the last few weeks…

we’re back in

los angeles after

a couple of weeks

of travel.

we had to fly

back to minnesota for

for my friend nate’s wedding

so we made a

week of it.

the first saturday

was spent on the

golf course, in a backyard

and at a bowling alley

as we celebrated

nate’s bachelor party.

an awesome time

was had

by all, mostly

because we hadn’t

all been together since

my cousin josh’s

wedding reception in 2008.

brooke worked in

her old office

in st. paul and

maddy spent most of

the trip traveling

between the grandparents

while i was

stuck in a

hotel restaurant/bar

working on

finishing up my book.

i was able

to sneak out a

couple of times

to take some

photos around town.

graffiti.

graffiti.

baby.

back.

detail.

jesus.

detail.

huddled.

graffiti.

street art.

art.

buildings.

5

i also took a break

to do a little

swimming with

maddy.

aj, sonja and emilia,

and maddy’s uncle

adam and auntie holly

brought her cousin

ava to join us.

it took maddy

a few minutes

to jump in,

not quite ready to swim.

but she eventutally

got changed and

into the pool.

swimming.

swimming.

flying.

flying.

it was a ton of

fun and a much

needed break for me.

saturday rolled around

and it was

time for the wedding.

it took place

at nate’s grandma’s

farm in wisconsin.

road.

silos.

after nearly a full

week of rain and

shitty weather,

the skies cooperated.

lots of sunshine, few

clouds, and most importantly,

no rain.

we took a couple

of photos before the

show started

bob and tina.

aj, me, josh.

candid.

aj.

with his wife

in the crowd

and just one day

from her due date,

josh officiated the ceremony

(he got ordained on the internet in 2002 and has now performed three weddings, including my brother nick’s wedding in alaska a few years ago)

waiting.

after a short

ceremony, josh

pronounced nate and stacey married,

vows.

moments after their lives totally changed.

and then it

was time to party.

the groom about to throw a kid.

talking.

aj was asked

if he was a

quarterback in high school

planning.

touchdown!

which drew a

laugh from everyone,

but no one laughed

louder than his wife.

after the

football game,

we jumped on the

tire swing

and relived our childhoods.

tire swings.

then it was time

for the reception…

into the barn

we went

table.

ceiling.

where we had an

incredible meal

prepared by an

award-winning chef.

aj, sonja and emily.

cutting a cake.

after dinner

we rushed out

to take a

few photos

while the sun

fell from the sky

in the road.

aj.

josh in a field.

nate and stacey.

dandelion.

married couple near a field.

sunset.

sunset.

after the sun set,

we headed back

to the barn for

the reception.

wedding barn.

we had a couple

of drinks

with nate.

which lead to this:

dancin'.

fives.

dancin'.

by 11:30 we were

all exhausted so

it was time

to go.

stayed in a hotel

in the town

of new richmond

where i talked

to the owner about kerala.

after a few

hours of sleep

we were up and

on the way to

the airport.

my mom and stepdad

met us there

with madeline

so we could fly

back to los angeles.

the plan was to

stay for a couple

of hours then

head to san francisco

later that evening,

but we had

to delay our trip

a couple of days

so i could do

some additional

work on my book.

since maddy has

been showing some of

the signs that

she’s ready to

get started,

we went out and

bought her a potty chair.

let the fun begin.

by tuesday night

we were in

san francisco to help

grandma candee and grandpa tom g.

celebrate auntie deb’s

law school graduation.

the first night

in town found us

eating an amazing

dinner prepared by deb

and her roommates.

just as last week,

maddy spent the

majority of the week

with her grandparents

and of course, her auntie deb.

ipad fun with auntie deb.

resting with auntie and grandma.

i took a short break

to get some

fresh air

tom and deb.

sf.

sky.

while maddy took

a sort nap.

out.

up.

the next day

we braved a bit

of rain

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maddy with umbrella.

as we went

out for lunch.

the next day

maddy crossed the

road with a chicken

and auntie deb.

crossing the road with a chicken and auntie deb.

later in the week

we were joined

by brooke

and by

liz’s

cousin nichole and

her boyfriend rob.

brooke’s friend

kari and her kids

derek & mckenzie

met us where we

were staying.

they hung out

with me

for a bit,

but for some

reason found me

a bit boring,

matt and kids.

so they headed to

the park

where maddy

and derek became

fast friends.

derek and maddy.

(i almost wish brooke hadn’t sent me that photo).

by saturday it was

time to head

to san mateo to

enjoy the maker faire

it was full of nerds

(i say that lovingly)

nerd.

ouch.

maker faire.

ghostbuster.

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brooke with a ghostbuster.

and as

tom pointed out,

he really felt

like he was with

his people.

i broke off from

the group and took

maddy to have some fun

maddy.

coloring.

we caught up

with everyone for lunch.

lunch.

lunch.

afterward, madeline played.

looking up.

maddy.

spinning.

under a

rocket ship.

looking up.

madeline.

maddy and rocket.

brooke and rocket.

afterward, madeline

was exhausted so

while she

slept on grandma,

asleep with grandma.

i did a little

shopping, picking up

a build-your-own

phonograph, gramophone and

vacuum-tube radio kits.

i will now

have something to

do when the book

is finished.

speaking of that book.

the writing is

now complete,

but that doesn’t mean

that i’m done.

now the bulk of

the editing begins,

which should

keep me busy for a

couple of weeks.

i guess i won’t

really consider this thing

done until

it’s on the shelves

(you can expect that to happen in march 2011).

that evening,

a great friend of

liz’s

stopped by with her son.

i hadn’t seen

chandra since she

was pregnant with quinn,

and i was

eager to

finally meet her

little man.

and so was madeline.

checking quinn out.

she helped him

remove his shoes

helping quinn remove his shoes.

then everyone played.

playing.

after tons of fun

and tons of catching up,

grandpa demonstrated for maddy

something he used

to do when

liz

was her age.

soon enough it was

time for chandra

and quinn to

head home,

so of course maddy

helped him

get his shoes back on.

putting quinn's shoes back on.

on sunday we

flew back to los angeles

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and things have

been moving along

as they have been…

brooke at work,

maddy at daycare

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and i was working

on some edits.

that is, until yesterday.

the day started off

normally, but

i got a call

from maddy’s daycare

saying that she hurt

her arm and that

she was crying.

i dropped everything

and made it

to north hollywood

faster than i

ever have

(thanks to some fast driving and some amazingly clear freeways).

when i got to the

place, maddy was

sitting quietly,

holding her arm

while listening

to one of the daycare

folks read to her.

as soon

as she saw me she

said, “daddy. arm hurt.”

then she said

something about oliver.

i don’t think

she was trying to

implicate him

in any sort of

malicious behavior…

i really think she

was calling his

name so he would

comfort her.

we drove home

where we met brooke.

she picked up

some non-recalled

pain medication.

then we all went to

the doctor

(but not maddy’s usual doctor).

i assumed it was

another case of nursemaid’s elbow

(she’d had that condition a few times now)

and if it was,

it would be an

easy fix.

in fact, last time

this happened, the doctor

showed me how to

fix the problem myself.

that said, i refuse to

try to do it.

i mean, i’m no

doctor and i’m afraid

that i’d do more

damage than good

so i’ve

determined that

the experts should

do the arm twisting.

maddy got checked

out and it didn’t

appear that it

was a case of nursemaid’s elbow

so we were sent to

the hospital up

the freeway for a

couple of x-rays.

as i got

maddy checked in,

she sat with brooke

and recited her

colors to the

woman seated next

to them, then

i heard a hospital

code over the loudspeaker.

fuck.

haven’t heard those

words in a little

over two years.

(i fucking hate hospitals).

maddy was brave

and sat still

through her x-rays

(i helped a little bit by holding her down).

the x-rays were negative,

so we went home

for a bite of

a cupcake

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and a short nap.

she woke up

and it was obvious

that she was still

in a lot of pain.

we headed back to

the doctor

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and this

time we saw maddy’s

usual doctor.

in fact, she stayed

late so that she

could see maddy personally.

after a quick exam,

she tried

the ol’ arm twist

thing, and on the

second shot,

she felt the

tell-tale pop.

brooke and i

both cried as

we heard maddy

cry, but our cries

were cries of relief,

because we knew

that after 6 hours

of pain,

maddy would soon

be feeling a

lot better.

to celebrate, we

went out and bought

maddy a big

yellow and black

dump truck.

then we took her

to play at

a playground and then

a ride on

a trolley.

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maddy went to bed

with a smile.

and i was happy

that my little

girl was back

to normal.

——–

also, wanted to mention that we were featured on the cover of the los angeles times last sunday in a story about the rising rates of maternal mortality in the u.s.

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you can read the article here.

as always, i’m happy that our story can be used to help bring more attention to this troubling trend.

and of course, if you want to help us help other families who’ve lost a parent, please consider donating to the liz logelin foundation.

110 Comments

  1. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:09 am | Permalink

    I try not be a downer, but I just wanted to say that this post made me weary. I cannot fathom the endurance one must have (or not beat themselves up for *not* having) to keep your pace.
    I hope the next pop you hear is from corks celebrating your finish line.

  2. Erika
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:15 am | Permalink

    So happy to hear Maddy is ok, and you guys have been having some fun. I love hearing about Brooke. You deserve this happiness. :-)

  3. Tara in The Fort.
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:16 am | Permalink

    I’m glad Maddy’s arm is feeling better. Poor little thing. What an ordeal! Wish the first Doc would have tried the arm twist thing to help ease her pain.
    Sounds like you all have been super busy! So many wonderful adventures you go on. What will you do with yourself when she goes to school? You’ll have to travel less, unless you homeschool her. The world could be her classroom! :D

  4. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:20 am | Permalink

    So glad she is ok. Matt it is so nice to see you happy. You and Maddy deserve it and Brooke seems to be a great fit!!! I cannot wait to read your book! Good luck with the last bit of it!

  5. Sandy
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:26 am | Permalink

    I think back to the 2 years + being a faithful stranger/friend/follower of yours – it is true what they say, Weeping comes for a season – but then there is JOY!

    So happy for you 3!
    S

  6. Sandy
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:27 am | Permalink

    Oh one other question – is there going to be a book tour?

  7. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:29 am | Permalink

    @Sandy

    maybe…that’s all up the publisher.

  8. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:29 am | Permalink

    So glad to have re-found your blog. I love it and it’s been such a joy catching up with your posts.

  9. Melissa
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:33 am | Permalink

    Great update! My husband took the kids to the Maker Faire last year & they had a blast.

    Poor Maddy’s arm – I would have cried too!

  10. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:33 am | Permalink

    Photos in this post are epic. I absolutely love the polaroids and the barn reception scenes.

  11. Adrianne in the ATX
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:33 am | Permalink

    1.) I want Brooke’s job. I don’t care what it is, I want it! It’s awesome that she has so much flexibility and is able to travel with you two so much!

    2.) You are a huge nerd. (I say that lovingly)

    3.) If I would have been seated next to you guys in the airport when Maddy was lounged out and coloring, I would have been the annoying/creepy lady staring at her and smiling at how adorable she is! Such a cute picture:)

    4.) That picture of Maddy crying almost made me cry. Poor thing! So glad she is feeling better. I can’t imagine watching my child in pain and feeling helpless like that.

    5.) Do we really need a #5? I think it’s time for me to shut up! Thanks for the update! And continued luck with the book!!

  12. pOz
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:38 am | Permalink

    Long time follower here. So happy that Brooke is in your lives. Got a little misty-eyed when I read the part about you, Brooke and Maddy all crying. Can’t wait until March 2011- might be the first book I’ll had ever read without CliffsNotes!

  13. Jennifer
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:42 am | Permalink

    I’m going to have to get a photo of me from my parent’s house. I’m in London visiting my Nana, and in a stroller holding a big umbrella. A circa 1970 duplicate of the photo of Maddy–brought a smile to my face.

  14. Brenda C
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:42 am | Permalink

    I can’t believe you stayed in New Richmond. I was born there 34 years ago.

  15. Lindsay
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:45 am | Permalink

    BOOK TOUR! Be sure to come to Portland. I love reading your blog and seeing pictures, and I can’t wait for this book.

  16. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:46 am | Permalink

    I’m SO relieved they fixed her arm!!

    And holy shit – you DANCED?? Glad you have that on record! =)-

  17. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:47 am | Permalink

    Love all the pictures, especially the ones that look like Polaroids ! Glad to head Maddy is feeling better !

    Just read the LA Times article. Great piece- glad that it is being discussed and hopefully our rates will begin to decline soon !

  18. Marnie :)
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:53 am | Permalink

    WOW, that was a lot of traveling in such a short time. Glad you all enjoyed yourselves.

    Poor Maddy. I’m glad she is feeling better.

    Can’t wait for the book. :)

  19. Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:53 am | Permalink

    Love the tire swing pics! And oh man, I miss being that little so my daddy could throw me up in the air too…

    Good luck with edits!

  20. jm
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 10:59 am | Permalink

    OH I would so meet you if you had a book tour. :) Thanks for the update and happy editing!

  21. rhonda burkhalter
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:01 am | Permalink

    Arm twister and hair cutter you are not. Great Dad to Maddy you are. The polaroids are neat. Love your sneakers.

  22. Rachel
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:04 am | Permalink

    Great post! So glad your book is almost finished! I’m still patiently waiting :)

    I’m also glad you were able to figure out what was wrong with Maddy and that she is now feeling better! That picture of her crying is heartbreaking! I would have been crying too…

    Any more travel plans for the future?

  23. Catherine
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:14 am | Permalink

    Your article was in the Chicago Tribune, too! You and Maddy looked great.

  24. JCF
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:20 am | Permalink

    I read the LA Times article the other day, and it broke my heart all over again for you and Maddie and other families who have lost moms after childbirth. It makes me enormously grateful to have had two healthy pregnancies and births (and hoping for another great one is 6 weeks or so). It also makes me want to move to Norway or something.

  25. shosh
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:38 am | Permalink

    Wow. You guys certainly dont lead a boring life! But I sure feel like I do after reading all that….
    my daughter who is the same age as maddie has had her elbow popped out twice….the 1st time i took her to the hospital but the 2nd time i did it myself. made me a little nauseous but you’d be surprised how easy it is to do!!!

  26. kris
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:41 am | Permalink

    oooh…my daughter had that same arm thingy when she was two! YIKES! Poor thing, and poor you. Things like that are almost always harder on parents then the kid. Can’t wait for the book.

  27. Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:42 am | Permalink

    Book tour for sure! At least a signing at some fabulous books store in the Twin Cities!

    Poor Maddy! My sister’s elbow pops out every now and then and pain can be just so much! Glad it is feeling better!

  28. Kayla
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 11:54 am | Permalink

    Found your blog a week ago… you are one amazing father and I cannot wait for the book to come out. =)

  29. Katie
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 12:06 pm | Permalink

    What a wonderful article – and I am so glad to see that this disturbing trend of maternal death is being brought to light. Too often, I hear of women choosing c-sections because they are “easier” or getting induced because their doctor will be on vacation when they are due. That is insane! Of course, none of this was the case with Liz, but I think the trend is going up because of this lax behavior towards childbirth. I am so glad that you bringing this to the forefront!

  30. Sue
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 12:15 pm | Permalink

    Whew,,,,,,I’m tired just from reading about all of that, practically, non-stop traveling, but it’s obvious that it’s in your blood, and you love it so much! So glad that Maddy’s arm is all back to normal, and my heart ached when I saw the pic of her crying. When you speak of Maddy and Brooke in the same sentence, and we see pics of them together; it’s so very clear just how much they love one another. I wish sooooooo much happiness for all 3 of you!!!!!!!!

  31. Posted 5/27/2010 at 1:33 pm | Permalink

    Oh my. What a schedule! I got home from the first ’6 day vacation’ I can remember in a long time and I am exhausted. I cannot imagine how you feel after traveling SO much over the last 2 years.

    As always– Maddie and darling :)

  32. Lori
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 1:37 pm | Permalink

    Happy to hear you’re on the editing portion of your book! Woo-Hoo!!!

    I’m so very happy for the three of you. You better be taking good care of Brooke ;-) I know how hard it is moving and adjusting without family nearby.

    We are patiently waiting for Brooke to write a post about the real matt! LOL.

    Best Wishes,
    Lori

  33. Posted 5/27/2010 at 1:38 pm | Permalink

    I am so sad from watching that video of Grandpa and Maddy. I am wondering how he is doing after losing his daughter. Obviously, it is wonderful that he has you and Maddy, just felt sad for him.

  34. Dana
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 2:04 pm | Permalink

    Oh poor Maddy! I am glad she is feeling better, the pic were she is in pain made me wince thinking about that arm pop. I am so glad Brooke is there for her. I know Liz is somewhere smiling and I know she is happy that you have found someone that cares about Maddy and buys her big frosted cupcakes =)

  35. Posted 5/27/2010 at 2:19 pm | Permalink

    I swear, you do more in a day than I do in a month and that means that you’re full of the AWESOME.

  36. Posted 5/27/2010 at 2:20 pm | Permalink

    Poor Maddy!!!I’m so glad that it wasn’t something serious with her arm! You are busy busy busy as always!!!

  37. Posted 5/27/2010 at 3:25 pm | Permalink

    Wow, Matt dancing and it’s recorded for posterity!

    Sounds like a great couple of trips.

    BTW, that is a great article.

  38. Posted 5/27/2010 at 3:27 pm | Permalink

    phew! what an update! you two (well, three, since brooke counts!) travel a lot :) so great you get to spend so much time with your and liz’s family.
    so glad to hear that madeline’s arm is all better!!

  39. Posted 5/27/2010 at 3:31 pm | Permalink

    So….we have the same potty chair and to make it sing you have to cover the two little sliver pieces in the bowl of the chair. Took me a while to figure that out and by now you probably have too but just in case, thought I’d help you out!!!

  40. Briar59 Pam the Mn
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 4:05 pm | Permalink

    So happy Maddy is all better. So sad when they are in pain and we are helpless! Good post, looks like alot of fun had by all here in the MN and in Sconny! :)

  41. patteee
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 4:14 pm | Permalink

    Oliver and the elbow. Not to point fingers at anyone, but he may very well have been yanking on her arm to come and do something- it doesn’t take much at all. My son was 2 when his first went out- and it was from another child at daycare trying to get him to wake up from naptime and play.

  42. Michelle
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 4:29 pm | Permalink

    Bet I’m the first to ever tell you Maddy is a doll, right??? ;) And I bet Oliver is the first of MANY boys that will think so, too.

    Please excuse me if I’ve missed something, but are you and Brooke dating exclusively? Or is she family/nanny? It’s not important, and I know this question is personal, but enquiring minds want to know. ;)

    So glad your book is almost finished. You’ve worked so hard on it – can’t wait to get my copy! So when are you coming to Cincinnati for your book signing???

  43. Mandy in the A-T-L
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 5:16 pm | Permalink

    w00t w00t! Glad to hear that you’re onto the next stage of your book – it has to be a huge relief to have the first stage completed.

    I told my nerd/geek husband, “Honey, you have Dragon*Con to go hang out with all your nerdy/geek friends over Labor Day weekend. At some point in the future, I want to go to the Bay Area Maker Faire.” That was before I saw your pictures of the event. Now I think that he would also find some of his own kind to hang out with and be perfectly happy too!

  44. Amanda
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 7:08 pm | Permalink

    Oh, that photo of Maddy crying is so sad! I’m glad it ended up being an easy fix in the end.

    Okay, the big question – where did Maddy get that adorable pink floral coat?! It’s the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen and kind of wonder if it comes in my size.

  45. Steph
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 7:15 pm | Permalink

    the photos in this post were epic.

    i’m glad that maddy is doing better. you’re doing an excellent job with her, i hope that you realize that. & brooke is an excellent addition to your little family.

  46. Ange in the MKE
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 7:27 pm | Permalink

    Aw, poor girl. I’m glad she’s on the mend.

    And….I have to say that Wisconsin girls are the BEST (I may be biased on this) so I’m in love with Brooke. I don’t know how you two are going to figure out that Packer vs. Vikings thing though. I wouldn’t budge and Brett ain’t coming back so…good luck with that whole thing.

    Can’t wait for the book!!!!!!

  47. Posted 5/27/2010 at 7:46 pm | Permalink

    I’m happy that she’s OK and soon to work on potty trainning. I mean, seriously, I would love a potty like that for myself. It SINGS if I do it! HOW AWESOME IS THAT? LOL

    Also, you’re such a great dad, Matt. I’m proud of you. I’m sure Liz is too.

    Hugs!

  48. Mrs. Harrison Ford
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 7:59 pm | Permalink

    It’s so cute that Maddy has two boyfriends. Luckily at that age it’s harmless!

    I am also a huge nerd and would’ve been asking R2-D2 where Han Solo was because I am his Princess Leia (not that skinny bitch, Calista Flockhart!).

  49. Jenny
    Posted 5/27/2010 at 8:20 pm | Permalink

    My friend’s husband painted the mural at the beginning of your post. Weird seeing them here.

  50. Posted 5/28/2010 at 6:23 am | Permalink

    Have you seen Exit Through the Gift Shop (Banksy’s movie about street art)? So good. Your first photos reminded me.

    Thanks for the update. Glad you’re all doing well. That pic of Maddy crying is heartbreaking.

  51. Diane
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 6:38 am | Permalink

    Great post. I was bummed I missed the article in the Times. I swear it was not in my local edition down in south OC–I know, a world away from LA. Was it a Sat/Sun combo edition?

    At any rate, thanks for the updates, photos, and I’m so glad Maddy’s arm is better. Good luck on the editing phase.

  52. CJ
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 7:11 am | Permalink

    Matt-my husband and I had that same potty chair for our son (blue-not pink!) and after awhile it became possessed and would start singing for no reason when no one was in the bathroom. I’ll tell you what….it will scare the s**t out of you the first few times it happens! We finally had to take the batteries out of it. Good luck with the potty training, you cannot believe how much easier it makes life!

  53. Anna
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 9:08 am | Permalink

    So glad to hear that Maddy is ok….just reading you describe the arm twisting gave me chills! Poor thing! And can’t wait to hear the stories/adventures of potty training! Can’t wait for March 2011!! Be blessed!

  54. Betsy
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 9:43 am | Permalink

    Thank goodness Maddy’s regular doctor was able to help her with her arm. Poor sweet baby.

    Hooray for seeing friends and family and safe travel.

    Congrats on finishing the book. I can’t imagine how relieved you must feel to have met that deadline. I look forward to buying a copy next year.

    Thanks for sharing the LA Times article. I cried when I read the last several lines.

  55. Nicole Stanley
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 10:32 am | Permalink

    Any ideas on how to make regular digital photos look like poloroids? I love the pics – you have an eye for a great photo!

    Good luck with the book!

  56. Danielle
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 11:41 am | Permalink

    Are those real polaroids?

  57. Posted 5/28/2010 at 11:48 am | Permalink

    Wow, you guys have been busy. Glad Maddy is ok.

    Have a great holiday weekend!

  58. Posted 5/28/2010 at 12:57 pm | Permalink

    @Danielle

    yes, they are real polaroids.

  59. Noreen
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 2:48 pm | Permalink

    The video of X marks the spot just made my day. I haven’t heard that rhyme in forever, and Maddie and her no, no, no, *GRIN* when he started it is fantastic.

  60. Debbie
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 3:21 pm | Permalink

    Poor Maddy! So glad to hear she is on the mend. I absolutely love the video of Maddy and Grandpa, she knows exactly what she wants! Keep us posted on the potty training. My daughter just turned two in May and I’m wondering when we should start this process. Congrats on finishing the book, I can’t wait to read it and I really hope your publisher wants to do a book tour.

  61. Posted 5/28/2010 at 3:32 pm | Permalink

    Matt
    I love reading your blog!! It makes me smile to hear about the happiness in your life now. I have read it from the beginning to now and what a journey you two have been on!! But with all the pain, its so nice to read about new happiness. Great update!!

    xoxo to you and Maddy!!
    Sabrina

    Also I don’t think I can wait until MARCH 2011!!! Ugh so far away!!

  62. Posted 5/28/2010 at 4:11 pm | Permalink

    my daughter is the same age as maddy and she has also popped her arms out a few times. The last time our dr. sent us to a physical therapist who said she has double jointed elbows and they hyperextend and there is no much we can do about it until she outgrows it. Awesome. They also showed my husband how to fix it but he, like you declined- he also thinks that stuff should be left up to the drs. ALso my neighbor told me it was because my kid doesn’t eat enough vegetables- also awesome.

  63. Posted 5/28/2010 at 5:06 pm | Permalink

    here is my potty tip…
    while the pink little seat is very cute :) ,
    I would also have her sit on the big potty, too.
    because sometimes, you have to re-train them to use the big one, after being used to the little one…like in restaurants, etc.
    Plus, who wants to clean that out after she’s successful? yuck :)
    did you hear that Gabba will be in LA Thanksgiving weekend??

  64. Posted 5/28/2010 at 6:05 pm | Permalink

    I am thinking a nice big BBQ complete with lots of beer and yummy food is in order once you get your nose out of your book. :) Good luck. Can’t wait to read it.

  65. Posted 5/28/2010 at 6:14 pm | Permalink

    congrats to auntie deb on her graduation!

  66. Erica M
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 6:38 pm | Permalink

    Hi Matt,

    Your posts are few and far between now, but completely worth the wait and chock full of adventures. I love reading them!

    Seeing Maddy with her grandpa made me wonder what Liz looked like at that age….any thought to posting any pictures of her? I’m just having a feeling that Maddy is a spitting image.

    Have a wonderful weekend!!

  67. Sarah
    Posted 5/28/2010 at 7:10 pm | Permalink

    I have been reading your blog for what seems like forever, but have never commented before. As soon as I see a new post, I can’t open it nearly as fast as I’d like to. :) The video of you with Maddy melts my heart. You are such an amazing father. I love, love, love your blog, and I cannot wait to read your book. Keep up the amazing pictures, awesome stories, and post more adorable videos!!!!

  68. Posted 5/28/2010 at 7:21 pm | Permalink

    Such a beautiful tribute to Liz in that article. Really touching.

  69. Posted 5/28/2010 at 8:57 pm | Permalink

    Hey Matt! I just wanted to say that I’m happy that you and Maddy seem to be doing so well and are so happy (besides the whole elbow incident). You deserve nothing but happiness. Brooke seems like an awesome lady and seems to fit in perfect with you two (and she has an amazing fashion sense!). Maddy always seems so happy with her.

    I will be first in line to buy your book next March!

  70. Amy
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 5:47 am | Permalink

    OMG…you were in New Richmond, WI? I live in New Richmond and have read your blog since the Startribune introduced me to your story some two years ago. I love your posts and pictures! I cant wait to read your book also! You are doing such a great job with Maddie! My two year just potty trained too and he did much better on the big potty!

  71. Katherine
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 8:28 am | Permalink

    Maker Faire is awesome. We missed it this year, alas… Glad you got to go and that Maddy loved it too! (maybe she will be a maker geek someday!)

  72. Emily
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 11:06 am | Permalink

    Glad that Maddy is doing better. Sad picture. I’ve been meaning to take my husband to the French restaurant that we met at oh so long ago—we should double some time. Happy to see that you guys are doing well!

  73. Nicole
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 11:32 am | Permalink

    The potty chair video is so cute. She sure loves Oliver! I am starting to potty train my daughter soon to, any tips? Maddy is turning into a beautiful young lady. You def. need to do a book tour and come to Indianapolis! Bring Maddy with you, we will have play date!

  74. Sheena
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 4:18 pm | Permalink

    i really miss seeing the comparison photos between liz & madeline! it was so neat to see pictures of the two of them in the same place!

  75. Jan
    Posted 5/29/2010 at 4:35 pm | Permalink

    I’ve been reading your posts for awhile and as a new mom, I got talked “guilted” into taking a trip by plane to meet up some relatives since they have yet to meet my son. When I read the posts of your travels with Maddie, it made me realize that I can do that and she started younger than my own son.

    P.S. Lucky you, starting to potty train

  76. Amelia
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 2:35 am | Permalink

    would you share what your tattos say?

  77. Tina H in upstate NY
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 9:25 am | Permalink

    congrats on completing your book and good luck with your edits. I can’t wait for March 2011.
    Maddy looks wonderful. You look happy. and I think Brooke is part of that. You all deserve happiness. plus there are more pics of you now on your blog :)

  78. kim
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 2:54 pm | Permalink

    i have to say, i never thought i’d watch a video starring a potty chair and say “awww.” ;)

    beautiful pictures. congratulations on being *almost* done with the book.

  79. Linda from WI
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 5:43 pm | Permalink

    matt, are you trying to bring the polaroid cam back? only you could make those resulting pics look good, you know that right.

    glad Miss Maddy’s arm is better =)

    joy and peace

  80. Mar in the MN
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 7:06 pm | Permalink

    My husband grew up in new richmond, wi. small world….good update, i can’t wait for the book!!

  81. Krista
    Posted 5/30/2010 at 7:45 pm | Permalink

    The pic of the 3 of you is so damn cute! Heading over to read ur newspaper article now but after clicking the link and seeing the pic, I had to head back HERE to ask what the tats on ur upper arms read? Also? That pic is incredible!

  82. hawkfeather
    Posted 5/31/2010 at 5:19 am | Permalink

    nursemaid’s elbow totally sucks.

    especially when accompanied by the guilt if you happen to have done it-
    Lorne poped our little one’s shoulder out when she was tiny- and i think he might have felt worse than she did..

    I remember this happening to Maddie when she was tiny- good thing she is a tough cookie.

    You deserve to have someone share those tears weather they be relief or fear…

  83. Lindsay P.
    Posted 5/31/2010 at 9:10 am | Permalink

    As a faithful follower/stranger…I was so excited to read a brand new post!!! (Little like Christmas…) Very happy to hear that everyone is happy, healthy, and thriving. The LA Times article was great and the photos were even better. Your story will be immortalized soon and I’m counting the days till March. All my best to you and yours.

  84. ben
    Posted 6/1/2010 at 10:09 am | Permalink

    i hope your book isn’t as long as this post.

  85. Posted 6/1/2010 at 10:43 am | Permalink

    Poor Maddy. I used to experience this same thing with my arm when I was a little girl, but my doctor called it “Supermarket Elbow” for all of the times that your mother pulls your arm at the supermarket:). Poor girlie, I know how much that hurts. My parents were also not willing to pop it back in, meaning that I spent many a days at the doctors. Luckily it stopped happening when I was about 4.
    Looking forward to the book. Hugs to all three of you from Canada.

  86. Sarah S
    Posted 6/1/2010 at 12:31 pm | Permalink

    So glad to see you all looking so very happy!

  87. Posted 6/1/2010 at 8:01 pm | Permalink

    Those videos of her… she is yummy!

    I love their language!

  88. Jen T
    Posted 6/2/2010 at 6:06 pm | Permalink

    I can’t decide what I love more your blog or everyone elses comments (well most of them…ben and please answer amelia. inquiring minds want to know.)? I feel like one big stalking family.

    And for the record: I love both equally.

  89. Elisabeth
    Posted 6/3/2010 at 8:56 am | Permalink

    I am WAY behind. Is Brooke Matt’s girlfriend??

  90. Posted 6/3/2010 at 9:59 am | Permalink

    Oooooh, the arm story made me cringe. Why, oh why can’t I wrap my child in bubble wrap for the next decade or so?

  91. Posted 6/3/2010 at 2:03 pm | Permalink

    i always love coming here because you save up your stories and photos, and your posts are always full of maddy goodness! so sorry about your day of baby girl being in pain, and of course having to be at the hospital. last month my daughter smacked her head on our fireplace and cut her eyebrow open – it was a horrible feeling having to hold her down while the doctor treated it. i saved my tears for later in the day after she was asleep. what a helpless feeling as a parent.

    maddy is so incredibly beautiful. love the swimming pool photos and the outdoor ones that show off her blue eyes & her pink sneakers! (:

    cheers!

  92. Posted 6/4/2010 at 3:14 am | Permalink

    ouch on the arm.Our friend was at the Marker faeri.He was the dude with a Zebra tail and was running the giraffe

  93. Kristin
    Posted 6/4/2010 at 5:52 pm | Permalink

    Hey Matt,
    I live here in Minneapolis, and I am really curious as to where all those pictures were taken. They are amazing and would love to go and check them out!

  94. Posted 6/4/2010 at 6:51 pm | Permalink

    Ooof, poor Maddy! That photo with her eyes welled up with tears says it all. She’s such a beautiful little girl—glad she is feeling better now!

  95. Posted 6/4/2010 at 10:29 pm | Permalink

    Thanks, as always, for your wonderful blog. :::sigh::: :)

  96. Bridget
    Posted 6/7/2010 at 7:49 am | Permalink

    FYI- -that same article was in the Chicago Tribune, too. I gasped when I saw the pic of you & Maddy. I’m like Hey I Know Them! Well, not really…but feel like it. Weird, huh?

  97. Nanarocksween
    Posted 6/7/2010 at 9:26 am | Permalink

    I’m WAY WAY behind as well. So Brooke is the new love in Matt’s life?

  98. KT
    Posted 6/7/2010 at 12:24 pm | Permalink

    Lovely to see pics of you all hanging out in the Bay Area! And you made the trip to San Mateo for the Maker Faire! Yes, it was nerdy but fun, wasn’t it (that’s my neck o’ the woods). Great to see you all so happy.

  99. Kayla
    Posted 6/8/2010 at 5:26 pm | Permalink

    The potty chair video is gorgeous <3. I love that she says its "our" potty chair, like you're all going to use it. Good job with the sharing, Maddy, but I don't think that's a good idea ;) And OMG it sings to you while you wee!?!
    Also, your photography is amazing (though i'm sure you know that) :)

  100. Barb from Minnesota
    Posted 6/10/2010 at 11:17 am | Permalink

    Great LA Times article.

  101. Posted 6/10/2010 at 9:33 pm | Permalink

    Awesome pictures, as always.

  102. Posted 6/10/2010 at 9:35 pm | Permalink

    P.S. I sent you an e-mail about this before. Not sure if you got it or not. Anyhoo. Just wanted you to know that I’ve followed your journey pretty much from the beginning of your blog. I was always wondering how someone would get through something like that… Then, in January of this year my boy-friend passed away, just 3 weeks after we found out that I was pregnant. I think I’m still a mess on most days… Thank you for sharing your journey.

  103. Posted 6/10/2010 at 11:17 pm | Permalink

    hi matt and maddy!
    i’m watching you on cbs2 right now. i’ve followed y’all for quite some time. i love following your journey!
    i’m a volunteer for comfort zone camp ~ a free camp for grieving children. you would make an amazing volunteer! check it out http://www.comfortzonecamp.org
    you are amazing!
    love,
    melinda

  104. chris
    Posted 6/11/2010 at 8:54 am | Permalink

    I saw you on the CBS 2 news last night. I felt like I know you. The interview was amazing. You are doing such great things in Liz’s memory. So glad you’ve found happiness again.

  105. Jennifer
    Posted 6/14/2010 at 9:26 am | Permalink

    I’ve been reading your blog for forever now, but haven’t ever posted. I love checking in and reading your updates…when I was looking at the wedding pictures from your friend’s wedding, I kept thinking, that farm looks so familiar….then when you mentioned you stayed at a hotel in New Richmond I had to laugh….see I was born and raised in New Richmond!!! So good to see pictures of back home as I haven’t been back for almost a couple of years now. Hope you enjoyed your very short stay in the City Beautiful :)

  106. Katie
    Posted 6/14/2010 at 11:21 am | Permalink

    You need to update more! ;-)

  107. Patteee
    Posted 6/15/2010 at 10:12 am | Permalink

    Just a comment on a memory that sticks out- for me Matt, hands down it was the wedding picture of you and Liz, rose pedals at her feet, your comment that you must have said something funny- the look on her face, her hands up on her cheeks- such a private moment that got captured in picture. It touched a lot of people Matt- your mother had the most amazing comment about it and about Liz. If your words could capture that moment saved forever on film- you will have written about the essence of love.

  108. Angela
    Posted 6/15/2010 at 5:04 pm | Permalink

    Maddy is just precious. I’m sorry that happened to her arm, but I’m glad to hear it was an “easy” enough fix.

    I too am happy to hear that things are well with Brooke too. Good on you.

    As for the potty training….that’s an adventure for sure. My oldest daughter is 3.5, and my youngest is 18 months. It took my oldest about 3 weeks to get it. She was ready, and that was at 2.5. My 18 month old is no where near ready. It sure is an interesting journey though.

    Hugs to you. Looking forward to your book.

  109. lb in lb
    Posted 6/16/2010 at 2:03 pm | Permalink

    @cadi, so sad to hear that news. I hope it all works out for you in time. What a tragic thing combined with the best thing in the world…Best wishes for a good journey.

  110. Kristen
    Posted 6/17/2010 at 1:06 pm | Permalink

    Beautiful photos. I’m glad Maddy is feeling better and her arm is okay!

    I love your polaroid photos – where do you get your film??

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