well.
here we are.
it’s been an
interesting week
and a half
for the
three of us
in bangalore.
so far we’ve done
everything we
can to get on
a normal schedule.
we failed
for the first week,
but things are
getting better.
maddy is now sleeping
through the night,
but she’s not the
12 hour sleeper
that she is
in los angeles.
i’d like to think
it’s the jetlag,
but i think it
has more to do
with not wanting
to miss out
on anything.
but she’s not
the only one
who is exhausted.
a week and
half is a lot
to summarize, but
i’ll do it rather quickly
(and with a lot of photos).
we’ve walked around
town quite a bit
so that maddy
and rachel have an
idea where they are.
i taught them
how to
cross a street
maddy learned
a thing or two
about the importance
of keeping quiet.
i introduced them
to indian breakfast.
we have
breakfast together
each morning
before i go off
to write my book.
we’ve spent some
time with some
old friends.
we met lots
of new friends,
most of whom
have been men.
(the dudes in the photo above insisted on watching maddy while we finished breakfast. as we walked up, they were frantically scrubbing her forehead. turns out she used one of their pens to draw a nice horizontal line across her forehead).
madeline has become
kind of a celebrity
around here,
and now she’s
acting the part.
she learned why
she’s still in diapers
and why dowries
are a bad thing.
we met another
tired kid
and her dad.
madeline figured out
a new way
to get my attention.
we went to
a mosque
and a temple
we took in
the sights of
the area near
russell market.
we walked through
commercial street
and the surrounding areas.
maddy and rachel
took their first
auto rickshaw ride
and a few days
later, maddy
drove us around
in one.
i performed
a successful
street diaper change
then celebrated
our success.
we’ve both
experienced a bit
of separation anxiety
but maddy and rachel
have become fast friends.
she is one
of the few
women to whom
maddy will go.
she even lets
rachel do
her hair, which
is a huge
win for all
of us.
we’ve explored the
place i’ve chosen
to spend most
of my days.
it’s a spot i used
to visit when
i needed a break
from the noise
and busyness of
the city.
i’d sit here,
read a book,
drink some tea,
just escape.
and when
liz
was in town,
we spent a lot
of time here.
so this is
where i write
most days,
because it brings
me back to
a time and
a place.
and somehow
it helps to
know that
we
were here together.
and that now
i am here with
maddy every morning.
and the amazing thing?
the writing is
flowing way
better than
i could have imagined.
i mean, the words,
the feelings,
they’re all coming out.
and there is
no way i could
have written this
anywhere else
but here.
i just hope my
editor loves it.
we’ve done
a ton of shopping.
and i fulfilled
a promise
i made to
liz.
i promised to
bring her a
set of bangles each
time i went to
india, so that
by the time
i was done with
the ol’ travel for work
thing, she would
have a nice collection.
well, she had three
sets stolen when
our house was
burglarized back
in january 2008.
i promised to
replace her jewelry
over time.
i’d forgotten about the
bangles until i
walked past the shop
where i’d purchased them.
so for
liz,
maddy is
gonna have
one hell of
a jewelry collection.
and she seems
to like them
as much as
her mom did.
and after getting a
warning from the people
who run our apartment,
we celebrated diwali.
really, we’ve
just been enjoying
our time together.
well, most of
the time.
(oh…and thanks to everyone who voted in the christie cookies charity giveaway. with your help, we received enough votes to win $1,000 for the liz logelin foundation. add to it the 20% match i pledged, and we raised $1200. thank you all so much!).
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Those hair bunches are so unbelievably cute.
What a wonderful update. Glad to hear the writing is flowing. It’s hard to believe but Maddy gets more beautiful and expressive everyday. The photos you capture of her will be priceless to her one day. What child would not want to have such fantastic photos of herself to show her children.
You are creating such a wonderful gift for her.
PS Love the pig tails – yea for her letting Rachel do her hair. So stinking cute!
love the pictures. What is diwali?
Love to you and Maddy from Detroit!
Great installment.
Madeline looks so grown up in some of those pictures. She looks like she is on an adventure of a lifetime. And she is.
I hope peace finds you soon.
The pictures. The words. The love. Full of awesomeness as always.
I love that you have so many photos of moments and things that aren’t just the usual “sights”. When you (and, later, Maddy) look back on them later you’ll remember, and she’ll get a sense of, what the trip was really like and all about. So much better than a bunch of shots that could be anyone’s postcards.
You’re doing beyond an amazing job with Maddy. I think earlier on you appreciated people saying that because it reminded you that you hadn’t broken her or fkd anything up! Hopefully now those fears have been allayed a little bit and you can just enjoy the truth in it. Awesome awesome job.
Such great pictures to give one a glimpse of life in another place…and how one can still be happy despite the memories conjured up by such a place…but just to know of the new memories being created…it’s rather grand…
Amazing as always. Keep it up!
Thanks for the recap of your week! I love the photos and it really makes me want to travel there sometime really soon.
wise beyond your years….you two truly are where you need to be.
Maddy is stunning in the gold and red dress. My mouth dropped when I saw her picture in that dress! She is beautiful!
What an absolutely amazing experience this is for Maddy and for you!
Those photos speak volumes about your time there. Looks like you three are having an amazing adventure. I cannot WAIT to read your book. Keep it up!
She looks like such a big girl with her hair in pigtails. Cute!
I swear, she gets cuter every time I see her. So glad that things are going well for you. You always make me feel a bit boring. That’s probably good. I should get a little more daring.
It looks like you all are having an amazing time! What an experience!
BTW the daddy/hi video was adorable and it made me think of this!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNkp4QF3we8
I love her beautiful outfits! I’m happy the writing is going well. Thank you for the picture-laden update.
Great update! Your pictures and video clips really brought back the memories I have of my time in India…the sights and sounds…now if only you could get the smells to come through as well. Well, some of them anyway. And loved the shots inside Fab India…Best.Store.Ever.
This is an awesome experience you are giving your daughter.
Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us!
This is one of my favorite posts of yours. But I think I say that every time I comment!
Love the pigtails. Love the photos…especially the one of you with the other dad with the other tired kid.
So glad that writing is going well and you are living life to the fullest.
I love that she gets to experience some things in life that some of us never get to experience. I love the photos!
I could not imagine a better experience for her at this age. She must just be absorbing all that is around her. Enjoy every moment, because before you know it, you’ll be back here in lovely LA where the culture is manufactured and usually has a high price tag attached to it.
It’s shocking how much ground you’ve covered in such a short time! I have to admit that I got emotional reading this post – you three are really experiencing something amazing. I’m glad the writing is coming to you, and I’m glad you’re taking so many pictures!
Fabulous, fabulous, post, Matt. Your words and photos are just amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. Matt,,,the video of Maddy yelling “Daddy” over, and over, is a real winner!!!
Amazing pictures. What an adventure!
Your post today is moving and beautiful.I love that you are soaking it all in with your daughter.
Also, her outfits are just beautiful! You have made Liz proud I am sure!
The Diwali outfits are divine. So cute.
OK the pigtails are so cute! The movie start picture is adorable And the attention video..priceless!! HI!! Hahah And congrats on successfully crossing the street, i know I would not have been able to do it. Glad to hear everything is flowing and things are still going smoothly.
Ah Matt, what a joy it is to see you and maddy (and rachel) so happy!
The sights and sounds must be just brilliant!!
Sending you once again, lots and lots of love and bestest wishes in the whole wide world!!
What an amazing adventure so far! All the pics are great. I’m so very glad to see so many of you and Maddie. they’re always my favourite ones.
I’m glad the writing is going well. that’s definitely what you were after, and i’m glad that it’s been achieved.
Thanks for the update!
You look really happy.
Maddy is adorable as always.
The pictures are awesome.
Can’t wait to see more.
Be safe.
Great summary of your week. I’m glad everyone is getting settled and acquainted. Enjoy your time together, and alone.
Love it.
you look so happy it’s incredible.
i’ve read about every single post on your blog since the beginning and saw about every photo of you guys but never felt like i could stop worrying about you, matt.
now i feel like i can. congratulations. you’ll be fine. i’m finally a 100% sure about that. but i think you knew that already.
Wow!!
Now I will laugh { daddy daddy hi} and learn!! Your pictures and videos are full of awesomeness.
I am so happy that everything is progressing so well for you and Maddy.
hands down maddy is one of the cutest little girls i have ever seen!! i think she has the most beautiful blue eyes, blonde hair, and the sweetest cheeks!! esp. in the little indian dress. give.me.a.break! can you say PRECIOUS <3 much love and blessings from ga~erin
Wonderful photos! You look so relaxed, happy, and alive! I’m so glad the writing is flowing… definitely sounds like you chose the right place. I can’t wait to hear about more of your adventures. You’ve certainly captured a lot in you first week there! Maddy looks fab in her Diwali attire!
WOW!! your pictures and words make me feel like i’m experiencing your journey with you. that’s wicked cool!! the vibrant colours of india are beautiful. and maddy OMIGOSH she’s growing up so fast and is so beautifully adorable. that picture of her looking so exhausted and you oh-vey. the scariest shot the line of firecrackers i’d high-tail outta there. and you crossing the street that was freaking scary it’s like dodge-car!!
all parents struggle b/c there is no such there as being a perfect parent but we try our best!! and it’s not easy no brady bunch storyline.
nameste matt!!
Great Photos, so many frame worthy ones!! She looks so pretty in her dress for Diwali!! I am so Happy for you both, that you are in a place that makes you so happy!
I loved the post update on your adventures in India!!! It really does seem like a perfect place for you guys!! I am sure your editors will love what you have written!! I can’t wait to read it!!
Matt, this looks so amazing! I’m so glad that the writing is going so well and that you’re having such a good time. Your pictures are amazing and Maddy looks like she’s having such a great time. Keep the pictures coming!
Great update, and awesome photos – your face shows that Bangalore is definately a special place to you. I’ve been reading your blog for over a year, and don’t remember actually seeing you smile in any of your photos. So glad that this trip seems to be soothing your soul a bit.
She looks like she has grown so much, maybe its the hair that does it, but she looks like a little girl now (not just a baby girl).
Glad your writing is coming along and glad you guys are making some amazing memories.
Great update! I hope you are all doing well. I am glad you all are adjusting and book writing is going great.
I think it is fantastic that Madelin gets to be with you and to experience new things.
Great job daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy, hi!
Love reading the updates of your travels. Awesome that the writing is flowing!
Okay, I have to begin with letting you know that my son is still head over heels in love with Madeline. He loves the new pics and still points and says Maddy. (I don’t know if that means I read your blog to much or not but oh well!)
I am glad to hear that things are going well and everyone is adjusting. Also happy to hear you’ve found a great spot to write and are not struggling. I look forward to reading the finished product.
Madeline is looking great in her outfits and pigtails.
Wonderful update! Be safe!
This post seriously makes me want to travel around India one day. I absolutely love all the little outfits that Maddy wears!
Thank you so much for the update. The pictures are wonderful.
I love all of the pics but especially love the green grass in the park that you and Liz visited and that now you and Maddy spend every morning. Maddy is gorgeous. Looks like it’s the place you need to be, especially if your words flow easier there, and all the past memories… and new memories you are making. Can’t wait for the book. I’m sure it’ll be an awesome read, as I truly have enjoyed reading your blog for the past 16 mos.
thank you for the update and once again – laughing, crying, laughing and then followed by a HOLY SHIT! when I saw the picture of you running and then the “crackers” – I look so forward to every post.
Wow! Beautiful post! She is more and more beautiful everyday… you all look like you are having a great time. So glad the book is coming along too!
I am glad that the words are coming so easily as the memories fly back at you. I can’t wait to read your book. By the way your daughter is too cute especially the Daddy video.
What a beautiful post, Matt. Beautiful pictures and what a great experience for Maddy. So glad the writing is going well. I can’t wait for the book!!!
Such an amazing journey so far, love looking through your flicker pics throughout the week to see what you’ve been up to.
Awesome.
What an awesome adventure for you. All you have been through has brought you to this point in life. I felt certain you would find it cathartic and I so hoped you would be able to smile, feel, remember, cry, laugh, build new memories, and work through the old ones so that raw hurt can finally be healed. Best thing you can do for you and Maddy.
I feel like I know you Matt since I have followed your story from the beginning. You have allowed me into your world and have become my friend. I am so proud to know you and talk about you. You are a kind, loving, funny, rugged man and the perfect father and friend for Maddy.
So generous to take Rachel to India IRL. What a great woman she is and loving being there judging by the smiling pictures and poses. She has so much fun and she is teaching Maddy a valuable life lesson about trusting. Great choice to start Maddy on the road to femininity with a “girl’s-eye-view”!
Thank you for keeping us as close to IRL as we can be with these photos and your words. I am glad you are finding such contentment and peace over there and that your book is carrying you along. (Hurry! I can hardly wait to read it!) =o)
I LOVE these updates! And so glad that writing is going so well. Maddy looks especially grown up in the pic of her driving the rickshaw.
I love all these pictures… you can capture the differences between the Indian culture and ours, like the incredible market shots, but also the simple similarities, like the two daddies and tired daughters or Maddy and the lady looking up at the fireworks with joy.
What a treasure for Maddy to have all these photos to document your trip!
Can’t wait for the book.
First of all, Diwali! yay! Now you’ll have to take Maddy back for Holi.
Maddy is lucky to have you for her father.
and I’m pretty sure that if I schedule a trip to India anytime soon it’ll be because of the pictures of your trip.
Looks like you guys are having an amazing time! Maddy gets more beautiful every day it seems! I love the outfits you have her in! Glad that you get a chance to be in a place that brings back so many happy memories for you and Liz.
Loved the video of her saying “Daddy” over and over again. I loved her dress during the festival. Wonderful glimpses of life in India.
awesome update!!! Glad to hear that the words are flowing and that you’re able to get everything that you want out and “down on paper” so to speak! Looks like Rachel and Maddy are getting along smashingly!!!
So good to hear everything is going great in India. Maddy’s hair is quite cute so way to go Rachel! I have never had an interest in visiting India but after seeing your photos I might have to reconsider! Also, what is Diwali?
Thank you for letting us live vicariously through you.
I know what you mean about being in the place that reminds you of someone.
It is priceless.
Hope the rest of your writing goes well.
Excited to hear more!!
Great update from what seems like an amazing place. I love the videos too, Daddy-daddy-daddy-daddy-daddy-daddy-daddy!!! LOL! I’m so glad the writing is coming easily. Can’t wait to read the finished product. Always thinking of you two.
Looks like everyone is having a fabulous time exploring. Glad to hear the writing is coming easily for you. Can’t to hear more about the trip and see more pictures.
ah, those pigtails kill me. She looks like she’s having the best time exploring her surroundings. Love the pictures–they are fantastic!
Love Maddy’s diwali dress! So gosh darn cute!
I love the fact that Rachel is able to capture so many photos of you and Maddy together.
I’m so glad everything is going so well. Can NOT wait for the book!
She is just precious in those pig tails!
Traffic there is crazy!!
Absolutely fantastic job Dad. I loved how you were holding back the laughter when Maddy was trying to wake you with her “Daddy, daddy, daddy…” schtik! Kids are so much fun!!
Wow, what fun for us reading your blog! And, boy do you ever look like you’re having fun. Nice to see your happy face. Not that you usually look sad, just, not er, well, so much happy.
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And that photo of your daughter dressed up for Diwali – it’s just too much; she looks like royalty
It amazes me how in some pictures she looks like Liz and in some she looks like you. It looked like you are having an amazing adventure and now i am off to look up Diwali….
The bangles brought tears to my eyes. I’m sure Liz was looking over you as you picked them out. Maddy is one lucky little girl.
I’m sure your editor will love the book – just like we all will as soon as we can buy it! I will even spring for the hardcover version
I think I never post a comment here, but that diwali dress got me. Its the same kind of thing Amanda said above: the life you’re creating for her, out of everything that has happened, is astounding. You’re a tribute to Liz, to the people who raised you, to yourself, and to your love for Maddy.
The pony tails are *adorable*! Had to watch the video of her getting your attention twice, love it!
And I’m watching the 3rd game of the Dodgers/Phillies right now,,, unfortunately at my house, not at the stadium. GO PHILLIES! I bet you miss going to the games
Great recap. The separating anxiety picture of Maddy is priceless!
Amazing pictures. Your little girl is becoming more stunning every day. With her hair being in pigtails she looks so big and grown up. Love the whole “daddy daddy daddy…hiii” video. She is clearly just as in love with you as you are with her.
Glad to hear that the writing is going well.
Continue having an awesome time and can’t wait till the next post.
PRECIOUS!!! Maddy is so cute in her indian dress!!! Beautiful!!! Thanks for sharing!
Lovely. Just lovely. Keep the updates coming!
i can’t wait for the book!
i’ve been checking your flickr every day and the pictures on here since they’re like little mini-blogs. it looks like you’re having a great time in india. maddy is SO SO SO lucky. you’re a great parent – the best!
I’m glad things are going well! I love the photos – so much color and life. Her Diwali dress is adorable. Makes me want to get one for my daughter…of course she’d freeze if she wore it in North Dakota right now
I was thinking about how when she is older, she is going to be able to look back on all these wonderful pictures and say “oh yeah, this is when my dad took me to India for the first time” to her friends. Seriously, this is an amazing thing Matt! (And I REALLY want to go to India now! Someday!)
Beautiful update. I feel like I’m there with you. Savor every moment.
Enjoying the updates. Love her ceremonial dress. Happy to know your writing is going well. This is an amazing thing you’re doing…..for so many people.
AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks so much for sharing it all. I highly doubt I will ever go to India, but wanted to thank you for sharing all the great pictures! Maddy looks absolutely stunning in her dress. So glad to hear the writing is flowing, can’t wait to read your book
Take care,
Debbie
So cute to hear her yell Daddy over and over. Looks like you are having a great time, exposing Madeline to the world. You’re doing a fabulous job!
Matt, this post is beyond awesome. I think your next book (seeing as that you are a writer now) should be a photo journal of you and Maddy travling the world. Written in spare prose, just like your blog. I’m serious dude.
Wow! It’s going by so fast already! I’m so happy to hear that the time in India thus far has been productive and fun. Hopefully the sleeping part will iron itself out soon. That’s quite a time change for you all!
The pictures are all so amazing-you and Rachel make a good photog team! I’m so excited for the book and to hear more about the adventures I know are sure to come. Your editor is going to absolutely love your book-no worries there!
So glad you guys are having the time of your life! Maddy looks unbelievably beautiful! Yay for the jewelry!
OH. MY. WORD.
Maddy looks SO cute and SO grown up in the indian dress.
I could not get over how BIG she looks. And her hair in pigtails….adorable.
thanks for the update. still praying for you both!
ditto seattle kate. A travelogue. Perfect.
If the snippets you’ve been writing are precursors to what the first book is going to be like, no problem.
And, like everybody else, I loved the daddy, daddy, daddy, oh hi video.
Wow what a great adventure! Like I previously posted my hubby went to India in 1992 and he had told me about the traffic, I just had to laugh when I saw your video of crossing the street lol. Madeline is adorable as ever in her little indian clothes
I cannot wait to read your book and very happy to read that the writting comes easier to you then you thought it would.
she’s growing up so much and getting more and more beautiful by the moment.
you were meant to write the story now matt and that is why it is flowing so easily.
Just wonderful pictures and clothes! I love the gold outfit on Maddy! Keep sharing!
Finally a post, you made my day! Every time I visit your website I love my own little girl that much more. Thanks
Awesome pictures! And I love Maddy in her beautiful Indian dress.
Thanks so much for taking some time to update your Matt & Maddie fans on your amazing adventure! You look so at ease, happy, relaxed in these photos, India does something to you, that is quite evident. It is obvious you knew where you had to go to write, cannot wait to read the book!
Rachel must be wonderful, Maddie seems to adore her!
sorry…Maddy with a y, it is late
Matt….get pics and updates and btw, you have WAY more guts than I would traveling on the other side of the world with a toddler!!
There are some amazing pictures of Madeline and of the two of you together (like you two holding hands and walking in your fave place and when she is snuggled on you) that are just keepsakes for sure! Love that Madeline is loving the bangles like her Mom did. So glad to hear the writing is going well and by the way, YOU just look sooooooo calm, relaxed and happier in all these pictures; looks like a smart choice to visit India for awhile
Can’t wait to see what the rest of the weeks hold for you, Madeline and Rachel!! Best of luck, and you all are in my thoughts and prayers!
Maddy is growing into a beautiful little girl. I love all the pics but she looks just amazing in her Diwali dress. Glad the writing is going so well.
Rachel is a wonderful photographer, just like you! It’s so neat to see pictures of you and Maddy together….and thanks to Rachel for capturing those special moments! Maddy is absolutely beautiful!!
Love all the photos ya’ll have been taking! So great to hear how Maddy is adjusting to Rachel. And so very exciting to hear that the writing is flowing. That’s just awesome!!
Maddie looks absolutely adorable in her dresses and your pictures are amazing.
Thanks for the update Matt…looks like the three of you are having an amazing time!! The photos are beautiful and totally make me want to visit there someday!! Maddy is looking so grown up…and I LOVE the pigtails Rachel…awesome job!!
The video of Maddy trying to get your attention is PRICELESS…I was laughng so hard
I am glad to hear that the writing is coming along nicely…definitely shows that you are in the place you need to be 
Keep up with the updates and pictures…we love to live vicariously through you guys 
Take care!!
Shannon in Victiria
Glad to see a update and some new photos! it looks like you all are having such a blast over there. Little Madeline is just getting so pretty and I cannot get over how cute she is. I’m glad she loves rachel.
Rachel seems like such a sweet woman. 
Hope everything continues to go well 
I want to know how you got all those adorable clothes to India. Seriously. So cute. Enjoy your time with your sweet girl, feeling what you need to feel and writing what you need to write.
Matt – you are a sweet dad to your little angel, who is such the little lady these days!
I just adore your photographic sight….so beautiful. The Madeline is pretty cute too:)
Loved the update, and the pictures. Even though I’ve seen them all on flickr, I liked reading the story along with them.
Love all the pictures, videos and stories as always. Especially loved the video of her trying to get your attention and you trying your best to ignore her and not break out laughing. Hilarious stuff, I can hardly wait for the book. I’m not a very patient person either, I’ll have to work on that and enjoy your blog in the meantime. I really freakin’ admire you (not in a creepy stalker way as many other posters have reassured you in the past)
Wow! It looks like the three of you are having an amazing time. Your pictures are incredible. Most importantly, you look happy. I am glad that you have found such a safe haven in India.
Love the pics.The place look wonderful.
I am glad the writing is going well and cannot wait to read it.
On another note my 6 year listens as I read your blog and she came running to me hollering Mom its him its him…I said him who Mack?
she said Matt,Maddys dad.You were on Oprah and it was just showed in denmark last week
Great photos. Love Maddy’s new outfits
DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY DADDY! Hi…
She has quite the voice.
Maddy gets cuter every time you post new pictures. She looks a lot like her Mama. It looks like you’re doing a great job with her.
Thanks for reminding me with every post to live life to the fullest and to enjoy every moment.
Best of luck with the writing!
Maddy looks like such a big girl with her two ponytails!
What a great update, you sound like you have found some inner peace from just being in a familiar and happier place,and also about writing your memoirs about Liz and you.
You just as always have the best photos.
Truly I wish you and Maddy the best, be safe and I am looking forward to your book.
Heather
I just can’t get enough of your blog…it’s wonderful to hear the writing is going so well and everyone is adjusting. I keep thinking of what an amazing opportunity you are giving not only to yourself, but to Maddie. I wish more people took life by the horns and did what they ‘really’ want to do in life. Good luck and best wishes! Can’t wait for another update!
AWESOME! Love it! BEAUTIFUL people and country and beautiful Maddy of course!
Wonderful moments. Thanks for sharing and for the inspiration to take each day with open arms.
Hi Matt and Maddie,
My little guy Max (18 mo) keeps coming to me when I am on the computer and demanding “CARS!” Turns out he wants to watch the video of you and Maddie crossing the street over and over. Max also really likes the picture of Maddie driving. I think he has a serious crush on her!
Thanks for the update!! I feel like we are traveling right along with you guys! I am so glad that you have been able to write and enjoy your time with Maddy. I am really looking forward to your next update
Have a great week!
Andrea
Love all the pics. Especially LOVE Maddy’s India outfits…..adorable=}
I just love her anklet!!! Hope you are buying lots of clothes for her that will fit her later when you are back in LA! You all look like you are enjoying your time there greatly! The people there seem so friendly and they love that little blue eyed mini Liz! Safe travels!
Yay, all you’re doing so well and look great! I’m so thrilled things are falling into place for you. Thanks for sharing your adventure with us…it’s totally cool and I’m loving it! Hugs to you all and here’s to another week of successful writing! :O)
There are simply too many wonderful things in your post for me to comment on. Therefore, I’ll just say “congratualtions” on an amazing start to your Indian adventure!!!
OMG. I love the video of her trying to get your attention!! My daughter does the same thing to me! Mommy, Mommy, Mommy!! It’s really cute but it can be a bit much if you don’t answer! It looks like things are going very well and you are having a great time. I know that when the time comes, it will be hard to leave. The traffic there looks insane! I really love the pictures of the place you spend time writing. It looks so beautiful and I can totally see why you love it there. It looks so peaceful and I’m sure that there are so many memories there with Liz. It is so awesome that you can take Maddy there and she can spend time in that beautiful place. So glad to hear that the writing is really coming along for you. I can’t wait to read what you have written when it is ready! Also, so glad that you are keeping us updated from India too! Keep the pictures coming!!
What a wonderful thing to read and see first thing Monday morning. I’ve been reading since the beginning and I have to say Matt, I’m so happy that you made this decision. When I was looking at the pictures in this post I kept thinking did Matt get a haircut (and maybe you did)? But then I realized that it is just a lightness to you I’ve never seen, except in pictures you post of yourself and Liz. And my God the experiences you’re providing Maddy with are just awesome. I can’t wait to read what you’re writing. I’m rambling and in a daze of cold meds so forgive me = )
And I’m sorry I have to go. My son is singing me an original- I really love you in my heart. Aren’t kids amazing?!
Oh my gosh! Where to even start! I love love love all the photos! Madeline for some reason really reminds me of Liz when her hair is up! It’s just like a mini Liz! Too cute! I hope you guys are having fun and enjoying your time there! I can’t wait to read the book! You are doing so awesome with Madeline! She is one lucky girl Matt! Take care! Love and hugs from the M-O!
You capture the most beautiful images. You really do
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so glad you got that $1000.00 from the cookie company and proud to have been a part of that!
maddy is so cute in those indian clothes. i want some for ME!
Beautiful pictures Matt. Madeline is so lucky to have you. Take Care.
This HAD to be my favourite post ever!!! The photos are EXCELLENT. I love the one of you pointing to the Persons Committing Nuisance wall…the expression on your face is hilarious! Also, crossing the street? I knew it was bad in India…but wow. Neat to see.
The traditional dress you put Madeline in is absolutely gorgeous. So happy to see YOU happy and feeling great about your book. I think you were exactly right, “…no way I could have written this book anywhere else but here.”
Sending you the warmest wishes for a successful and life changing trip!!!
P.S. The matching fistpump photo for diaper change in the street is hysterical. I think my boss now knows I am NOT putting together packages for his client’s investment portfolio. That shit just ain’t funny!!
I’m glad to hear that the writing is going well and that you three are having a great time.
Maddy is adorable and I love the pigtails too –
special wishes for your writing to keep going as well as it has been.
Maddy is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing the details of your trip.
hey MAtt so glad you won the prize – i voted for you – i follow your blog every week from here in the south of england – somerset – the photo of maddie with the candle looking up brought a tear to my eye – your account of your time in bangalore is fab – keep it up
michellexx
Such a great update. Her red and black Indian dress is so beautiful. I gasped when I saw her in it. Too pretty for words.
great post. Glad to know everythings going well. Been thinking about you and Maddy. And Rachel of course. Maddy is so stinkin cute! I think her and my little guy would get along good
Too bad we dont live closer
Matt,
So happy for you that you are having such a wonderful time and that the writing has been successful. I wouldn’t have expected anything less.
Best wishes to you all during the rest of your trip!
Much love,
Sarah
awesomeness…
Rockets entering your apartment by mistake?
Boy do I miss living in Limerick sometimes…
Holy buckets the video crossing the street made me feel like I was in a game of Frogger.
Thank you for letting us all go on this journey with you. For most of us, this will be the closest to India we will ever come. Maddy looks so beautiful in that burgundy and gold outfit. Liz would be so proud, and probably shockingly amazed on how great you dress her. Glad that everything is going well and we look foward in more posts and pictures. Thank you for letting us like vicariously through you.
Safe travels.
I love the outfits Maddy is wearing. They are beautiful!!!!
I love reading your blog!
I am seriously digging the pigtails and the Indian dress. This is a such a great opportunity for her! As always, thanks for sharing!
Love love LOVE the hair bunches. When my daughter was Maddie’s age, her daycare did all of the girls’ hair that way, and even the boys (they liked it too since they all felt like they looked like Shrek). Cute stuff!
Im really random in the sense that I read your post… (It was great by the way)and yet the main thought that came to my mind was… Oh WOW. Hes got a full beard going already! That man knows how to grow a beard! My husband could probably try for a year and still not have that much hair. Random. I know. But thats me. Im glad your writing is coming so freely to you… Good Luck
Oh, my. The dress she wore for Diwali is unbelievably cute!
Crossing the street looks like a terrable game of Frogger. SCARY. Love the idea of a photo blog, it said everything.
what an awesome experience! thanks for all of the great photos. so many things i will likely never see, so it’s a great opportunity for me as well.
maddy is just precious and gorgeous! of course you know this already. each new picture is purdier than the last.
my absolute fave’s are the videos of maddy in action!
may you have many fabulous adventures! you are well on the way already.
liz is smiling down upon you and is so proud of the daddy you have become and her perfectly beautiful daughter! =)
always,
heather
Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,Daddy,HEY!!!! Hi…..
OMG, I watched this 5 times just now on my lunch. Too too awesome!!
I cannot wait till your book is out, Matt. I just know it’s going to be amazing. I’m so happy to see you doing so well, I can’t imagine how it must be for you. But you look happy and you sound happy. You and Maddy are always in my prayers. Enjoy your time there as much as you can and along with everyone else, will be checking daily for new updates.
Oh, and the little mini blogs with the pictures? Priceless! Someone above me mentioned this as your next book topic, pictures and mini blogs about yours and Maddy’s travels, I think that’s the perfect next book!
I love love love her native clothes. What great memories you are capturing for her in these photos. Glad to hear the book is going well. Take care.
Mmmm… dosa for breakfast!! How lucky!
Happy Diwali (a few days late). Looks like it was tons of fun there!
I don’t have the right words to express what I’m feeling right now – the life/experiences you are giving your sweet girl bring tears to my eyes.
Enjoy.
Such gorgeous photos.
Luv the pics. Luv the post. But the BEST part of this update is the vid with “Daddy”. Lmao at that one! Oh and found myself screaming at my laptop…watch out!!…while watchin ya cross the darn street. Holy crap!
I really hope your book is in “coffee book” style, with photos. (and lots of writing) A big fat coffee table book.
My heart just about stopped when you played Frogger crossing the streat! Thank you so much for sharing such wonderful photos – and story lines….
Looks like such a wonderful experience.
What an interesting post.
I think those pics are my favorites on the whole blog. So beautiful! I bought hair ties for Bridget but was reluctant to use them, but Maddy looks so cute that I’m inspired now. Glad the writing is going well and that you’re all safe and having fun!
true love at it’s finest.
it is absolutely a joy to read about your journey with maddy. you are such an incredible inspiration and father. and that daughter of yours-wow, what a cutie! 
thank you for everything that you share. i can’t wait for the book to come out.
golly, is she getting more gorgeous by the day or what?! beautiful indian dress/skirt on her. great investment on the bangles. mommy would be so proud!
glad you are adjusting and enjoying the time. and even better you are able to write freely and it’s coming easily to you. we can’t wait to read! be sure to include every last detail in there (women care about that sort of thing if you recall) keep enjoying and be safe!
i bet the bottom of her robeez are filthy..she has worn them on every street all over the world!
Your killing me with these cute Maddy pics!!
Love all the pictures and play by play of your first week and a half.
Madeline sure looks like you when she is tired. She has her daddy’s tired eyes. I love that she is working so hard for that sleepy face. She doesn’t want to miss anything.
I really appreciate you giving us this opportunity to see India through your eyes and words.
I am so geeked to read your book…you have no idea! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and your little Maddy with us all. Love to you guys!! Your trip seems amazing!
Amazing pictures! What a wonderful experience for Maddy. She won’t remember this trip, but will treasure those pictures. She grew up so much-what a cutie pie!
This is my favorite update ever. Thanks for all the amazing pics. Also, is it me or does Maddy get more adorable by the day. I love her little pigtails and gold bangles, they make her look like a big girl.
is it just me or is she looking so grown up all of a sudden? love the pigtails!!! great update.
Maddie looks so cute in her lehnga! Happy Diwali!
Love Maddie’s new wardrobe! Looks like all 3 of you are having a great experience. Keep the photos coming!
Katy
It looks like you guys are have a lot of fun! You guys looks so happy!
I am loving Maddy’s new hairstyles! (Great job, Rachel!)
I know I’m a bit behind here but what else is new right? Amazing photos Matt ~ I am so happy that you are in a place that you love & that the words are flowing.
You have no idea what this will mean to Maddy over time –
Now get some sleep – you look terrible!
Great update! You are doing such a great job with Madeline. I love the video of her trying to get your attention and I love all of the pictures. Thank Rachel for capturing all of those special moments of you two because they are just priceless.
I love that there are so many pics of you and Maddy. Rachel is a good photographer as well as nanny. And the hair is too cute.
I’m also quite happy to see the beard is back.
It looks amazing so far. How hilarious that she’s becoming a little celebrity.
Steph
your photos as usual are awesome. I love the pigtails and Madeline’s traditional clothes. I’m loving the fact that I get to kind of experience a part of the world I hope to some day visit. Very, very cool Matt!!
hugs from NJ,
Erica, Landon and very very very soon to be born baby boy.
The diwali dress is awesome!! it’s so great that you guys seem to be in just the right place for you, you’re all so brave…
What an remarkable time you must be having. Glad the writing is flowing…. looking forward to your book.
Thanks for sharing on your blog and keeping us all up to date.
Hello, just a question for you. Do you all drink bottled water there? What do you do about Maddys milk? Im sure it is much different there…or not?
Okay, your daughter is ADORABLE, and the crying is killing me.
I see you in a Dodgers hat…um could you send some good mojo???
Thanks, now my 17 year old daughter wants me to take her to India! I will admit that after Slumdog Millionaire, it wasn’t on my top ten lists, but it is now!
you make me want to travel to India to see it all. I have several friends from there, but they never make seem as beautiful as you are.
Congrats on winning the $1200 for The Foundation-I am super excited!
Love the post, pics and the bangle collection! Never too young to learn the art of accessorizing!
I have been following your story for about 18 months now I have a daughter the same age as Maddy …..you are such an inspiration!
What a wonderful adventure!
I loved seeing all the pictures and reading about all of your adventures. So glad the writing is going well.
I’m really pleased for you that it’s going so well.
Happy to hear the writing is going well, can’t wait to buy the end result! It actually makes me equal parts sad and happy to see another woman in Maddy’s life. Should be her mama, but it’s a good thing that Rachel and Maddy will be spending time together, single parents have it so hard. I can’t imagine. Love the photos, and the videos, and Maddy’s clothes!! Wow, what a princess. Love her little diva photo too, that was hilarious, and I had to laugh out loud that you still change her butt in the street!
I just wanted to congratulate you (and The Spohrs are Multiplying) for winning best blog in your respective categories! I enjoy reading both blogs very much and voted numerous times for both.
That crossing the street business looks scary! And I totally love her new bluish/orange outfit!
So happy to hear the book is coming along smoothly, too.
It is wonderful to see you smiling so much…
Hey Matt,
Just wanted to say that Jamie and I are glad that things are going relatively smoothly for you. We admire your sense of adventure! Take care and good luck on writing.
Thinking of you,
Cara
She is beautiful! <3 I love the new pigtails. It looks like you are having an amazing experience in India. Thanks for sharing it with us folks back in the US. I hope the creative juices keep flowing.
Glad to hear you won the prize!
What freaking amazing pictures Matt.
Thanks for the update and all the beautiful photos. I loved hearing the part about the place where you go to write, what a vivid impression you express.
Glad to see that you are all having such a great time – what an awesome experience.
Tell Maddy that Maddie L says hi from the LBC!
I love looking at all the bright colors and especially Maddie’s big bright smile. Happy the writing is going well. We continue to think of you daily.
It makes me emotional to see that you needed this and it shows. Blessings.
She is SO cute. You’re such a great daddy! keep it up.
what a journey and what an honor to be allowed to tag along.
Amazing photos! What an incredible experience for Maddie. LOVE the dress & bangles….
And I cannot wait to read your book!
Best of luck w/ the writing!
Matt,
Great post! Love all the pics. Glad the writing is going well. I can’t wait to read the book. So wish Liz were with you. I suppose she is though, huh?
Best wishes to you, Maddy and Rachel!
Liz
Wow Matt,
I always check in but never comment..looks like a life experience that the three of you needed.
Best of luck and honestly you are doing an amazing job..the book can’t come out fast enough.
that street crossing is insane! felt like i was there with you guys! how wonderful it must be to be there. you look so at peace there. maddie seems to be fitting right in – with the outfits, jewelry, and her celebrity status! she is a DOLL – but you already know that. praying for you as you write the not so easy parts of the book, but nevertheless, i am excited to buy this book! give maddie a kiss from all us creeps!
I was thrilled to learn about the Diwali celebration going on! It’s like they knew you were coming and wanted to welcome you guys with a wonderful celebration! I hope you all had a bunch of fun.
The outfit Maddie was wearing for the celebration was BEAUTIFUL!!
The pictures were SO beautiful!
What an amazing post–and the gift you are giving Maddy with this trip and this blog is unbelievable. I think the breakfast dosai (sp?) pic may be one of my all time favorites.
wow, beautiful pictures. she’s really looking older, especially with those freakin’ adorable pony tails!
Beautiful pictures, Matt. Somehow, with your words and amazing pictures, you have managed to make me feel as though I am right there in India, amongst the sounds and sights. I so wish to get there one day. How long are you, Maddy and Rachael going to be there? What an experience!
I just got teary eyed THINKING about reading your book. Love the updates, the tweets, the pics and especially love Rachael. (Nice job on the hair, Rachael!)
Hey everyone don’t forget to vote for the best blog finalist!!!!
We’re losing ground over there so quick!
http://pregnant.thebump.com/extras/mommy-blog-awards/articles/best-overall-blog-mommy-blog-awards.aspx
Daddy! Daddy! Daddy! (x10) Hi!
Priceless.
She’s got some awesome new duds, definitely.
Matt,
I have a friend who lost her husband earlier this year. They have a son who will be 17 on Monday. If there’s anyway, will you please post this letter from her on your blog?
Hi e-mail buddy’s
)
The 26th of Oct. is my son William’s birthday (he’ll be 17). I worry about him this year for many reasons, so I need your help. I want to do something special for him but he’s a guy so he says “no way”. I would like to surprise him by giving him a Birthday Card party. Please send him a funny birthday card and please send this e-mail to ANYBODY in the world. I would love to see him get cards from all over the world (it won’t matter if they’re late). I know I’m thinking kind of big but I’m a mom who loves her son and I need to do something. All of those “first” this year have been very hard on us just as any family who has lost someone as important as my son’s father. So please help make this a day that he will remember, a day that people cared.
William Kerr
4522 Galleon Dr.
Loves Park, ILL. 61111
Thank you from a Mothers Heart,
Debbie Kerr
I would be most appreciative. As is your experience, this family has so struggled this year without their husband and father. He was a rock in our community and is so missed…our children have the same birthday, but William really could use a special gift this year. Thank you so much.
Jacque Ruch
Love the update and photos…she is getting SO big! Absolutely precious. So happy that the book is coming together too. Enjoy the rest of your time there.
Sir, you write it and I will read it. In fact, take all your posts and pictures from this site, put it in book form and I will buy it right now. Tremendous, tremendous stuff here. I haven’t been moved by words and images like this in a very long time. It is all just so powerful. Your pain and joy and anguish and loneliness and love just jump from the page to my heart and my head. You are a seriously talented cat and I cannot wait to read what you are working on now. Congratulations on succeeding so beautifully at raising that lucky little girl of yours. Yes, lucky.
What fun it sounds like you guys are having! Great memories…and the pictures are fantastic! Maddy’s hair in the pigtails are toooo cute!!
Love reading this update! The photos are amazing and your daughter gets more beautiful every time I see a new photo!
Wow, Matt! What a fantastic set of photos and summary of your journey to date – the date you wrote this.
Life for everyone is so busy. It took me a while to get to this.
We’re so glad to hear that Madeline is getting into a more normal sleep pattern and that you and Rachel are working on that.
We’re also thrilled that your work on the book is going so well. It looks so beautiful there in many of the shots – thanks for opening our eyes to that beauty.
We hope and pray that all continues to go well for you and Maddie! Need I add this? We look forward to your return in the not too distant future.
God’s blessings, always!
Asalamu Alaykom Dear Matt,
What a different world than The LA yet so simmilar to where I am in Egypt. The azan was great to hear
Thanks for that! It was actually very different than the azan here. I’ll have to record it sometime (and send it to you).
The tuk-tuks are the same. Mr. Boo tries to hop in a tuk-tuk any time I pause in walking around.
The traffic is the same—if not more so here. I say that crossing the street is like real-life Frogger.
The bangles are lovely. It was my only tear-up moment while reading (and dang you—I was hoping for a really good cry that is yet to be acheieved today…oh well, there’s still time). Did you get the glass bangles? Those buggers can break so easily.
You look to be finding some peace in people and places. There is definately some release in being a bit lost. Thought of the Eddie Veder song which had accompanied one of your videos long ago. “I’m gonna rise up and find my direction magnetically.” Listening to it on youtube now. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXVpjjpwNss You do continue to find your way. I hope I do as well inshahallah. I’m proud of you for being weird enough to get lost and found.
May all your trips to masjids, temples, parks, and homes bring you closer to your direction and may Miss M. accompany you every step of the way in good health and happiness.
Hello,
Matt,you are an epitome of strength and you force me to think “Nothing is impossible in life”….
I’ve spent the better part of the weekend reading your blog. I adore it! I’m hooked! Damn!
May I just say….you look “different” in these photos. I don’t want to pretend to actually KNOW you or make up something that may not really be there. Of course you always look completely in love with your precious one but there is always so much sadness in your eyes. Where you are now, you seem to have more glimmer to your eyes. Is it just me? I always notice it. I can tell you are in a good place. I know it only makes sense, you are in a place that your wife and you love and now Maddy does too!
I love Maddy pictures Matt! Gorgeous photos, this post is amazing! The video of her getting your attention is so adorable!
Dear Matt: first of all, congrats on your bd. It’s been very nice to be able to tag along and see how your and your daughter’s journey continues. Rachel seems like such a caring young woman, you are blessed to have her come along for the trip and help look after Madeline. I wish you continued safe travels and have fun on your ‘getaway’. Anja (Canada).
Its almost like being there with you. It makes me want to go. Just need a little smell-o-vision to complete the picture.
Wait, maybe that would be bad.
I think your next book should be a travelogue: India with a toddler. It could be a whole series and you and Maddie could travel the world.
Its great when the words flow, isn’t it? I know that feeling well. Enjoy the magic.
Matt, 9 days without an update is killing me. I love following your blog! Thank you for all you do for other widowers with the foundation and for your readers by sharing your story.
Take care, Angela
I thought that with Rachel there with you, we were going to get more frequent postings? I need a Matt & Maddy fix, damn it.
Matt –
Good evening. You are an amazing dad. Your daughter has a beautiful gift in you being her father. It is amazing to see how much she looks like Liz and how much love the two of you have for each other.
amazing.
It’s been very nice to be able to tag along and see how your and your daughter’s journey continues.
I am from St. Bonifacius, Minnesota….one of the many Logelins living there. We are all wondering which Logelin family you hail from????? I am now living in Minnetonka…they say you are from Minnetonka…..how come we never ran across from one another….did you attend Minnetonka High School? We Boni people are dying to know how you fit into the family….I have all the pedigree charts and records….please let us know!!!
Good luck on your efforts…and congratulations for doing so well…..
P.S. I THINK YOU LOOK LIKE A LOGELIN!!!!!
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