you people are very impatient…
below is an e-mail with the great news we wanted to share:
From: Janeen Holmes
To: Matt Logelin
Subject: from Janeen at My Stuff Bags Foundation
Date: Mon, 8 Dec 2008 13:18:19 -0800Hi Matt,
It is with a heart brimming with gratitude that I write to you today! First, I thank you and Single Minded Women sincerely for making My Stuff Bags Foundation your charity of choice for your special charity registry collection in honor of Liz and baby Madeline. Gifts of clothing and toys and other great “stuff” are pouring in for the abused, neglected and abandoned children we serve across America! They will become a part of individual My Stuff Bags for these children who so often enter shelters and foster care with nothing of their own. These donations are so important and so very welcome as we strive to send out the message to these children, through My Stuff Bags, that lots of people care about them. Even more important, Matt, is that you and Single Minded Women are helping spread the word about the plight of our country’s abused children; more than 300,000 are rescued each year from terrible situations and enter foster care. It’s unbearable that they should also have to suffer the indignity of shuffling from placement to placement with little or nothing of their own. I’ve always been convinced that people would do something about that if only they knew. Thank you for being a part of getting the My Stuff Bags message out.
Now for some very exciting news! We received a message just this morning that My Stuff Bags Foundation will receive a grant of $25,000 from an anonymous donor in honor of Matt, Liz and Madeline Logelin! Cash funding helps us purchase the My Stuff duffels, toiletries and toiletry bags and ship the My Stuff Bags across the nation. This grant will have such an impact and make it possible for us to reach so many more children!
I see that you live in the Los Angeles area; please consider calling us and coming to visit our headquarters and Volunteer Center here in Westlake Village, CA someday, and please bring little Madeline. We would all like to thank you personally for your support of My Stuff Bags.
Best wishes for Happy Holidays,
Janeen
Janeen Holmes
President/CEO
My Stuff Bags Foundation
866-3MY STUFF
jholmes (at) mystuffbags.org
www.mystuffbags.org
to the anonymous donor…
$25,000?
are you fucking serious?
thank you so very much.
you are an amazing human being.
and thanks to everyone else who has donated or plans to donate…you don’t have to donate $25,000 or even $25. $1 goes a long way.
m. + m.
251 Comments
wowzas!! that was awesome!!
what a way to end my day here in OK…going to bed with a smile and prayer for your continued good days and smiles.
Holy SHIT! I have never cursed on here before, but it seemed fitting under the circumstances! Whoever the anonymous donor was, all I can say is “WOW, you are a wonderful person!” and thanks to you Matt, for getting the word out there about that organization.
PS…Madeline is growing up so fast….what a doll!
Wow…what a great gift amd in honor of a great family. Have a great holiday and safe travels.
OMG….amazing. The generosity is wonderful. What a wonderful holiday gift.
I cried a little when I read that. Completely amazing and inspiring that donor is.
I am so proud of you and the generous person who made this donation. Even through your good and bad days, you have made the conscious choice to help others in need. God bless you and Madeline!
I am going to bed with a big smile – what a great email to receive!
Wow – what a difference you and Madeline have made. It all starts small and snowballs from there. And to the $25,000 donor – what an amazing gift from an amazing person.
$25,000 is fucking AWESOME! What a way to honour the three of you!
Oh, so they got my check?
Kidding.
Anyway, I’m so, so happy for all those kids.
And even happier for you, Matt. Because apart from Maddy, I’ll bet not much has come close these past almost-nine months of making you feel as good as reading that email did. Life handed you a ginormous sucky lemon and you turned around and quenched a lot of thirst. So much to be proud of, thankful, and happy about in that.
To the anonymous donor: You fucking rock. Giving $25k is awesome, for sure — but let’s face it, it also probably didn’t cause you financial hardship. In my book (and I believe, the Talmud) it’s that you did it anonymously that takes it to a whole nuther level. Such goodness. A blessing on all your houses — literally and figuratively.
To the person who made that amazing donation – you are wonderful. My heart soared when I read that letter. You touched many lives with that donation, not just the kids who will receive the bags. God Bless You.
WOW!
WOW!
You have friends with DEEP pockets Dude!
And big hearts!!
I am really inspired by you. You have taken this horrible situation and are trying (and doing it by gosh!) making something good come of it. I hope it is and will continue to help you heal.
What a great way to honor Liz, Madeline and YOURSELF!
It wasn’t me, though if I had the means…
That is fabulous. Simply. Fabulous. You did good here, Matt. You do good every day, mister.
wow! absolutely amazing! way to go! so so happy for you and maddy. what a great way to honor your family! thank you for sharing all that you do with us. maddy is beautiful and she is getting so big! i was so dreadding this last hour of work but i’m so glad i checked up on your blog to see this!
thank you for sharing this special organization with us. and for the great news that has come of it!
p.s. THANK YOU anonymous donor!!!
Hi Matt,
Writing from the UK, came accross your blog via another site and have been reading you for a while I hope that doesn’t sound too strange!! Often think of you two and all that you have been through, your strength and courage constanly amaze me and creates a hell of a lot of perspective. Fantastic news on the donations…..If you are ever in the UK…!
Nickix
Wow that’s wonderful!!
in-freaking-credible.
And Em took all the rest of my words right out of my mouth…
AND MADDY IS ASTOUNDINGLY BEAUTIFUL. can she get any cuter people?!!?
What a generous heart you have, Matt! God bless you and little Madeline.
Life’s funny that way, huh? Confusing us with the bad and even the good. It is clear that your purpose, journey and blessings are just beginning. Someone’s got big plans for your lives and I’m pretty sure Liz is helping out with that up there.
I’ve been reading your blog for months but have never posted a comment.
Just posting to say that I will be donating several beloved childhood books to My Stuff Bags instead of buying gifts this year. Everyone I know is either asking for very expenisve gifts, or nothing at all. I love the idea of buying a favorite childhood book for someone who may not have access to any at all (Misty of Chincoteague, FTW!).
So fucking amazing.
I love it. There are good people left in the world.
Wow! That rocks! It so nice to read stuff like that and know that there are still some seriously awesome folks in the world.
Freakin’ adorable pic of Madeline (as usual… but I’m partial to pictures in fabulously festive dresses!).
OH MY GOD!! What a great gift!! Donor out there, whomever you are, bless you!
That’s truly wonderful!!!! I’m spreading the word of this charity organization to all my friends and family in the US so that they might help as well. I think you’re supporting a wonderful cause….and it looks like many of your follwers/supporters are doing so as well. Fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What an amazing gift. That is so incredible and what a beautiful way to honor Liz and Madeline. Amazing. Have a great day!
Wow, that is so cool and what a truly wonderful letter for you to receive.
To whomever the donor is: what a beautiful gift to honor Liz, Matt and Madeline and all that they have given to all of us.
man liz has got to be beaming and so proud of you!!! this is soo awesome about the 25k! if i had it, i would do it that is for sure!!!!
LOVE the dress with the little rick rack (is that what its called) and love that maddi is standing on her own now. sooo sooo soo cute!
Oh..my gosh! that is so awesome! that was so nice to read before i started my day.
That is AWESOME! SO wonderful!!
I’m speechless…. THANK YOU Matt for being such a great “leader” on this cause
Besos y abrazos
Sol
Wow, that’s incredible! Mystery donor, I salute you.
how’s that for paying it forward, literally!!?? I think the mere fact that telling the world about you and about this organization has made it possible for others to be this generous. Ffin’ fantastic!
Matt, that is so amazing.
I actually just talked to them yesterday because I have a donation to make of a lot of Connor’s things that I’ve never even used. They will take items that are out of the package as long as they are new. I’m sending over a bunch of new newborn clothing that my bruiser never wore, plus towels, washcloths, blankets and toiletries.
I am just amazed that in this tough economy someone has opened their heart so much as to give such a generous donation. The human spirit (And Liz’s) triumphs again
so rad. so very fucking rad.
i can only imagine the liz-size smile across her face.
more people like you need to exist, matt. you didn’t curl up in a ball & wither away though undoubtably you want(ed) to. you are bringing liz-size smiles to many across the globe, honoring liz in such amazing, wonderful ways. good for you, rad fuckin’ fella, good for you!!!
Wow! You may hole the world record for turning lemons into lemonaide. How awesome the Christmas spirit is alive and well. Being a social worker, what that organization does is a Godsend for those children. Thank you for you support of such a great cause.
WOW!!! This news is absolutely ::awesomesauce::
Shed many happy tears reading your good news. Just proves that there are wonderful, giving people still out tthere in this world.
Hugs to you both and a big giant hug to the donor!
Wow! Simply amazing! Had it not been for you, Matt & Madeline, I would have never known about this charity…as I’m guessing many others! Cheers to you for doing so many good things, when something so crappy happened. Cheers and a huge thank you, to that donor! And to do it anonymously…says many things about you! Happy Holidays to all!
God Bless!
Michelle
WOW!!!
This made me cry:)
Anonymous Donor, you are awesome!
You truly are an inspiration Matt and Maddy–you inspire goodness-it’s contagious!
To the donor–thank you for your generosity and enormous heart…
Wow. That’s fabulous.
Oh WOW!
Thank you to that anonymous someone out there! What an amazing thing to do.
Thank you to Matt and Madeline for all that you do and for choosing My Stuff Bags as your charity!!!
I feel a little warmer and smilier today!
Amazing story! Wow! Matt – You have been such an advocate for everything good when you could have rolled over and just given up on life. It’s amazing the visibility that you have brought to this cause.
Wow…I’ve been reading this blog for months now and have shed quite a few tears. But this post. This post takes the cake.
AWESOME!
And now, off to the site to make my own donation (and no, I don’t have $25K to spare).
Makes my heart feel good, especially when all we seem to read is negative negative negative.
Wow. That’s amazing. I have cold chills and tears right now. Thank you anonymous donor. You are a hero!!!!!!
awesome!!!!
there are some RAD people in this world and i am sure glad their paths have crossed with yours!
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wow just wow. hey anonymous donor – you rock! God Bless You!!
Matt and Madeline – see!! you two are a powerhouse.
this is truely amazing!
Hugs from NJ,
Erica and Landon
Wow… just wow.
That is amazing.
That is SO awesome. you have made such a difference in so many peoples lives. you are the best of the best. be proud of all that you have become through this journey. and SO much to look forward too.heart you both. xo.
Oh my god! That is amazing news!!
this brought tears to my eyes. people never cease to amaze me.
That is soooo awesome!! How exciting that so many people have pitched in and donated, especially right now when many are strapped. I know I found that Amazon had a lot of awesome clearance stuff that, when combined with my free two-day Prime shipping, allowed me to buy way more for less. Hopefully people will remember the MyStuff Foundation even after the holidays are over. What a fantastic way to help these kids. I hope you do go down there and visit (and post the pics, of course!)
Amazing! It is nice to hear there are still wonderful people that really do care for others so much. Matt you obviously have touched so many with your story. Thank you for making this world a better place.
OMG that is amazing Matt! I’m so happy for you and for everyone this money will benefit! What a great way to start the holiday season.
Holy shit. $25k. Awesome.
Miss Maddy is growing & changing so fast!
OMG $25,000 is an AMAZING donation for kids in need! I’m sitting at my desk fighting tears right now. That is just incredible.
oh my gosh!!
People are good. Madeline is beautiful. Happy Holidays!
WOW! I am teary after reading that. What an amazing gift. I read regularly, love to see the updates on you and Madeline. You are a great dad.
O.K., I teared up a little, too. What a wonderful person and what a wonderful act of kindness.
How incredible that people, coming together under such circumstances, can create a little piece of heaven for those less fortunate.
Thanks, Matt, for sharing.
That is f’in awesome!!!!
Wow…that is frickin FABULOUS!
Wow…reading posts like this is always an awesome way to start my work day!!!
Em’s quote about “quenching a lot of thirsts” is so right on in your case. I hope, hope, hope you’re able to experience some of this sweetness, as well.
$25,000 anonymous donation…fucking amazing. I’m truly inspired!!
Like others said too, you really are an inspiration to all your readers – to go through the unimaginable and choose to live life like this – full of generosity, adventure, and obviously, love. You have made an impact on so many people, the vast majority whom you don’t even know. that is truly awesome.
That donor rocks!
this totally brought tears to my eyes. i am so proud of you and what you have managed to make out of the shit sandwich you were dealt.
congratulations and thank you for spreading a good word, inspiring random folks and reminding all of us of the goodness that is always there.
to the donor – you fucking rock! amazing.
How awesome is not only the donor for giving to this great cause – but also to you in your efforts in ensuring other children are taken care of! All of this simply by you opening your life to so many and inspiring us all…
Holy SHIT! 25k!?!?!?! Man anonymous, you fucking rock!
To whoever donated that money- you’re an amazingly person. Thanks for making a lot of peoples’ holidays happy.
YES!!!!
Fucking fantastic.
That just made my day. Oh my God.
Congratulations for making such a huge impact Matt.
Simply AMAZING. I had chills.
Simply AMAZING. I had chills after reading that!
Hearing a story like this restores my faith in humanity.
Thank you Matt and Madeline for sharing your liz with us and turning a difficult time in your life into bringing out the goodness of others. You have made a difference!!!!
I’m not a “cryer” but that brought a tear to my eye………Matt; what goes around comes around…..you’re in for great things my friend……
No fucking way! That’s so awesome!! I have the biggest smile on my face right now, Congrats Matt! Yay!
That is fantastic news! What a great way to start my Friday!
I’m a first time poster who has spent the past week getting caught up on your blog. Your story has touched me more then you know. You are doing an amazing job with Maddy! If you ever doubt yourself, just look into her smiling face and know that you rock.
-Heather
Oh SHIT! That is amazing! What a beautiful human being!
When I saw the first pic I thought you were gonna say Maddy was walking already! lol! Glad she’s not just yet, that’s when the real fun begins.
Holy crap – that made my day….that is so incredible. People are really pretty fantastic. Your blog and your story has really touched a lot of lives. I’m sure your wife has the biggest smile, you can see it in your little Madeline’s smile.
CHILLS…covering my whole body right now. Absolutely amazing. WOW! We donate to a lot of great causes throughout the year, but I’m going to go on and make a donation as well right now, because this person has truly inspired me. (but not $25K, unfortunately!)
::jaw on keyboard::
AWESOME!
I was a teacher in inner city schools for six years and the holidays were always so hard for these kids. They are very aware of what they are missing in their lives, believe me. I know that this is really making a difference and it really will bring some much needed joy to kids who don’t feel a lot of it. This is such a wonderful charity!!
Matt, that’s rad. I seriously just said fuck out loud. Hope JD didn’t hear. Wow.
Chrissy
You are so right Matt. A dollar, or twenty five grand….
My late daughter had a spot on belief.
She never missed a donation bucket, reminding me that if every person who passed it donated a dollar, the cumulative effect would be awesome.
So, you know what? I hardly have a buck…Christmas this year is canceled at our house. But, I am off to donate a buck, and challenge all of us that think it won’t make a difference to try it….together it will.
What a selfless thing to do. Amazing.
Now that is fucking awesome!
i work in fundraising, and people’s generosity and hearts never ceases to amaze me. ive shed many a tear for you, and with you, via your blog. today they are happy ones. special thanks to everyone who generously supports charities, big and small.
I was proud of my little donation to SIngle Minded Women…. Goodness gracious!!!
Matt & Maddy you are a force to be reckoned with!! Truly awe inspiring…
Maddy gets cuter by the minute!!
wow, anonymous donor you are amazing! it does not surprise me as its clear that anyone associated with M + M is super awesome. what a wonderful thing to do. enjoy your weekend!
This is such wonderful news! I’ve been reading for a few months but never left a comment. Today’s post inspired me to donate too. Thank you for helping those in need and for sharing your life with all of us.
WOW that’s GREAT NEWS, Matt! Thank you for sharing. And to the anonymous donor — May God bless you for your generosity. What a wonderful, tangible difference you will make for these children. Matt, you must be just over the moon about this. What a thrill! Congratulations, Matt — you’ve done a ton of good with the worst possible situation. Pat yourself on the back for once!
WOW Liz would be so proud!
You’re welcome!
HA! HA! I only wish I had that type of $$ to donate. If so, it definitely would go to such a worthy cause. Seriously, that is an amazing gift. Its nice to hear examples of truly selfless generosity such as this. You & Madeline should be very proud of the work you’re doing!!!
God Bless you whoever you are, you rock! Close your eyes and picture a smiling, happy child who now feels special! How awesome is that? You are a bouquet in the garden of awesome! Cheers!
Never in a million years, if I had been dealt your hand, would I have been able to make of it what you have. Look how your reach (and Liz’s) is affecting so many in such positive ways!
Way to go YOU and way to go DONOR!!! Absolutely awesome.
Wow – that’s amazing!! What a generous donor and so generous of you to promote such a cause. And Madeline looks adorable, btw!
Wow! That brought tears to my eyes, $25,000! Plus all the other donations you helped drive in. Amazing, you’re amazing. In the mists of your sadness you are able to do such good. You’re such a good person.
holy shit!! i’m bawling like a baby here. these kids are so lucky to have you advocating for them, matt. without you, the anonymous donation wouldn’t have happened. you, and the a.d., rock.
That’s incredible!
Unbelieveable, but in a really, really good way! Sometimes, when life gets difficult, it’s easy to think that the world is a completely shitty place and that all people suck, but I’ve always known that really wasn’t true and this PROVES it. Thank you, anonymous donor, whoever you are! You are amazing. So are you Matt, for helping to make a difference as well through your blog.
And holy shit, Madeline is STANDING?!?!?!
Happy holidays from No. CA!!!
Holy cow! That’s amazing! Who ever that donor is, they rock out loud. You rock too Matt for directing people to such a worthy cause. Madeline rocks too because …. well, just look at her.
Anonymous Donor = ::awesomesauce::
Hi Matt!
Ok I first have to say, I LOVE that picture of Madeline! She is getting so big, what a doll! The news you shared was fricken awesome. What a generous gift that anonymous donor made. And what a difference you,Liz, and madeline have made. So you should feel very proud.I know it hasn’t been an easy year, but you have done an incredible job! Hope youand maddy had a safe trip back from the MN and didn’t freeze too much. I have to tell you its absolutely f-ing FRIGID here now!
That is simply amazing. In this kind of economy – it’s even more spectacular. Thank you, Anonymous! I hope this holiday spirit can continue into the new year.
Wow, wow, wow.
That is so incredible! What a wonderful thing for someone to do. Wow, Matt, you must feel so good about this. Take it in. Enjoy the feeling. You deserve it.
Geez, could your daughter get ANY cuter? I need some insulin!
OH WOW! That is amazing.
Way to go Mr. or Mrs. Anonymous!
Wow! That is amazing. You are making such a huge impact, Matt.
Wow, that brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful and generous gift.
OMG. I have the chills. That is magnificent.
And btw M’s dress is ADORABLE.
You are creating such a great legacy for Maddy. This is great!
that is just incredible. my husband and i watched this video the other day (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVqqj1v-ZBU) and realized we are just so blessed to have what we have and would rather give to others who are in need this year for christmas. i’ve been searching for a charity or cause that we could really stand behind and your post this morning made our decision crystal clear. what you are doing in your own personal life with madeline is admirable, but what you are doing for these kids is truly an inspiration to us all!
holy crap!
but i think this just reflects how much all of us support what YOU are doing Matt
Holy Crap! I still have goosebumps. Sometimes when I have little faith in people, one (or in this case, a few) pull through and it renews my enthusiasm. Merry Christmas. Holy crap. Keep up the good work!
Only one word for this: ::AWESOMESAUCE::.
I got goosebumps reading this.
How fucking cool is that?
Wowee! That is awesome news and that anonymous donor is amazing! Love seeing Madeline standing up and looking like such a big girl.
That is AWESOME! Wow! Someone here is really, really cool! I know firsthand how great this is for these kids. I work w/ these families every day and these poor kids don’t choose to be in these situations, yet they’re the ones that suffer the most.
Now THAT brought a joyful tear to my eye! Such wonderful news. And, that’s SUCH an adorable dress on little miss thang.
That is awesome! I have to admit, there was a tear in my eye. People really are fantastic.
Congrats.
(Oh, and how cute is M? My goodness – so adorable!)
Wow. That is just amazing. So fucking cool…
Holy. Shit. Seriously?
Like Em said, if you’ve got $25k to spare it probably didn’t bother you financially… but the fact that your name wasn’t posted all over for doing it….. that makes you a rock star in my book.
Anonymous person/business/creep/group… you fucking rock, on a deeper level than robots that light up and tell fortunes…. and that’s pretty fucking awesome!
May your lives be blessed!
M+M, as always, you guys kick ass! Keep your chin up….. you two are amazing.
Awesomesauce indeed! That fucking rocks.
What Em said about taking this terrible lemon you’ve been handed and quenching a lot of thirst- it couldn’t be more true. As horrible as Liz’s loss has been, and will continue to be, for you, you have gone out of your way to make the world a better place in Liz’s memory and are inspiring others to do the same.
From a stranger/friend who has met you once- I am SO fucking proud to know you.
That is so awesome; I’m trying not to cry. What a great thing to do…
Holy Cow! That’s fantastic! Way to go Matt on bringing attention to what sounds like a very worthy organization, and cheers to the anonymous donor! Wow!
People are amazing sometimes. It’s nice to be reminded of that now and then.
Holy shit!!! That is amazing. I have goosebumps. Matt, you are clearly making such a difference in peoples’ lives. You’ve inspired so many to not sweat the small stuff and not take people and life for granted. Happy (in this tough time) Holidays to you and sweet Madeline.
Rosie (in San Jose)
I <3 Matt and Madeline! You two inspire me to do good things. Thank you!
Wow. Amazing. God bless you Matt and Maddy and donor. Liz , I’m sure, is so proud.
That gave me goosebumps. Totally awesome. What a great thing you are doing and inspiring in others.
I’m in awe of the generousity of the anonymous donor – you are amazing. What he/she has done and Matt, what you and Madeline continue to do is an inspiration to everyone that even through such loss and pain, good things can prevail. May this holiday season continue to be filled with such goodwill and peace.
Shit on a stick! that is amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!! Fantastic! whoever did that, you rule!!!!! Matt, great job in bringing so much attention to a very worthy cause. And little miss M looks too stinkin’ cute in that dress! i just want to hug her!!!
Happy holidays!
That is f-ing AWESOME!
Wow! That’s all I can say is WOW! What an amazing tribute to Liz as well as to you and Madeline! I have been reading your story for a long time – you are a true inspiration and I know that Liz is proud of everything that you have done in the wake of her loss.
“Perhaps they are not stars, but the souls of our lost loved ones shining down on us to let us know that they are alright.” – Anon.
Happy Holidays to you, Madeline, and your entire family!
Matt,
I’m a long time lurker and this is my first comment. Ditto. In these times of pretty much all bad news, YOU bring the good news. I did cry when I read your post this morning, but tears of gladness. You are an amazing person. You, Liz and Madeline touch my heart.
Wow simply amazing! What a blessing this anonymous donor is to so many! they will be truly blessed.
I hope this holiday season keeps getting better!!
FUCKIN’ A!! HOW AWESOME IS THAT! WHAT GREAT NEWS TO SHARE. HOPE YOUR THIS SEASON IS FILLED WITH LOTS OF JOY AND HAPPINESS WITH MADELINE AND FAMILY. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
I havent been much in the Christmas mood until after reading this. This is exactly what the holidays are about…Giving. Thank you to the donor and thank you, Matt and Madeline, for giving us what you do through this web site!
OMG This is fucking awesome!!!!! Such great news to hear!
I’m smiling ear to ear!!!! Hooray!!!!!!!! I am so happy to hear that so many more children will be helped because of this generous donation from an anonymous donor!! 
Am I just a hormonal 47 year old, or did anybody else get tears in their eyes when they read about the $25k????
Seriously. I’m a mush pit right now.
This restores my faith in humanity. God bless you, anonymous donor. And you too, Matt & Madeline…for getting the ball rolling by helping so many children who need it…
And way to go, Miss M…for all the standing alone you are doing! You’ll be walking just any day now…and Daddy is so screwed at that point! LOL
that is seriously. amazing.
just. amazing
christmas is going to be easier for those kids for sure. thank you to whomever donated the money,
Tears….big smile.
So, so awesome!
Amy from Louisville in the KY
Holy crap! What a wonderful gift!!!
Instances such as this restore my faith in humanity. For someone to give so selflessly, in such a precarious economic chapter in US history, just makes me giddy.
Awesome.
BTW, Maddy is lovely standing there in her little ensemble. Adorable doens’t begin to describe her.
AMAZING. Another beautiful story that I wish Liz knew about. But I know she is smiling down on us today and everyday. There are so many moments where I’m sure of it!
Love you guys. And congrats on inspiring such generosity.
xo
Matt, it’s very emotional to know that you, Liz and Maddy are canalizing the best in people. That’s a wonderful gift, and I’m sure you’re very proud.
Wow…. tears spilling over. This story restores my faith that there are people in the world who do things truly unselfishly….. not because they want recognition, but for no other reason than because they can.
Some people are just amazing! Thank God for people that give to others!!!
my mom always said that there was a silver lining in the dark clouds of life. this just proves it….it was an awesome gift to give. there are a ton of good people out there who give to all the different charities and they never make the news. it was/is hard to see what good can come out of tragedy but somehow it always does. it truly is a christmas miracle.
love maddy’s dress!!!! and she is atanding on her own?!!!! watch out now….she’ll be going across the rooms on her own. Merry Cristmas and Happy New Year. May your New Year bring only happy days.
25 grand? Dude, people are nothing short of amazing sometimes.
Liz’s light shines on.
j.
Simply.Amazing. There really is a Santa Claus. Blessings given, blessings received.
Wow, amazing, wonderful and all the other words people have used to describe this. What a wonderful tribute to you, Madeline and Liz. The letter brought tears to my eyes that someone out there in these tough times donated such a large sum of money. To the anonymous donor… not only have you done something that is going to help so many, but you have restored not only mine, but others, faith in humanity.
Seriously awesome that someone donated that much in honor of you and your family. But what is even more awesome? How you have turned your personal tragedy into an opportunity to help those who are in need, and that your adorable Madeline will grow up with this incredible shining example in her life. I am just so awed by your strength and your compassion.
Matt, thank you so much for doing this and telling us all about it. What you’ve had to handle would crush most people forever, and you’ve found a way to create something out of that sadness that is almost as wonderful and joyous as Liz and Madeline are. It’s breathtaking. What an amazing testament you’ve created to Liz’s memory. I can’t imagine a better one.
And to the anonymous donor, your goodness is something for us all to try to live up to. Thank you so much for that!
Reading this post has been the highlight of my day. I feel as happy as Maddie looks!
Hi Matt,
Recently I heard a story close to yours which happened 5 minutes from my home:
http://edition.cnn.com/2008/US/12/09/military.jet.crash/?imw=Y&iref=mpstoryemail
And I immediately thought of you as well, as I have been looking at your blog once a week for your updates. You have done so much for this group and it’s wonderful that everything inspires you to do so much for so many other people. Maybe with time, this individual may find some hope as well. Cheers to you, your daughter and to the many people who care about your welfare as well as those who are in similar situations. What a wonderful donation whoever it was, by the way!!
Sincerely
Rose
that is amazing! what a great organization
That is so amazing, and generous, and like many others I am almost in (happy) tears! That foundation will be able to help so many people in such amazing ways.
I will definitely make a donation to a local charity here in your honour (since the US/Cdn $ exchange isn’t very good, making a donation to US would mean it wouldn’t go as far). I challenge everyone to do something special inspired by this Anonymous person’s generous donation. Every little bit helps.
And thank you for sharing your life with us, it is truly inspiring.
DANG that’s AWESOME! When I was 11 years old I was placed in foster care I will never forget the feelings I felt when a huge box arrived on my foster parents doorstep for me. I do not know if it was this foundation that gave sent that box, but it was a wonderful gift to finally have clothing and toys that were my very own and not some hand me down from some foster sister who didn’t really want me living in her house. To the anonymous person, you TOTALLY rock! To Matt…I love your blog and read it regularly! I can not imagine your pain that you must have on a daily basis! You are an amazing man and your daughter is one lucky little girl to have you for a father!
Wowee!!! That is fantastic. You’re right Matt. That sure is an amazing human being.
What a lovely blessing…an a great way to make a difference in other people lives……..sending lots of love and holiday wishes your way!
AWESOME!!! And I loved your “are you fucking serious?!” question. AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME!! Talk about the donor being a flower in the garden of awesome – (s)he just planted and entire GARDEN OF AWESOME!!
Sending hugs from the armpit of America… Melissa
MATT — You attract wonderful & blessed people because you are one.
Donors — YOU ARE FUCKING AWESOME. Thank you for being so generous, in the name of Matt & Maddie.
Wow that’s amazing!!! By the way, when did Madeline start standing??? She’s getting cuter by the day.
Hi there – a commenter among a chorus of newcomers you must receive. I just foudn you today, having shared a link with you over at The Fertile Infertile. Kindness inspires kindness, and though I only came to you this afternoon I’m flabbergasted on your behalf at the kindness of strangers, it is an amazing thing and can give us hope in the stupidly darkest of times. My heart goes out to you and your family during the holidays.
What an absolutely amazing gift. Congratulations to you, Matt, for bring so much good into the world.
I’ve got goosebumps! That is so fucking awesome!!!!!
Oh also, that is one stylish looking girl. Love the dress and her smile is precious!
I have been following your blog for many months and have never posted but this is amazing and I had to post.Thank you Matt for sharing your journey with us and because of that look what some amazing person has done. You touch many people all over the world.
Wonderful!
This is amazing! Maddy looks ADORABLE. People are truly saints, especially during the holidays.
You have done such an amazing thing!
Look at little Miss Madeline, you can totally see the love she has for you in her eyes, each and everytime she smiles.
so awesome! So awesome!!!
Love that little girl picture too!
HOLY CRAP!!! That’s amazing!!! Wow! What a generous person!
Madeline is looking adorable as ever! =)
tears, chills, tears
see, there is a santa!
WOW! I’m in tears. just… WOW!
and is Madeline really standing all by herself? How is she doing that? There must be invisible string holding her up or something.
Wow…$25,000!!! As a teacher I see kids in my class whose families can’t afford to buy Christmas gifts or clothes that fit appropriately, but at least these kids have the love of their families. To think of kids who’ve been neglected, abandoned, abused…it just breaks my heart. Matt, while she may not be able to demonstrate it now, the lessons you are teaching Madeline will be so valuable to her as she continues to grow. You have suffered a terrible loss, but continue to think of others. What an amazing way to honor Liz.
wow……………………………….
Unreal. . . that is SO cool!
WOW!!! That is a true testament to who you are and what you are doing and what you will continue to do in spite of all you have been through. You are an inspiration, my friend and you make us realize what love truly is…
I wanted to say something, but I think I’m speechless.
Wow.
Amazing!
It is proof that people are good and generous!
Madeline is standing there with such happiness in her sparkling eyes (not to mention her hot dress).
She has no idea the pain you feel, Matt.
She doesn’t know she lost her mother.
She only knows the secure and awesome life that you are providing her.
She will understand more when she’s older.
She will have the blogs, photos, videos, get-togethers, travels, family, friends/strangers, charities, and your “reflections”
to know her mother and how much you loved her and how much you both love Maddy.
As has been said so many times,
you could have shriveled and you probably will feel like it sometimes for a long time to come.
But, still you don’t.
And that is why you rock, and we can all see it in Maddy’s eyes.
Keep on!
CE
What a brilliant self-less wonderful donation. AWESOME
I have tears in my eyes. I love to hear stories like this, especially in these times, when so much of what we hear is how crappy people can be. Thank you for sharing this story – you and Madeline are inspiring people to do some pretty amazing things.
Wonderful, fantastic, awesome news!!! Thank you anonymous donor for brightening my day, as well as the days of many children! Heart of GOLD!
wow….just wow, this made me tear up as well. so wonderful to know that even though at times it seems like the world is a shitty place, that there can be so much good in others. merry christmas matt & maddy….thanks again for yet again another beautiful reminder of whats really important.
wow this is so amazing! now kids everywhere will be able to get their own robot. How amazing that someone was able to make that donation! wow…
You are awesome! Your kindness and generosity is amazing. You, Liz and Madeline, and your beautiful life story, touches my heart.
That is amazing I couldn’t believe my eyes WOW!!!! I would like you to look at this link and see if you wouldn’t mind by helping out with the “Rebel for a Cause” by posting this on your page (you can grab a buttton off the left of her page” you can win a camera package (you would love it!) and so much more by donating only $10.00 there is only a few days left to donate and be entered in the drawing This MacMama is amazing and so are you so lets work to gether and help many who are in need!
Thanks,
Janelle in AZ
OOPS!! here is the page I refered to in my last post
http://www.mycharmingkids.net/
Thanks again
Oh my goodness!! This is extremely exciting news. I have tears in my eyes!!
Thank you to the anonymous donor!!!
Matt, thank you so much for sharing.
Wow, isn’t amazing that you, and Madeline are spreading such joy and so many people are honoring your beautiful Liz!
Sending you a e-hug!
Delurking to thank the anonymous donor for restoring my faith in good kind people. Not only was the donation so generous, but you need no formal praise or glory because your heart is already so big and so full.
Matt, thank you for sharing your story with all of us and for being an inspiration. Happy Holidays!
WOW! I’ve got tears rolling! Amazing!
Congrats on the big achievement!
LOVE to see Mady standing and dancing with Robot. She just gets cutter by the day and always fun to se her grow.
I just had an awful day at work, and I had to let you know how much seeing that picture of Madeline made me smile. She is such a beautiful little girl, and the happiness in her eyes and smile is contagious! You both have touched so many lives, and I can’t help but wonder what Madeline will have to say about this wonderful story when she’s old enough to understand. Thank you for sharing with us. And even bigger thanks to the anonymous donor! I hope you and Madeline have a wonderful first Christmas together, and know that you have a special angel looking down on you both from up above.
holy fucking awesome! what an amazing gift! incredible to think that so many kids will be helped from that donation. wow.
You have the POWER to do so much!
God Bless!
Wow. That is amazing. You a wonderful person who through your tragedy is helping others.
You have brought me to tears many times.
God bless you and your family.
Gee whiz! It started out good and then, wow! Holy moly. Liz would be very, very proud of you both.
Simply wonderful! Liz is smiling down on you!
I am thinking this is the best gift you will have received this holiday season Matt.
Simply amazing!
Take care,
Debbie
Holy smokes!!!
That is SO incredibly awesome & amazing. I’m always saying how I hate people (there are so many out there who do & say just incredibly stupid things) & whoever “anonymous” is… WOW! You make me wanna me just like you when I grow up.
I teared up when I read of the generosity you & Madeline have inspired. After such a life altering event, you have truly risen. It’s inspiring.
wow. i was having such a bad month/ week/ day (including getting slammed in the face earlier this evening in an unfortunate incident involving a trash dumpster) but this just made everything better. it is incredibly refreshing and uplifing to be reminded that humans can be so generously selfless, and amazing to think of the impact that (and every) donation will make in the lives of so many children.
so so awesome
That made me cry. How beautiful.
holy shit matt- that is SO amazing!! big smile…
WOW! Think of all those kids being helped! Liz is so proud of you Matt!
Madeline is so beautiful!
It is AMAZING how such wonderful things can come from such tragedy!
Your wife would be PROUD!!!! =)
That’s awesome!!!
I’ll have to talk with my Girl Scout Troop and see what they would like to do to help also.
Maddie is getting so big.
Alicia
WOW!! That is AWESOME!!! Where do you get Madeline’s clothes? You have great taste Daddy!! She always is stylin’!!
Wow – that is amazing! I know you already heard that 208 times before me, but I just have to say wow. There are REALLY good people in this world, and that always gives me hope that we are not a self centered world and paying it forward does still exist.
Thanks for helping make all those people’s world a little brighter. And to your anonymous donor – wow.
Dude, why is it just now that I see the headphones for the robot? Not cool! See you around new years.
How marvelous! I am encouraged that YOU are encouraged by the response people have made to your challenge. May you continue to see how even in the darkest of experiences, there is light one day!
Madeline is, as always, precious looking. I smile every time I see her sweet little face. Kudos to you, Matt, for persevering! Blessings from Texas.
I can’t think of a more worthy cause! Congrats and good work!
Hang in there. The holidays are tough.
my god, she’s a gorgeous baby!
That is just awesome news Matt.
Madeline is just gorgeous as usual.
That’s really fucking awesome and that’s what giving is all about. What a wonderful world we live in
That is absolutely AMAZING.
awesome…just flippin’ awesome..I hope this inspires many others to give what they can as well. Liz is just beaming…look at what you have done! I really hope I get the chance to meet you and Madeline some day, it is hard to send hugs through the computer.
(rockin cute dress, btw)
FANfuckingTASTIC.
wonderful news.
Wow! Absolutely incredible.
Matt, hi, there. I just found your site through a friend of a friend (a young mother with two very young children) who is seemingly losing a battle with cancer and is attempting to find some solace in thinking of widowers (and associated children) who are somehow making it through. Just wanted to let you know that I have officially added you to my unofficial list of people I think about every day. I will probably read your blog regularly, although I will probably post infrequently. (Look up “lurker” in the dictionary, and you’ll see me.) Thank you for writing such compelling entries, for being a father any kid would be lucky to have, and for helping me to be more grateful for my day-to-day.
That is great news! Congratulations on touching so many lives. I love the photo of Madeline standing! She grows in every picture!
The picture of Her Royal Cuteness forced me to go to the site and donate books. This is an amazing project, M&M!
THIS post gave me chills-good chills!
AND can Ms M BE any cuter!?!?
Asalamu Alaykom Givers,
We all give. Matt gave by putting this charity on his blog. Miss Madeline Island gave by looking gorgeous from her sparkling eyes down to her toddler cankles. If you put a positive comment on this blog, you gave.
To the Anonymous Donor: God knows the reason why you gave. May your prayers be answered and may you feel the peace you wish for.
To the Other Donors: Muslims are asked each year to give 2.5% of their excess monies and investments to charity. It’s one of the five pillars of Islam. For every extra thousand you have, you pay $25. I mention this because it is our belief that God judges you based on percentage not by the biggest total.
This donor who gave $25K, (may God reward), he or she might have actually gotten LESS rewards than the person who gave $100 if that $100 was a higher percentage of the donor’s limited wealth. See?
But Matt…now here’s the coolest part….Matt, because he is the one who started the good deeds rolling…Matt gets reward from God for every single person who gives. He gets the reward from the $25K AND the $100. He even gets it from the person who wishes they could send in money, but truly can’t swing it!
Alhumdulillah.
I have goose bumps!
What you, Liz, and Madeline are doing for children is amazing! I made blankets with my 74 year old grandmother and that memory will always be with me…so see Matt you three are doing so much more then helping foster children…you are bringing other families closer as well and that is priceless! Thank you for being in my life!
This is absolutely beautiful. I have a friend who lost her mother as a young child…her father shut down. It was a lonely life for both of them. I’m sure there are times you want to shut the door and hide, but by keeping that door open you have helped and inspired more people than you could have ever imagined…and they do the same for you I’m sure. Liz is proud and Maddy has the coolest Dad ever. $25,000 donor…you’re the BOMB!
25,000?? Anonymous?? Fucking amazing! I am so glad that there is this organization. It does such great things.
I don’t think I’ve commented here before (even though I’ve been reading for a while) but I felt I had to comment on this one.
For someone to give SO much during times like these is absolutely AMAZING. I know I couldn’t afford it! I wanted to say a big THANK YOU to the anon donor and anyone else that’s able to donate for such a worthy cause as this!
THANK YOU!!!!
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Okay, I’ll confess. It was me. *I* am the anonymous donor. I’m outing myself in hopes of inspiring someone else to donate at that level.
* * *
Kidding! Ha! But I had you! Admit it. ; )
Congratulations. It’s a great charity and kids deserve so much from us.
‘TIS the season!! Absolutely amazing. I love generous, caring people — like the anonymous donor and YOU, Matt. You’ve inspired so many. Keep on keepin’ on!
omg, that is incredible!!!!!! did you photoshop madeline standing? that’s incredible too!!!
What a great way to get into the Holiday spirit- this is what the holidays are all about!
And Matt without you this would not have been possible.
Keep up the great work on raising an adorable little princess, instilling great morals and values in her, and inspiring people to give to those in need.
And anonymous donor- awesome! Just awesome!
Happy Holidays
That is pretty cool. I love it when people do GOOD stuff!!!
People are good!
oh that is just so awesome. That made my heart soar. I don’t know who that anonymous donor was but God Bless their heart for doing it.
Matt, you have reached so many people with your story & have changed many lives. I pray you and Madeline find peace this holiday season. Especially knowing so much good has come from such a tragedy.
My love to yall this holiday season.
Jen in the MS
Wow. That is seriously amazing. I’m so happy to hear this news! Matt you are doing so much good and Liz is smiling down on you right now. I know you lost something so special but people across the US love Liz and love you and Madeline and want to remember her in this way. God Bless you all!
And thank you to the anonymous donor. What a kind heart you have. 25k is not a ‘small’ amount to anyone so Thank you!
Angela
What an amazing surprise!!! You are truley doing amazing things in Liz’s memory, keep up the good work.
And Madelyn is looking so grown up standing there all by herself. Very cute!
This is what Christmas is all about. You and Maddie and Liz have inspired so many people to become better people. One step at a time, one Dollar at a time. Matt, Merry Christmas, you have a beautiful baby girl. And no doubt, it will be very tough, but you have the support of many people.
Fijne Kerst,
Anja
Wow – how freakin’ cool. This is amazing.
What an amazing and generous donation! Your story and courage inspires so many, Matt. It’s amazing how much attention you have brought to this foundation in the midst of your own personal struggles. You’re an amazing Father and human being and Liz is so proud of you.
Many blessing and warm memories to you, Madeline and your family this holiday season.
PS- I love the prom picture. It’s priceless.
Wow- wonderful…I think it’s so beautiful to see the positive things that are coming from such a tragedy. Although- we would choose for this never to have happened- Liz would be proud of all the things coming from the special way you are choosing to deal with your loss. Way to go- just wonderful. I don’t know you at all, but it brings tears to my eyes. Merry Christmas to you and Madeline.
Kelli from GA.
I thought maybe it was my pregnancy hormones making me cry at this post, but I see other people crying as well.
The generousity of people is simply amazing. Matt, you’ve inspired this. You are an amazing person, and I hope that when you have *those* days, you remember this day. You remember how much good has come from your terrible tragedy. I know it doesn’t make it any easier, but, as I sit here with tears rolling down my face, I know that there are still good, kind people in the world, and Matt, my friend, you have inspired them.
Thinking of you as Christmas nears.
Awesome..truly wonderful..The news is always full of venomous stories..but, the kind, beautiful stories are forgotten..This money will give someone a chance..and that is happy ending to a someones sad story..
Amazing.
what a fabulous gift. it’s amazing that you & liz & madeline have inspired people so much!
Holy smokes, that is AWESOME!!! What an incredibly gracious and generous gift. So, so , so sweet of the anonymous donor. And thank you too Matt for promoting this charity. Emma’s brownie troop has a day scheduled in March that I will lead to make blankets for MSB and we have some items to send now. : )
I have one ? for you -is Madeline standing up like that one her own (against the wall and with the robot)??? Last I thought she was working on rolling over -has she skipped a few milestones and advanced straight to standing up? Sam will only stand up holding onto things. lol My god, she is such a doll- I love it!!! I got home from vacation and it is so much fun to see your new posts and pics. Gotta love your prom one too.
Matt,
Out of your misery and sadness has come goodness and generosity. At a time when you could have turned inward to mourn your loss you chose to turn outward by sharing your sorrow with each of us. You have given us an opportunity to love a little more and to remember those things that are really important in our lives! Such as giving to others. Bless you and Madeline!
Lyn D
Santa looks really hot, and I don’t mean sexy. Cute pic though.
I love any organization that takes care of little kids and forgotten teenagers, there are way too many of them out there. Take care.
I’m thrilled for you both, and all those kids you’re helping with your generosity. To the person who donated such a large amount, bless you. To everyone else who has given what they can, be it time, money or other kinds of support, bless you too. Every little helps xXx
just wanted to say merry christmas, matt and madeline
i hope santa treats you both.
Wowzers what a donation! Awesome work Matt, love hearing the updates.