is this how you normally spend your sundays?
or maybe you do this?
well, if you’re in southern california on sunday march 1st, you should come out to griffith park and meet up with us and a whole bunch of other folks for a play-date.
those scheduled to appear include:
*a bunch of strangers friends
*some creeps
(if i can convince them to take a break from their work with the foundation).
*gentle ben
(if i can convince him to get out from behind his camera).
*ms. single mama and her son
(in the neighborhood for a short vacation, and willing to waste a few hours in the park with us. oh…and she set this whole thing up).
*madeline
(if i can convince her to take a break from beating her piano with her musical bells).
here are the details:
when: march 1st, 2009 – 3:00 – 5:30 p.m.
what: fun in a park.
where: shane’s inspiration, griffith park – los angeles – near the carousel (directions)
(let’s hope it doesn’t rain).
who: everyone is welcome except for jerks and baby stealers.
hope to see you there.




















118 Comments
Man, I wish I lived in the So Cal!!! Have a great time!!
We’ll have the niece that day. Maybe we can drive down…
I wish I could come out to meet you all but I am a bit too far away. Hope you all have a fabulous time!
Dammit. This sounds awesome! Why do I have to live on the east coast?!
Awe- I love sleeping babies with their butts in the air!! It is the best!
Matt.. i was so excited for this playdate that i showed up last sunday! Zomg. A week early! lol… i got the dates mixed up, haha! See you Sunday!
haha – jerks and baby stealers! love it.
Holy Christ.
Have you contacted the City of Los Angeles for an event permit?!?! LOL!
See you Sunday. I hope. Unless Ben ends up getting everyone arrested.
Wish I was in Socal that weekend. Celebrating my belated birthday that day up here in NoCal. Have fun!
The 11,000 round trip kinda rules it out for me, plus I’ve been invited for Sunday lunch at a pals. Hope you all have a great time.
Just wanted to say that Madeline has the c-u-t-e-s-t outfits! She is just precious =)
Damn, wish I still lived in California.
Stop by Colorado and I’m all over it.
Wish I could come. I’m sure California is a lot warmer than Connectictut!! Love the picture of Maddy sleeping!
Wish we could make it!
Ah, if only we were closer (by about 3000 miles). My girls would love hanging with Madeline!
No baby stealers? Well, then I’m out.
Dammit.
So wish we could come and meet you all, but we are a state away in Az. My daughter is 2 and my son is 10 and they both love babies. Have a great time.
I wish I could be there with all of you!!!!! Have fun and kisses to the babies! You need to schedule one of those on the East Coast for us East Coasters
Wish I could be there….
Lindsay
http://www.rememberingavi.blogspot.com
How fun for the west coasters! Have a great time!!!
Another new poster from the People article, Matt. I have caught up with the whole blog, and you astound me with your strength and humor. You’re an unbelievable father.
Madeline is gorgeous, just like your beautiful Liz.
Wish I lived close enough to come!!
What a great idea!! You should do this in MN sometime!! We would love to meet you and Madeline!! =) Have so much fun!!!
Wished me and my little guy lived in So Cal!!! Have fun!!!!
I wish I was in cali, south Florida is way too far away. Let me know if you ever decide to come to the southeast. I hope everyone that can attend, has a wonderful time!!
i wish i could come … just for the sheer fact that you invited everyone but jerks and baby stealers. that’s beyond hilarious today … maybe it’s the lack of sleep?
fuckin baby stealers…they always ruin the fun. good thing they can’t come.
I WISH I were in Cali to meet up with y’all! What a fun time. I look forward to seeing some pictures!
Have a fabulous time.
Good call on the jerks and baby stealers…lol
Cannot wait! I first heard about this on ms. single mama’s site and yelled “I wanna go!” (good thing my boss was at lunch huh?) haha
See you guys on Sunday!
xoxoxoxo,
Tricia in the So.Cal
ps. love that pic of maddie….interesting how kids can sleep in those weird ass positions!
ps again. sorry i spelled her name wrong…im a tard
ok, going away now LOL
aw damn! I will not be able to make it. So when ya coming to FL?
Oh YAY! I think I will be able to come…I mean I do live really close, over in the PLB, so hopefully school/work won’t get in the way.
I feel like I should bring some grub. I mean, what is a Sunday in a park without snacks? Haha.
(Almost all caught up, 3 more pages to go!)
That sounds like so much fun! Maybe I can bring the 5 year old boy that I nanny for to the play date in the park!
ughhh i’ll be in AZ this wkend!
Maddy is getting so much hair! she’s adorable. hope the weather is perfect and can’t wait to read all about it and see the pics
OH MY GOD! Madeline looks so much like Liz on that picture (on the coach)!! She is gorgeous!
I will be in Costa Rica next Sunday! Hey! hey! Better than the Canada snow where I am now and where I will be on my return!
Enjoy you party!
I am neither a baby stealer or a jerk but sadly I will be unable to make the meet-up as it is a little far from the SouthWest of Engerland
I wish I wasn’t so far away!! Have a great time!
And take lots of pictures!
I’m sure you’ve heard it a million times before, but I’ve spent the last 2 weeks reading every single blog entry you’ve made since the begining… I’ve laughed, cried, cried again, and laughed some more…. Madeline is beautiful and so very lucky to have you!
Well shoot this excludes me then…
who: everyone is welcome except for jerks and baby stealers
Enjoy your day in the park! I wish I lived in CA…we would come on by and say hi!
Sounds like so much fun, we’d come if we were closer! Have a fabulous time playing!
Shucks. There are a few too many lines of latitude betwixt us. And we have no little one. We’d have to bring our compost worms instead. Don’t worry…they’re high in protein.
so many rules about who can and can’t come. i’m so confused. is there going to be a dress code as well? i don’t do hair bows.
how long of a drive is that….
::scurries off to google maps::
(((hugs)))
Love the long jeans, she’s too cute
Darn It!!!! My daughter has a gymnastics competition on that day. Did I say DARN IT!!!!!! I guess I’ll just have to wait to see if I run into you two in L.A. sometime. I am so bummed. If we don’t end up going , we’ll be at the Griffith…Give that kiddo a hug for me. Love her!
have a blast! can’t wait to see the pics (someone better post some)
I wish we could go. My 10 month old son would love to meet her!
It’s only a six hour drive (five, if the hubs drives). Wonder if I can talk him into it? Enjoy the day, sounds like it will be a great time for everyone (baby stealers and jerks excluded).
aww man… makes me wish i lived down there.
hope you all have a great time! i’ll be wishin’ in was there!
Because I’m obviously an idiot and don’t know….why do you call people creeps? Besides the obvious answer of them being creepy people.
Oh my gosh, look at that face! She’ll be the belle of the playdate for sure.
I wish I could fly there just to meet y’all! Maddie is SO PRECIOUS! I just love that face and I’m sure her personality is just amazing…..Keep up the good work Matt!
Love, Mere
@K8 in The Northridge – you’re right. It could be a soup sandwich. @Matt – perhaps you can get a mall cop to help out for the afternoon!
i would much rather be in cally with you guys soaking up some much needed sun, than here in iowa freezing my a$$ off. have fun!
oh, man, I would love to come and meet you guys, my baby Veronica is so jealous of Maddy’s piano… have a great time!
I wish we were close enough!
I sure wish I were in your area, or at least within a short drive. My children ave grown now but I would love love love to meet you, Ms. Single mama, and so many other single parent bloggers I have read.
Have fun!!
Los Angeles is a little too far away to make a trip with my 2-year-old (the east coast of Canada), but I hope you have a big turnout and have a great time.
Cutie Maddy pic! Have fun in the Park! Freezing my ass of here in the MN!
Awww wish I lived closer! I’m near Portland, so while I’m not as far away as some, I’m still too far away! Hope everyone who can make it has a blast!
Aww man I’ll be in L.A. the following weekend!
That blows.. I just moved from SoCal to Alabama…..
Wish we lived close enough! In the meantime, I’ll let you know that we TRY to spend our Sundays in pose #1!
Might mn see anything like this when the weather gets nicer?
The photos are adorable! Love.
Wish I could come…I would looove to meet the gorgeous Miss Madeline!
Damn! To bad I live in boring ol’ Tulsa Oklahoma!! Would love to meet you and miss Maddy….and I am sure my 11 month old son would LOVE to meet Maddy too!! Shucks!
luv the pic of her sleeping butt side up
too cute
sounds like there needs to be a M + M north american tour…
Oh, and I would love to meet you too Matt. I mean – you don’t play a little pink piano or anything, but I’m sure your pretty cool too
This probably comes as no surprise to you, Matt, but that child looks just like your beautiful late wife.
Just… simply… gorgeous.
And my 3-year-old son is in LOVE with her.
Wish we weren’t in Boston…….we’d join you in the park!
Hugs,
m
I wish I lived in your area! Sounds like a lot of fun. Cayden loves going to playdates! The picture of Madeline sleeping is super adorable….Cayden sleeps like that too!
damn! i actually will be *near* you guys two weekends later (i’m only in the CA twice a year, so this is big news in my life). but… even if it *were* the same weekend, i’m traveling for work, and sans kidlets, i’d probably look like a baby stealer.
’twas not meant to be.
have fun!!!!
damn! washing my hair that day.
I wish Michigan wasn’t so far away….I love the butt sleeping picture..aren’t they so cute when they do that! Well hope everyone has fun take lots of pictures and post immediately thank you!
omg!!!! I would love to be ther with my kids but I wont be ablet to take some vacation time till May or so… but I used to and my parents still do live minutes away from there… on San Fernando and Brand ( where the Seeleys(sp? – lived there for years and cant spell it) ! Darn it… also, I think I work… damn retail job.
That sleeping picture is way too cute:) Have a blast at your giant playdate, I bet it will be lots of fun!
Yay!! We’ve been following your blog for 10 months now, but never posted =) So so excited to be able to have a chance to meet you guys and introduce our little man to your beautiful Maddy (and meet you too, Matt). Will robot be there? lol
What a great idea to have a get-together & playdate!! Just a neat way to show your gratitude and loyalty right back at your stranger/friends. March 1st some of us caring friends in Portland will be all here (’cause we’re not all there : ) Have a fun and rockin’ time everyone!
I’m checking out the flights now.
If in doubt, I’ll be the one wearing a daffodil for St David’s Day.
Wow – Happy 11 months, Madeline! Such a big girl!
(((hugs)))
can’t get there from south carolina, but, will stick my head outdoors and see if i can hear the children laughing!
have a fun day…
Happy 11-months-old to the little princess!
Have a wonderful day today and an amazing play-date on Sunday (so bad to be so far away from you all…:(
besos y abrazos from down here
Sol
I wish I could escape this frozen tundra to join you all. It sounds like fun! I love the picture of Maddy and just had to comment that my 2 year old daughter has a blanket identical to Maddy’s that my mother-in-law made for her.
No jerks or baby stealers! I love it!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Matt!!
I just wanted you to know that I read your Blog from the beginning to present time…took me awhile with my 3 little ones! I found myself looking forward to my time to read your Blog and see your beautiful photos. I couldn’t figure out why I was so addicted to your writing, seeing that I have never got into the whole Blog thing. Then I realized! Your story’s, your days and struggles are all a Love story to Liz and Maddy! Sometimes truly painful and then so funny!! But all of your days are for your love for Maddy and Liz. Love like that, people search for and sometimes never have it!!
I am so amazed with how great you are doing, you probably don’t feel that way sometimes..as we all do as parents. It’s one of the hardest jobs out there!!
Maddy is so beautiful and I know Liz would be so proud of you as a Dad and a Man!! You are doing some great things in her honor!! Thanks for sharing your beautiful posts and pictures! Maddy is going to be so proud of you when she is finally able to read them!!! Good Luck to all you and Maddy do!! Look forward to reading more!!!
Wish that I was in SoCal…let everyone know if you come to TN again, our girls are about the same age
PS…Maddy looks like Liz’s mini twin in the 2nd pic
March 1? You’re jumping ahead a month! What a sweet photo!
We seriously need a Chicago play date. My son is dying to sweep Madeline off her feet. =)
OMG that sleeping picture is ADORABLE!!! I would love to spend my sundays like that…but I’m up with my 2 kiddos
I wish I lived closer ~ my daughter would love to play with little Madeline
Sounds like a great time! I sure wish I could be there…but Indiana’s a little far away! Hav ea great time and can’t wait to see pictures!
Damn it…I am in Colorado, it doesn’t matter though b/c I am a real jerk!
Have fun!
Michelle in Denver
I read the people mag this past weekend and took me forever to find your blog! Im glad I did though, sorry for your loss and congrats on your baby girl. My daughter was born 2 weeks after your sweetheart… Your doing awesome as a dad! I just thought I post a coment… its nice to see that you can go places with her…. She’s a doll!
I love Canada, but damn I suddenly wish I was in Southern California, mostly because I want to meet and hold that precious Madeline and tell her Dad face-to-face and Eye to Eye just what a great job he is doing. The big dump of snow we’ve been getting would also be nice to leave behind. I’ll be thinking of you guys and all your creeps soaking up the sun and basking in those Liz sized smiles from Madeline (as well as all the other little munchkins) while I will remain here, likely freezing my ass off.
Wow, this sounds like so much fun! I have to admit I’m a bit jealous of all your peeps who get to come
Take lots of pics.
We’ve been listening to Red House Painters, Songs for a Blue Guitar. Love it. Do you like it or do you prefer his solo work?
BTW, did you get our care package? Hope so! Have a great day. Give Madeline a big squeeze for us.
I ALWAYS spend Sundays like the first picture, but I live the other side of the world and don’t have a child so the playdate’s out for me
Have fun!!
Could we schedule another one of these next time you are in the Minnesota…and when it is above 40???
Living in Detroit sucks!
Sending you best wishes for a successful event.
I am with the other commenter above. So bummed I am so far away. But I am a jerk too so
Wow it sounds great and I’m so glad that I only live about 15 minutes from Griffith Park my daughter Leah who is 4 and I will definately be there. We can’t wait to finally meet you and Madeline…see you there
Wish we could be there to meet you…..
Ohio is just to far away. You always have a place here in Orrville, you want to show sweet Madeline a good time at Smucker’s!
Hugs,
Jen
I am thinking that Maine is a bit of a hike…..
But I am seriously thinking of it…….lol
Wish you all the carefree fun in the world…..
That little one is going to have a blast and probably sleep really well that night…..
Take care Matt…..Liz is proud….
First time commenting but I have been lurking on your site for some time.
Not too far of a drive for us, about an hour, we will try to make it. Would love to meet the two of you and get a picture with the Robot!!!
Sad, I was in LA for two weeks and I came back to Boston today =(.. If for some reason you are in Beantown, I’d love to do a play date.. Oh, and for peace of mind, I am not a jerk or baby stealer, and I have a 10 month old baby girl of my own =)
shucks…. we already have plans for this Sunday. But we’d (the Hubby, our 4mos old daughter, and I would love to meet you and Maddie) someday. Let us know when the next playdate will be. We don’t live too far away.
Have fun!
Will be there in spirit, if nothing else!
Btw, Matt, I emailed you a couple of weeks ago about a birthday gift for Madeline. I know you’re busy, but I haven’t heard back from you and want to make sure I can get it in the mail in plenty of time for her birthday. Help a girl out, will ya!
Shuckety Shucks.
I need me some kind of super speedy travel machine to zip on over from the ATL.
Have fun and play hard!
well- I am Canadian.. and kinda a jerk..
sooooo…….
awww….wish I lived in So Cal! Have a fantastic time
Connor and I will be there with bells on. If I can drag Paul along, he’ll be there, too.
I definitely need to move. You both sound like amazing folks to hang out with.
I was just down there! Dang it, I got back up here to Northern Cali late last night. I hope you two have a wonderful day with all of your friends.
It was great seeing you even if we only talked right before we left. We had a great time!
I hope you and beautiful Maddy had Fun Yesterday!!!!
It was SO awesome to meet you (in person hehe) and we def. can’t wait to get together again. Maddy is even more adorable in person and you…well, you have a great personality hahahahs so just bustin your balls. Yesterday was such a fun day, beautfiul weather and great people. Bella was wiped so the drive home was sweet. lol Talk to you soon! *HUGS*
xoxoxoxoxo,
Tricia and Bella (so you’ll know who we are hahaha) in the So.Cal
Matt. You have the most beautiful daughter and she had a beautiful mother. Your blog brings me to tears every time I read it. You are an amazing guy and your daughter is lucky to have you in her life.
Thanks for inviting us out to meet you!! We all had a great time and can’t wait to see you guys again soon!! Maddy is just too cute in person! She’s like a little lady. =) I’m requesting the day off tomorrow or Wednesday to make sure that we can make it!! I’ll try and get some pics sent to you soon…they are nothing like the ones you take, but they aren’t too bad either =)
Take care and feel better soon!!
Im so sad I missed this playdate! I will make sure to catch up with you guys the next one. I am on a website of 108 moms all who gave birth in June 07. We all love your blog and many have been following your story for a long time. And out of the 108 of us, I am the only one who lives in LA. Hope to meet you guys soon and you are truly an inspiration. Thank you!
Hey, I see some friendly names on here! It was so cool not only to meet Matt and Maddy but you guys too! You know who you are. Such a neat way to meet new friends. It was our best day yet as a family! Matt, you are more awesome in person than can ever be gleaned from this blog! Such a special guy…and that little blue-eyed beauty! She was adorable. It was fun to see your special bond. Can’t wait to see you both again sometime. I will email you with some pics.Hope you get better soon!
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