you may have arrived via a show hosted by a well-known talk show host entitled, “unconventional, unforgettable dads”
just to be clear…i am the unconventional dad.
i’m pretty sure the show was to be called simply, “unforgettable dads” until the producers read my blog and saw my taped piece.
sometimes i swear.
ok…
some would say i swear a lot.
please read my warning.
this is my daughter, madeline:
this is her mother,
liz:
liz
and i were together for 12+ years.
!
we lived together in los angeles for six years.
traveled the world together,
machu pichu, peru.
homer, alaska.
agra, india.
santorini, greece.
kathmandu, nepal.
we did everything.
together.
madeline arrived on march 24, 2008.
liz
saw her once.
the next day she died.
madeline and i have been living without liz for over a year now.
and somehow, someway we have managed to survive.
i miss
liz
more and more everyday.
and i love her more today than i did yesterday, and the day before, and…
i bet you’re saying, “on with it, matt…why are you the unconventional one?”
oh yeah. i forgot where i was going with this.
after
liz
died, i had to figure things out on my own. our families live in the mn (that’s minnesota).
i still live in los angeles.
and i still do it alone.
kind of.
as glen campbell once said, “few battles are won alone.”
so…with the help of thousands of internet stranger friends, i’ve become a decent father, doing a passable job raising madeline.
but i do things that many parents wouldn’t:
i dress her up like manny ramírez to get her on the jumbotron at dodger stadium:
i let her chew on sticks:
i leave her alone in snow-covered fields:
i leave her alone in graffiti-covered elevators:
i leave her alone in alleys:
(i leave her alone in a lot of places…i should probably stop doing that).
i change her diapers in odd places:
and i feed her in odd places:
just like her mom, maddy loves to travel.
she’s been out of the country 4 times since she was born, and has taken 16 round trip flights (numbers 17 & 18 coming up in the next week).
now maddy and i do everything together.
well, almost everything.
i go to a lot of concerts (and sometimes even go out for a drink with my friends! shhh…) so sometimes she hangs out at home with my army of unpaid babysitters friends.
madeline is my everything, my best friend.
the love i feel for her is indescribable.
even when she does stuff like this:
oh…
with the help of some internet strangers friends, i created the the liz logelin foundation to help widows and widowers with dependent children. please consider donating to our foundation to help other families who have had to deal with the same tragedy.
and now.
if you want to read more, you may want to start here: if you haven’t been here before.
thank you for visiting…
i hope you stick around.
(sorry to my regular readers for the boring recap).
(oh…and some video from the show).
665 Comments
It’s not boring…it was nice, quick reminder to why we’re all here and why we all like you guys so damn much
I’m at work but you can bet Maddy’s cake covered ass that I’m recording Oprah today.
xoxoxoxo,
Tricia and Bella
Every time I read your blog, I want to be a better father to my daughter. Thank you for helping me with that. I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wife, I don’t know what I would do if my wife died after giving birth. You are truly and amazing father and help so many people in your situation, and those who are not.
Thank you.
Not a boring recap at all! Another wonderfully touching and funny post.
Can’t wait to see the show today. Have the DVR all set up to record!
Matt, I’ve been reading for a while now and never commented. A lot of times I just don’t have words. This post brought me to tears. You have a way of doing that. I can’t wait until Oprah comes on today so I can see you and Maddy.
I’m a regular reader and I loved the recap!! I’m so excited to watch you this afternoon! I know you and Maddie will do great. Great post and pictures…especially the one of Maddie sharing her birthday cake with you
~Jess
Lovely recap, even if I’ve been reading since this whole ordeal started. It was pretty awesome seeing you on TV again–I felt like I was watching one of my friends!
That is not boring! Not by a longshot!
I can’t wait to see the show this afternoon and just so you know… As you may be an unconventional dad you are too an unforgettable dad.
LOVE the pictures from the party!!! So happy she finally got to destroy a cake. PERFECT!
Your ‘boring recap’ reminds me why I love reading your blog so much…beautiful as always
Your blog is anything but boring! I found your site a couple of weeks ago and am excited to watch the show today!! You are an amazing father to a very beautiful little girl! Liz must be smiling down upon you from heaven, so proud of you both! God bless you Matt!
Long time reader (since the Star Trib) first time poster.
Never boring, still brings tears to my eyes… One of the best dads and cutest little girl! Congrats on the foundation!
Nah, not boring crap. I almost stayed home from work today just to watch Oprah, but later decided its not the best idea to do. I will catch the show later.
By the way, love the new birthday pics!
I *love* this post Matt! Wonderful.You are doing a great job with Maddy.
Excellent recap, even for us seasoned veterans!
The show was excellent, and you did a great job Matt!. Maddy looked adorable at the end. Only disappointment in our house…my daughter was hoping to robot was going to be on O!!
Mr. Logelin-I have carried the Pioneer Press article since that March along with me every day. I gave birth to a 3 month old premie on 12/28/07 and also developed an arterial blooc clot and was hospitalized on a strict “no moving” policy through March-I was released the day prior to reading your article so it certainly hit home for me. Still bring tears when I think of how lucky my family got. I’ve visited the blog frequently to check in and always find myself smiling.
I just wanted to say my heart and prayers are with you, and while I’ll never know what you are going through-I came close.
You’re obviously doing a great job. Madeline is beautiful.
Thanks,
K. Muller
St. Paul, MN
Not boring at all! I’ve been reading like mad the last few days to catch up. Can’t wait to see you two on Oprah later today!
Not boring.
Touching.
Every time I read it….more and more touching.
Keep up the good work. You’re doing amazing things, Matt.
You continue to just amaze me!
Hearts and Hugs
Marie Wimsett
i’ve been reading your blog matt and i still smile (and almost on the verge of crying) when i read how your story has started and turned out. know that you’re in my prayers.
oh, and maddy has grown up into a very adorable young lady.
great work daddy matt!
Recaps are great. I saw a few new pictures, and I love hearing the story in your words (which helps GREATLY when I’m trying to share your story with others (I almost just typed “otters”…cool))
I will watch you on Oprah as soon as I can race back to my tivo!
>>>——–LOVEARROW——> matt + maddy
SOOOOO excited to see you and Maddy on O. What a wonderfully uncoventional father you are!
Never a boring recap Matt…..as always I loved reading it & teared up yet again….effin a I hate emotions!!
not boring at all
if just to see the line about maddie being your everything and your best friend.
your love for her (and liz) always takes my breath away.
xo,
g
Don’t worry Matt.. not a boring recap. Just reminds me of why I read your blog. Looking forward to 4pm in the MN!
I love this. I found you through the other precious Maddie, and then DID see you on Oprah today! (Great job by the way- precious.) YOU are a great Dad. You have such a story to tell.
Steph
I’m still waiting for it to come on. I’ll be pissed if the weather knocks out the cable. ARG!
Looking forward to Oprah today – recording all set up on my DVR.
We love y’all!!
I dvr’ed Oprah today so I can’t wait to watch it later… actually it hasn’t even aired yet, so it’s all good!
As for the re-cap, I loved it! Not boring at all and actually, I think I saw some picture of Liz that I hadn’t seen before. What an amazing woman!
Love the pictures of Maddy too! She’s so stinking cute!
Matt, this is a perfect introductory post for all the new readers sure to come your way today. Oprah…Wow! Can’t wait. At least we can say we knew you & Maddy when!
Oh come on now, my favorite “unconventional” method is socks as mittens. Genius! Great recap- pictures of Liz never get old.
oh I LOVED the recap!! I don’t know how but you can still make me cry! Here’s to the next year ~ to accomplishing great things ~ because each one of us has the power to make a difference!
It’s nice to be reminded how this all started and kind of take a walk down memory lane. I cried at your post which had a picture the day you brought Maddy home to one during her birthday. You’ve come a long way, Matt. I’m not going to tell you it gets easier, or that since you survived that first year you’re home free. It gets worse, it gets harder, but in many ways it gets better, more rewarding. A smile says thank you sufficiently, but you can’t even imagine the joy you’ll feel the first time she says, “I love you, Daddy.” Or the heartbreak you’ll endure the first time SHE reminds YOU that she’s growing up (much like my four year old did the other day). However, I have more confidence in your ability to cope and survive what’s to come than I have in my own. And being a part of your life and Maddy’s life through the blog has made me realize how lucky we are, to be a family with a mom and dad and a healthy, perfect son. Because you’ve made me realize…I couldn’t do it on my own. Keep going, keep writing and I’ll keep reading until Maddy’s wedding day, then she’ll start her own blog about YOUR GRANDCHILDREN!!! =)
still love to read every post and love to share in Maddie’s milestones along with my Patrick.
Anytime you post that prom photo it is automatically the best post ever! I’ll be in class during Oprah but I am sure you will be great. Maddy will of course steal the show.
Looking forward to seeing it tonight on the DVR.
your updates are never boring! “decent” and “passable”?! you give yourself far too little credit, Matt!! I wish all dads were as wonderful and loving as you are!
Looks like Madeline had a great birthday party!!
I love reading about the things you and liz have done together. We will continue to be there in the years to come as we have the past year! You are a hero Matt, just BELIEVE it! Cant wait to watch ya on the big O today…we are having a Maddy & Matt popcorn party here for it!
I have been reading faithfully since last June and this recap was wonderful, not at all boring. You are doing an amazing job with that precious little girl. Oprah doesn’t air until 4pm here. I can’t wait to watch.
The recap certainly isn’t boring.
Just reminds me again of how goodness can come from sadness.
Loooong time lurker- first time poster. Loved the re-cap and shhh, don’t tell my boss, but I am leaving early from work to rush home and catch you and Miss Maddy on Oprah here in the MN. It feels like I get to watch a friend on TV.
By the way- nothing wrong like dressing her up like Manny, but PLEASE make sure she is a Twins fan! She should definitely visit the old Dome before the end of the season, just so she can say she was there. I am so bummed my family never took me to a game at Met stadium. Then of course, a trip to Target Field in 2010 is in order. They make the cutest pink Twins outfits for little girls (and big girls!)
Never boring. Can’t wait to watch Oprah this afternoon. Never thought I’d say that.
That wasn’t boring at all!! I agree with the previous posts…it’s nice to get reacquainted with why we all love you and Maddy so much!! You are a truly fantastic and unforgettable father and I cannot wait to see y’all on Oprah today.
Not boring at all Matt, how often do we get to see Madeline cover you with cake?
FYI, not a boring recap – I thought it was the perfect intro to your new readers!!
This blog is never boring! I go through and re-read a lot of your entries. You are an amazing person & father (yes, you have two identities…even if you have forgot). Hugs to you and Maddy!
Awesome re-cap! Great for the newbies and us old-timers alike.
So excited for you! I can’t wait to watch this afternoon
Liz’s smile.
Makes me smile.
everytime.
I can’t wait to see what awesome stuff happens from the Oprah show!
amazing how far you have both come in the past year, matt. way to go on oprah. I’m crying already and it hasn’t even aired yet.
that was so not boring! i’ve been a ‘blog stocker’ of your for a while but have never commented. i never have the right words to say!!
you inspire me everyday to be a better parent.
you are an amazing person, maddie is so blessed to have you.
best of luck in everything that you and maddie do
<333
I love your blog, the recap is not boring, it’s amazing! You and Maddie have made such a difference in so many lives, in so many ways! Thank you for reminding us how much good can come from something so wrong!
Not boring at all, beautiful and honest as usual. What a great introduction to your story for the newbies.
I can’t wait to see the Oprah show tonight after work.
Thank you again for letting us into your life.
W-O-N-D-E-R-F-U-L recap! I got all blurry-eyed from the tears (and I’ve been reading your blog since Jan!).
Matt,
Although I am only 22, not married, and have no kids, you and maddy make me laugh, cry, and smile everytime I visit. I think everyone can find some common ground in your writing. You are such an inspiration and I know Liz is so proud.
I hope your visit to see a well-known talk show host really helps the foundation. I’ve set the DVR and locally it doesn’t show for 3 more hours but I’m eager to see what she asks you.
What a great blog post, summed up nicely. Oprah will not be on until later today here but I will be watching.
I have been reading your site from the start. What a lovely recap.
You are both unconventional and unforgettable, Matt! Your beautiful words and pictures brought tears to my eyes once again today. Looking forward to seeing you on Oprah later today!
Hi Matt, I found your blog through another (which I had found through another… and another) a few weeks ago and just finished up reading your story from the beginning and I have to tell you just how remarkable you are and how precious Madeline is! I have my DVR set to record the Oprah appearance… looking forward to watching it later! Your photographs and words are amazing… thanks for letting this stranger in NJ take a peek into your world. Best wishes!
You know I’m a regular one, but this post was so sweet… I just loved it!!!
BTW, when will you come to Brazil?
I figured this was a good time to say that I enjoy reading about your journey. I look forward to hearing about how you and Maddy are doing every week. Such a tribute to your wife and of course yourself!
@Larissa – from Brazil
soon (i hope)!
Beautiful Matt! Cant wait to see you on Oprah today! good luck! lol p.s. who’s idea was the green frosting anyway?!? lol
Never a boring re-cap at all
I love reading your posts and memories of Liz 
You have definitely done a great job this past year Matt…you should be so proud!! I can’t wait to see you guys on Oprah today..have the PVR set all ready to go!! You continue to inspire me to be a better mother and be grateful for having 2 healthy kids, and family. I look forward to continue to read along with your journey as long as you continue to share it with us 
Shannon, Alex and Caitlyn
Going to be very interesting to see what happens to your site today! Been away for Easter, looks like Maddy’s party was a fun one. DVR’d the show, anxious to see what all this brings.
Not a boring recap at all. Enjoyed watching you on O this morning… I felt like I was watching someone I “know”. You did a great job!
thanks for reminding me to set the DVR, love the preemptive strike! awesome recap.
Maddy is to cute for words!!!
you truly are inspiration to so many..
it’s not the least bit boring – i’m a longtime reader, but it made me cry all over again. and it made me amazed and awestruck by what a great job you’re doing raising that cutie, also all over again.
F-ING BORING!!
))
Still reading….
Not boring, even for us longtimers! I was hoping for a birthday party recap, but maybe tomorrow.
That was a great intro for all the new readers that you’re sure to get today. I’ve been reading since really early on but still appreciate the recap. I’m looking forward to seeing y’all on Oprah this afternoon!
I loved the onsie over the pants! I live by the words “Everything happens for a reason” and even though the “everything” may be painful, good always prevails. You are another proof of that. You rock.
I’ve been reading for almost a year and I didn’t find that boring in the slightest… You have the ability to move me to tears and we continue to cheer for you in the Mpls! Can’t wait to catch you guys on Oprah!!
Ahhh…thanks for reminding me to set the DVR. I can’t wait to see the show. Thanks for the recap…not the slightest bit boring.
Its never boring!
That recap was anything but boring, Matt. I love seeing all those pictures of you and Liz on your many travels.
She’s so proud of you.
I came here from MckMama’s site and have long been a lurker. I think you’re the second coolest dad EVER (sorry, but my husband comes first in my book). Second isn’t so bad, though. Seriously, your commitment to your precious daughter and to your beloved wife’s memory—evident in the foundation that supports those in your boat—is amazing and inspiring (to say the least). Your writing is brilliant (and I say this as a copyeditor who reads LOTS of writing) and your photographs powerful. Thanks for sharing your new journey with so many people you’ve never met in person.
Kelley in Georgia
ps. I think the graffiti elevator rocks, and I laughed out loud at the icing photo!
What a perfect description of your life and how you came to be an “unconventional” Dad. I can’t wait to see you and Maddy on Oprah today. I loved the pictures you included with this, some of which I haven’t seen before. What an awesome life you and Liz shared together, Matt.
You and Maddy are unforgettable, never boring. Can’t wait to see the Oprah show – hope you get lots of donations for the foundation!
PS Love the birthday pics!
I love the “alone but not really” photos, so until she starts walking away from them…please don’t stop taking them!
And it’s your unconventional-ness (?) that keeps us all coming back
Thank you.
I don’t know if u believe this…Your family is eternal…It was always part of The plan.
Carry on Mate…even from Australia…we are thinking of u guys.
Thanks once again for tears running down my face…you truly have a way with words. The pics were absolutely beautiful, yes I’ve seen them before….but they are so lovely
I’m so excited to see Oprah today 
And btw…not boring, I love to read what you write. And I think that you should come see the east coast….
I so love reading your blog and getting a recap is awesome.
The picture of maddie onhere above Lizs picture is so adorable hers blue eyes just shine.
Matt you have done a wonderful job with your daughter and I look forward to reading more as she grows up
Not boring at all! That was beautiful! You are impacting Maddy’s life in such a great way. You are such a great dad! And Liz was beautiful. I am sure that she is smiling down from Heaven on you and Maddy. Keep up the good work….
Definitely not boring – you are such a dedicated dad. Maddy is so lucky to have you. I always shed some tears when I read how much you love Liz. Can’t wait to watch you on O today.
Matt, just got done watching it on the tivo. Awesome! I cried, I laughed and I loved it. Awesome job!
I loved the little barefoot Maddy at the end.
Oh and the army dad story from the same show, wow!
I was introduced to your story a little over two months ago and each day I check for your updates. I have spent a *few* hours at work reading your story. Thank you for sharing, all of it. I can not wait to see the Oprah Show, my TiVO has been set since your first posted about it. We are lucky to have amazing people in this world like you. Hugs to Maddie, if she handle one more. – a Colorado Stranger
Never, never,ever boring- Always thoughtful, gut pulling, make you remember the blessings in your life, entertaining!!!
Great recap. I hope the talk show host donated some $$ for the foundation! Looking forward to watching it, although it won’t be on for another 2 hours here.
I hope flights 17 and 18 have something to do with the East Coast, and maybeeeeeeee you guys can come visit us in Boston sometime?
Really looking forward to Oprah today (I don’t say that a lot)! And love the pic of Maddy as Manny – I don’t think I’ve ever seen that one before!
Matt, you amaze me! I’ve kept up with your blog for the past year now. My heart goes out to you and your precious sunshine…btw, that sunshine is the spittin’ image of her momma! I want you to know that I have prayed for you throughout the year and you will remain in my thoughts. Keep up the wonderful work! Madeline (and Liz) are so fortunate to have you!!!!
With Love, from Kristin in Alabama
Matt,
I am so glad so many people will be introduced to you and Maddy today !! They will come to love you & Maddy as much as all of us readers do !!
Love the pictures of Liz & Maddy posted with this story today….Both girls are so beautiful…. .
I am really excited about the show today! I am going to tape it and watch it at the same time
Still love the icing shots!
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Matt,
Can’t wait to see you on Oprah. I have the tivo set to record. I am so glad that so many other people will get to know you, Liz & Maddy today. They will fall in love with your family like so many of your readers already have !!
Love the pictures of Liz & Maddy….. They are both so beautiful…
Another long-time lurker here. I have my DVR all set to record Oprah so I can watch it when I get home from work!
Your blog allows me to feel like I knew Liz. Your gift of sharing her will be how your daughter also knows her.
My timer is set for today’s show. Can’t wait to see your piece. And although I’ve been a reader for a while, seeing those pictures still brought me to tears.
this was a beautiful retelling of your story…so proud of you, today and every day!!
can’t wait to watch your unconventionalness when i get home tonight
Liz and Maddy’s pictures, your writing, and emtion = AWESOME! I have read since last April and boring has never entered my vocabulary when I think about your blog. I think you are an awesome Dad!
Amy from Louisville in the KY
Totally not a boring recap. In fact, that was the best recap in the history of recaps. Cheers!
beautiful re-cap! cant wait for oprah at 4. thinking of you guys way over here in Massachusetts : )
The recap isn’t boring! Nicely said!
I’m an “old” reader but I loved the recap and pics!!
Congrats on Oprah! I had to tape it–but I’ll watch it later for sure!
I cannot wait to get home from work today and watch the show. Welcome new readers…Matt sharing his life with us, and allowing us to watch Madeline grow, has been as much of a blessing for us as our presence seems to be for him. It’s a roller coaster sometimes, but the smiles on both of their faces make even the tears okay.
A great reminder of why we’re all here reading and cheering for you. (And traveling the world right along with you and Maddy).
Like everyone above, I have to say…..so NOT a boring recap to the “old-timers”……this entry brought tears, a smile or two, and outright guffaws (love the section on things you do as a parent that others don’t)….what a perfect introduction to the many new readers that will be coming on here in the next few days…….Welcome all!!!
Thank you, again Matt, for sharing Madeline with us all!
Ok, tears again and never, ever bored reading your blog! I’ve got my DVR set and can’t wait to watch you tonight when the little one goes to bed.
Hey Matt, i’ve been reading your blog since june 08. i had my third kid about 1 month after Maddie was born. i am the same age as your wife and your whole situation just struck a nerve. i am supporting your foundation. i am tickled pink to see/know that u will be on oprah.
hope you have increased ur bandwith…..LOL c u on twitter.
First, your a GREAT dad! Second, you’re by far my fav guest on O, ever! It’s taking everything I have just to get through work today. And Just for an FYI: The first time I read your guest blog on Glamour I was 7 months pregos. And I’ve followed you ever since. When she was born, the first time I got to hold her I kissed her for Liz. And I keep reading your blog because you remind me to loosen up, and be unconventional. Thanks!
Thank you for sharing your life and Maddy’s life with us. Every day, I look forward to your beautiful daughter and your amazing stories. I’ll try not to be crazy…creepy…stalkerish. Sorry, could be too late
Matt
Love the recap! Gave my some-what busy husband (he is in Med school and we have 3..yes 3 kids… 9 months, 2 and 8yrs old) a chance to read why I love reading your blog! I sometimes read it out loud to him, but the recap was perfect! I know your new readers will love you and maddy’s stories as much as the ones that already do! “stranger” friends!
Looking forward to watching you two today!! Oh and I Love that pic of you and Maddy with the frosting!! I laugh out loud when I see it!!!
Long time reader, but never commented. Loved the recap. You are doing such a great job and I don’t know how the hell you do it. I suppose we all need to just keep on keepin’ on when life seems to fuck us over. Can’t wait to see the clip on Oprah!
No way would I consider that boring! It was a really nice recap of the last year. Can’t wait to get home from work and watch Oprah! Woo hoo!
Congrats on the show appearance, and helping represent single dads. We come in all flavors. Some are full time dads, widowers. Some are part-time dads with coparenting and custody concerns. I’ve been called a little unconventional too (more for my dating life, which I blog about, than any swearing)
I agree – not boring at all! I loved the rewind. Made me tear up all over again! What you are doing with Maddy is amazing….she is a lucky, lucky girl to have a dad like you. Don’t ever doubt that. And even though sweet Liz is no longer here – Maddy is lucky to have parents who love each other so much. She will know and feel that….she will.
Hugs to both of you…keep it up!
I think that we all love you both more and more everyday as well. Your love for your wife, your daughter and life keeps us all coming back to shadow you in your jouney! By the way, my fucking DVR quit working on Friday!! I will be glued at 4 to the BIG O! Thanks for giving me the freedom to swear sometimes.
Way to go Matt! Your recap could never be boring, you and Maddy rock. Sending hugs from the MN.
I have only been reading for three months now, but man you got a lot better looking after high school. I watched you on Oprah, and thought you were so dignified, and kept Liz’s memory pure without over eulogizing. I was a single momma for a long time, and my son had his first passport at five years old. I know you allready figured all this out, but those horrible books that tell you how to parent don’t always work, my son got diagnosed with bipolar disorder at age 10 and I finally understood why none of those books applied to our lives, or his disease. Seeing you with little Maddy helps me remember all our time together, just the two of us and even though it was difficult and sometimes psychotic, it was still the best. He’s good now, he’ll be walking home from 8th grade in a couple of hours. I am going to plant one on him before he has time to protest…
I totally agree with Brooke! Use East Coasters need to get some Maddy time too!!!!
Seriously…you fucking rock! So charmingly, self-deprecating – yes, you’ve had lots of support but give yourself credit. YOU are raising an amazing little girl – congrats on not just surviving the first year (it’s hard under the best of circumstances), but thriving. Maddy is beautiful, happy and loved and you are an awesome dad. Unconventional is not a bad thing, in this case it’s a really, really good thing.
My husband is a stay at home dad, i read your blog daily, at least check it daily, i have called and reminded him to watch oprah today to see you, i think you could be somewhat of an inspiration to him. i have told him all about you and what you have been through, so even though i cant watch today he is watching for me and will tell me all about it.
Unconventional but never dull, Matt. You’re doing a great job and we’re all here for you. Take care and we’re glad you got the green food coloring off your face
Can’t wait to see you and Maddy on the episode at 4pm – MN time, tissues on hand.
Not bored. BRAVO – you have and continue to do an amazing job.
ya know, as a regular reader, I really liked the recap. Very sweet. Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you two!
Oh boy.,…the video made me cry! This is not good! lol I have my DVR set because I am going to be writing a paper. Also, this post was not boring! This is one of my favorites! Same ole sense of humor, same fricken adorable baby, same great family!
Matt,
Getting on real quick now before the show, may not be able to log on after, lol. Re-cap not boring, I loved it. Just makes me even more proud to “know” you both! I have my tissues ready……
OH.MY.GOD, that was the most fucking boring re-cap I have ever read. I almost fell asleep.
I hope you are on in the beginning of the show and not the ending. I wouldnt miss Family Guy for just anyone Logelin! (O replays here at 7:00, Family Guy is at 7:30)
I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of weeks, and this is the first time I commented. I still haven’t read all your posts – I think I’ve covered only the first 4 months since Madeline was born, and then some of the more recent posts. I cried the first day I found your blog, and subsequent times as well, including today. I’ll certainly be watching you on TV today. Perhaps more tears to follow?
I’ve got my DVR set to record this afternoon.
Loved the recap. Maybe if I’m lucky, I’ll be able to visit some of those beautiful places that you were able to see with Liz.
ps. that photo of liz seeing Maddy for the 1st and only time simultaneously brought a smile to my face, and a tear to my eye. There is so much emotion conveyed in that picture, and then to know the circumstances of your story just makes it overwhelming.
Never I never get tired of you talking about your girls.
I saw this the other day and thought you might like to try it.
http://www.mcphee.com/items/11847.html
I know how you like all things bacon. this would be a great way to start off your day.
In the past three weeks I have read every post here and I must say, I am incredibly impressed with you, your AMAZING daughter and all the (stranger) friends that have helped you along the way. Thank you for sharing your life, I cherish it each day
I’m not a new reader, but in every post you talk about Liz is heart-warming.
And this is definitely NOT boring.
conventional is boring….and that you are not.
Hoping some kind soul posts the whole video somewhere on the web, so I can see!
Will be watching the show at 4 pm EST ,cant wait for it ,i loved the recap
not a parent myself but an aunt and avid observer of young parents forever.
I’m always struck by the way different people parent. Many first-time parents get so wound up about schedules and what’s right… etc.
But my observation is that the best parents don’t treat the baby like a fragile expensive Faberge egg that should never be taken out of its environment (now some kids have to be treated that way because of medical issues). Instead, they pack the kid up and take him/her on adventures. They let him/her eat sticks, sand, etc. I think kids handled like that, on the whole, seem to be more well-adjusted and less fussy. Their parents seem to regard parenting as fun and exciting rather than a dreary responsibility.
I’ve always been impressed at how portable Maddy is — part of that, of course, is personality, but I think the parenting has a lot to do with it. So what if you didn’t know that; you obviously had a lot of innate ability.
None of your pictures shock me at all.
never boring, that’s what we love about you…
okay.. Brazil.. awesome!.. Redlands, .. stop here first…:)
~g.
Not boring at all. I have been following since day 1, and got as many goosebumps and tears as I did last March. Hang in there…you are doing great. Thought I would comment now, since I am sure your server is going to blow up after Oprah airs this afternoon!
The show will not air until 4pm here in Kansas, but I will be watching. I was linked to your blog from two friends on facebook today.
You are a strong man. You daughter is going to be a great person because of you.
Can’t wait to see the show!
CRAP! I forgot to set the tivo. I told my sister about it, and my mom, and was even home for a short moment between the airport and coming to work and I forgot. Glad to see some video at the end of the post. Will try to watch that once home tonight…..
MATT! Never a boring post from you. And, a nice recap of how we all got here in the first place.
I have my DVR set!! I can’t wait to see you guys!
BIG HUGE HUGS!
and for the newbies, hold on to your seats, its a wild ride and be sure you have some tissues!
you’ll be loving them in no time, if you don’t already.
I don’t ever get bored reading your blogs!! Like many have said before, it was a nice recap. And we know you don’t leave her alone! LOL you silly man!!! Who’s the one taking the pictures!!!
So not boring! It just reminds me why I keep coming back here…your story is so incredibly touching. Not just the sad parts…but the parts that are joyful too. Also, seeing your pretty little girl grow is so special. I’m so happy for you that you have each other. What a sweet little best friend to have!
Found you a couple weeks ago
This was a fabulous post
Your daughter is one lucky girl
DVRing Oprah today. =D
@~gina
are we really invited out to redlands?
I loved the recap Matt, thanks again for allowing me and so many others to share a part of yours and Maddy’s lives. I am emotional already and haven’t even watched Oprah yet! I hope that amazing things will come of this for you and for the Liz Logelin Foundation.
Not boring at all, Matt. It’s never boring. Remember that!
not a boring re-cap at all. if you ever need an unpaid babysitter I am your gal, references and all will prove I am an A+ nanny
I can hardly wait to see you two on Oprah tonight, the Rachel Ray show was wonderful so I know Oprah will be great! And I think you are a great dad..she’ll be a tough little girl while remaining sweet at the same time and that is a very good thing.
I’ve been here almost a year, and I still loved the recap. Because really? Any post with pictures of Maddy is fabulous. And any story you tell of Liz is incredible. You’re doing an amazing job, Matt.
no boring recap here…a walk down memory lane is good for the soul.
Priceless and once in a lifetime to be on the big screen at Dodger Stadium! Way to go dad! 
LOVING the picture of maddy in manny’s hat!
You inspire me everyday!
not boring at all – you know us regulars hang on your every word and we don’t mind repeats
Can’t wait to watch you on the show today – I’m sure I will be bawling! Maddy is cuter every single day and you continue to do a fabulous job.
I didn’t think it was boring! I got to see pictures of Liz, that I hadn’t seen before. Love the picture of Maddy putting frosting on your face! lol You’re a great Dad & doing a great job taking care of Maddy! I haven’t seen the Oprah show yet, it comes on in about 30 mins. Look forward to watching.
Inquiring minds want to know where/if you and Maddy watched Oprah. Did you stay home and watch it? Are you having a special viewing? How did you two celebrate your celebrity status today? I’m leaving work early to catch it in “real time” – can’t wait to see it. The pictures you posted today were beautiful. You have two very lovely ladies in your life! I hope my husband talks about me and our children like you talk about Liz and Maddy! Yay Matt!
@mindy
just a normal day.
i am at work, she is at daycare.
i think i’ll be watching it with some of my coworkers, otherwise we’ll just watch it at home on the dvr after i pick maddy up from daycare.
hey I am actually commenting on your blog!! how cool! (clearly I need to get out more)
not a boring re-cap. I have not seen .show darn Thai protest. But I’ll look for a link. You are a great Dad
that was a great post. i cannot wait for “O” this afternoon.
you are doing a wonderful job….and maddy is one lucky little girl to have a daddy like you. liz is, i’m quite certain, very proud.
Never bored while reading Matt, just inspired.
Love, love , love the birthday cake picture!
I love that pic of you and Maddie with the green frosting. My son liked it too. He wanted to know if maddie’s dad was The Hulk : ) I have been reading your blog since June, but I enjoyed the recap, you have come so far. I am honored that you let us all into your lives, thank you!
The recap wasn’t boring.
You are more than an average dad…you are awesome!
I love your “alone” pics of Maddy.
Overall, you rock!
I can’t wait to see you on the show.
You are doing such a good job. It is so hard rasing a child.
Everytime I see a picture of Liz, I am in awe at her beauty. There is something about her that comes through the pictures. It is hard to explain it.
Oh, and about dressing Maddie as Manny Ramirez, I gotta say, what were you thinking
?
I am a regular and your words are never boring. NEVER!!
If your new, stick around…Matt and Maddy rock!!
i loved the recap, thanks for sharing. i’ve been following since last summer, but i still don’t know what you do for work! LOL i didn’t know you two were hs sweethearts- learn something new everyday. i’m dvr’ing Oprah, but my almost-one-year old may not let me watch it live. keep up the great work, matt!
I will be watching today. It never gets boring hearing you talk about Liz and Maddy. I learn something new each time.
Great video. Loved it.
Maddy gets prettier every day. So happy you were able to share your story with the Oprah world. Everyone needs to know you and your strength and character and enormous wit. Go Matt!
Kicking my kids off the tv so I can watch you on Lady O!
Love the re-cap.
@katie
i am a project manager at a rather large internet company.
It wasn’t a boring recap for me at all! I was wiping tears off my face the whole time. Maddie has the best Daddy in the world!
Oprah hasn’t aired yet here, i’ve got an hour to go yet before i can watch it here. I’m sure i will have tears again!
Liz must be looking down from heaven,smiling. Maddie looks so much like her! You are doing an amazing job raising her, keep up the good work!
You are truly amazing! No wonder Liz fell in love with you. I wish most men are like you. That will make lot of women happy! Your story is really inspirational. (I need more tissue papers!!!) I wish I can meet you and your adorable Maddy in person. How about trip to Germany???
UGG! It is preempted in the Boston area!!!
I’m not a new reader.
I have loved reading about yours and Maddie’s adventures for a while.
This post was absolutely beautiful. I loved seeing all of the wonderful photos from trips past with Liz and look forward to seeing all of the fabulous places you take Maddie in the future.
Your story is never boring, what a great segment on Oprah today , I am so glad the masses can now admire you and your courage like I do .
You are doing more than an OK job with Madeline , she is thriving and wonderful , you should be so proud.
I was channel surfing and I got excited when it was doing the preview of the show. I saw Maddy and stopped dead in my tracks.
I never watch her because I’m in class and today is a complete fluke.
But I’m watching… right now
What’s the music on your desert feeding video? Love the words.
Just from reading your posts I feel like you’re an old friend. You’re an amazing father. You should be so proud of yourself! Your recap was beautiful.
@we’ll try to get there soon…
I watched but I have been a regular reader and twitter follower for awhile.
Loved the re-cap!!
Matt,
It’s hard to believe a year has gone by since I started reading your blog. I’ve been moved to tears and laughter so many times in that year. Now, I sit in Minnesota watching you on Rachael Ray, reading about you in People and about to watch you on Oprah. Wow.
A “decent father” doing a “passable job” – oh, I don’t think so. You are doing a wonderful job and it is clear by how healthy and happy your daughter is.
From Minnesota Maddie’s mom – Angie
Its never boring & neither are you.
Your happiness will always be one of my 3 wishes should I ever find a wish granting genie.
All my love to you both -
Creeptastic Marissa
Never boring, just a frustrating reminder that some people have already seen Oprah and we have to wait till 4 pm in the TX. Are you ready for new blog reader overload? Beef up that server now, because the whole world is about to fall in love with you and Maddy just like we did.
I look forward to watching Oprah this afternoon. Wow, never thought I would say that! Thank you for inspiring me to work harder to be a better mom, wife and person. I still want to send Auntie Deb an airline gift certificate.
Love the recap. It’s the blog, in a nutshell, and I’m really excited for all the new readers you’ll get from Oprah. Your words have brought so many of us together already, and I look forward to the even larger community forming. I’m DVR’ing the Oprah (you actually got me to watch Oprah!!) and I can’t wait!!
Not boring! I typed out a long response but wordpress ate it. Blargh! I’ve got O set to record and will watch it later when hubs is around to mop up the tears. I wear my heart on my sleeve.
ps: the fam and I are going to see dodgers v astros next week. It’s so on.
Unfortunately I had to come home early from work because my one year old is sick, BUT…this means I get to watch Oprah in real time!!! Starts in 40 minutes….I am so excited! LOVED the re-cap!
Matt-
I love the ” alone but not really” photos!! Don’t stop until forced to by maddy’s uncooperativeness.
Love you guys! Oh, and I’ve had a sneaky suspision for a while now that you are writing a book. Can you confirm or deny that?
)
@kathy.
maybe.
45 minutes until Oprah starts… I can’t wait!
Great recap and beautiful pics!
Actually, I loved the recap! I have been reading your blog for several months now that I heard about through a friend. Not only do I love your candor with swear words (I swear a lot too!), I love love love your amazing photography. Reading your life with Maddy makes me want to be a better mommy! I always record Oprah, so thankfully I didn’t have to worry about making sure today is ready to record. I can’t wait to get home from work to see it!
Wow! You’re famous now!!! You really looked fantastic (figured Daddy needs a compliment)…as hard as the last year has been, you truly handled it…put one foot in front of the other and each day at a time. You have taken a personal tragedy and inspired so many others to be better wives, husbands and parents. Thank you, Matt…I owe you so big. Much love from KY…
watching you on Oprah now… I started reading right after M was born. I was 3 months away from having my son Bo and I could not keep reading. I have a clotting disorder and all I could do was imagine by husband in your shoes. It killed me.
I prayed for you every night those first few months. I’m glad to see that you have weathered this storm and found a light in your life. I can only hope that if such a thing were to happen to my husband, that he would would handle it so well.
Wow – I’m so lucky I was able to catch it. I saw it was 4:15 and went up 3 floors (at work) and watched the 15 min segment. You did great Matt! You’ve come so far this last year considering ALL that you’ve been through. Bravo Matt! Happy belated 1st B/D Maddy!
Can’t wait. Didn’t even go into work today so i could watch it in real time…I’m proud to be ahead of the curve and already “know” you…
Donated $ to the Sphors in Maddie’s name…
Hey Matt…I teared up at the Oprah segment today. Do you know what song was playing?
I just watched you on Oprah. You seem to be doing an amazing job rasing that beautiful little girl. I know your wife is proud. Lots of blessings to you from Florida.
I’ve been following your blog for a number of months now, and am always so inspired by your writing and your willingness to share these bits of yourself and Maddy with the rest of us. I just watched your “bit” on TV – I was disappointed!! I absolutely anticipated that you would have received more screen time, and definitely would have loved to see some “Maddy Live”. However, I unfailingly continue to applaud your strength and bravery throughout the past year and as time goes forward.
I truly wish that I lived in your area to be able to meet you and Maddy in person…in fact, I’d happily become one in your army of unpaid sitters
Best always in health and happiness,
Danni
wow! watching Oprah today I feel like I know you. You did great! Still such a wonderful and tear filled story. I’ve been following you since people magazine and will follow until you are done telling! Hopefully never. You are an amazing father with a beautiful girl! Liz would be ( is) so proud of you both. You make all of us moms proud. You are doing great. Great job today!
Matt You did such a good job on the show! Hope you are pleased with it. I am very impressed with you stage skills!
oh starting to get timed out messages and funky looks to your site! Guessing it is being accessed by millions!
Love your recap, boring it is not. The first picture of Maddie is my favorite! She is just adorable!
Even though I’ve been reading from the beginning, your story touches me every time. I always enjoy reading your posts, bad language and all!
I can’t wait to watch Oprah when I get home today! I set the DVR on Friday!! The recap is great and I especially love the video of you feeding Maddy in the middle of nowhere! She is so beautiful and growing so fast! Awesome job!! You are definitely an unconventional and unforgetable dad!
Wow! I just caught your story on Oprah. People like you are amazing…you spread hope and inspire. I can tell you and Liz had an amazing relationship and life together. You can feel the happiness she exudes in those images of her. If she could I know that she would tell you how proud she is of you. Madeline is absolutely adorable.
Matt you are such an inspiration! I’ve been following your blog since Maddie was about 4 months old when a friend showed it to me. I check it about once a week to see how you and Maddie are doing and everytime i am just amazed. You are a terrific person and a wonderful father and if Maddie could talk i’m sure she would tell you the same thing. She’s lucky to have a dad like you. Thanks for letting everyone continue to see how you both are doing, you could have easily made your blog private…just for family and friends but you’ve let the whole world in and i know you have inspired me, a wife and mother of a one year old and so many other people around the world.
I loved seeing you on Oprah
Also a Happy Belated Birthday to Madeline!! Loved the cake pics, those rocked!
sometimes you make me cry to the point that all I want to do is kick you in the stomach.
Fabulous! Fabulous, and more Fabulous! U Rock -
matt – I have been reading and comment fairly often. I just finished watching Oprah. What a great tribute to you and Liz as a couple, as well as what an incredible father you have become. over the last year. I loved Maddie’s appearance at the end of the show!!!
It’s 4pm in So Dak and looking forward to the start of Oprah and seeing you and Miss Maddie!! Love your blog Matt!
Saw the show today ..the whole show was very touching.Really glad I got to see it.
I been reading your blogs for about 9 months ..started posting occasionally a few months back. When I saw you where on today..I called my mother and my friends so they could finally see who this Matt and Maddie is, that I talk about. Now they understand how truly inspirational so many find you and Maddie and Liz …Blessings to you and Maddie
Thanks for the reminder Matt…I cried AGAIN…thank you for sharing yourself and that beautiful girl of yours with us. I will read as long as you write! Can’t wait to go home and watch the show!! Take care.
I found out about you on ‘the show’ today… Probably the first time I’ve seen it in 10 years but very glad I happened to tune in. Your story is inspirational! I am a first grade teacher in an inner-city school and see families who have gone through hardship every day, and the terrible toll it can take on the children. I was very moved to see how you have empowered yourself in the situation and done so much! (Also I noticed your Arcade Fire t-shirt!) If you ever have any teacher questions, I’d be happy to answer.
Namaste,
Sarah
Maddy got robbed! no face time with Oprah?!?
Great job Matt!
Matt… after reading your blog for a while it was very cool to see you “irl” on Oprah. You and Maddy rock. You break my heart and inspire me at the same time. Thanks so much for sharing.
I just watched you on Oprah and I am trully emotionally, overwehlmed by your strength, courage and admiration for this great task that you have been giving. Your love and dedication for your lovely daughter is just amazing. Its a hard, trying job at times (I’m a single mom of 2 girls) but I can tell that you are doing a brilliant job. I know that your beloved wife is looking down on you guys with so much pride and joy and infinite love.
God Bless You.
God Bless you and your little girl. She is truly blessed to have such a loving father and she will know her mother and how much she loved her from you. I watched the Oprah show and cried while watching your story. I just had to write and say that I greatly respect you as a person and a father.
May god Bless you and your daughter.
I have been reading your blog for a few months now… I was so excited to see you and Maddy on Oprah today! Your an amazing father and Maddy is absolutely adorable!
I have been reading along for some time but have never posted but I saw you on TV today and I have to say first, that Maddy is absolutely adorable and that you are definitely not unforgettable nor unconventional. We all do things that you really shouldn’t with a child (dressed up my child like a chick for Easter last year) but it won’t harm them and later in life the pictures will be great memories.
You are doing a fantastic job and every Dad should look to you as a role model. Keep up the good work!
I rarely watch Oprah, but I’ve read your website for months. I’m so excited to see that you are about to be on!!! I just had to come & say Congrats! and I’m so excited for you both.
Love the recap! Nothing boring about it at all!!
Of course, I’m one of your new readers having discovered you on Oprah today. I teared up a couple times during your interview, as well as during this post.
I can not even begin to imagine the pain you have gone through in the past year…
Maddy is very lucky to have a dad like you. You very much seem to be an amazing father and amazing person.
Good luck in all you do, and I’ll definitely be continuing to follow you and Maddy on your blog!
Watching you guys on Oprah now…You think you’ve got fans now? I bet they are multiplying by the second!! haha
You have an amazing story, I’ve been following it for over 6 months now, but just now decided to make a blog of my own. (don’t bother reading it…It’s still in the making and not too interesting!!)
Maddie is absolutely beautiful…She looks so much like her mom.
Keep up the amazing work!
Just watched the show – it was great! I even called my parents to tell them to DVR it. I feel like I know you through this blog and was so proud that you were on Oprah! You make me strive to be a better mom (although, I let Emma chew on sticks too….but only at the clean parks).
Hey Matt, I saw you and your beautiful daughter on the “Oprah” show today. It made me feel better though I’m jobless for the past few months. Also, I hope that (someday) I can be a great parent like you! I’m sure your wife would be proud. People like you remind me that life is mostly good, if we choose to look at it that way.
All the best, EMMA.
Matt- I actually really enjoyed this post. I wish I had such awesome photos when I was little, like Maddy is going to have. She really is a lucky girl to have a dad like you!
P.S. I’m jealous of all her frequent flyer miles.
Matt, I found your blog a few weeks ago and have been following you and Maddie. As I write, I am watching the Oprah show and you are coming up next. I do admire you and all the positives that you are bringing into Maddie’s life. I lost my husband fifteen weeks ago, and I don’t know how you are doing what you do. Life is so different. This journey that we face is not one I want to be on, and yet, I have no choice. I still can’t believe My Johnny is gone and will never return. I wish you all the best, and hope to meet you at the widow’s convention in July in California. I know you are busy, but I do hope to hear from you by email one day. Hugs to you, Jax
Long time reader, I think
Liz
would shit knowing you were on freakin’ Oprah!!
Maddy is beyond beautiful, you are a wonderful daddy.
Excellent show. I love that they used parts of the video your friend did (Gina’s husband, I think). That video is incredible.
Just wanted to pop in and say it was great getting to see you on Oprah….i’ve never had the pleasure of meeting you and little Madeline like so many of the other strangers/friends have so it was good seeing a “live” you. I’d also like to say it seems that your doing more than a decent job of raising that beautiful little girl. She seems to be a very happy little girl and very content with her daddy.
god bless you.
Thanks for the link to the wee bit of video Matt.
Need to wait a bit longer to see it in Australia.
Did you get to meet Oprah?
btw. LOVED the retell of your story.
Couldn’t get sick of the reminder of how amazing you both are.
I have been reading for some time now, but have never posted. My daughter was born March 4, 2008 so I have been watching Maddy grow up along with my Cadence. You are a wonderful father to your little girl and you are doing an unforgettable job raising her!
I’ve been reading for awhile, so I’m used to the cursing. ;o) (And also still trying to figure out how to watch the Cubs around my 11 month old when there’s nothing quite so satisfying as a very loud FUCK!!!! when the Cubs wreck my life as they so often do) I just watched you on Oprah, and I just wanted to tell you that I can only hope my husband would do half as well as you have with Maddy. I know none of this was in your plans, but you are doing a fantastic job with what has come your way.
Matt,
Just finished watching Oprah and I cried all over again. I remember when I first read your story in People and stayed up late for weeks reading the blog from the beginning. It has been so fun to watch Maddy grow and to follow along with your story. You are doing such a fantastic job with her. She is truly lucky to have such a wonderful dad like you! Thank you for letting us into your life!!! Take care!
Matt- I came across your blog a few months ago through my dance coach’s blog in “the mn”, and began to read it from the very beginning. I just wanted to leave a comment (finally- after months of following along) to let you know how inspiring you are, the love you obviously have for Liz and Maddy is amazing, and reminds me to never settle for anything less in my own life. Maddy is adorable, and is lucky to have a strong and supportive father like you!
Matt, I’m not new…been following you and Maddy for a year+ now, but no worries, the recap is great! You are doing such an amazing job with Maddy. Any honestly, how many other people can say that they would start a foundation to help others in the same situation so soon after all this has happen. My guess is not many. To me, it’s not amazing that you are a (great) dad, but that you have carried on with such grace. Congratulations on Oprah, congratulations on a beautiful little girl. I look forward to following your and Maddy’s story.
Hahaha, I leave my son alone in similar circumstances all the time. We are definitely on the same vein of parenting. I swear a lot too, and probably more casually than I should. You have inspired me to blog. I want my son to know me through and through is something were to ever happen to me. You are a such a strong man, and your story on Oprah today made me cry… I am not a cry-er. Your daughter is so beautiful!
I am a long time reader and what kept going through my mind as I read today’s recap was…boy, look how far Matt has come! You should be proud and know that we all feel that Maddy is a VERY lucky little girl to have you for a dad.
@Ben… RTFLMAO or whateverthefuckthatsayingis.
@Maddie… you lucky lucky little girl to have what you do in your daddy.
@Matty… Oprah was wrong. She said you’re one of 250,000. But to us, you’re one in a million.
@Robot… sorry he left you out of the equation. Someday you’ll get your 5 minutes. Maybe he’s saving you for the back flap of the book jacket.
I just finished watching Oprah. I’ve been reading your blog for some time now. I just want you to know you are inspiring…amazing. I have a 2 year old girl that I cannot imagine raising all by myself. Maddie is a lucky girl…
Matt-
Not boring at all. It was a nice reminder of your love for Liz and maddy. Seeing you on Oprah was nice and I am so happy to get back into your blog. I followed your blog religiously last year and lost track of you both this year. So glad to feel reunited. I loved the pic on Oprah with the robot and actually knowing the whole story with that! We love you and your family (including Liz) and will continue to read…God Bless u.
Hey Matt with all the celebrity attention you and maddie are getting, all of us in the Los Angeles need to get a playdate going first. so maddie can meet all these stranger friends that admire you two everyday, I am familiar to your story and still cried watching oprah. Good Luck Matt, Maddie
I just saw your apperance on Oprah. I usually don’t watch Oprah because I work as a 3rd grade teacher and am usually in school at the time. I am currently on maternity leave for my second daughter. Watching your story touched my heart (maybe it’s the hormones!). I cried watching your story because I am so lucky to be able to get to experience motherhood for a second time. I am sure that your Liz would be extremely happy and proud of you and Maddy. She is a beautiful little girl just like her mom. Thank you for opening my eyes to how blessed my family and I are.
Matt you are such an incredible person doing such an incredible job.
You make everyone, me especially, realize how precious life is.
So, thank you.
You are a wonderful wonderful WONDERFUL dad. I was watching the Oprah show today and I must say I did cry. Your wife was (and always will be) a beautiful person but life comes short sometimes. You have race your daughter so good and she is also a beautiful person like her mother. I am very proud of you and keep putting pictures of you all.
God Bless and keep up the good work dad!!!
Just saw you on Oprah…I’m speechless! Well..I’m never really speechless.
You know…it’s not so much that you’re raising your daughter on your own…lots of people are single parents. It’s that you lost the love of your life and manage to get up everyday and take care of that baby girl who looks so much like her mother! You’re just an inspiration Matt. Life goes on…those who leave us here on Earth are never forgotten…but live on forever in our hearts…you’ve proven that!!!
Matt:
I just watched you on Oprah and as usual I cried. You and Madeline have come a long way. You have done awesome things for and with Madeline. I enjoy reading your blog telling all of us about your daily life. Keep on being the great father you are.
Your story is so touching to listen to. I seen the little preview for Oprah today and normally I don’t watch her show, but decided today that I would, and I am so glad I did. I know tragic things happen everyday, but to know that a world of people are there and helping anyway they can is so rewarding. Your little girl is so beautiful, and so blessed to have you there for her. You seem to have things pretty together for a single dad, with no idea what to do. LoL It comes more easy for mothers then fathers “my husband still has trouble remembering to brush our daughters hair, and she is 3″ But that is what I am here for. Where you play both rolls and get it right one way or the other. I will read the blogs as they come in, I want to know how you and your little girl are doing from time to time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones, and I really hope the best for you and your little girl. You both have your own special angel looking over you now and always.. Best wishes for the many exciting years to come, and believe me they will get more exciting then they are now.. LoL Best Wishes, and all My Prayers
Matt, you did awesome on the big Oprah today! Wow, you are a natural my friend! I didn’t expect any less of you! Keep up the great work. Long time blog reader and loving watching Maddy grow up!
i think we are the only loser household in the world that does not have dvr. anyone planning on posting today’s show online somewhere? please? thanks!
Matt-
I saw you on Oprah today. I think you are amazing. I don’t have children of my own yet, but I have learned from others that being a parent is challenging but very rewarding. I’ve been around children my entire life and absolutely love them. I currently work at a daycare and I’m going to college to be an elementary teacher.
Sorry, enough about me.
Watching you today brought tears to my eyes. You and Maddy are very special people. You are doing such a great job as a dad, Liz would be very proud! I’m from Iowa, not far from MN, so knowing that you’re family is from there made me have a special place for you in my heart. I just want to tell you to keep up the great work. I wish for nothing but the best for you and little Maddy. She’s a sweetheart! 
Good luck with everything and take care!
A post coming from you, with plenty of eye candy pics of Maddie and Liz, how that could possibly be boring? I totally missed big O today (well, I never watch it and I forgot about it completely, ooops), but I watched the video you linked. It was so tough seeing you reading that post from March 28th! Gosh, I hope they didn’t force you to do that! Anyways, glad to see your story spreading around, and I hope you get all the kudos you deserve from your new base of fans.
I’ve been reading the blog for months now…read the People article and watched you on Rachel Ray and Oprah. I cry each and everytime. You are doing such an amazing job and Maddy is the luckiest little girl to have a Dad who is so loving, thoughtful, and is willing to learn the in’s and out’s of single parenthood.
Maddy will be able to look back on the blog and all of this press when she’s older. What wonderful keepsakes all of that will be.
Grief is so difficult…I lost my Dad three years ago when I was 25 years old. I think about him a million times a day. One day at a time is what I remind myself.
Keep up the great work Matt. And thanks for sharing it with all of us!
-Katie
What a difference a year makes…did you ever have any clue you would affect so many peoples lives on such a personal level? The people you have helped and inspired….
Thank you Matt, you are a daily inpiration to me.
Just saw it. Painfully awesome to watch. I’m a long time follower with new found admiration. I’m so sorry you had to had to go through so much pain just to inspire me and thousands of other people. You
fucking rockare a wonderful father.you’re fantastic. I always love reading about your adventures and seeing all of the amazing things that have come out of your tragedy.
Matt, I have been reading your blog for quite sometime but I felt you probaly had enough comments to read without mine. You are one in a million and Maddie is a very lucky little girl to have a dad like you. I too started my blog to just keep memories alive for my children and gran children. One day Maddie will treasure you blog and you for keeping these memories for her. Maddie is a beautiful girl.
Long time reader … I think it’s been just over a year now. I set up the DVR to record when you said last week you were going to be on. It didn’t record. I’m so damn mad. I’m hoping I can YouTube it or something.
Anyway, love the recap and photos, as usual. I’ve also been to Agra and Santorini is one of my favorite places on earth (a close second to Brugge, Belgium).
I am sitting here watching Oprah in tears. This is the first I’ve heard of your story, but I am touched. When I was full term pregnant with my son, his father passed away. You said something that I have said many many times and this is the first time I have not felt alone for it. If it were not for my son, I don’t think I would be here either. I am so glad you have love and support surrounding you, it makes all the difference in how well you survive.
The way you miss Liz, I understand so much. Mike and I were high school sweethearts. It’s been almost 12 years since he passed and I still tear up just thinking about it. I am finally to the point that I can look at my son, see the resemblence to his father, and not be saddened to tears by the memory.
You are doing a beautiful thing by sharing your experience and helping others. Thank you.
Watched the show today. You did well! I laughed, I cried. I love that they put the video Gina’s? husband made on it. It’s so beautiful. Makes me smile every time I see it.
I hope the foundation gets more help from this. You’re doing a wonderful thing. Madeline is adorable as always. I see so much Liz in her.
What a beautifully written recap on your life. Madeline is so blessed.
Not a boring recap at all! I actually quite liked it, and enjoyed some of the photos that I’d never seen before. (Like the one of Liz with those fish!)
I can’t believe you were on Oprah today, that is so awesome!
Keep up the good work with Maddie!!
Matt,
Big hugs to you both on this exciting day!
What a great re-cap! These few words and pictures sure represent a lot, don’t they? You’re doing terrific, just keep on being you. Us West-Coasters are awaiting the Oprah show today! Loving the latest Maddy + Frosting = Messy Matt pictures.
~~Jamie
I’ve always loved your pics with Maddie, and you picked out some of my faves for this “recap post”.
I’m really glad to see good things happen to good people, in this case you and Maddie. It doesn’t get much better than Oprah, I would think.
I am a known and vocal hater of Oprah Winfrey, but it was with great joy that I taped and cried through her show today. You did great! If there is a tv lounge in heaven, Liz was laughing and shaking her head in amazement today.
I know self deprecation is your thing, but you’re not doing a “passable” job…you’re really going above and beyond what a “normal” father would do…you’re an awesome dad…I hope you know how lucky Madeline is (obviously you know how lucky you are to have her)…
I’ve been following you for about a year, and it wasn’t a boring recap! In fact, I got a little teary agagin.
GREAT Recap for the newbies!!! They’re all going to fall head over heals for you and Madeline, just like the rest of us have!! Many blessings, today, tomorrow and forever!!!
Matt,
You’re a wonderful person and a great Dad. I have never posted a comment before but read your blog religiously and think of you and Madeline often. You were wonderful on Oprah today as you were on Rachel Ray. I’m sure you know how many people truly care for you, Madeline and Liz. Eileen
Just finished watching and felt a little robbed at not getting to see Maddy till the very end. And having a closing shot of the bulldog when adorable Maddy was onstage? C’mon film editors! But you were fabulous and touched my heart as always. Well worth sneaking out of work early to watch. L
I’m from MN (well, by marriage now) and caught your story last year and followed along ever since. To say you are an inspiration is an understatement. I just finished watching the segment and just wanted to say what a wonderful job you did. You were true to YOU and to Maddy and Liz. Your personality still shined through the question asking and story telling. Hearing your voice and watching you share your life warmed my heart. It was truly awesome. I look forward to peeking in on the next phase of your life and what it will bring for you…peace.
I’ve followed your blog for a little while now and happened to catch the episode on Oprah today. It literally brought me to tears. You are an inspiration and reading your blog has truly made me appreciate my husband even more and treasure our son and our time together.
Loved you on Oprah!
Not a boring recap–awesome post. I like a little nostalgia every now and then. Loved you with Miss O. WOW! Can you even believe this? Love Maddy’s cake pictures.
Matt,
Today was the first time your story has reached me and it reminded me how precious our time here is. After reading your blog for the last hour (catching up) I am struck by how proud I’m sure Liz is as she’s watching over you and your little angel Maddy. Liz picked someone whose heart is capable of more love than most people can ever even come close to and I know things have been rough, but it looks like you are doing an amazing job! I look forward to following you both from here on out
I am a long time reader…ok well semi long time…since I came across the article about you guys in PEOPLE. Took me almost a week to catch up but I read every single word fr the beginning and come back every day to see if you’ve updated. Already watched you on Oprah
You’re amazing! Hugs to you and Maddy!
I’ve been following you for almost the last year. I cried when I first read your story and cried again watching it on Oprah just now. I know you said your house was full, but if you ever change your mind on a memory quilt for Maddie of her mother, I would be honored to complete one for her.
Just watched you on Oprah. You were wonderful. I actually enjoyed the show today. Great to see Dad’s given credit for being great fathers.
On WCCO 4 they did a short snippet on you and some ‘stay at home’ fathers.
Keep doing what you’re doing!
Are you coming to the MN soon? We would love to meet you and the incredible Miss Maddy.
Loved you and Maddy on the show Matt! We are (and always will be) proud of you. You are doing a wonderful job raising Maddy! Liz would be so proud of you too! Congrats on the O gig, and on getting the word out for the foundation! From a long time reader (non-poster, until now)…
Matt..I know I’ve already posted once on this blog today..haha…but I just HAD to tell you how great you were on Oprah!! I cried of course…you never cease to amaze me…and if possible…Maddy is getting cuter every day. You did awesome on Oprah…I bet that moment was so surreal to you!! You handled it like a pro! You’ve become a natural at handling all of this attention!! By the way, I LOVE the birthday pics of you and Maddy. I don’t think you’ve ever looked so happy and healthy. As always, thank you for sharing your story..and as another poster said above…if you are writing a book, I’ll be one of the first to buy it!!! You should bring Maddy down to Kentucky sometime!! I know it’s no Brazil, but we have our charms too
I have followed your blog since last spring. I am a Mom Blogger and your story has touched me from the first time I read your blog!
I could not imagine having to do waht you had to.
Hi Matt and Maddie,
I’ve been reading your blog since I saw you on the Rachel Ray Show. You have an adorable little girl, and a very touching story. You seem to be doing a great job with Maddie, and I enjoy reading every update with what has been going on in your life along with the pictures. It was nice to see you on Oprah today.
Looking forward to reading more.
What an amazingly inspiring story! Through the love and loss comes the rainbow!!!! She is so blessed to have you as a father and Liz as her mother!! I never knew you were here and so grateful i found you! You are an inspiration to us all!!! God bless you and your beautiful family, here and waiting in heaven!
saw you in Oprah..then immediately saved this blog in my laptop..
can’t help it,,tears fell as soon as i saw that one picture – liz with Madeline in the hospital..
surely Liz is happy on watching you two enjoying the world..
Matt,
I did find you by watching Oprah and started reading your blog. I am in awe of you and the struggles you have gone through. Maddie is lucky to have you as her father and Liz has got to be proud as hell of you! Keep up the good work…..
Longtime reader, been here from the beginning. You did great today on Oprah. Just like Rachael Ray. Very well spoken, you tell your story in a way that touches me everytime even though I know it well.
I hope next time I am in Cali, I will be lucky enough to meet your little lady (and you too!).
I have never commented before, but have been reading for a long time. You are doing a great job with Maddy. She’s a very lucky little lady to have you. Keep up the great work!
I just heard about your blog today. I was sort of moaning about how I was sick and tired my husband’s behavior and said something like, “Are there any decent men?” (I didn’t mean it. I say things I don’t mean when I’m upset. My husband is really a wonderful man. He just forgets where the laundry basket is sometimes and I get tired of stepping around his boxers and socks..)
Anyhow, my friend was all, “Well, there’s this guy who writes a blog who is raising his daughter. His wife died.” She gave me the link and here I am.
I am so sorry about your wife. Reading this made me appreciate my husband even more so I think he’d thank you too. He’s probably all, “Neat! Does this mean I’m not going to get nagged anymore?” (Probably not.)
Your daughter is beautiful and I look forward to reading your future blog entries.
Please post a link to the entire show. We had thunderstorms and tornado warnings and the meteorologists were on for 2 hrs. The same thing happened when you were on Rachel Ray, but I eventually found the link posted by a blogger.
Thanks, and you’re doing GREAT!!
I just got home and watched the Oprah show today (via DVR) – it was amazing!! I literally never miss one of your blog updates and I think Maddy is absolutely adorable. Keep the blog going because I know that my friends and I absolutely love getting the updates.
Hey Matt and Maddy! Can’t wait to get home to watch my taped version of your show (I still don’t have a dvr…I know, I know, get into this century – I will one of these days!). Matt, you never cease to amaze! I have been here since almost the beginning of your horrible/wonderful journey (don’t comment a whole lot but please know you’re both always in my thoughts) and I LOVED the recap!
Wishing you both the best as always!
so i watched it and was a little bummed how short your segment was. i mean kudos to the dad of 9, but the other couple and single mom? they got so much time. maybe i’m biased, but it was still great. how awesome to showcase your story and pics. you did awesome! so glad madeline came out at the end. i love her clothes. do you pick her clothes or do you have help? where do you like to shop? has she started whole milk yet? ha- just curious since i saw her with her born free bottle (we use those, too) sorry, have so many questions, but i was wondering if talking about liz is therapeutic and was she on baby aspirin during pg? reason i ask, i worried myself sick over PE post-c/s, as well. i always want to educate myself on health topics. just curious. i see another katie commented, also, whose dad also died 3 years ago- ironic. so i’ll be katie i from tn now on. anyway- great job! loved it! of coursed i balled. i’m going to make my husband watch it- even though he doesn’t know it yet. haha..ok gotta go feed dinner to the baby. Take care.
Matt and Madeline -
I just finished watching the Oprah Show and saw you on there and just had to join your blog. My family is going through a very similar situation – my brother lost his wife of 13 years to bacterial meningitis on 12/20/2008 from a sudden illness that she had been to the doctor just 3 days before and is now raising their 13 yr son and 9 yr daughter. He is definitely going through very rough times as you know and I am going to make sure that he watches the Oprah episode that was just aired and let him know that he is not the only one out there (as that is how he is feeling right now). Also I am going to have him come to your blog and hopefully reading the situations/issues that you go through – even though the children are of different ages – he will be able to see some light some where/some how. It is soooo amazing what you are doing and I cannot say I know how you feel because truly I do not but I see what my brother is going through and it strengthens me but at the same time weakens me just knowing how terribly sad he is and how much he misses his wife Jenny. Sorry for going on with the story but THANK YOU so much for having this blog and the best of luck to you and Madeline and I will definitely keep on checking in to how you are doing. Also for sure letting my brother know that you have had a few drinks because he feels quility even doing that – times will get better. Best of luck to you and our prayers are with you both.
hi matt – loved the recap. sometimes i go back in your flickr site and just look at pictures of liz to see once again how beautiful and vibrant she was. just watched the O show and loved it (although i would have loved a little maddy as well!).
haven’t commented in awhile but i am still here everyday, reading and watching (that’s not as creepy as it sounds, or is it?). now i am expecting one of my own and hope she/he turns out as wonderful as maddy.
It doesn’t matter how often I read your story or hear you speak, the loss you and Maddie have experienced hits me as strongly as the first time. I have watched you both grow this past year and have cheered you on through every milestone and heartache. My heart and those of thousands and thousands of people have been touched by your courage and honesty, you have made good things happen through tragedy and helped make the world a better place. Maybe you would have done it anyway but on a much smaller scale, keep on keeping on don’t ever change.
Great job on Oprah! I only wish they had spent more time with you and brought Maddy out for a few minutes. This blog is going to get even bigger! Awesome for you, awesome for your followers whom you inspire each day and awesome for the foundation!!
I saw the show and tears are still flowing. You did a great job. You are raising a fearless girl with such a love for life. It will serve her well as she grows and becomes an adult. Here is to Maddy and Matt!
Not only did I tape Oprah, I watched it twice, lol!
Unconventional, unforgetable, and a beautiful soul…you are! Liz, I’m sure, is extremely proud of you. You took like when it hit you below the belt, and turned it around to so many positive’s. It’s people like you, that I would call a hero.
Good job, my friend!
I just wanted to let you know I think you did an amazing job on Oprah. I know the story but yet could not stop the tears from running down my face as I watched the show and read your beautiful recap.
I also want to thank you for letting us into your lives. I truly enjoy checking in on you both daily and reading what journies the new days have brought upon and seeing new pictures of Maddy.
You truly are an amazing man Matt! Keep up that awesome job you are doing with that beautiful little girl Madeline!
Good job today. I agree much too short. And I was sorry Maddy didn’t get to air. Still following…
I don’t think I’ve ever mentioned how I often become all verklempt while reading your posts, but this post made me so fucking verklempt that I couldn’t type through the tears. My Monday makeup is ruined. Ruined, damn it!
Seriuosly, though, thank you for sharing your life and your words with us. And dude, give yourself a little bit of credit! The fact that you have become a kick-ass father is no surprise to anyone.
Now, the fact that you manage to dress her so well and so adorably….well, that’s a giant surprise to anyone who has taken note of your laid-back wardrobe.
xxxxx,
j.
I’ve been reading your blog for a few weeks, and I just wanted to say hello. You’re story is so encouraging to so many. Maddy is a happy, healthy, and beautiful girl, and you are the reason. Keep doing what you’re doing…loving life and sharing it with Maddy.
And Oprah was great!
All the best-
Ann in SC
I’ve been a regular reader for some time now!
And I love the recap for us regulars! 
I LOVE the photo of you and Madeline with the frosting (I’m assuming…LOL)!
If you are ever in Oregon, let me know! I’d love to just meet you and see Madeline!
take care! 
I can’t wait to watch Oprah!!!
You did such a wonderful job on Oprah! I got the chills every time she talked about your story, and then the tears flowed when you were finally on. I have loved reading your blog ever since I found it… still not sure how that even happened! You are a wonderful father, and I look forward to the day when Maddie can truly let you know how much she appreciates your love and devotion to her!
Well, we missed out on Oprah here. But we caught ‘Monsters vs Aliens’ in 3D instead.
Hope to catch The M&M Show on youtube very soon. In the meantime, thanks for the memories of Santorini — best sunsets I know.
Best wishes from the crater rim…
The recap was great, very helpful for when I send my coworkers your link! And awesome job on the show – I was hoping you’d get the w h o l e show, but then again I may be a little biased! You are a wonderful father and Maddy is a doll!
Wait, the first guy gets 9 kids on stage and we can’t get one adorable Madeline???? Did Oprah NOT want to be totally upstaged? Whackjobs at Harpo…
Matt, is Maddy trying to walk yet? And is she saying anything besides Dada?
*smiles* I just saw you on Oprah. I thought I’d missed it, but lucky for me, your segment was up next. and I got to see you. and tear up all over again. i did that when you were on rachael ray’s show, too.
i’d love to meet you and maddy and let our kiddos play together. 
you guys really need to come to oregon!
I’ve followed a variety of blogs for years, now… never owning my own. I stumbled upon (and have followed) your blog for just a little under a year…inspired by what you’ve done with and for your wife and daughter. I’ve never, ever posted on another person’s blog before, but I couldn’t let another minute go by and not letting you know that I think you’re doing an amazing job. While my husband I do not not have kids yet, I can only hope we can accomplish half of what you have done for your daughter thus far. My heart grows a little bit more each time I come back here.
Matt- I have been following you since day 1 and have followed faithfully every day since. You always amaze me with the way you handle things and make the best out of everything. I have a feeling that you and Madeline will have an amazing relationship always. This is by far the best entry so far. Brought crocodile tears to my eyes! I promise you I will get that popover recipe to you! I haven’t forgotten…
I just watched Oprah – you were amazing and the tapes were fantastic. Congrats! Wow. I am in such awe.
YAY!!!! I have been following your journey for a while now and it was so nice to hear your voice.
Looking forward to continuing the journey with you.
Awesome… I just watched. You are certainly comfortable in front of an audience. I wish Maddy were out there entertaining the crowd again.
My parents watched too. You had them in tears. They went through it too.
Just saw Oprah….you are the greatest father in the world. Period. I cried listening to your story…again.
Thanks for sharing your lives with us. It make me want to me a better mother/wife/sister/daughter/friend.
You rule.
Great job on Oprah today! Feel honored..I only watched Oprah today to see you!! Love the recap! Great job!!
Great recap, it’s always heartwarming to see how much you love Liz and Maddie. Congrats on the “O”, you’re big time now!! And I love the birthday frosting pics, so adorable.
What an inspiration. Your story hits very close to home. I just lost the love of my life, my 26 year old wife, about a month after she gave birth to our little angel.
I did realize you two were together so long (as those high school dance pics?) Love it! You should be proud (and thankful) for the full lives you did have together. That’s how I’m trying to think of ours anyway. Of course I only caught the last part of O, is there somewhere we can catch your segment?
Had to come home from work and watch the O show!!
Despite the duration of my following your blog and knowing your story, everytime I think about the reality of it and see it unfold before my eyes on national TV, my heart just aches for you guys! 
But I have to put my happy face on and remember what an amazing father you are and how lucky you and Madeline are to have one another. your’e a great team and it shows!!! 
bummer I did not win the 1 year weigh in!! I think you should burn me a CD regardless cuz I am a poor loser ((LOL)) and in desperate need of new tunes! It is hard living in a small mountain town, they do not play new music ever so we are truely in the dark when it comes to music!! SUCKS!
Gotta LOVE the green frosting picture that is hilarious, made me laugh so hard!! too cute!!!
I like so many others just saw your story on Oprah. You may never get the time to read this, but I hope you do.
I’m a parenting educator and I’d love to be a resource for you when and if you ever need it, for FREE. My name is Sharon Silver from ProActive Parenting, http://www.proactiveparenting.net. When I heard you say that “Liz had all the information and you were afraid that she took it with her” I was so moved. I promise you that’s not true and I would be honored to be a resource in your life if you ever want or need it.
I hope you realize, now that it’s been a year, that Liz is with you and you have all that you need to parent Maddy inside your heart.
Contact me at sharon@proactiveparenting.net when and if you ever have a need or a question. I can never replace Liz’s wisdom, but can help support your inner wisdom.
Much love and support and it sure looks to me that you know exactly what you are doing!
It’s a perfect recap. My 3 1/2 year old and I watched the show together, but he’s disappointed because it wasn’t an hour of Maddy.
I hope the segment has donations flowing into the Liz Logelin Foundation!
Matt –
I decided to check out what your page after I watched Oprah today, I must admit, you are an amazing guy. You are very inspiring to me, as a mother to my (almost) 1 year old. Maddy is very beautiful and a true blessing! I adore all of your pictures and as I sit and take in the words you write, I am left speechless, as my heart opens up and I feel like a new person. I dont even know you, but you make me want to do the best I can with what I have in this life. Thank you.
Matt,
Your recap was far from boring. It reminded me yet again why I am so drawn to your blog. You may have received parenting advice, support, and friendship along the way from your readers, but you have given us so much more. From you I have learned to stop and enjoy life….spend more time with my kids and appreciate each day I have with them. You have come so far this year. You and Madeline are a great team. Oh, and I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a book!
Hi Matt and Maddie,
and I’m amazed on how strong you are, how much you love your daughter and how well you’re getting on. It’s not easy to move on w/ life after having such a loss and I understand how on some days, it seems to be tougher than yesterday. I just wish my ex-husband has 1% of the kind of father that you are. Celebrate you and Maddie and give her good memories.
Yep, just saw you guys on Oprah. I just started reading your offensive site (just kidding)
It’s not easy being a single parent. I’ve been wearing the badge for about 21 years now. But this I will tell you, it’s the most rewarding and best job I could ever have. My son is now a well-adjusted young man.
You’re an amazing man and an amazing Father. And lastly, don’t forget to give yourself some time off once in a while.
You have really got to get some new material.
Matt, yes I will admit to catching your story via Oprah. And I’ll admit that I don’t ever watch that show but it was the channel the tv was on when I flipped to it. Your completely dysfunctional and honest story is such an inspiration! You’ve got me hooked. I also thought it was very awesome how you still are so completely in love with Liz and was wearing a wedding ring on the show. I’m pretty sure if my husband passed and I was in your shoes I will do the same thing – for decades at least. You are facing one of my greatest fears and showing the reality of life with it. Please keep it up! I’ll look at your donation sites and foundations as well. Thanks for the cheer on a dreary day!
Just another ‘regular reader’ who saw the show (thanks for the heads up here on the blog!!), LOVED your interview and loved seeing this pictures again (some for the first time). Your story is amazing and unforgettable, and your daughter is a photogenic beauty
She’s a lucky girl!
Wow. I’ve never visited before, and just clicked on a link from Twitter about the Spohr family. Landed here on your Spohr post and started to look around.
Oh. my. goodness. I’m so sorry about Liz. And I’m so impressed with what you’re doing with your baby Maddy. I’m subscribing, and I’ll be back to visit often. I’m thankful to have “met” you here.
And now I’m going digging in my Tivo to see you on Oprah.
Ran into the room without Spongebob on to see you on the “0″, much better than the live taping I attended in Chitown with JohnBoy Walton. I’m not joking. :0) I love your prom picture – I can see what I missed by not going! All the best.
I have been a reader since the early days! So excited to see you on Oprah today! I feel like one of my friends is a now a celeberity. Yes, I know you don’t know me(not a strange stalker) but thank you for allowing us into your life. I kiss my husband extra every day because as much as he drives me nuts I could not imagine him not being here!
I’ve been reading your blog for a while, but this is my first post. I did watch Oprah today, as any other day, but today I was mesmerized by the TV. You’ve done a great job with Madeline all along. Without all of us “strangers” you would have been just fine. The most important thing for children (besides food and a place to live) is love. And you obviously have that for Madeline.
Much love to you both and I can’t wait to see where you go next, both in travel and life
Oh
Em
Gee.
Matt, I’ve been following your blog for a few months now. Since just before the article in People came out. Your blog has made me cry. The article made me cry. Your spot on Rachel Ray (even tho I don’t like her) made me cry. Today, after watching the DVR’d Oprah, I sobbed.
You are an amazing dad. I can’t wait to read your book
When is your Ellen appearance? And the Today Show? What’s next?
HUGS to you and Maddy. She’s a beautiful baby. But you already knew that.
I watched you talk on Oprah and I can still see how much you still love Liz. This love will help you raise Maddie for both of you.
I’ve raised my son by myself since he was 20 months old and know it’s not easy to do. You have found a way of doing it that works for you and Maddie.
Keep up the good work!
I totally feel like I’m over-commenting today. I just had to say that I’m constantly amazed at how you carry yourself. You did a fantastic job on Oprah today. Forget unconventional….you’re unforgettable!!! Well done Matt!! I hope you allow us all to watch Maddy grow older and witness her many milestones to come.
Regular reader that just finished watching Oprah…I cried the whole time you were on! I can’t take how awesome you are and how freaking adorable Maddy is!!!
I loved the show today…..You were great! I was expecting maddy to come out but no such luck! Liz would be proud of you always know that!
-tabby cherry
Thanks for the recap!! Congrats for being on Oprah!!
Matt, one more thing. You need to get Maddy a dog. I saw that girl’s eyes glued to that dog at the end of the show!
Can I have dog dad? Can I? Can I? Can I? Can I?
I am also a faithful reader of your blog and always love reading everything you write! Oprah was great today! You are such a great father to Maddy – you should be so proud of yourself!!!
I first want to commend you for all your strength and and perseverance through your journey. Sadly it is an all to familiar situation. I wish a foundation like yours was reachable when my brother went through the same situation, his wife however was 24 and died 4 days after my nephews 1st birthday from a brain anurysm. He has been fighting a tough battle, and my nephew is now 5, each day added to that I pray that he finds happiness and is able to pick up his life and accomplish all the dreams he had.
Your writings bring me to tears, and you are such an inspiraiton.
Thank you for sharing,
Jenn
Does anyone have the full version of the interview today?? I had it set on my DVR and when I got home it was nothing but the damn local meteorologist talking about storms not even in my area!!
All I can say is WOW. You are definately an inspiration to us all. I believe that you’re having to endure this time in life only for the better in the future. You are truly an awesome father and example of how to be happy in every situation! Thank you for being who you are.
Fabulous summary of the last year, Matt, and the last 12+ years with Liz. I watched Oprah today–even made sure to watch it as it aired (alas, no more DVR) and kept telling Anna to hush–but for some reason I expected more. Guess Rachael did a more thorough job with you. ;o) I found it highly interesting the 3 out of the 5 father stories involved widow(er)hood, yet it was completely glossed over. Guess overcoming the obstacles of single parenthood as a man was more compelling (for today at least) than overcoming the obstacles of grief. But I’m certainly biased. ;o)
Nice job on the show! Hope life is staying somewhat sane(ish)–for what you’ve known for the last 3-6 months or so–for you and Maddy in the aftermath.
Hugs,
Candice
Hey Matt….knowing surely you would be the one to make me sob uncontrollably on Oprah today, I tuned in anyway. And instead you made me smile. YOU are an amazing father who is so in love with his daughter, and even though the reason you were on Oprah is so overwhelmingly sad, you made people smile, maybe even giggle while you told your story. You should be so proud of yourself…cause I know I am, and I don’t even know you.
I saw you on Oprah and read a lot of the blog and cried (not something I do often). My new husband came home and caught me reading it in a teary state – I think he was worried, but I just said “Oprah” and he got it. We got married a few months ago. He was a single dad (not a widower). Among other things, your blog makes me realize how competent my own husband was as a single dad raising his son, and that maybe I shouldn’t try to change so many of his non-conventional parenting-ways. I’m going to make him watch Oprah in the re-run tonight because I think he’ll like hearing the stories of other non-conventional dads. Thanks for sharing your story and teaching me something.
so impressed, loved the show, have been reading your stuff for a while, so saddened by your story, and i think you are a very nice looking daddy.
You were great on Oprah! and we never bore of your updates! you are doing a great job
Matt – Waking up to that little girl each and every morning must make being a great dad easier. I found your blog via a friend and think you’re honesty and openess not only helps you get through the days, but also makes us (readers) re-evaluate our own lives and strive to be better. Thank you for being an inspiration to each and every one of us!
I was having a shitty day and a shitty weekend until I saw this. Car insurance problems, job stuff, money stuff…you know, the “life” stuff that keeps all of us up at night.
I happened to be home from work today, and my wife happened to have Oprah on TV. Ordinarily I NEVER EVER EVER watch Oprah (sorry). Today, Matt, you were on. I stopped whatever the hell it was I was doing and watched. I then looked up your blog afterward and I read.
I am no longer having a shitty day.
You have faced things far worse than whatever I’m whining about today. You have done a better job than I ever could have. Your little girl is clearly in good hands.
It is a tragedy that Maddy has to grow up without her mother, but she couldn’t possibly have asked for a better Dad.
If all goes well, I’ll be a Dad soon, too. I hope that I have even an ounce of the courage and strength that you have.
I’ll be checking in here regularly. Keep writing. Keep inspiring. And thanks for giving me my perspective back. I needed it.
Dex
The recap is not boring at all, like some have said before just a little friendly reminder as to why I visit everyday!
Did an awesome job on the show Matt!
My family and I enjoyed watching it!
Matt,
Just finished watching your Oprah appearance. W.O.N.D.E.R.F.U.L.
Maddy’s Minnie Mouse outfit was adorable !
Saw you on the Oprah show today and just had to get online to read your page. Tears were flowing while watching the show..your an amazing dad and keep doing such a great job!
I have been reading for a long time now (the first day I came here, there was a cute picture of all of Maddy’s shoes!) and always want to post but never feel like my words are good enough. Maddy is beautiful and it looks like you are doing more than a wonderful job so far! Also, I got to watch you today during my gym workout and you guys made it so much more tolerable, so thank you for that!
Loved you on Oprah. I managed to get through the segment without crying, but man, that was rough. I hope the Foundation gets bombarded with donations because of your appearance on the show!
I’ve been reading your blog for several months and every time you retell your story it makes me cry. Your unconventionalness makes you a great parent to Madeline. Keep taking such great care of her and of you.
Hi Matt,
I’ve been wanting to get back to you.
You were kind enough to send well wishes
when my husband had pulmanary embolisms in Feb.
He is here with me, but our lives are forever changed.
I hope you don’t mind that
I have Liz’s picture taped inside my cupboard
– she reminds me everyday,
how lucky I am,
and I send a special wish out to the universe,
each morning, for her Maddy.
Thank You Matt,
for sharing your story.
Margaret
matt you were awesome on oprah. you are a great father and i love following your blog. liz would be so proud of the job you are doing with maddy.
I just wanted to say that the foundation you set up is amazing. Being widowed last year , I know how much that can help.
Your daughter is beautiful
Shit! Missed Oprah! I may be the only person on the planet that doesn’t have DVRing capabilities. I’m sure the video will be on youtube, etc. Gotta find that… Congrats on the appearance, though! I’m sure this will increase your readership, and get the foundation noticed, even further. Way to go, Matt and Madeline!
What am I chopped liver? lol.. I know an invitation to Boston isn’t as exciting as Brazil or say, the Redlands, but you and Maddy would be welcomed sincerely here in Bawstan!. Flights are really cheap right now, I checked because I thought of flying my little sister to come visit over spring break.. $200 round trip! Just saying…
Oh and totally DITTO to the person that said you got waaaaaayyyy better looking since high school =)
reg. reader – recaps are not boring they are fun and awesome! Saw you on Oprah today you did great!! Cant wait to hear where you and Maddy are off to next – always love any update. Glad to hear you guys made it through the first year!
Saw you on the show…loved it. Think that the pic in the graffiti elevator was terrific, closely followed by leaving her in the snow, another great pic. Do you shoot Nikon or Canon? Also, sticks never killed anyone…lol. Your doing a great job:)
Though we have not met in person, yet, I feel like I know you & was so excited to see my friends Matt & Maddie on Oprah today. I started crying when you got choked up during the taped segment of you at home in front of the computer. I just wanted to reach out & give you a big hug. You & Maddy did an awsome job. You were joined by some great dads on that stage. Oh, & I LOVED Betty the bull dog. I am a huge animal lover I just wanted to sqeeze her. Come to the MA…
I have read your blog for a while now, but never knew what to post, for fear of sounding cliche or saying the same things you’ve heard a million times. But, here it is…you are an amazing dad, and your honesty is what I love about this blog. When you’re happy, you show it with your incredible photos, and when you’re not so happy, you’re not afraid to be real and admit that life is far from puppies, rainbows, and kittens. Thanks for always being open and real…what a beauitful little girl you have, and happy late birthday to her.
Argh. My DVR fucked up!! For any of you in the Los Angeles with the same problem as me, it appears that Matt’s episode of Oprah will be rerunning Sat. 4/18 at 11:35 pm. At least that is what the DVR is telling me, but it needs to regain my trust before I believe anything it says.
Love your blog! Was moved to tears a few times by your story! So sorry for the family loss. Madeline is incredibly lucky to have you as a dad! This blog is a great reminder for young women why it’s important to pick a partner who not only makes a great husband, but will be a wonderfully dedicated father too!
Hugs Sherrie
I’ve been reading and commenting throughout Maddy’s first year and its a joy to see how far you’ve both come (loved the bday photos). I just watched Oprah and thought you were fantastic. You are definitely an amazing father and Maddy is a lucky little girl to have you!!!
Awesome job on Oprah, Matt. Your segment was a little short, but still very well done – if she plays her cards right, that lady might be a big star someday!
Seriously, though, I think one of the reasons I have become an avid follower of your blog over the past many months is that you remind me of my husband (we’ve been together since we were teenagers, he’s a total smartass, kind of a (self-proclaimed) slacker, loves similar music, and is a fantastic dad). I guess I just imagine and hope that, god forbid this would ever happen to him, he would be able to do the same amazing job that you’re doing. Liz would be so proud…after all, thousand of strangers are, right?
Matt you are an inspiration to all parents. Awesome piece on Oprah.
The song in the segment was Amy Seeley “Walk in the Park” which just complimented the piece perfectly.
I’m so bummed – my Tivo didn’t tape the episode (sometimes it trips up when the cable box changes the channel), and I missed it! Is there any way to view the episode online? I did a google search, but didn’t have any luck. I’ve seen the promo videos, but had really been looking forward to the whole episode.
Matt – I tivo’d the Oprah episode, because I just can’t get enough of you and Maddy. One thing that I noticed was how healthy you look – I remember last summer thinking how gaunt you looked and today you look great! It’s also possible that they brushed your hair and that made a difference… Keep up the good work with Maddy and the foundation! So many of us think of you daily!
Matt, I have been following your blog now for months. You did such a great job on Oprah. I cried because I felt like I knew you from reading your blog. Can you please tell us again about what your tattoos say ? One is 24 and the other is 25 but what is written underneath the dates again ? You are doing a great job raising Maddie.
Who could forget the onesies over the pants? I’m still planning on dressing my little one that way.
You and yours have touched me from the ending… or beginning… or how ’bout both.
Congrats on the big Oprah show!
Much love from a stranger that’s been keeping tabs for quite some time….
I watched “Oprah” … congratulations on being on the show, although I wish that it were for some other (happy) reason.
Your daughter is just so precious and beautiful. I love your blog. I think about you all the time and wish you well.
I saw you on Oprah today, and your story made me tear up! You are an amazing father and your daughter is so lucky to have you! She is beautiful just like her mommy! Take Care!
Melissa
two words for you -
you’re awesome!
@ al from slp
just to be clear…not once has a hairbrush touched my hair (except maybe when my parents attacked me with one before the age of five).
Matt- You kicked ass on Oprah, as if there was any doubt! Looks like you guys had a great b-day celebration…to echo everyone else, Maddy is very lucky to have you as a dad (we will all remind her of this when she’s 15!). Heading over to donate now…
I’m a long time reader, never commented. Even when you had been in a less than 3 hour drive from my town… in Mexico.
I was spending sometime off at the beach with no internet connection, but this afternoon when I came back to the city and turn on the Tv, I was amaze to see u in Oprah!!! The way you are raising Maddy and what you are doing for other widows out there is just amazing.
I know u don’t need it, but all my blessing and best wishes from the Mexican Caribbean
I have been a long time follower. The first time I read your blog I was intrigued with your story. I then realized that Maddy and I share the same birthday…I am a few years older – 34 to be exact. I leave your blog each time in awe and admiration for you and the life you have created for your daughter. Although I do not have any children yet, you make me better understand the love between child and parent. Thank you for continuing to be an inspiration for many of us.
saw you on oprah today, i hope it results in a large response and many donations to liz’s foundation. a co-worker of mine just passed and he left behind his three young children and his strong and beautiful wife, i hope liz’s foundation can help her out. i will most definitely support your cause! it was so awesome to see madeline, she’s friggin adorable!!! she’s gorgeous and i know you’re raising a wonderful person, she will grow to be a wonderful giving person!
Wow is all I can say about the year you and Maddy have been through. I have been following your journey since last April. I look forward to your updates and when you don’t update for a while, I always wonder how you guys are doing. I have never commented before because honestly, I have never known the right words to say. I don’t think there are right words to say in this situation. I wish you and Maddy the best of everything.
Saw you on the show today, I have followed your blog since seeing you on GMA. I know you’ve heard this over a 100 times, but your story is so inspiring!! Your daughter is a mere replica of her beautiful mother!
May you continue to find the strength to care and raise your baby girl. Your doing an amazing job! I admire you!
Angeline
You did a great job today on the show. It felt like watching an old friend on TV. I love at the end that Maddy didn’t have any shoes on. Just like my Addie, never in shoes! I have been reading your blog for a year now and can’t wait to log on daily to see what you have written! Keep it up!
You totally rocked Oprah’s socks off!
In one year, you have captured and told the story of a beautiful father-daughter relationship. The years ahead are going to be wonderful…if you can imagine loving her even more with every year.
just found out about your blog! you are incredible!
I am a 61 year old grandmother, and You are so awesome that I think I’m in love….in love with you as a great dad struggling each day to raise your little girl and to honor her mother. And you are doing a damn good job. (I normally do not say damn, but I wanted you to feel at home…) You may think I am commenting too much, but, you have pulled at my mama heartstrings…..
Wished you lived (though I am sure you don’t) in Mpls. then my family could counted amongst your “army of unpaid babysitters.” As it is, we are happy to support from afar and continue to send our prayers and thoughts out to Cali.
You were Great on Oprah today! Wish we saw Maddy out there too…Guess I was alittle spoiled by the RR show! Keep up the great work!!
Thank you for allowing us to take a glimpse into your soul. You and Maddy are forever in my prayers.
My damn dvr didn’t record Oprah today. I was so pissed until I did a search and found it on another channel at 10 pm tonight. So I get to see it after all. I don’t think the recap was boring at all. It was the first time I have seen the picture of you and Liz in front of the newly acquired home.
I have been following your blog for a while, but never posted. You were excellent on Oprah! You and Maddy rock : )
Dear Matt and Maddy! This is my first time here. Your story touched me in many ways because I see parallels from my own life. My husband James and I have 9 children. One of our daughters was born on March 25, 1998 by C-section. I have had 6 C-sections. I am also a former OB Nurse so I know all about the the risk of pulmonary embolism. My husband was USAF and during his career as we had the children I often thought of and prayed that the complications never happened. I knew it would be a HUGE responsibility for my husband but I always knew it was in God’s hands. Our children are 26, 20 on Saturday, 16,14, 12, 11, 9, 7, and 6. I can see the challenges that face you no and ones that will come as Maddy grows.Your precious Liz can never be replaced but her memories will last your lifetime and certain ways Maddy looks or thinks about things will remind you of her. I do pray God will send you the perfect partner for your life journey so you will not be lonely and Maddy will have a female presence in her life. Always know no woman can ever replace her mother but every mother wants the best for her husband and her child and I think her mother’s heart would smile knowing you made the best choice for yourself and Maddy. I remember hearing Liz Glick during 911 saying Jeremy told her he would be happy with her choices for Emerson and for her to go on with her life. I have read she has. I wish the same for you and Maddy. Oh yes I love the picture of Liz with the fish in Homer. I live in Anchorage, Alaska. Alaska is a beautiful paradise here on earth if you ever find yourself here to show Maddy where her mother enjoyed the fishing look us up. We have 7 daughters and 2 sons. My girls would just love showing here Alaska! May God Bless you both!
Great job on Oprah today! My 3 year old, said “hey, that is my friend Madeline”!
Love the new photos!
Awesome as usual.
Take care,
Debbie
I came along on the AOL train, but I guess that makes me an “old” reader now, since I’ve read everything you referenced. The recap was far from boring though… it was incredible and heartwarming, as always. You were great on Oprah, but a midafternoon cry is never fun. ;0) Pretty sure you’re the best unconventional parent I know! =)
You did great Matt.
Madeline as gorgeous as ever.
i watched Oprah today… what an amazing opportunity to share about Liz’s Foundation… I hope you are able to help many more because of this show! You are doing an awesome job…
Dear Matt,
I just got done watching the show that I had dvr’d earlier today, which led me to this blog. Your story is unbelievably tragic, yet simply amazing. To see what a fantastic father you are, and though you aren’t moving on from your dear wife, but that you have a whole new reason to live the best life for your daughter. I also gave birth in March ’08, and I too was well prepared like Liz. You know she has to be laughing outloud at the effort you’re putting into the cute girly outfits! I love it! Please know that I, along with so many people who saw the show today, are deeply sorry for your loss. Your wife is truly a shining star in both of your lives. You are an example for many many men out there!
I know you’ve got a million comments on here, but I had to say that I finally remember to watch a show
All because I just had to see you and Maddy. I am so bad at remembering anything, but I did it!
I only know you through a blog, a good old pop culture mag article, and now a little talk show… but I am so happy to know there are people like you in the world. You are impressing so many with the positive energy you show…and you leave your little shortie in dark alleys at night…it doesn’t get much better:)
I have read your blog since June of last year…I never get tired of reading your posts. I cry tears of joy and sorrow…you should write a book, you know? I made sure to dvr you on Rachel Ray and today on Oprah, and you seem to transcend what any other father would be able to do in your situation. That Maddy is just gorgeous. What a tribute to Liz.
Thanks for the boring recap! I’ve been following since May, you’ve really helped me get over a lot of my own stuff.
It still makes me cry….for you and for all the single/widowed parents out there doing the same thing. Being a parent isn’t always easy…but it is the most rewarding “job” to be given.
Watched Oprah today like the rest of the nation
Is it wrong to feel like I know you? Even though I’ve read about your story many times and watched you on Rachel Ray I still tear up. I can’t imagine being in your shoes. Just know you are an inspiration for SO many people. I just hope you know how much you are helping others in need!
I’m on Facebook and happened to mention your appearance on Oprah today. I had numerous friends say, “Oh, I love Matt and Maddy. I read their blog too!” I’m really starting to realize how big of a fan base you two have! Keep it up, Matt and Maddy!
Matt – had to drop in to see how flooded you were with comments and if your server held up okay.
This post was beautiful and a great recap. Thanks for doing it.
You were awesome on Oprah today – It was strange to see you sitting there without Maddy on your lap… And you thought you were recognized a lot before now… just wait man. You were on Oprah – you’ll need to start sporting big-ass sunglasses and tint your windows.
Have a great week and know that you and Maddy continue to touch the lives of many, many people.
I, like so many others, found my way here via Oprah. I rarely leave comments on blogs, but just felt compelled to come here and share my thoughts with you. We have daughters who were born two days apart. I became a mother for the first time on March 26, 2008. When I was watching your segment, I just kept thinking that what was the happiest day of my life (I went into labor on March 25th….for 24 1/2 hours), was the saddest of yours. That is just so profound to me and I can’t stop thinking about it — on the days when something wonderful is happening to someone, something equally horrible can be happening somewhere else in the world. Full circle, you know?
Anyway, I look forward to reading more about your days with a 12-month-old and seeing if or how they mirror mine (I am temporarily a single parent, too, while my husband is serving in Iraq).
All the best to you and Madeline!
PS. I think those BabyCenter updates are bullshit, too.
Hey Matt and Madeline – since I know you read all your comments and I know I would get long winded if I wasn’t too lazy to go searching through my inbox for your email address I’ll just post a quickie here. I was out of town but delighted to see that there was a recorded episode about unforgettable fathers in my DVR when I got home tonight! It’s pretty cool to “see” you since I’ve been reading for some time now. I watch your videos here, but TV really brings you to life!
Also, just had to comment that you are looking SO GOOD! I watched you get gaunt in the few months following Liz’s passing, and now you are looking more like your old self – dare I say you almost look happy, or somewhere on the road to there. I was especially glad to see that – it’s noticeable. I believe that this will be the longest I will ever be following a blog – as long as your updating.
I am sorry to read about your friends’ Madeline. I will keep them in my thoughts as well.
I missed the show!!!
( I’m kicking myself in the ass…I suck…I sooo wanted to see it. Darn the luck.
You ARE amazing though.
Just finished watching the Oprah that you and Maddie were on! How amazing and how wonderful for you BOTH to have made it one year! Congratulations! And..it was like I knew you watching you on t.v. after following this blog for six months!
You are doing super, Matt, and you are by far the best father I have seen!
I heard thru the web (read??) that your site crashed today. Odd, isn’t it? Your recap was fine, really. You did Liz and Miss Maddy proud.
Congrats on the show (my DVR caught it for me! – you did great!)
I missed Oprah. Maybe Youtube will have it. Happy Birthday Maddy. If I haven’t said it yet. I’ve been crazy busy.
You are a fantastic father. Maddy is very lucky. It is so cool you’ve used your grief to help others. My mother lost her husband 9 years ago. She spent 3 years caring for her. She couldn’t work because he required round the clock care. The hospital bills practically bankrupt her. She couldn’t even afford to bury him. Hopefully, your foundation will help so others won’t have to experience that.
Here’s to another year.
Hope you had a great day! I LOVED how realistic and down to earth you were on Oprah. With all of the publicity youve been given lately, I sortof expected you to be more glamorous. Im glad you are still the same old you. Congrats again. You rocked Oprah. Heres to another great day tomorrow. Hugs!
Do you read all of these posts? WOW! I am a married thirty-seven year old mother of a beautiful 4 year old daughter, Reagan, and a wonderful almost 2 year old son, Stone. I used to think that I had the most wonderful father and was the luckiest girl in the world UNTIL I read your article in People and saw your story on Oprah…I used to think that my children had the most wonderful father and my children were the luckiest kids in the world UNTIL I read your article in People and saw your story on Oprah. Don’t misunderstand me…I still think my father and my husband are wonderful fathers, but they have not had to face the heartbreak and sacrifices you have had to make. Your story brings me to tears each and every time! YOU ARE AN AWESOME FATHER!! I just could not pass up the opportunity to tell you that. I now know that you, my friend, are the most wonderful DADDY ever…I now know that the luckiest kid in the world is not me or my children for the DADDIES that we have…IT IS MADDY! Stay strong…keep the faith…and know that others like myself are out hear praying for you and Maddy and being your cheerleaders!!
Not boring at all – actually I loved that I recognized every Maddy picture you posted (except the new one from her birthday party?)…
Off to watch today’s show!
I just saw you on the Oprah show…and it felt as if God answered our families` prayers. This past weekend, my cousins´ daughter-in-law was declared brain dead, leaving a newborn baby boy in the hospital because he is so tiny, and a very sad husband. They were in California on vacation and all of a sudden a few weeks ago, she felt sick…turned out to be eclampsia, there was an emergancy delivery, and she was apparently ok, when out of the blue, last Friday she suffered a brain embolia. They have yet to disconnect her, waiting for paperwork for organ donation, and bring her home to Mexico. I will be writing the foundation, in hopes of hearing from you once I have all of the info. Anyway…Thank you for sharing your story…and it`s a fact that I`ll be keeping up on your story.
Matt,
I wonder how Oprah felt to be in the presence of greatness? She must have been ticked that you upstaged her
You did awesome! So glad you used some of the video from her one year photo shoot….Love that!!
You have an amazing following now!!!!!!!! I remember back when Liz was on the JM board talking to us about being pregnant. I am so glad you have done so much in her name. I am sure she would be proud. We had so many complications during our pregnancy that my hubby had to walk out of the room today during your interview with Oprah. He came back in with red eyes, and said he just didn’t know if he could be as strong as you have been. That every time he looked at Jude he would be afraid he would be angry if I wasn’t there. I reminded him that every time someone tells us “I couldn’t be as strong as you… if my child had a stroke”, that we tell them, “sure you could be, if you had to”. He just smiled, and said I made a good point. I think you are an amazing father, and a person full of incredible strength. Hang in there Matt!!! Maddy will be so proud of you!!!
Jennifer
http://cjengo.blogspot.com/
Matt.
I saw your story on Oprah today and it made me cry. Five years ago I had a pulmonary embolism. Obviously, someone was watching over me and decided it wasn’t my time to go. I have a 2 yr old daughter and I must say there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about dying. When I was pregnant I had to give myself daily injections of a blood thinner because of the previous history of my blood clots. My hematologist read my reports from the pulmonary embolism and he kept saying over and over that I am one lucky lady. He said everything he was reading was things that doctors never was to read. Blood clots are such a scary thing and I hope I never get them again but there is no guarantee. I am always scared that if I get them again and die it will leave my husband as a single parent and I can’t help but think that I would feel so bad leaving him to raise our daughter alone.
I was glad to hear your story today and will now be a regular on this website checking things out.
Take care,
Amber
It was so awesome to see you guys on the Oprah show! And although I don’t know you…I still felt like I was watching my friend
. Thanks for sharing your world with us. I wish you the best, and you are both in my prayers everyday!
What a beautiful little girl you have! She is lucky to have a father like you. Continue on doing what you are doing! You are doing a great job!
you’re not just surviving, considering the circumstances i’d say you’re thriving. i’m a faithful reader of yours and i guess it’s slightly creepy considering i’m a stranger, but i can’t help but feel proud of you seeing where you are today. you’re an amazing father.
Matt I enjoyed watching you on Oprah along with the other wonderful dads they had on today…You all are doing a GREAT job! It is hard to believe that a year has already gone by……I look forward to reading on your goings ons and the wonderful pics of your beautiful Maddy…Liz is smiling down on the both of you and I know she is very proud of you!
We all love you so much.
The segment was great. I cried again, as I always do.
Hi Matt…I’ve been lurking for a while! I wanted to let you know that I watched Oprah today just to see your appearance…you were fabulous! I am sure you have doubled your fan base now…
You are doing a great job and it has been nice to follow your journey…Maddy is a lucky little girl to have you for her daddy!
Been following your blog for the past year. I have read every post of yours. I think I like this one the best. Reading your blog helps me to slow down and enjoy my children instead of just trying to get through the day. Even my 6 year old now recognizes Maddy. He says, “Is that the little girl whose Mom is an angel?” I told him yes. He says Maddy is kind of lucky because her Mom will always be with her especially in places where most Moms don’t go, like to school. I told him she is also lucky to have a Dad like you.
I usually never find the time to watch Oprah. I have 4 year old twin girls, so my t.v. is usually blaring the sounds of shows on Noggin or Nickelodeon. However, for some reason today, my girls fell asleep…at the same time. Rare. So what do I do? I decided to watch Oprah. The funny thing is, I was busy catching up on emails and didn’t even pay attention to the beginning of the show until your segment was on. OMG…I have to tell you, I bawled like a baby. I can’t even begin to imagine the roller coaster of emotions that your soul was on during those 2 days in March of 2008. The best day and the worst day of your life, back to back. You are one hell of a strong man, I must say! I too was on bedrest while pregnant with my twins…for 5 months. Four of those months in the hospital. I too did not get to see my babies for the first 24 hours of their life. I remember getting out of bed that first time to go and see them in the NICU. Wow…how quickly life could have changed, just as it did for you. I find myself wondering how my husband would have handled being put in your situation. It is truly amazing how you have taken on this tremendous responsibility on your own. You have to know that your beautiful wife is so proud! How awesome to have that gorgeous little girl in your life…who looks just like her momma. Keep up the good work. I am blessed to have come across your appearance on Oprah today and look forward to keeping up with your blog. God bless you and your precious baby girl!
Was thrilled to watch today’s show. Read every post of yours, of course. Driving along the other day, my daughter (6) announced “the cutest baby is Madeline” – for the life of me, I could not fathom that we *knew* a baby with that name. Well, with her 6 year old wisdom, told her mama, “Moooom, you know, Madeline, the cutest baby in the world, who lives with her Daddy!?”
So, there you have it – the cutest baby in the world
i just had to comment. i’m a long time reader… a year ago this time actually, but first time typer. i just felt the need to express how amazing you’ve been through such an awful situation. you have absolutely brought so much joy to thousands by allowing us a peek into madeline’s sweet little existence.
seeing you on oprah made me laugh and cry all over again remembering where you’ve been and where you are now.
I know you’re a busy busy dad, but we’d love to have you down south sometime for a playgroup day
I know I speak for all of us when I say we’d be honored to get to play with miss Maddy 
I’m waiting to watch the rerun of Oprah which airs at 11:00p.m. tonight. I think this blog was one of your best. The pictures you posted shows that your wife Liz lived such a full life in such a short time. I think what sets you apart from many men/fathers who have suffered a loss like this is your love of life and your strength. Maddy lost her mother on March 25th and could of lost her father that day too.. But you remained Matt, You are such a strong person and you continue to live your life even though your heart is broken. I feel Maddy is so lucky to have you for a father. I don’t know if what I am trying to say is coming out right but after Liz died you could of raised your daugther and lived in constant sorrow but you are showing your daugther the world and enough love for both mom and Dad. I am sure your wife (and your family) is proud of you. And to follow up on something you said in your blog, at times you take some crazy ass pictures like changing your daughters diaper on a bridge in New York!!!! Never change Matt, always remain the Matt Liz loved.
I hope the Liz foundation gets alot of donations after being showed on Oprah. What ever Oprah touches usually turns to gold.
Thanks for showing us your life and your beautiful daughter.
Had to watch Oprah today…of course you kicked ass. I imagine it was a total surreal experience. Unless…you’ve actually been a closet Oprah fan all these years. I hear she likes flannel and doesn’t brush her hair either. Not sure I vibed on the whole comparison of single motherhood to your situation (I was raised by a single mother). I just imagine that singlefatherhood + newborn baby + intense grief offers a unique set of challenges. Oh well…what the hell do I know! Congratulations on a stellar showing and loved the recap!!!!
…not a boring recap, Matt. i’ve been here almost the whole journey and i still love your recaps. i love reading about liz, even the few words shows your love for her and gives me hope that someone will love me like that one day and we’ll create our own unconventional family and leave them in alleys and elevators and fields.
I’ve been following your blog since the article in People, and I’m rarely able to read one of your posts without getting tears in my eyes. You get hundreds of comments to every one of your posts, so I don’t usually comment just because I think it’s unlikely that you’ll ever see my comments. Maybe you’ll see this though: you’re a wonderful daddy and that little girl is so lucky to have you, and you her.
Life is hard and I am sorry for your loss. I had a loss and it is very hard to continue sometimes. You gave me a little hope and I thank you.
great post Matt! It’s so awesome you and liz got to go to all those wonderful places together.
And the manny ramírez picture is always one to make me laugh!
Finally had time to watch Oprah today on my DVR. Loved it! I hope her show gives the foundation great exposure to succeed. Take care!
Wait! Matt, you forgot to mention the robot and its “unique” role in Maddy’s life (and Liz’s reaction to it!)
Yes I am a regular reader and I love the recap, I love hearing you talk about Liz, and Maddie, it never gets old! You did great on Oprah today!!
I wasn’t home to see the show but DVR’d it and can’t wait to see! Love the recap!
You were amzing on Oprah! I have been reading your blog since the People article. You are an amzing person and an inspiration to all. God Bless.
Not boring one bit. You and Maddy did such a great job. What a living tribute you both are to Liz. Your daughter’s life and heart will always be filled with the love from both of you.
Awesome post…not so awesome that the man with the 9 kids and the dog got more stage time than you…and what was with putting my beautiful Maddy at the fricken end with the damn credits? Don’t they know she is a STAR and deserves to come out at the beginning? Especially leaving her warm, birthday destination for a back stage nap!! You were fantastic…”crap on my hands”, loved it! Hope it gets you lots of followers and money to the foundation! Was great to see it, nonetheless and can’t wait to see where this leads you next…
Hi Matt!
I just finished watching the Oprah show. You did a great job with the interview, you made everybody laugh including me with the beer thing. I was surprised Maddy wasn’t with you for the interview. I’m assuming Oprah got warned about Maddy chewing on celebrities jewelry and decided to keep her back stage
Congrats on getting the word out! I guess with more readers you’ll have a harder time finding if there is a winner on the next guessing Maddy’s weight and height (I’ll keep trying 
Oh Matt, words cannot express what I think right now. I have been on this journey with you for the past ten months. I have enjoyed getting to know you, Maddy, and Liz through your posts. Thanks for bringing us along with you. You are a great father. Liz is proud, and Maddy is lucky!
You dont know me, I am new to your site. I heard about your site from a friend who watched the show. I have read over some of your site and your story is such an inspiration to those who are and arent in similar situations. Keep up the great work dad!
I have followed your story for quite some time and enjoyed seeing you on Oprah today. Your story is so tragic, and yet you are surviving and are an inspiration to all of us. I am so sad that Liz is gone, but she left you with a super cute mini version of herself! No doubt that she is so proud of the father you have been to Madeline and the foundation you have set up to honor her. Your story is truly captivating and I thank you for letting us be a part of your lives!!
Hi Matt, I haven’t had a chance to watch my recorded Oprah today. That’s on my list for tomorrow. I just wanted to say how very sorry I am for your friends-the parents of Maddie. I will think of them tomorrow , and pray for them. My heart hurts for them, I know what it’s like to lose a child…Give that kiddo a hug from me. She is amazing, just like her parents. Take care, Cindy in Saugus
Grrrr!!! Stupid DVR didn’t record O, it was too full of The UpsideDown Show and Imagination Movers and Choo Choo Soul! Hopefully I’ll be able to see the entire video online somewhere!
Oh, I’ve been reading since maddy was a couple of weeks old, and I found you through MotherTalkers. (I wouldn’t be surprised if you knew any of the ladies over there IRL, one of the founders husbands founded DKos, and several live in the LA area) and your recap was effin awesome! Wow, that made almost no sense!
I’ve been reading for some time, as well as following the pics.
I love how Maddie really does seem to be your best friend. That’s what gets me every time.
Well, I never watch Oprah, but today I (randomly) did. And I’m glad I did, because your story is truly inspiring.
well i think your boring as hell.
I only really read cause i hope one day to win a weight/size poll and get free shit.
seriously.
Matt and Maddy,
Hopefully, we’ll get to catch it on the internets soon! 
Wish we could watch your Oprah appearance here in Bangalore, but alas, we don’t get Oprah anymore
And with all those trips here and there… when will you two be coming to visit all your friends here in Bangalore???
Hope all is well and looking forward to more good news from the M&M camp.
-jen in bangalore
Matt,
I have been reading your blog since you were in People magazine. My sister got me hooked. You are the first website I go to every time I am on the Internet (except for at work….. Your site is blocked). My heart breaks for you & Maddie. I have an 8 month old daughter, and I can’t imagine not being here to see her grow up. Anyway, thanks for the inspiration!
i have never commented, but i have been following your blog for some time now. i think you are an amazing father. you are doing both your daughter and your wife proud. thank you for sharing your story with everyone.
Today for the first time i heard of your story via Oprah…
You are a true inspiration.Wish you & baby all the best.My prayers & good wishes go out to you & Maddie.I also am a mother & can’t imagine not being there for my baby.Luckily she has you to take care of her.The world cares for you’ll.
Matt,
I did not see the show. I heard about the show from my single, childless friend who read your entire life story in the last two weeks (while at work) and decided she loves you. I’m sure lots of women love you:) I think you are funny and real and I like that you swear a lot, it makes me feel normal. I’m sorry, I’m not very good with saying lots of inspirational type shit, so I’ll just say that I think you rock and your daughter is cute. Have a great day:)
Matt – I cried through your segment on Oprah today. Congrats for such great press for the foundation. I hope it helps you help many families.
Also, the onesie over the pants has saved me time and again from my one-year-old’s habit of removing diaper at naptime. Such an awesome trick.
Really. It s-a-v-e-d me.
“so…with the help of thousands of internet stranger friends, i’ve become a decent father, doing a passable job raising madeline. ”
Been here read that before, And I must completely disagree. You are more than just a decent father doing a passable job. Even though you don’t feel like you do anything extraordinary, by taking care of Maddy, you do. You do because everything you do with and for Maddy is done with such amazing love and strength, and you did it in the middle of the most painful heartbreak.
You are an amazing Dad.
I am a regular reader and was glad to see you on Oprah today. My husband really enjoyed the whole show as well and laughed at your comments of receiving beer. Keep staying so real…we all love it.
I tried to get home in time to watch your appearance on Oprah, but no such luck. Unlike other followers, I do not have a DVR so, hopefully someday I’ll get to watch it in it’s entirety. I’ve never commented before, but have been reading your blog everyday for almost a year. The recap wasn’t boring at all…once again I sit here with tears in my eyes as my co-workers roll into the office for the day. Matt, Maddie is one lucky girl to have a father like you!
MN?! I’m from MN too!!! Looks like you’re a great Dad and I can’t wait to read more about you! I missed Oprah today but it’ll be on again I’m sure. I’m over in Okinawa with my USAF husband and son. We have 1 more year left to serve on this island and then hopefully on to another great country. Can’t wait to see more!
Even though i’ve been reading your blog for a year now, watching Oprah yesterday brought tears to my eyes!!! When I saw the article in People magazine my friends and family thought I was crazy because I was so excited. I have told so many more people about your life and how incredible you are. big props to you and the fabulous father that Madeline has!!
I’m a quiet “stalker” of your blog. I’ve been with you and Maddie since last Spring and am very addicted to your words. I was so thrilled to see you sitting next to OPRAH and sharing your story about the 3 of you. I’ve never cried so hard bc it is amazing to see where you are today (compared to a year ago) I love hearing about Liz, so thank you for sharing her with us. Keep up the AWESOME work, Maddie is an amazing little lady!
You wear it WELL, but I’ve always wondered if we would see a shave! 
p.s. Can you explain more about the beard
Matt,
I saw the show and OMG. Maddy is adorably cute. She looks a lot like her mommy who was very beautiful. I being a single mom of 3 kids, I find it awesome when men step up and care for their kids. Really inspiring. Watching you last night, I just had to come visit your site.
I loved the recap and I’ve been following your journey for almost a year now. These posts will be wonderful for Maddie to read someday – a true gift for her.
Awesome job on Oprah! I DVRed it and watched it with my husband, 4-year-old daughter and 6-month-old son. I wish your segment would have been longer but you were FANTASTIC. We cried when you read Liz’s obituary and laughed at your jokes during the interview. My daughter, like the girl at the doctor’s office, kept saying “aww, she’s so CU-UTE!” every time Maddy was shown.
My husband now realizes why I read your blog.
You and Maddy are amazing people and definitely deserve all the attention you are receiving. Great job, again! We loved it!
Definitely not boring! I’ve been a long time reader of your blog (almost a year now), but I’ve never posted before. Saw you on Oprah yesterday and couldn’t help but feel so damn proud of you. How is it that I’m proud of someone I’ve never met or don’t really know…I’m not sure, but I am nonetheless. Keep it up Matt!
Hey Matt and Maddy!!! Long time reader here. I LOVED the recap. Especially the pic of Liz in Alaska and the pic of you guys in Nepal. I don’t think I’ve seen them before and they are beautiful. Unfortunately, I missed the Oprah interview (one of the downfalls of being a working mother) but I hope to be able to see it sometime soon. I hope that both you and Maddy have a WONDERFUL day today!!!
Every single time I read a new post I cry and it’s not from sadness…it’s in awe of the amazing love you have for your child and the awesome dad that you are. I wish my dad was like you when I was a little girl.
Hi Matt,
Nice recap! I came home yesterday and played it on my DVR. And I have to tell you I had tears runing down my face. I cried with you Matt. Sad, sad tragedy, but look at how well you take care of that most beautiful child! She is beyond adorable. So when are you guys coming by DC?
I first saw you and Maddy in People Mag and have been following your site ever since. You are a fabulous dad and Maddy is the luckiest little girl. Thanks for sharing your life with us, you are an inspiration and you are helping others every day.
LOL the “boring recap” was soooo worth it for that last picture!
What a sad but incredible story. I am so sorry you lost Liz but I LOVE your relationship with Madeleine!
I’ve been reading your blog since Liz was in the hospital (introduced by your SIL) and I’ve cried and laughed with you. You did an awesome job on Oprah and I can’t believe how relaxed you were! You are a natural in front of the camera.
I’d be a nervous, hyperventilating, blotchy mess.
Way to go.
I loved the re-cap… a reminder of the reasons why we stinkin’ love ya guys so much and keep coming back for more. I dvr’d Oprah yesterday, and still haven’t had a chance to watch it….. but I can’t wait!!!
Matt,
What a wonderful father you are! I am new to your blog, but look forward to catching up.
Matt- I have been reading your blog since your first post on Chrissy’s blog. I have two little boys and my youngest is exactly a week older than Maddie. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of your situation. You are an inspiration to all of us parents.
I’m a brand new reader of your blog. I didn’t see you on Oprah, but found your blog through a Twitter by @flipflops. I am so touched by your story, and will be a loyal reader from now on.
I missed your appearance on Oprah (damn!) and just learned of your story via Maddie Sphor’s story. However, I’m so glad to find you. It appears that you are doing a wonderful job as a father. As a woman who had a traumatic birth experience, one where my husband thought I wouldn’t make it out alive, I can relate to the concept of good going terribly awry. This is not to say I know what you’re going through because I certainly don’t. But your story has a special place in my heart and I look forward to following you and watching Maddie continue to thrive.
Wow, what an amazing blog. I was truly touched by your story. Amazingly, my boys were born exactly one day after your Maddie. To the same minute…11:56 and 11:57. We have a blog too: http://www.augustusandraleigh.blogspot.com. I love your sincerity and honesty and wish Maddie & you well. So glad I happened to turn on the tv yesterday. Not something we normally do… but it was one of those days;)
I’m so excited that more people are hearing your story. I love, love, love your blog and your writing style. All the best to you and Maddy.
Passable is not the word I would use to describe how you are raising Madeline, you are a devoted, wonderful father and it’s reflected in the breathtaking photos of your little angel. I have an 8 month old and 5 year old, your honesty helps us all appreciate those little moments in life, like chewing on sticks
You are an awesome Daddy!
Matt,
Great job on Oprah yesterday!!
Congrats on Maddy’s 1st bday and many more to come.
You are a wonderful Daddy & Maddy is a lucky little girl!
Jody
Matt -
Awesome job on the Oprah show! You are truly an amazing person – as I’m certain Liz was too. Maddy is a lucky little lady. Keep up the awesome job!
Matt,
I hope you can post any photos or video of Maddie’s service. So many people want to see this amazing service and I want to see everyone in purple. You are so good at making things happen behind the lens. Thanks
Just saw you on Oprah and had to check out your blog! Maddy is beautiful! I cannot imagine what you’ve gone through…I chose to be a single mom and it’s the hardest but best thing I’ve ever done…but being thrust into that situation and dealing with the grief on top of everything has to be so hard! Prayers!
Not to be negative, because the Oprah show has amazing reach and I’m thrilled you were on there. But, I have a few gripes to air.
You didn’t get enough airtime; Maddy got pretty much NO time; no extended-family time; very little Foundation time; very little Creep time; no Ben, Lauren, AJ, Auntie Angels Fan. Fly Hawkfeather in from her Canadian yurt, for Odin’s sake! I mean, come on, Harpo. There’s a big story here and a gnarly cast of characters to be explored. Oh, and next time, no on-camera obituary readings please. (You can edit out that last part if you want, Matthew. Yes, I’m STILL bitching about that!)
Okay. Done now. Srsly.
Strangely, I tuned into Oprah after your segment yesterday, but still ended up here today through links about Maddie Spohr. Some would say it’s ‘bashert’ — meant to be. Based on your onsie tip, I thought I’d share: when my twins were little, they were expert at getting out of their feetie jammies and taking off their diapers. I learned to cut off the jammie feet and put the jammies on backward with the zipper up the back. Worked like a charm, except for the cold feet.
I’ve lurked on your blog since reading the People story. My New Year’s resolution was to read People more often so that I wouldn’t be such a pop-culture dunce. Little did I know that my heart would be swept away by a little blondie (Maddy, that is) who has turned into her own little pop-sensation. Your blog keeps me grounded in the moments when I feel frustrated, overwhelmed or uncertain about my job parenting two little boys in a relatively normal family environment free of tragedy. I’ve laughed loudly, smiled broadly and cried hard over your entries. Thanks for letting me into your world.
Matt –
As a new mother to an 8 week old boy, 4 pm is feeding time and I have recently gotten to view a few Oprah shows. Yesterday I found myself holding my son (bottle proped against chin so I could have one hand free), searching for your blog, and wiping my tears with a burp cloth. My father died of Melanoma when I was 6 months old. My mother was alone in a new city, had me (6 months) and my brother (4 years), and a dying husband. With the birth of my first son I realized the strength that it must have taken to continue on with daily life despite tragedy. Your story and my mother’s story is a beautiful display of courage and triumph. Thank you for sharing your story with the world.
I saw you on Oprah yesterday and I can’t get you and your precious daughter out of my head. I was diagnosed with Cancer when our daughter was 12 weeks old – she is now 9 months old. I often wonder what would happen to my husband and daughter if I were not around. Seeing you with your daughter really touched my heart. It gives me peace to know that in the most unfortunate circumstances, love and life do go on. Thank you for your story.
Saw you on Oprah. Read your blog and I am amazed. I don’t even know you and I spent the whole day thinking of Liz. Missing Liz. Crying about Liz. Saying “We went to Kathmandu too!” to you and Liz. Wilco, Arcade Fire, Mermaid Ave, all of it. Officially my day now starts off with Perez Hilton, Gmail, and You so thanks for making me a less of a shallow asshole and for helping me appreciate life more.
You are an excellent Daddy, always have been and it has been a privilege to watch how you, Maddy and this amazing journey have evolved since your reach out to Cribsheet many moons ago.
As for the sticks and leaves – she needs to get her protein somehow
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You are awesome! and Happy Birthday to Maddy!
Marissa*
Hi Matt!
Great job on Oprah yesterday. Thank God for DVR!!!!! Thanks for all your awesome words of inspiration. I fed my 9 month old, Brooke, LOTS of cheerios in efforts to keep her quiet during your part of the show…so she thanks you too!
Hi Matt:
My husband was killed in a car accident on the way home from work – a nineteen-year-old man fell asleep behind the wheel and crossed the center line hitting my husband head-on. It has been somewhat of a comfort to think that he was killed instantly, without any suffering. In fact, he saved that young man’s life, as it was a two-lane highway on a dike and the young man’s car would have gone over the side and possibly into the river. When this happened, I was 4 months pregnant with our son. We had only celebrated one wedding anniversary, and I only had my wonderful Ron in my life for three short years…
My son also saved my life. I don’t believe I would have continued on in this life without Ron if I hadn’t been pregnant with Benjamin. As well as my tragic loss, my son has been totally robbed of a wonderful father. Ron would have adored his son, and spent so much time with him, teaching him and loving him.
This all happened 12 years ago, but I have not remarried. I am with a very nice man, but he did not step up to the plate when it came to my son. Another tragedy for me, sometimes, I feel. However, I did sign Ben up for the Big Brother/Big Sister program – and he has the most terrific Big Brother! You can do this for Maddie – when she is 6 years old she would be able to have a Big Sister. You may want to call when she’s five – there is often a waiting list.
Thoughts and prayers to you – glad to see you ‘in person’ on Oprah yesterday – I heard about you almost a year ago but this is my first post.
I am also so sorry for your friends and their loss. I have also experienced the loss of a child. My tale is very sad – I do not tell it too often…
Great segment on Oprah last night! I was excited to see I hadn’t missed it. You’re doing a darn good job raising that little girl of yours and as I’ve said before, I’m so impressed with the outfits you dress her in.
I need to comment on something K8 in the Northridge said….my husband watched the Oprah segment with me and when it was over he said “Is that it? Where was his little girl?” I didn’t think about it at the time – but I agree with K8 – you deserved far more time!
Congratulations on your appearance on Oprah! It was a great piece – you should be so proud of the father you have become! Blessings to you and Maddy:)
okay, still haven’t watched Oprah (dvr skipped the event, so i had to catch it at 1:35am) but i just have to comment on that beautiful picture of madeline!! i believe it was one of those days before you brought her to daycare…her eyes are glowing and that face…i just want to munch! good job…can’t say it enough.
It’s not many men that can quote Glen Campbell and get away with it. Well-done! : )
You’ve had an amazing year and all of us Creeps (and everyone else, I’m sure) remain very proud of you.
hello tears…I can’t help it!
i have dvr’d the show but haven’t watched it yet and still have rachel ray locked down!
I am constantly in awe of your honesty.
I think you’re an unsung hero at times…just like many other single parents out there.
Thanks for being a voice for many, regardless of the origin that brought them to their situation.
Not boring at all. In fact, just to prove you’re still winning people over left and right, I have to admit that I teared up again… just like almost everytime I read your blog.
You’re amazing. I’m glad to know you… even if it’s only through your blog, Twitter, and Flickr.
This was certainly not a boring recap! I haven’t seen some of those pictures of you and Liz together before. She was beautiful, Matt. Your daughter is so lucky to look so much like her.
Matt, I didn’t catch Oprah but I did read about your site from the general BUZZ on the internet.
Words are escaping me right now (why I am writing, I’m not so sure) but I need to somehow tell you how profoundly your blog has affected me. Our children were born about two weeks apart. My birth went so smoothly….when obviously yours and Liz’s didn’t. I’m not trying to make this about me in any way….but I can’t help but be reminded, in reading about your life with Maddie, that things can always go SO differently than planned. Bad shit happens to good people.
I look forward to reading about yours and Maddie’s adventures. She and Felix would be good friends if they met in real life. We travel alot too…we just might have to introduce them if we’re ever in the same end of the world.
I’m looking forward to getting to know the both of you.
Matt, What can I say you are such an amazing man and dad. Words can not express how I feel as I watch you blossom into an awesome father. I silently read your blogs and am in awe of you. God has truly blessed Madeline with a wonderful loving father.. Keep up the good work
I love the recap too. Definitely not boring. I think that’s the first time I’ve seen your house, and actually, the first time I’ve seen several of those pictures, even though I’m as faithful of a reader as they come. Each day, I get to work, open my e-mail, facebook, my mommy boards, and your blog. Of course, yours is the most exciting and the most anticipated! I’m very disappointed that I missed Oprah yesterday. But, I hope to watch the clip you linked to when I get home tonight. Have a good one, Matt.
You are stinking Amazing. Seriously, Just watched my DVR’d Oprah, you totally rocked it.
I hope to help spread the word about not only your blog – but your foundation.
Your daughter is blessed ebyond belief to have you.
I still cry after reading the reminders. My Oprah Tivo cut the show off! ARGH. Will watch today. I recorded the night time rerun.
Yay, Matt! You’ve made it a year – we are all SO proud of you, and I’m sure Liz is as well.
BTW, where on Earth do you buy Maddy’s clothes – she is always so stylish!
Matt,
I just watched you on the Oprah show and I had to come and visit your blog. You are an AMAZING man. Truly AMAZING. I know it must be hard for you to raise Maddie without Liz but you are doing a terrific job. Maddie is adorable and is always dressed so fashionable!!! I know that you will keep her mother’s memory alive. This blog is something that she will always have and hold dear. Thank you for allowing us into you, Maddie, and Liz’s life! God Bless!!!
Great to see the recap, especially the beautiful blue eyes on that girl. Great job on Oprah, though we needed to see more of Maddie (you do know she’s the star, right!
gotta agree with K8 in The Northridge…was great to see you get the exposure, but a little more wouldn’t have hurt. glad to see that oprah.com links to your blog, but a link to the foundation would have been good too. you’re working so hard to take a tragic situation and turn it into something so much more, something so helpful to so many other people (in addition to being an amazing father), and that deserved more than the brief commentary that they allowed you. like someone already suggested, i sure hope they make a major donation!
so glad that you got on the show, any chance to spread the word of a fabulous cause is always great!
happy april, hope the upcoming trips are all for fun!
I watched Oprah today…I remember hearing about the loss You suffered. And i just want to say wow!! I can’t imagine. You are courages…but how can you not be looking in that sweet little girls eyes!!
Hi i saw your story in people mag while waiting on the eye doctor now i dont read much but i could not put your story down. I have a daughter