either! 
FYI for future purposes I always bring a copy of my kids BC just incase!! I fly with all my kids once a year for sure and have been hassled that if you do not have their BC they can make you purchase another seat (incase you are trying to pull one over on them. Because you can only have a child on your lap till they are two!) My daughter was only a baby (and has severe growth issues, so she no where near looked too old) Legally you are supposed to have a copy of their BC though the OP is right – they usually never ask!! And last year my daughter kept crying and holding her ear when we were landing and for 2 days after (none of my kids have ever had ear infections) so I called her Dr. back home and said to give her Benadryl as she probably had some pressure in there. The Benadryl will help dry up any congestion. I am not one to push medicine but it worked. Now I do not fly with out it!! I do not know if Madeline can have that at her age/weight nor am I suggesting to give it to her. I just thought it may be helpful if she ever gets fussy after a plane ride when she is older! Also-they let you board first since you have a baby. I always wait till the last minute as I did not want my squirmy, excited kids sitting any longer than needed. But since she is little you may want to take advantage to get settled in your seat with out everyone else in your way!!
you should do great, she will proably cuddle up you and sleep!! Have fun in MN!!!!! Enjoy!!!
pacifier, even if she doesn´t usually use it would be great, with some applejuice on the side (better yet if she has never had juice). In case she is not hungry at time of take-off or landing, and is feeling some discomfort due to pressure in the ears, try putting a little bit of applejuice at the tip of the pacifier. Worked for Nicholas when he was 4 months old.
Extra diapers and formula – in case there is a delay. These things are hard to get inside airports.
The baby sling is also a great idea.
Enjoy her company…
You’ve had great advice here. I travel quite a bit with my baby from as young as infant.
best thing I can think to add is wash your hands or use hand sanitizer if you can periodically.
The pluses of traveling with a baby:
The hum of the plane will help her sleep, hopefully.
Having her with you will make the flight go faster because you lose yourself looking at a baby.
Other tips:
If you have a ton of stuff, there is usually assistance available at security, maybe a shorter line. try to dress so you get through security with minimal trouble. A sling with no metal would be perfect because you could let her sleep without disturbing her.
If she is crying or losing it, a seat in the back of the plane with the loud engine noise will mute her crying and also maybe she will like it. (sometimes those seats are empty)
Plane floors are filthy dirty, it is nice to have a sacrifical blanket if you MUST put her or her things on the floor, use something as a buffer. (planes usually have blankets)
And finally, it’s natural to worry but if you have extra diapers and extra formula and extra clothing (like your whole carry on is her extra stuff) you will be fine. The part about a planes delay is not in your control but if you have sufficient backup for her, you can keep her comfortable. It’s a drag, but not as bad as that bad feeling when you are out of everything and realize there are no baby supplies in airport stores.
I think you will do marvelously. (I have a near 3 year old boy and a 5 month old boy…my in-laws live in AZ and I fly there all the time from PA with the near three, since the beginning. Having the five month old helps me remember what she is going to be like right now and I think her primary need will be your comforting touch.)
You will get lots of help and baby smiles too I bet. Good luck!!
Matt, Can’t stress enough the importance of madeline drinking something while taking off and landing. You didn’t take the advice of tylenol before shots, but please take this advice. Even if she is sleeping, wake her up to feed her or maybe the throat rub. Can you tell I learned this lesson the hard way. All the advice is great, I wish I had had it. Hope you have a great trip!
#1, pretend germs don’t exist.
Baby GasX or something similar with all the changes in altitude and cabin pressure. The last thing you want is a plane full of people glaring at you because your baby’s screaming to them about her gas pains.e
Ask to sit in the first row of your cabin. That extra foot of leg room will help with getting out of your seat holding a baby. It’s also a great place to set some of her supplies/gear. When she’s a little older it’ll be a great place for her to sit and play.
You can also carry a dryer sheet in the diaper bag to mask the smell of sour milk or any other unplesantness that ends up on her clothing.
Most importantly, don’t be afraid to let people know you’ve never traveled with a baby and ask what you’re supposed to do in whatever situation arises. The other parents and flight attendants will think you’re very brave and will offer tons of advice and maybe even some assistance. You don’t have to explain, just make everyone aware you’re open to suggestions.
we’ve travelled a number of times with my 15 month old, so hopefully i can offer some good advice. take your time…you are not rushed…don’t worry about the mean people in the security line pissed that you have all the baby stuff. bring your carseat/stroller and put each through security…bring your powdered formula with you and then fill 2 bottles with water from a restaurant or water bottle after security…then you’ll be ready for the bottles on the plane…actually – you may even want to have 3 ready…you’ll want 1 for take off and 1 for landing…even if she’s a little fussy before take off – don’t give her the bottle until you’re on the way up – not as you’re taxiing, as with many flights, you could get stuck in a line and not take off. the sucking of the bottle helps keep her ears clear…same on the way down…you may notice she’ll start to squirm as the decent is in full swing – i found that to be the perfect time to feed my son. never had any issues with ears when flying by sticking to this method.
accept offers of help as you go through security, get on the plane, etc. since you
re alone, i would suggest boarding early just to get settled, make nice with the flight attendants, etc.
you can ‘gate check’ both the stroller and car seat…if you’re not going to need either stroller or carseat while in the MN (i.e. gma/gpa have one for you), then DON’T bring them – use your sling while moving through the airport.
you may want to bring some toys and such to play with…music for you if you plan to just hold her and relax.
enjoy your time in the MN…i’m sure you’ll be super busy, but in the event you have spare time, i’m sure there’s plenty of us from the mnmom board who would love to meet you in person – if even for a quick caribou to share stories and just hold madeline…
have a safe flight and be patient…you’ll be fine!
btw – don’t mix the bottle’s until you need them – having the water ready in them will be helpful.
We took a 9-month-old to Hong Kong and it was very smooth so don’t worry. As for the bottles, I second what everyone said about takeoff and landing. Also, if Madeline is used to warm bottles, buy a bottle of room temperature water and bring it on the plane. Then just ask the flight attendant for a very small amount of hot water. Add the room temp water and you’re all set. Also, the best piece of advice is the extra clothes for you and Madeline. It’ll be a lifesaver! Have fun! Let us know if you feel like scheduling a play date with all your MN blog lurkers. We’d be there with bells on!
Well, you’e gotten some great advice. My only advice would be not to count on anything at a security checkpoint. Though we would believe that everything is uniform throughout airports, it certainly isn’t. Every one runs just slightly different, so being prepared for anything is probably important.
And….I’ll be waving from the thriving metropolis of Pine Island MN at ya! Enjoy being in the MN again!
I agree with everyone about the bottle or paci. That is the biggest thing!! And the airport won’t do anything about it being premixed. I traveled with a 2 yr old last summer and we had about 10 different beverages for him and they didn’t care at all. The only other thing I can suggest is I give our daughter a half a dose of Tylenol before every flight she’s been on. I think the youngest that she has been is 5 months old for a flight, so a little bit older then Madeline…maybe you should ask your doctor first. But I think it helps with the pressure and it helps them sleep in unfamiliar surroundings. Our little girl is not the best sleeper when she is not in her crib. Maybe Madeline doesn’t have that problem??? Good luck
Happy Birthday Maddy and safe travels.
I haven’t read through the other comments so my tips may have already been covered.
I traveled with my Addie at 12 weeks old and she slept the entire time because of the white noise of the plane engine. If you’re not buying her a seat, I would take the boppy so she can sleep on your lap comfortably.
My pediatrician recommended Tylenol 30 minutes before the flight to help with any discomfort from cabin pressure change. Also, make sure she’s either sucking on a bottle or pacifier during take off and landing to help her ears pop.
Gate check your stroller and carseat. Ask at the gate counter if there’s an empty seat so you can bring your carseat on board. It will be more comfortable for both of you.
At that age I brought a ton of toys in my carry on for her and she played with NONE of them because she slept, literally on all three of our flights that week.
Oh, and the airplane bathroom has a changing table. Don’t change her on your lap like I did.
Good luck, and happy birthday Madeline!
Hi Matt!
Just travelled with Madeline’s boyfriend, Dylan, last month for the first time…It was a five hour flight that I had originally dreaded but everything turned out great and, generally, people were very friendly. My best piece of advice…bring the Boppy…made the trip so much more comfortable for both of us! Great advice above, especially about having a beer, or two!
My sister in law learned the hard way last year that the car seat counts as one of your bags. So I would see if someone has one that you can borrow (especially since you know you will be coming home with a ton more stuff than you left with as everyone will have a present for her) her still being an infant, anyone with a todler should have one in their garage/attic/basement.
Wow on the multitudes of advice – Fantastic! We’ve never traveled with Magdalene, but are planning a trip at the end of June to Chicago – like usual, your need for information has ensured that those of us newbies reading have plenty of great information. We wish you the best trip possible – and as my best friend Claire always says – the most important thing to pack are your patience pants – always needed when traveling. We’ll be keeping an Eagle Eye out for you around town, full well knowing that there are fans aplenty waiting to see Miss M., but if you need anything just let us know.
Good luck, Kathleen (Steve & Magdalene).
P.S. Does the Robot ever get to go on vacation? I guess you have enough to carry and you certainly wouldn’t want to risk having him lost with the luggage – but, I’m sure he’d love it here in the MN.
I don’t have children myself but I have traveled by myself many times with both my niece and nephew as babies and they have been just fine. You have received a lot of GREAT suggestions. I think you and Madeline will be just fine. Just go with it. And if Madeline cries then she cries – IT’S OK. People have iPods now a days – LOL!!! You’ll be suprised how well she’ll do and you too!! Have a great time and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Hi Matt,
As an airline employee I took the liberty of moving you up a few rows, leaving the middle seat open so you have more room. I hope you don’t mind. I have great confidence in you Matt. You have done a fine job so far! This will be a snap. Safe travels to you all and a very Happy Birthday Madeline. xxoo
One more thing, Matt. We traveled to the mn when our son was still taking a bottle and couldn’t figure out why he wasn’t eating well. We didn’t realize it was the water from the water softener that he didn’t like. As soon as we switched to bottled water he was better.
Whoa – there were too many posts to read every one! This might be a repeat – but bring an extra shirt/outfit for yourself in case of a blowout (or pukefest). Nothing like smelling like puke on a hot summer day
Have a wonderful trip and travel safely!
I have never been on a plane with any of my babies. I was on a plane with my brother when he was a baby. My poor mom. They had to move us to first class because he was screaming so loud. Once we got in first class he stopped. Coincidence? At 25 yrs old he still screams and cries to get what he wants. Tee-Hee! ; )
Good luck on your trip. Maddy will be fine. She’ll probably sleep the entire tme. Just have a binky with you and snuggle with her. I would make sure you have some bottles ready and diapers.
Found your blog about a week ago and have finally caught up. Just wanted to give you my two cents when it comes to traveling. We have done quite a bit with our two young boys and the hardest was the trip to Australia and NZ. Yours should go pretty smoothly since she is so young. Make sure you have PLENTY of everything. Extra outfits, diapers, etc. Make sure she is sucking on a paci for take off and landing and a sling is a life savor when boarding. Good luck! And don’t stress if she cries. other people can just bug off. that’s life with a little one. they don’t always cooperate.
If you take the stroller, be prepared that they will make you collapse it and put it on the security belt. I only took my stroller once, but it made things harder not easier, so I don’t take it anymore. I use a sling and I’ve been able to walk right through with him strapped to me. It makes things so much easier b/c it gives me two free hands.
And like others have said, have her take a bottle or suck on a pacifier during take off and landing. I would be surprised if she doesn’t sleep the whole way. The lull of the plane helps babies sleep.
WOW!! So may replies, I didn’t read them all so I apologize if I am repeating any info. I was a (NWA) flight attendant for about 10 years and I found that the best thing you can do for Miss Madeline is make sure that she has a bottle or a binkey on takeoff and landing. This will keep her ears clear. You may also want to bring your car seat along just in case they have an empty seat that you can move her in to. It will be much more comfortable for you and for her. As for the hot water mentioned above you can ask your F/A to put some hot water in a barf-bag to heat her bottle. The hot water on the aircraft is WAAAYYY HOT and I wouldn’t recommend putting any directly into her bottle.
Bon Voyage!
Hi Matt,
Definitely bring her car seat and stroller with you all the way through security. Ask the gate agents if there is an extra seat on the plane and if there is bring the car seat on with you. It’s so much safer for her to be in her car seat and it will be a great place for her to sleep (hopefully.)
If there isn’t an extra seat then you’ll “gate check” the car seat (and you will gate check the stroller anyway.) IT’S UNBELIEVABLY IMPORTANT TO GATE CHECK THE CAR SEAT IF YOU CAN’T TAKE IT ON BOARD. Just as checked luggage gets lost so do car seats. Gate checking helps eliminate some of that risk. Borrowed car seats from the airline have an unknown history of crashes and they are usually plain gross.
I flew with my son when he was 9 weeks old and he slept the entire way. Have a few spare pacifiers and she should be fine, so will you!
Have a great trip!
HEY MATT – DON’T FEEL BAD IF THAT BEAUTIFUL GIRL IS CRYING IN THE AIRPORT/PLANE. THEY ALL DO IT, AND THERE IS NOTHING THAT YOU CAN DO TO GUARANTEE A QUIET FLIGHT!! That being said, I wish you a safe flight, and clear skys. We will try to keep the weather gorgeous here in the MN. Have a wonderful visit, and of course, fill all of us adoring fans in when you get a chance!
HEY MATT – MOST IMPORTANT RULE: DO NOT WORRY IF THAT BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL IS CRYING IN THE AIRPORT/PLANE. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF A QUIET FLIGHT. That being said, I wish you a safe flight and clear skys. We will try to keep the weather gorgeous here in THE MN. Have a great trip, and give us an update when you get a chance!
Try to feed her during take off & landing it will help her ears from hurting. Keep her in a sling or baby bjorn and she should sleep through it! Good luck!!
Everyone here has some great tips. I’ve traveled with my kids since they were 2 weeks of age. A sling or babyhawk, etc. is the way to go. I’ve had some airports let me wear baby through security and others make me take the carrier off, run the carrier through the machine and hold baby while walking through. Great suggestions but the only thing I disagree with is leaving your baby with someone while you go to the bathroom. (Unless of course, you are traveling with another adult.) I’ve traveled a few times by myself and baby does just fine in the sling while I’m using the potty. They don’t know any different and I wouldn’t consider leaving my child with a stranger. (It’s no different if I’m out grocery shopping, etc.—you gotta do what you gotta do.) Good luck on your trip and you will both do fine.
Hi Matt & Madeline,
So here are our travel tips:
1. I always thought the easiest thing was to leave Curtis in the car seat in the stroller — that way, when you go through security, you can easily pick up Maddy out of the car seat (it has to go on the belt, too) and then stick her back in the seat & stroller. If you have the Baby Bjorn, they make you take the baby out of that for the security check, and so we always thought stroller was easiest.
2. Curtis never had any problems with ears popping — and I really believe if Maddy is sleeping during take off and landing, don’t wake her up
3. Not sure if she likes to chew on stuff yet, but lots of fun toys & distractions are a must.
4. Oh, and when you get to the gate, ask if it’s a full flight. If it’s not, they will let you take the car seat on and that way she can sit in the car seat next to you, and you don’t have to hold her for the whole flight.
Have fun
Ya can’t just check them in with the luggage?
Have tons of fun. I’m sure everyone is anxious to see Madeline. You’ve got tons of advice. My biggest thing is to not let others bother you. I have four kids. I’m ALWAYS the one that people roll their eyes at and speak about under their breath. You know, families like to travel too! Don’t let anyone else bother you!
Matt – HOLY SHIT people love you!!! Ask and you shall receive. I sent you an email and made the suggestion to get there in plenty of time to have a beer before you take off…. at least one of you will be relaxed
Jen
I don’t know if someone else said this *130 post is too many to read*
but check your stroller at the plane not before u go through security. They have been known to get wreck and lost.
my sister is flying in from mn on wednesday to visit for a couple of weeks while you’ll be flying out to mn. kinda funny, don’t you think? she lives in rosemount. i know it’s close to the mall of america! enjoy your visit to meet all the fans.
sara
p.s. happy 11 weeks madeline!
When we flew with the kids we were told we could not dispose of our dirty diapers and had to keep them!?!?! So bring along a plastic bag just in case. I threw a real stinker in the trash as we left though. hehe. I flew overseas with my kiddos three times and there is nothing I didnt experience. Bring tylenol, some changes of clothes, a pacifier and a book or toy for Madeline. Oh and a change of clothes or at least a shirt for you. Maybe an ipod to keep you sane while all of the other kids are screaming. You guys will be fine!! On my last trip to Okinawa my 6 month old had a huge blowout at take off and my 2 yr old spilled an entire glass of red juice all over me (darn stewardess gave it to her while I was dealing with the poop mess). Mind you this was about 10 minutes into t a 22 hour trip. The greatest part was that there was a onbnoxioulsy rude man in a business suit who kept asking me to keep my kids quiet. When we were departing the plane, I retrieved my baby bag out of the overhead comaprtment only to realize that I left a bottle in there and it leaked out all over the mean business guy’s leather briefcase. Seriously it was soaking wet!! Theres kharma for ya! So smile, enjoy your flight and take lots of pics so we all can see how great you and M did on your first flight. Best of luck to you and Happy Bday to Ms. M!
When I flew with my son at 8 weeks, my pediatrician suggested that I cover him with a blanket as much as possible beacuse of the germ factor. And he said try not to let people touch him too much – again germs. I always take two blankets just to be on the safe side. My son always sleeps on planes because of the loud humming sounds. If she cries, don’t worry too much about it – she’s a baby and that’s what babies do! Good luck!
Matt, with everything else you have accomplished so far, flying with Madeline will be a piece of cake. Honestly, this is the BEST baby age for flying. She will likely sleep through it all, or be content with all that is going on around her. The flight attendents will be very helpful (don’t be shy, ask for help when you need it).
We just flew with two little ones last month and security was great (dedicated security for kids and flight crew, so we didn’t feel so stressed to “move along”!). Good advice about asking if there are any empty seats – if you can get one for free and can put Madeline in the car seat for naps, it will give you some time for yourself.
Good luck – I imagine the trip will have many high and many low points – be kind to yourself. Take lots of photos!
Denise
YOu’ve been given great advice. I saw the request for advice and was so excited cuz I’m married to an airline pilot but then saw 134 responses prior to mine, LOL!!! Feed on take-off / landing if she wants, and of course let the F/A’s hold her all they want.
She’ll do great!!!!! And so will you!
Hi Matt, and Happy 11 week birthday Madeline!
I think you got some great advice already. I just wanted to say that two months ago on the plane back from Europe, we had a lady with a toddler that would not want to strap her grandaughter in the seat next to her. The little girl was terrified and wanted to be close to her grandparents. And the flight attendants insisted that the little girl sit in her own seat and have a belt across her for security reasons. Or we would not be able to land.
I’m not sure what they do about newborns, and different airlines. But check with them and their guidelines.
Good luck!
Airplanes are FULL of germs, so in terms of diaper changes, you can make several individual “diaper kits” consisting of one diaper, some wipes (bundled in a sandwich bag to keep wet), and a couple of paper towels (to line wherever you will be changing her)–all packaged in a large zip lock bag. After each diaper change, just place everything in the ziplock bag and throw it all away. That way you don’t have to contaminate your large box of wipes or a changing pad. I would also make a few loose sandwich bags of wipes in case of a blowout.
Just do what I do: Give her a bunch of those mini bottles of booze. She’ll sleep the whole way. ; )
Hope you can catch a Twins game while you’re here. They may be frustrating to watch lately, but the glory will be apparent in a couple more years when these young guys get some experience in them!
I agree that it would be easier getting through security without the stroller and carseat, but if you have the extra seat next to you on the plane, the carseat is a godsend for her to be able to just sleep in, instead of having to hold her the whole time. She’s upright, and already used to the carseat, so she’ll most likely sleep throughout the flight.
If you do get an extra seat, and you use the car seat, she’ll need to be in the window seat, since no one will be able to get around the car seat, as it takes up all the room in the seat. Also, if you do bring the car seat, the flight attendents will make you strap her in it for take off and landing, which does limit your ability to soothe her if she’s fussy, but if she’s asleep, it’s great.
Also, it’s not always true that you need the base in order for the carseat to work. My carseat works without the base. You just thread the seatbelt through some plastic slits in the carseat.
When I flew with Isabel at three months, I had her pacifier and/or bottle at the ready for take off and landing, but she was sound asleep during both, so she didn’t need it. I’d add that having the pacifier attached to a tether that clips to her clothes or carseat strap is essential. If it’s loose, chances are it will drop on the floor, and that’s just yucky. And heaven forbid if you lose it! For that matter, you’d better have a few extras, just in case.
There was a changing table in the bathroom, so that wasn’t a problem, and if I needed to use the bathroom myself, the flight attendent was more than happy to hold her for me.
I’d say the biggest hassle flying is getting through security, but if you get their a little bit early, and explain to security and the people near you in line that you’ve never flown with your baby before, people are very friendly and helpful.
You’re going to be so fine, Matt. Try not to stress over this. If you need a ride to the airport, I’m more than happy to take you. Just call me if you do.
Catherine
Great suggestions! Both of you will be fine. Please NO Benadryl for Madeline, if she has not taken it before, it could calm her down or make her hyper. You really don’t want the last one, when traveling.
We have mosquitos already. I have a daughter allegic to mosquito bites. There are lotion repellents with natural ingredients. You can buy then at any Pharmacy. If she gets a mosquito bite, there is GEL Benadryl you can use but make sure she does not touch it, you don’ want her sucking on it.
Enjoy your trip!
Happy B-day Madeline
It always helped me to do a run-through of the process beforehand and here is what has worked for me when traveling alone with my son:
1) Baby in stroller at check-in, Baby Bjorn is accessible
2) At security, put bags/shoes in bins to send through, then put baby in Bjorn, fold stroller to send through on conveyor belt, walk through with baby
3) Once through, place baby in stroller which will free hands to put on shoes and gather bags
She’s at a wonderful age to travel, you’ll do great!
We travel with our two children internationally several times a year. Whether it’s a short connect flight or overseas, sometimes when the baby gets fussy, it works to get about and walk around for a change of scenery.
Wow, Matt! Tons of posts by helpful people. God bless them all!
I hope you can leave the stroller and car seat at home and use ones available here. We have a modest stroller that I think will work, but I’m not a technical expert for such a tiny baby. The car seat we don’t have, but maybe we can get our lovely Madeline a MN carseat for her hopefully frequent trips here. We’d be glad to chip in for a joint purchase of one. Pls advise of your carset specifications. I’ll contact T & C regarding this brainstorm.
Get your pre-flight rest, Matt! We have great plans for you and Ms Madeline!
Love,
IA Rich & Penny
Lots of great advice. But to make you not so anxious, my daughter is traveling from California to Texas with 4 under 6! By herself! Just to warn any travelers that want to rethink traveling next week.
I forgot to add :
Hope you have a good “Tuesday” and safe travels!!
Whoa! When I checked in this morning there were only 7 comments…people have a TON of advice! I’m taking notes too, we’ll be taking our first flight in a couple of months.
In addition to all the other suggestions: if you’re not taking ready to drink formula, then you may want to pick up one of those formula dispensers that have the individual serving sizes portioned off. Here’s a link: http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2738037
You may already have one…but if you don’t you totally need one. It’s great for being out and about. I just take bottled water, the dispenser, and a bottle…and we’re good to go.
Have a great 1st Father’s Day, Matt…can’t wait to hear all about it.
http://www.paper-source.com/cgi-bin/paper/44352550.html?cm_id=3140.200
Here’s some robot paper I came across on Paper Source site.
Was in a toy store in Great Barrington, MA and saw some fun metal robots. Didn’t have my camera on me, but thought of you. I’ve definitely seen more robots since reading your site.
Amy
Matt-
Happy 11th week B-day Sweet Madeline!!! <3
WOW..you have LOTS of comments to read and lots of great help from all of us out there!
I have quickly looked through most of the comments and I think everyone is right on. Car seat, stroller ( check @ Gate),have w/you baby sling, bottles, formula,wipes, burp cloths, extra shirt/s for u. Be sure to bring a couple extra diapers/outfits for Miss M. than you thought in case there are delays! Pacifiers,books, toys- something with music, blankets( sometimes it can cool on the plane).Ziplocs/and or small plastic garbage bags- come in handy.
Most of all try to be relaxed (sometimes easier said than done…but Madeline will feed off of you)…people are generally nice (as most of us have “been there done that”) and if they aren’t then screw them and move on. You are doing your best! (-:. There is a lot for babies to look at on planes (peeps..some weird at times, but whateve)- so if she is not sleeping- that can keep her a bit busy. Take- off and landing-bottle is best or pacifier to suck on to help protect those precious ears!! Madeline will just love being held/cuddled by her Daddy!!
Most of all when you get to the MN – have a great time with family , friends, hanging out, seeing the twins play, etc while showing off that gorgeous happy much loved little girl of yours!!!
I will be thinking of you both- happy, safe travels- can’t wait to hear all about it!!
XOXOXOX from here in the MN. (-:
Wanted to say PS~
Hope you have a good “tuesday” and a safe flight!!
Enjoy your trip!!
Hi it’s me again.
Just a thought.
are you bringing the robot to the MN?
If you are
I am sure that there needs to be a whole new list on bringing robots on planes.
I would love to see you bring the robot though security!
well, everything looks pretty well covered (pacy, sling, extra clothes for all, etc). all i’d add is to call the airline (or look online) several hours before your flight to check whether it’s full or full-ish. if it’s not, request an empty row at check-in; if it is, make sure to put your name on the “bump” list so you can take your next trip for free — you usually get in just a little later — and at least you can prepare yourself to be cramped for a few hours.
either way, get to the airport with plenty of time to spare so you can be relaxed — THAT is the single most important factor influencing how maddy will fare on the flight. she’ll sense if you’re frazzled so don’t sweat about it. you’re clearly a friendly guy, and she’s a beautiful baby. she’s at a very easy age for travel, and people will likely fall over themselves to help you out. have a safe trip!
This is the easiest age to travel with. Really.
Make sure you are feeding her, or she’s sucking on a pacifier on the way up or on the way down.
That’s it. She should sleep the rest of the way!
You have gotten some great tips. Not sure if someone else mentioned but make sure you put an extra shirt in the diaper bag for yourself. It is kind of embarrassing walking around an airport with baby poop on your shirt. I know this from experience!
Have a safe and fun trip! Happy 11 weeks Maddy!
Dude,
I flew (by myself) to the San Diego from Minnesota with my kids (at the time ages 1 and 3 and had a tough time with my daughter. I tried everything. She was crying so much that the guy in the row in front of me turned around and yelled- “Can’t you take her somewhere else”? I walked back to the galley and one of the flight attendants asked me what the man had said to me. I told her. Her reply? “Where is he? I am going to dump coffee in his lap”! Too funny!! … My daughter ended up getting spoiled rotten by the flight attendants the rest of the trip…. Welcome back…
Matt,
I didn’t read the other 130+ comments, so it’s probably been said, but pack an extra shirt for yourself along with an extra outfit for her… in case there’s a huge blowout from either end, you wouldn’t want to be stuck covered in it.
Also, I don’t know if anyone’s flying with you, but if not, don’t hesitate to ask someone – a flight attendant or seatmate – to hold Maddy if you need to get up for some reason. (I had to leave both boys– 7 mos old– at different times with a flight attendant on one flight I took myself — so that I could change the other.)
Good luck!
Beki (and all)
No advise that hasn’t been sent already. Just wanted to wish you luck and safe travel.
Good suggestions by all. Take the brestfriend or boppy if Madeline isn’t going to be in the car seat. You can rest your elbows on it while holding her. And feed her more easily (IMHO).
Changing on the plane….if no seats available, I think the bathroom thing sucks so take some chocolates and bribe the airline attendents with them so they will let you change her in the galley. Most of them fawn over a baby but to put the cherry on top-a little chocolate goes a long way!!!
Okay, so I glanced through the responses– I second the one that said don’t start the bottle until you’re actually taking off. I made this mistake, too, and still do! You want her to be hungry for that bottle at take-off. And I’ve heard landing is actually harder on the ears because the pop so much more often, so start getting her sucking as soon as you start to feel you ears pop that 20-30 minutes before you actually land.
And I don’t know it off hand, but there is a website you can check to see if your plane will have a changing table in the restroom (I think all we’ve been on recently, AA and NWA and Delta have)– or call the airline. But I second the suggestion to change just before you take off. It must be a long flight, but you might get lucky and not have to change her.
And I also second the suggestion of boarding last not first. The less time you have to sit there cramped with her on your lap, the better. You thought sitting on a plane was uncomfortable before!
Safe travels.
Beki
btw…is the newspaper there going to do a follow up on your visit? Let me rephrase…on Maddie’s visit!
All of theses are great! I have traveled to and from MN with my 2 daughters several times; MSP is a family friendly airport with lots of bathrooms and changing stations. I always gate checked the stroller and carseat. However, there have been several times in traveling with an infant seat I was able to bring it on board. Check with the agent at the gate to see if there are is an extra seat next to you. ( has to be a window seat I think) It was nice to have a safe and familiar place for my baby to sit/sleep. Most of the the time the extra seats were in the rear of the aircraft so I did have to change my seat, but it well worth it to bring the car seat on board.(and not have to pay for the extra seat) Good luck with your travels!
What fabulous advice! So there’s your first book:
“Minnesota with Madelilne”
I can see the cover!
I traveled with my son when he was about 3 months old. I put him in the Baby Bjorn carrier across my chest which kept my hands free to carry other bags. He slept most of the way!
hey matt,
you might want to check out airportassistance.com. they meet you at the airport and shuttle you through w/o having to wait in lines, handle your carry-ons so you can handle maddy, etc. not necessarily cheap (but not outrageous either), but definitely worth it, especially if you are flying out of lax. if burbank, maybe not as necessary…
Car seat! Bring it on the plane. I could list a ton of reasons why but I won’t. It’s important
Have awonderful safe trip she’s beautiful and you are such and amazing dad
Make sure that she is sucking on something(pacifier, bottle, your finger) during take off and landing. People were so nice when I flew with Joey! Let people help you. Going through security was a little challenging but if you have your Baby Bjorn/sling on, they might let you keep it on. I would also pack lots of diapers, extra pacifiers, an extra change of clothes, and a toy. I was more comfortable in the aisle seat because I could get up when I needed to and I had more room. Good luck and it is easier than you think! Have a good trip!
THIS HAS NOT BEEN SAID YET:
Some of the airlines have a little certificate that recognizes baby’s first flight. Make sure you ask the flight attendant and get one. It will be a great scrapbook/memory item. Also be sure to take pics with Maddy.
Ask the check in counter if the flight is full and then you can request an empty seat.
Good Luck!
Are you bringing Madeline to Josh’s wedding?? I want to meet her!!!
Hi! first time poster here..just wanted to tell you that i dont know about LAX but at the MSP airport there is a place called TRAVELERS ASSISTANCE. i used to volunteer there..its all volunteers (alot of grammas!) that will help with anything..they also stock baby supplies if you are in need of anything just ask them.. and they have a room if you get delayed and need an out of the way place to rest with a baby..they have info booths around the concorses and a main lounge near the C Concorse (the old green concorse). have a great time here..we are going to have rain here coming up so i hope the weather is not too bad for you!
gosh i think you will do just fine matt. make sure you have the paci. that will help with her ears. id love to meet yall while your here. good luck with the flight!
i too am a stranger but i follow your blog and have been so burdened by your loss. i pray for you and madeline. here are a few tips:
• Wear slip on shoes so that you can get through security faster
• Sit in a window seat so you can rest your arm/head against the window and not worry about the her head sticking out in the aisle
• Feed the baby on takeoff and landing or give her a paci so that her ears don’t pop
• Car seat
o You’ll check the car seat and stroller base just before you enter the plane
o Take a large garbage bag to put the car seat in, so that it doesn’t get dirty, torn, etc. You can ask for these bags from the airlines, but sometimes they run out
o Take a sling/baby carrier so that you can put her there while you break down the stroller wheels and check them
• If the flight is not full, you can even take the car seat on board (even if you didn’t pay for an extra seat for the baby)
• Disposable changing pads are great so that you can throw them away if you have to use the airport or airplane bathroom. I would just change her diaper in my lap though.
• I would dress her in long sleeves and long pants to limit her exposure to germs
• For the diaper bag on the plane, take:
o Bottles (you CAN take formula/milk through security. You just have to let them know that you have it in your bag)
o Burp cloths
o Diapers and wipes
o Change of clothes
o Purell
o Blanket
o Paci clip and pacis
LAX now has a separate family security line, which is wonderful.
I recently traveled alone with my son (at 9 and 13 weeks). He slept or ate the entire flight. The white noise usually puts them right to sleep.
I see you’ve got a lot of tips already… we have some on our site that can be abbreviated to “wear everything you need” including the baby [http://www.rookiemoms.com/fly-solo/]. Good luck!
ooh yeah, bring one diaper for every one hour of travel! And outfit pieces that can have multiple uses…. like dress her in jammies, bring a onesie, a T shirt, and some pants and a blanket in case everything goes out the window. Bring an extra T shirt for you (or you can wrap her in it in a pinch).
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS MADELINE!!!
honestly, at this age they are so easy on the plane – its when they are mobile that it is a nightmare – (dont worry abou that now) haha.
dont worry about forgetting anything (at 3.5 hours anyone can survive, and MN has stores where you can buy anything you need. just have patience above all and pretend you know what your doing (thats what i always do) – and you should be fine!
i am not looking forward to my upcoming trip from hawaii to denver!! 8 long hours with a little ‘firecracker’ of a daughter!!
ahhh -
praying you have an amazing experience – cant wait to read all about it!
aloha friend!!
1. You do need to notify the airline when you check in that you are flying with an infant. They will input her name into the system and your boarding pass will print with a notation that you are flying with her.
2. I found it easiest to have my son in the Bjorn (or sling if she will tolerate it). That way your hands are free to carry everything else.
3. It was recommended to me to gate check your car seat/stroller (although we didn’t bring a stroller with us when we flew). We purchased a Gate Check bag (online) to keep the carseat protected from the filth below and to keep it dry.
4. Definitely feed her during take-off and landing to help equalize the pressure in her ears. Luckily my son slept the entire way, so hopefully you’ll be as lucky!
5. Bring an extra shirt for yourself in case there is an explosion out of either end (and a couple changes of clothes for her).
Lots of paci’s in case some are dropped or lost. Easy clothes to take on or off of her since changing a diaper can be a challenge,more plastic bags than you think you’l l need (same goes for diapers) a cool toy/rattle she hasn’t seen yet,LOTS of anti-bacterial wipes/gel.
A friend of mine also used this website on a recent trip back east to her family’s. http://www.babysaway.com they have a ton of baby gear you can rent and she said everything she got was really nice. The pack n play was brand new.
Have a great time!!
Matt-
It’s Tuesday – I’m thinking of you, hope the waves were a little smoother today!
BTW – your coming to the Minnesota, and I think you’ll be in my area – advance warning, if I see you, I am going to give you and Maddy a big Hug!!
Be on guard, I’m sure I’m not the only one!
Safe Travels!!!
Matt-
We traveled with the twins when they were 9 months old, which went great. Bring lots of formula and a few bottles. Just something to suck on during take off and landing. The landing is longer then the take off, so keep that in mind.
Bring a new toy for her too, I know she is young but it is always helpful to have something new.
You will do just fine…enjoy and have fun!
Melissa
Happy Birthday Madeline!! Good luck and safe travels, i will be praying!
Matt….I don’t have any advice for you but I’m a fellow Minnesotan and just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and Madeline.
Happy 11 week birthday Madeline!
Everyone has given great advice here. I do know though that the minneapolis airport has a family line now to go thru security, so you can take your time and you don’t have to feel rushed by all the people behind you. And just try to relax…I’m sure Madeline will be great!
Enjoy your trip to the MN! Just got back from a walk around Lake Harriet with the kids and it’s beautiful here…hope it stays that way for your visit. Safe travels!
Good Luck with the flight!!
That’s so exciting that Madeline is coming “home” to MN.
make sure to have a ton of baby wipes and a change of clothes for BOTH of you on the flight. I have a friend whose kid had nasty projectile diahrrea on a flight. He ran out of baby wipes and only had a change of clothes for the kid. Needless to say he ended up smelling like diahrrea for 2 hours of the flight. oh and don’t use hand sanitizer on a kid’s private parts. baby screamed like he was being stabbed in the middle of the flight. sigh.
I just came back from round trip travels SFO to JFK. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I was WAY overpacked. I guess you won’t really need entertainment like I did so that won’t be an issue. Snacks are also irrelavent. However, please visit the faa website (http://www.faa.gov/passengers/fly_children/) for what is okay and permitted. I believe you can bring a certain quantity of formula through security. There are all sorts of restrictions that went into place after Sept 11, that have since been lessened.
I think in retrospect, the most helpful tips would be 1.) enough diapers for airport and plane time. 2) Given the age and power of her blowouts, at least 2 outfits. 3.) food 4.) Bjorn or your meitai (sp?) 5.) Gate check the carseat and stroller.
Good luck and safe/easy travels!
Boy Matt, you ask and you receive! I hope this Tuesday doesnt suck too much.
Happy 11 week birthday Madeline!
*super important* — you have to bring maddy’s birth certificate or a copy of one, or her shot record. they want to look at that when you check in. forgot to mention that earlier. have fun!
Hi Matt – I don’t have any kids so I don’t have any sage travel advice for you – although with 214 comments I think you have plenty of good advice.
Happy 11 week Birthday to Madeline. We (meaning the stranger/friend/lurkers) from the MN look so forward to you coming “home”.
Travel safe tomorrow. As always, thinking of you on this Tuesday in the mn….
Matt and Madeline,
It has been years since I have traveled with little ones but I do remember more diaper changes than usual on the plane. The weather is going to be really crappy in the MN tomorrow so be prepared for delays. Best of luck to you.
I don’t have any advice that hasn’t already been offered, but I just wanted to say that I hope you travel safe tomorrow.
Also – happy 11 week birthday to Madeline, and I’m thinking of you on this Tuesday.
One more car seat related thought. If they can swing the $30, have your family in MN buy their own base and have it installed ahead of time so when they pick you up, you just snap it in and you’re off. It’s kinda tricky to install the seat in a car without the base (airplane seats are easy), and this way you won’t have to lug the base with you too.
Here is a link to find a Car Seat tech in MN:
https://ssl13.cyzap.net/dzapps/dbzap.bin/apps/assess/Webmembers/tool?pToolCode=TAB9&pCategory1=TAB9_CERTSEARCH&Webid=safekidscertSQL
Matt,
We took our daughter on her first plane ride when she was 9 weeks old, from Pittsburgh to Nevada. We brought one extra outfit and by the time we were over Cleveland, she’d pooped through both. I guess the angle of her in the carseat in the plane just made it a perfect storm of feces. So from now on — we just put the kids in their grubbiest clothes for the ride, put 3 or 4 or 5 other grubby outfits in the backpack along with the “nice” clothes that we put on them once we use the changing table/bathroom when we get off the plane.
Hi – it’s Erin, Crazy Aunt Deb’s friend from law school.
I love the blog – read it most every day. I hope I get to meet you and Madeline sometime soon!
I suggest having C.A. Deb teach little Madeline about Contract law – that’s sure to put her out at least for the flight.
Asalamalaykom,
So much advice! Here’s my two cents worth:
BANDANAS! I love bandanas as they are bibs, handkerchiefs, napkins, hats, and even pants (one desperate day at Woulette’s Bakery).
EXTRA SHIRT for dad….I’m seconding that great advice.
SENSE OF HUMOR! All the people on the plane were once crying babies too. Tell yourself that, and also keep in mind that if they knew your story (and NO you don’t have to tell them…really) they would show you more understanding.
ACCEPT HELP There are some really great travelers and flight attendants out there. I have been on the receiving end of so much kindness. Accept all the help offered and don’t be Mr. Do-It-All.
“THIS TOO SHALL PASS,” should be said like a mantra again and again when you can’t believe how horrible a moment is. Just outlast the miserable moments because nothing lasts forever.
Lastly, know that all of us love you and Madeline and we are sending the friendly skies our wishes for an easy flight
I have been reading this website for a little over 2 months since your story was published in the Star Tribume and cannot believe the responses you are receiving – this is so awesome.
Traveling with an infant – never done it, but hey, good luck.
I am from the MN, too and as I read all the entries its amazing how people from MN response to situations like yours. If I knew your home address, I would send something to little Maddy, but I cannot locate it on the website.
Best of luck flying. I hope that while you two are in MPLS visting family the Star Tribune will write an update.
Definitely make sure she has some of her comfort items (pacifier, bottles, blanket, etc) and don’t count on her sleeping through the entire flight.
Be prepared to do some rearranging. When flying, I always ask for an aisle seat because it has more leg room and it is easier to get in and out.
Make friends with flight attendants – they have been my saving grace on many occasions (even the one flight when the woman in front of me did not appreciate my daughter flying).
I agree with the information above as well – good sound advice. Remember patience will help the two of you through it all. Have a wonderful flight!
Your sling is a must! Check the stroller and car seat, unless you bought her a seat on the plane…then you’ll need the car seat.
Pack everything you think you might need plus some…we took our one-year-old on a 14 hour flight…and the biggest thing we learned was: powdered formula was very much easier to pack in the diaper bag, take at least three extra feedings worth. We put warm water in a thermos post-security and then refilled the thermos as needed. I washed bottles where I could-airport bathrooms and washing them out with the hot thermos water worked well while on the road (n the air) and then we sterilized when we got to our destination.
I’m sure you’ve heard this before: make sure to give her a bottle/paci during takeoff and landing to avoid ear pressure.
Be sure to bring a zip lock bag for “accidents”. We’ve had a blow-out on every flight we’ve ever taken with our daughter. I don’t know what it is about flying and poop.
She’s so little, all she needs for entertainment is you.
And maybe a book or some small toys she especially likes.
Have a good flight. Madeline seems like such a good baby, I’m sure your flight will go smoothly. I actually love to travel with my daughter, and have been taking her all over the place from the time she was born. If you feel relaxed and ready…she’ll feel relaxed too.
We travel a lot with our daughter.
At Madeline’s age, I recommend baby Tylenol 45 minutes before you take off. Not because I believe in drugging my kid before a flight, because the take off hurts their ears. Giving her a bottle will help, but our little one cried like a maniac on that first one and we’ve been golden ever since.
Tylenol + ambient noise of plane + food = lots of sleeping. Best wishes.
My other tip: good diapers. Don’t go for the cheap Target ones on the flight. TRUST ME.
Tomorrow will be our little one’s 8th flight this year…one of which was overseas. Now, that’s a whole other bag of tricks.
Beautiful days may come and go, but a day with your baby in your arms all day is just priceless! Sorry never been on a plane, let alone with a baby SO can’t help you there!
look at all the love, Matt. we all care about you & Madeline. = )
Good luck with the flight tomorrow – I can’t imagine what kind of welcome Maddy (and you too) will receive once you exit through security! I am sure it will be something photo-worthy! Safe travels!
Hey, I’ve been reading along. Holy look at all the comments today. Happy Birthday Madeline!!!! The pictures of her are beautiful. It is amazing how fast they grow up. Cherish every moment with her … even the moments where all she does is scream her head off and pee all over every thing. ha ha. I’ve never traveled on a plane with an infant before, so I have no advice there. But I have always heard the sucking during take off and landing helps. SHe is at a really good age for traveling. I hope you have fun on your trip!
Happy Birthday, Madeline!
I don’t have any kids, so I’ve got no advice other than have a safe journey!
I have no person experience with this, but here is a resource if you’re still looking:
http://www.uofmchildrenshospital.org/library/content/pa_travelai_pep.htm
Safe travels to you. And FYI, the forecast is looking a bit rainy up here.
…over 200 tips on how to travel on an airplane.
Matty, you ain’t never gonna have to raise this ladybug alone
I didn’t read all the replies (just a few), but you will probably have to take her out of the sling through security. I thought there was a limit on formula, but you’d have to check. We did powder, not concentrate or ready-to-serve. Also, she is allowed a quart-sized baggie too, so get some travel sized diaper cream for her baggie.
Check everything you can (get a good carseat luggage bag for her carrier from amazon; you can gate check it if that’s easier for you), bring extra clothes for you, her, diapers, and pacifiers. Our little one has flown 8 times so far and he’s 17 months old. One flight was just us two. Atleast she’s still sleeping a good amount, ours was too mobile the last flight. Good luck.
I’m sure I’m repeating, but here’s my 2 cents on travel.
Bring a gallon size bag with diapers, wipes, bags to trash diapers, and a changing pad so that when you do need to change her, you just have to grab the bag. Bring an extra set of clothes, ideally for both of you. Also, the diaper changing stations in the plane’s bathroom are TINY!!! Not that it’s a problem now, but even she might be tight there.
Whatever you think you are going to need/usually use, bring at least 50% more.
Magazines are good for you to read because you can give them to her to play with and they don’t take as much attention to read.
Ignore the assholes who will glare at you when you get on the plane, their usually the ones in business suits. On the same note, accept help if someone offers.
Gate check the car seat (assuming she doesn’t have her own seat) because then you’ll know it’ll get there. To do this, talk to the gate agent when you arrive and you’ll get a tag for the stroller. IDeally, wrap it in a bag to protect it.
Wear her. no time like the present to practice with the babyhawk or other sling.
You’ll be fine. Your such a great dad! Enjoy your trip to MN!! Were in Goodhue, MN which is SE MN. Love your blog, thinking and praying for you daily.
Madeline has a great father who is doing a fabulous job raising her!
Ok, you have MORE than enough excellent advice on air travel with an infant. My kids never travled by air.
I am still here checking for more gorgeous shots of that Madeline.
Tap Tap……, quit packing for a second and give us a lookie lu!
Hope the weather is done sucking here when you arrive.
Wow! A lot of wise advice. I haven’t read it all, so sorry if this is repeated. If you are taking her as a lap baby and can find something call mybrestfriend http://www.mybrestfriend.com/ for the plane before you leave I would recommended it. Sure it’s a breast feeding pillow, but my girl slept on it when she was little on flights. It freed up my arms to read, drink, and eat. Plus it has a pillow for your back, which I thought was really nice on the plane. I carried her in a baby hawk mei tai carrier in the airport. It really helped with getting on and off the plane. Good luck with the trip and happy 11 weeks to Madeline! Seems like my girl was that age just yesterday.
If you use a sling I have one recommendation.
As a traveler, I can tell you one thing (from taking supplements which is equal to formula powder) ship things unnecessary on arrival, and that can wait until you get to the hotel through FedEx or UPS and pick it up when you arrive there. Do this several days in advance, it it does not cost that much (compared to time wasted and hassle and sometimes penalties).
hey matt –
do you ever sell your photographs? I’ve fallen in love with on of your shots — “alley” (taken on june 6th, shades/textures of green) and would love to buy a print of it. if interested, you can reach me at the e-mail listed on my post.
hope you and maddie have a good flight — and please, please, please bring the wonderful so. cal. weather with you!
rachel
I wouldn’t know anything about flying with a baby. Uh, if it works like driving 800 miles with a pair of cats, then when you hit her with the sedation pills she won’t be knocked out so much as incredibly stoned, which won’t prevent her from being super-scared, so she’ll spend the entire drive clinging vertically to the seat backs in the cab of the U-Haul, offering garbled meows of panic, and looking all cross-eyed and stuff.
This may or may not apply in your situation?
Really I was just posting to say I hope your Tuesday entailed only minor and momentary suckage. Hoping for an OK day for both you and Madeline.
I see that you have about a million response’s to this post, So I think why bother?? BUT what IF somebody didn’t give you the advise I’m about too.. I would feel awful.. so here ya go!
On take off and landing, make sure she has a pacifier in her mouth it will help her ears.. or she could be eating a bottle.. either way the sucking is good.
Your allowed to take a stroller to the gate of the plane and they will put it below, i’m not really sure that’s very helpful, having her in a sling may be easier, BUT.. ya never know, maybe it could hold bags. But know you can take it that far if you so wish too. I didn’t know that and wished I had.
and lastly the final thing I can think of, bring your own bottled water to maker her bottles. Sometimes the planes don’t have nice water, so it’s better to be safe than sorry.
Wow, soooo many posts!!
Just wanted to say have a great flight and I really hope you get some sleep soon! You must be running on empty and need to take of yourself too…don’t forget that!
Hugs!
Lots of good advice for traveling with Baby. For you wear footwear that slips on and off easily because you have to have them scanned.
Noticed the comment about having your carseat on arrival if you check it. Daughter arrived w/ granddaughter on a flight they forgot to scan her carseat so it stayed in Denver. They did provide them with a brand new carseat. They flew the car seat to MN and delivered it to our home. Bonus they got to keep the new car seat.
The part about the super old guy is one of the funniest yet most disturbing things I’ve ever read. lol
I bet Madeline has a beautiful smile!!