it’s been awhile…

wow.

i looked at

the date of my

last blog post

and i can’t

believe how long

it has been

since i last posted

an update.

well, here’s why…

as you know,

i’ve been working

on this

little project that

is my book

(due out in april 2011 from grand central)

at the moment,

i’m waiting for

what should be

the final round of

revisions to arrive

on my doorstep from

my editor.

the really fun

begins shortly

after that, and i

can’t wait to

share the process with you.

more updates soon.

so…

what have been

up to since

the last proper update?

well, we took a very

quick drive up

the coast to

visit some friends.

on the way there we

stopped to

pick blueberries

with her blueberry buckets.

off to pick some blueberries.

picking blueberries.

trying to help.

then we found

mark, jeffra and mckenna

and hung out with

them at the beach.

mckenna and maddy.

on the beach.

running.

towers.

maddy and brooke.

us on the beach.

maddy.

maddy and mckenna on the swings.

mark and jeffra on the swings.

matt and brooke on the swings.

the next day we

went to what has

to be the world’s

oldest aquarium

(i don’t know that to be true)

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where we watched

the performing seals.

holy shit! performing seals!

feeding the seals.

performing seals!

holy shit are

they loud.

later we headed

to another beach

where maddy

ran through the

sand like the

little california gal

she is.

playing.

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on the beach.

on the beach.

on the beach.

on the beach.

on the beach.

mark and jeffra and girls.

we said goodbye to

our friends and

made the drive

back to los angeles,

halfway home

i unexpectedly

drove past some of

the spots where

liz

and i spent our

first wedding anniversary.

i didn’t really know

we’d be driving past

them, but after

an unplanned detour

we ended up doing so.

we continued our

drive, stopping for

some photos:

mountains.

sitting.

sunset.

on the tracks.

that week

my brother

david and his friend

flew out to

los angeles so

david could take my

old car from

my driveway.

it had been sitting

there, largely untouched,

for quite awhile

so it seemed natural

to give it to him.

i didn’t think it

would be as hard

to see it go

as it actually was,

(it was the car i bought when i first moved to la, and liz was the one who negotiated with the used car dealer to get the price down).

but i felt

great that it

was going to

one of my favorite

dudes in the

whole world.

later that week maddy

hung out with

melanie and i took

brooke to see

the why? concert in pomona.

yeah, it was

mostly for my

enjoyment, but i

had another reason for going…

i needed to get

the songwriter’s permission

to include his lyrics

in my book.

my friend lorieanne

set up the

meeting, and before

the show, yoni

graciously signed

the legal document

my publisher requires…

the amazing thing

is that he’s

allowing me

to use the lyrics

without asking for

anything in return

(aka, he told me i could use his words without paying him, even after i offered to do so).

that’s amazing.

i’ve also been in

contact with

a couple of other songwriters

whose lyrics will

be included in the

book, and they’ve

been equally amazing about

allowing me to reprint

their words

(taking care of these legal requirements really makes this whole thing seem so much more real).

and as if

yoni hadn’t

already done enough

for me, he fulfilled

a life-long

music nerd dream of

mine and dedicated

to me

the song i’m

using in the book.

awesome.

the next weekend,

we went to a

birthday part for

maddy’s friend, sophie.

sharing.

brooke was

thrilled because

some guy from

some movie was there

brooke is freaking the fuck out in this photo.

some guy and his kid in a really big bubble.

and maddy was excited

to play with

some of her

favorite book characters,

with a hungry caterpillar.

happy.

watch sophie dance

with an older man,

dancing reluctantly.

see some giant bubbles,

waiting for the bubble show.

even bigger bubble.

get enveloped by

a giant bubble,

about to be inside a bubble.

in a giant bubble!

about to pop it.

and finally,

sample every

sugary snack in

the place.

sugar high.

watching the bubbles.

hittin' the rock.

and finally, m&ms.

reaching.

thankfully there was

some fruit in

the place to

take her attention

away from the candy.

not sugar!

as a bonus, we got

to hang out with

heather, mike and annabelle.

***

the next weekend

maddy stayed

in los angeles

with brooke and

i snuck back

to minnesota for a

weekend with some

dudes from college

(shhhhh…don’t tell my editor).

after a night

that found us

sitting in the

beer cooler

of a bar

until 3:30 am

i woke up the

next morning and

finished some edits

before meeting up

with some of the

dudes for breakfast

at a small town restaurant.

breakfast.

thinking...

jukebox.

restaurant.

old.

(this is the kind of stuff that really makes me miss minnesota).

someone tried to

convince me i

had taken a longer

trip than

i actually had

i was not in china.

we kept driving south,

welcome.

lines.

heading toward

my friend’s dad’s house

for a weekend of

dude stuff.

we rode around in

a boat for

a bit

dudes.

ring around the sun.

sky.

sky.

the rest of

the weekend went

pretty much like that,

but add to it

a poker game

with one of the

coolest 70 year

old guys i’ve

ever met and a

trip to a really

small town

dudes on a bus.

for a wrestling match

that i really can’t

begin to describe.

kevin with el bano (sic).

wrastlin'.

wrastlin'.

tony and wrestler.

dudes.

take down.

our driver

made one final

stop that night

bar.

darts.

playing with the bar toys.

(at a bar with children’s play area, no less)

before driving us home.

the next morning

we were on

our way back to

minneapolis, but i

insisted that we

stop to visit a

long forgotten

bit of my childhood.

55

happy chef.

i spent sunday evening

with a

small portion of

my family, and finally

got a chance to

meet my cousin

josh’s new baby, isla.

the next day

i was on the plane

back to los angeles.

it’s so incredibly weird

to fly without madeline.

i really missed

the wrestling match

we always have when

it’s time for

her to get

buckled in when

the flight’s about

to take off.

brooke picked

me up at the airport

and we headed straight

to maddy’s daycare

to pick her up.

it was the best

greeting ever.

***

the next weekend

was father’s day,

and brooke and

maddy made sure it

was a great one.

they bought

me a new

grill, took me

our for breakfast,

a little help from brooke.

let me spend

as much time in

amoeba as i wanted,

and posed for

photos with me.

trying to get down so she can run around.

me.

brooke.

she helped me shop.

(i can’t believe how much bigger she is now. here she is in the same spot on august 5, 2008 and january 9, 2009).

what an awesome day.

***

maddy has been

so incredibly fun

the last few weeks.

(she’s so helpful).

and now she has

a couple

of favorite songs.

in brooke’s car

she listens to the

beach boys and michael jackson,

and in my car

she has far better

options, and lately she’s

been really into

“blood bank” by bon iver,

and “bright lit blue sky” by ariel pink’s haunted graffiti.

in fact, she calls

for both by

name and even

sings along.

(so proud of this kid).

last weekend brooke’s

sister came out

to visit

and we made

sure she spent

a sufficient amount

of time at the beach.

ashley, brooke, maddy.

running.

on the beach.

on the beach.

one of us needs a shower.

maddy and ashley.

making sure they don't lose their shoes.

flying.

on the beach.

running.

we also made

a stop

at the pier

lights.

so that maddy

could have a

lot of fun.

watching.

first she had

to measure up

barely tall enough.

(i use to do this to liz all the time and she would get pissed…see?).

then she was

able to ride.

waving.

flying an airplane.

waiting to fly.

flying.

excited.

but before all

of this happened,

she took a direct hit

thanks to a

passing seagull.

i was freaking out

about the shit running

down her forehead, but

i couldn’t jump into

action to clean

her up because

brooke was carrying the

diaper bag.

i yelled for her,

and as she frantically

searched for the

wipes, i snapped

a couple of photos.

direct hit from a seagull.

damn birds.

getting cleaned up.

almost clean.

getting cleaned up.

maddy is sure

to have a lot

of good luck now

(or so they say).

the next day we

went to maddy’s

favorite park

for a little fun.

we saw a

coyote walking a bit

too close to the place

coyote.

and after he left

we made our way

to the playground.

on the swing.

in the swing.

on the swings.

ride.

teeter totter.

climbing.

on the way to the merry-go-round.

taking a rest after running all over the playground.

sliding with ashley.

***

a few days ago

maddy made my life.

***

this weekend

tom, candee and deb

are coming out to

los angeles to

spend the weekend

with us.

we’re all looking

forward to it

but what they don’t know

(because they’re on the way here)

is that maddy

got sick last night

and slept for only a

couple of hours.

i slept for one.

we should be fun.

i’ll have an update

about the weekend

no later than wednesday.

thanks for your

patience while i

work on this book.

the blog has

suffered as of late,

but i think it’s

made for a pretty

decent book.

finally,

stranger friend/photograper, abbie morrison has a great little blog and she asked me to write a little something for her, which i was honored to do.

check it out if you have a few extra minutes to kill

106 Comments

  1. Tiffany
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:22 am | Permalink

    Morro Bay! I have such great memories of going there when I was younger. I recently revisited and had to make a stop at the aquarium and feed the seals.

  2. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:23 am | Permalink

    um, okay …you only hung out with DUDES the nite of the freezer. ahem!

  3. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:26 am | Permalink

    Do my eyes deceive, or did you trim your beard? PLEASE TELL ME YOU TRIMMED YOUR BEARD.

  4. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:28 am | Permalink

    Awww! I love youuuu daddy! So sweet!

    Looking forward to the book.

  5. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:31 am | Permalink

    Those videos are awesome. The end. :) (she’s so cute)

  6. Glenda in San Diego
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:37 am | Permalink

    Melt! She said “I love you daddy” She is as gorgeous as ever! Love, love her bathing suit! So happy for you and Maddy that you have Brooke in your life! Thanks for the much needed update! :D

  7. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:50 am | Permalink

    @heather

    yes…i trimmed the beard. i couldn’t stand to look at myself.

  8. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:50 am | Permalink

    @sarah

    you were there earlier, but you missed the freezer part.

    be happy you did.

  9. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:53 am | Permalink

    I LOVE that aquarium. My husband and I discovered it years ago on our many trips between the OC and the Bay Area. We are hoping to take our kids this week when we head back down to the OC for a visit!

    Thanks for the update–although I understand you are busy with the book, I miss the updates and pics of you guys!

  10. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:57 am | Permalink

    Matt, this post is magic, the photos and videos are priceless!! So glad that you’ve been having so much fun and that the book is almost done! I hope you’ll be coming to Texas (Dallas) on your book tour! Can’t wait!

    Truly amazing that the artists were so kind to let you use lyrics, that’s so powerful!

    Much love!

  11. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:58 am | Permalink

    Congrats on getting so far with the book. I truly can’t wait to read it.

    Maddie looks wonderfully happy. :)

  12. Allison
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:59 am | Permalink

    Last night I spent about an hour reading the blog of a young Dad with three very young kids whose wife passed away late last year. He is depressed, no hope, imagining 50 Father’s Days ahead – alone.

    Reading yours and seeing how happy you are, and seeing that you have someone to make your Father’s Day great, makes me cry. So happy for you. And isn’t it the absolute best when they say I love you for the first time??

  13. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:00 am | Permalink

    Maddy, not Maddie. Maddy, not Maddie! NEXT time I’ll get it right. lol

  14. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:03 am | Permalink

    Congrats on the book coming to completion! Y’all have been busy bees- looks like lots of fun adventures. Loving Maddy’s pink and orange shift. She is just such a little girl now. No longer a baby. Time flies!

  15. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:06 am | Permalink

    Direct hit = grossest thing ever!!!! Thank goodness she’s too little to really remember that.

  16. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:19 am | Permalink

    It’s always a joy to catch up on your blog and see what a lovely lady Maddy has become! I’m so happy that you are all doing so great! Thanks for sharing your life with all of us stranger/friends
    The “I love you” video made me smile, but the bird poop on the head pictures cracked me up.
    Take care, and I hope to meet you at the Celebration of Hope

  17. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:24 am | Permalink

    I can’t wait to read the book. I should be done with grad school by then and will be looking for something good to read rather than educational journal articles. Loved the photos of Maddie with her “luck” on her forehead, she is precious!

  18. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:24 am | Permalink

    Can’t to read the book. I am really looking forward to it.

    Love the pictures. Maddy looks like Liz more and more every day.

    Have a great 4th of July !

  19. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:25 am | Permalink

    What happened to your baby and who is that big girl in her place?!?!?!

    I think I’ve found my life’s calling-I’m opening a bar with a kid’s play area. Done and done.

  20. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:25 am | Permalink

    PS-I’m literally salivating in anticipation of reading the book. (well, I guess not literally salivating because that is disgusting, but you know what I mean)

  21. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:27 am | Permalink

    Thanks for the update. The I love Daddy video is possibly the sweetest thing ever.
    Have to say, I was amazed by how much Maddy looks like your pics of Liz, especially in the “resting” on the playground close up shot. Gorgeous and so much like her mom.

  22. Jennifer
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:35 am | Permalink

    Busy as ever, I see! Everyone looks happy and healthy, so that’s all that matters.

    Can’t help but think of the movie quote: “you have a baby…in a bar!” when I look at that child area in the MN bar. Too funny.

    Enjoy the 4th!

  23. Natalie
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:36 am | Permalink

    Love that you went to St. James, MN! I grew up there and know the Downs’ (Anthony is the reason I know about your blog!). My family has a place on Long Lake as well, love it there! You really should have stopped to eat at “China”, it’s the best…or not…lol.

  24. taaaaaasha
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:41 am | Permalink

    you totally need to take her photo every year in that elevator and frame them. so awesome.

    the bird shit made me laugh. lauuuuuuuuugh.

  25. Sara in The MN
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:45 am | Permalink

    LMAO…only in the sticks of The MN will you find the convenience of a play area in the bar. Looks like a great Dude Weekend was had by all.

    The videos are great!

    The Seagull story…ah yes, THEY do say it’s good luck to be crapped on from the air. I had a similar experience at the MN Zoo, looooong ago in the tropical building. Some lovely tropical bird got me directly on the top of my head. I’m very lucky indeed :)

    Can’t wait for the book!

  26. cc
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:00 pm | Permalink

    I’m excited for this book :) Thanks for the update as always. Glad it looks like you had an amazing father’s day! :-)

  27. Carrie
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:17 pm | Permalink

    OMG she is just too cute :) and OMG is that Chris Noth at that kid’s b-day party, aka Mr. Big????? I would have went nuts too !!!!!!!! some guy from some movie— ha ha !!

  28. Jen
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:20 pm | Permalink

    That is so great! She is too adorable. That I love you video just melts my heart! Is that by chance the Happy Chef man in Mankato?? I too have great memories by that guy!! Love from Minnesota!!

  29. Rachel
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:26 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for the update! I can’t believe how much Maddy has grown either. Time sure does fly.

    It looks like you have had a lot of fun and some very special moments these past few weeks. Hopefully you will have a lot more this weekend! Enjoy the holiday and have a blast with the family. Happy 4th!

  30. Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:29 pm | Permalink

    Maddy has good musical taste.

    She looks so gangsta in the measuring photo. And the one really close-up photo of her face, omg, she looks so OLD.

    I know and love about half the tracks you suggested on abbiemorrison.com. Will have to listen to the others.

  31. Male Beecher
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:34 pm | Permalink

    When are you going to break in the new grill (with a larger group of people)?

  32. Amanda
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:38 pm | Permalink

    Matt,

    Although we miss your more frequent blog posting, I think that I speak for everyone when I say, WE ARE SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE HAPPY and enjoying time with that cute little peanut of yours. Cannot wait to read your book!

    Amanda

  33. MelisaG
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 12:48 pm | Permalink

    Without sounding like a weirdo that thinks she knows you better than she does….I think it is SO great how Brooke is in the picture. It makes me really happy for you to know that she was w/ Maddy while you were away, she made Father’s Day special for you etc. She seems like a wonderful person and I’m really happy for you all.

  34. Posted 7/2/2010 at 1:00 pm | Permalink

    Matt, I had been wondering where you were! Busy with the book I’m sure. LOVE the videos of Maddy… “Daddy I love you.” What a sweetheart. Getting so big so quickly. I can’t WAYYYT to read the book. Long time reader of this blog. Take care and enjoy some family time… hope the sickies get better!

  35. Posted 7/2/2010 at 1:28 pm | Permalink

    Love that last video of Maddy telling you she loves you. My eyes are still watering from it:)

    And I also spent my childhood stopping to visit the happy chef guy. Every time we went to visit family in Mankato my poor mother had to stop so my brother and I could get out and push the button. Love it!!

  36. Ashley
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 1:36 pm | Permalink

    Great update. I love in the video how she says, “yeah!” in response to “me?”, kinda like, “duh, of course I love you, silly!”.

  37. Posted 7/2/2010 at 1:44 pm | Permalink

    Aww, the I love you daddy MELTS me!! Of all the things I can’t wait to hear, that is at the TOP of the list.

    Glad to hear that things are going well. Minus the bird shit. G-ross.

  38. missy
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 2:05 pm | Permalink

    Thansk for the update! Maddy is getting so big and adorable as ever! I would have been freaking the f out if I was at that birthday party with Mr B ig too!

  39. brandi
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 3:28 pm | Permalink

    yea! thanks for the update. glad everyone is doing good. Love the videos of maddy – too cute.

  40. Anna
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 3:54 pm | Permalink

    April 2011!! So exciting!!

    I love all your pictures as always but the Running on the beach and the sunset one are my favorites from this post. And where did you get that cheetah suit Maddy had on…so cute!! That birthday party looked interesting-especially with the guy from Sex and the City haha

    All of your posts touch my heart in different ways but this one did especially. I have 2 young cousins and the first time hearing them say ‘I love you cousin Anna’ really hit me so I can understand how that felt when Maddy said ‘I love you Daddy!!’ Love that video!!

    Best Wishes!!!!! And Happy Belated Fathers Day!

  41. Posted 7/2/2010 at 4:34 pm | Permalink

    If the kids and I would have gotten together with Brooke and Maddy while you were gone like we planned, I would have blamed my kids for getting her sick (phew)! I hope she feels better soon so we can get together and Maddy can finally meet our bunny!

  42. Posted 7/2/2010 at 4:41 pm | Permalink

    Great to read a blog update from you – was wondering what had happened to you!

    Totally get why Brooke was excited to go to that party – some guy from some movie! Eeeeeek it doesn’t get any BIGger than MR BIG!!

    Lovong all the photo’s!

  43. Posted 7/2/2010 at 4:51 pm | Permalink

    You are awesome. Your girls are lovely. Water runs downhill. The sky is blue. Same old shit, different day.

  44. Ashley in the NYC
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 6:20 pm | Permalink

    dear Matt,
    wonderful update.

    Dear Brooke,

    *please* tell me that adorable swimsuit is available for me to purchase somewhere immediately! although it’s probably one of your fab vinatge finds… too, too cute.

  45. Posted 7/2/2010 at 7:24 pm | Permalink

    So funny… I have a friend in the MN that just had a baby girl named Isla! It must be a common name in the MN.

    Thanks for the update!

  46. Tara in The Fort.
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 8:28 pm | Permalink

    Yay! I’ve been waiting for an update.
    Mady is the cutest thing. She’s such a big girl! Talking and singing. Isn’t it just the best to hear them tell you that they love you? Melts me.

    All the pictures are fun! Brooke is so beautiful and sweet and I can tell that she is making you very happy. You’re smiling more, you just look healthy and happy. It’s great. And Brooke loves Mady so much, it’s so precious to see.

    The picture of Liz by the measuring stick had me laughing so hard! What a fun memory.

    Have a great weekend with family!

  47. AM
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 8:34 pm | Permalink

    Long, long, long time reader…first time poster. Glad you’ve found Brooke!

    Maddy is going to kick your ass one day over the bird shit picture but if you hadn’t gotten the shot, all of us readers would have been kicking your ass anyway. Either way, your butt gets whooped.

    Maddy is nothing short of absolutely darling. Be proud Matt, you’re an amazing father.

    Hope you come through Kansas City on the book tour!

  48. caitlin
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 8:36 pm | Permalink

    Great update! I just can’t believe how BIG Maddie is getting and what a BIG personality she has. You are doing such a great job.

  49. AJ (female) in MPLS
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 8:50 pm | Permalink

    Such a funny, cute, heart warming post today. She just gets cuter and cuter.

  50. Larissa
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 9:06 pm | Permalink

    Great update! She is such a beautiful little girl and so lucky to have you. I hope she’s feeling better soon.

  51. madeline
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 9:53 pm | Permalink

    The video of her singing is so darn cute! Is that a bruise on her left cheek? I hope she’s OK!

  52. Dana
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:18 pm | Permalink

    LOVED this post!

    Who is taking video while, dare I say, it looks like you are driving?! Is Brooke in the car, too? Do you have a video camera strapped to your rearview mirror?

    My one year old stops doing whatever she was doing as soon as the camera comes out. :(

    So glad you are all well.

    Lots of love!

  53. Dana
    Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:19 pm | Permalink

    PS: I cried when I saw the video of Maddy saying she loves you. That might have been the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen.

  54. Posted 7/2/2010 at 10:35 pm | Permalink

    Serious cuteness overload! I loved hearing her tell you “I love you daddy.”

  55. Posted 7/2/2010 at 11:41 pm | Permalink

    Nice Anticon shirt.

  56. Melissa
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 12:03 am | Permalink

    My goodness, Maddy is such a mini-Liz, isn’t she?

    Looking forward to the book! You should come out to DC for a book tour/signing!

  57. Posted 7/3/2010 at 12:47 am | Permalink

    I know those seals anywhere! Morro Bay??

  58. Davis
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 1:43 am | Permalink

    If Maddy does the I love you routine with Oliver, you’re in big trouble!

  59. Steph
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 2:16 am | Permalink

    Thanks for the new playlist and formal introduction to Ariel Pink! My teenage son, slobbering black lab and I are driving to Minnesota’s Iron Range tomorrow to spend the 4th at the lake with my parents…suddenly, I am excited forward to the trip with my awesome new songs! (I grabbed a few others from some of the artists for a long playlist of new tunes.) Feel free to post more!

  60. Posted 7/3/2010 at 3:38 am | Permalink

    Maybe we saw the same coyote?? The one I saw totally seemed to expect a hand out.

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/10528017@N04/4695801868/

  61. Posted 7/3/2010 at 4:43 am | Permalink

    the happy chef! my husband and i drove by that the other day and we laughed. i told him how you have a lot of pictures taken with these statues and how it made me think of you :) then there you are!

    i’ve never left a comment before but i’m a regular reader. we’re expecting our first child in december. i’ve always thought you were pretty amazing but getting ready to actually have a child myself…congrats matt – you are doing an awesome job! :)

  62. Betsy
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 6:13 am | Permalink

    Oh Matt – The “I love you” is the best. Made me tear up. You are so incredibly awesome with her, you are an amazing dad. Maddy is very lucky.

  63. Posted 7/3/2010 at 7:25 am | Permalink

    Love the videos. (How do you set up the video camera to take shots of her while you’re driving??) Can’t wait to hear more about the book.

  64. brooke
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 8:00 am | Permalink

    @Ashley in the NYC- not vintage, actually… here’s the link! http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=432830&CategoryID=12420

  65. Emily Van Voorhis
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 10:27 am | Permalink

    Looks like you guys have been staying busy! I need to get myself to the beach soon—you’ve inspired me—although I hope the seagulls stay away. I can’t wait to read the book!!

  66. Danielle
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 12:11 pm | Permalink

    It is amazing to see how much Maddy looks like her mom! She is all mommy! Thank God for that one!!! Great post!

  67. Debra in northridge
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 1:10 pm | Permalink

    Matt, been following you since the beginning. You are inspiring. Hey, were you at LAX recently? I think I walked by you, and my daughter was angry that I didn’t say hi. Anyway, happy to know you blog less. We miss you, but we are happy you live more joyfully and take the time to share moments of bliss and reflection with all of us.

  68. Posted 7/3/2010 at 1:15 pm | Permalink

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for the update! Maddy gets BIGGER with every post! And she talks SO clearly for a kid her age!

    Can’t wait for your book! I, too, hope you come through Missouri when you do your book tour!!

    I’m also jealous that you got to spend time with the Spohr family! Little Annnie is running a close second to Maddy in the cuteness contest!

  69. Erica M
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 6:15 pm | Permalink

    I got teary seeing the measuring up pic of Maddy and then the one of Liz.

    I also had a bird crap right on my forehead, in my hair, and I never told a single soul because I was too embarrassed. I’m not sure why, it’s not like I encouraged the bird to shit on my head.

  70. Maijken from Oregon
    Posted 7/3/2010 at 10:04 pm | Permalink

    So good to see an update from you, Matt. :) Look at how big your girl is growing. Amazing. :) I love the videos and the pictures. the seagull poop one is just priceless. =P I love the pic of her before the one of them going down the slide. The expression on her face is just priceless. :) April 2011 huh? I’ll be sure to set aside some tax money for that book because I sure do want it! will be looking forward to your next update. :)

  71. Kacey
    Posted 7/4/2010 at 6:20 am | Permalink

    Damn Brooke, you make that suit look 10x hotter and yet classier, too. You have such great style.

    Love the post, glad to hear an update!

  72. AC
    Posted 7/4/2010 at 6:31 am | Permalink

    you all look just wonderful, and can i tell you how excited i am for your book?!

  73. Posted 7/4/2010 at 11:15 am | Permalink

    Wow, what a wonderful time you’ve been having. If you don’t mind I will be checking back in from time to time for plugs on the book!

  74. Matt Saunders
    Posted 7/4/2010 at 12:03 pm | Permalink

    Great post. The “bird crap = good luck” is no joke. That happened to my wife on the way to breakfast one day, and later that day part of her family that she hasn’t spoken to in years and din’t know how to find called her. They have been reconnected ever since and has essentially doubled the amount of family she has now. I even think something good is going to happen now when a bird makes a deposit on my car.

    Keep up the good work.

  75. Posted 7/4/2010 at 4:43 pm | Permalink

    best morning ever – no fricken doubt

  76. Posted 7/5/2010 at 8:42 am | Permalink

    I loved the music post on your friend’s blog! I credit you for introducing me to Iron & Wine which I love, so I can’t wait to check out the rest of your picks! And re: John Mayer..I’ll give you that he’s the king of the douchebags, but have you listened to anything of his since “your body is a wonderland”? Because he has some seriously amazing lyrics. Listen to “slow dancing in a burning room” and “edge of desire”. I also love “the heart of life”.

    Anyway, thanks for the update! I think Brooke should do a guest post sometime:)

    P.S. I miss the morning pictures of Maddy on the front steps! Are you still taking those?

  77. Stacy
    Posted 7/5/2010 at 6:52 pm | Permalink

    Damn, April 2011 seems much too far away! Can not wait though!

    Ok, maybe I misread this, but…. While reading the blog you did for Abbie, I noticed you said girlfriend (future wife). Were you refering to Liz or are you and Brooke engaged????

    Thanks for finally posting! I’ve missed hearing the updates! :)

  78. Stacy in the MN
    Posted 7/5/2010 at 7:33 pm | Permalink

    The Happy Chef… you stopped at the one in Mankato, correct?

  79. Posted 7/5/2010 at 8:04 pm | Permalink

    You’re so close to finishing the book that I can just smell the BBQ. :)

  80. Sarah Goible
    Posted 7/5/2010 at 10:39 pm | Permalink

    I laughed a bit when I came to read your post today and realized we had just visited the Aquarium you were at in Morro Bay just this afternoon! How funny is that place?!?! The seals were definitely a hit though. Glad you enjoyed the beach, the boys weekend, father’s day and just watching your little girl grow up. You continue to impress me with how amazing that little girl is… great work daddy! Keep on smiling!

  81. Posted 7/5/2010 at 11:11 pm | Permalink

    @stacy

    that was about liz.

  82. Sarah
    Posted 7/6/2010 at 8:06 am | Permalink

    I just think it’s great that you’ve found such an awesome partner in Brooke. Can’t imagine that it’s been an easy road for her (or both of you for that matter!) embracing all of this, but through photos and your stories, she seems to have done it effortlessly. It’s so much to fun to see you all enjoying life!

    My son is just a few months older than Maddy, but he has autism so he is completely nonverbal. Her “I love you” video meant so much more for me since I’ve yet to hear those words from him. So sweet!

  83. Kristen
    Posted 7/6/2010 at 10:38 am | Permalink

    Those videos make me giggle! Especially her running around at daycare and saying she loves you in the car. Precious!

    P.S.

    I just bought that song off itunes, (“bright lit blue sky” by ariel pink’s haunted graffiti.) Thanks for posting it! I love it!!!

  84. Posted 7/6/2010 at 1:51 pm | Permalink

    That last video is AWESOME! Love Maddy’s leopard print bathing suit.

  85. Posted 7/6/2010 at 9:25 pm | Permalink

    You are always seem to have fun! Maddy is a lucky girl. She is getting so big. What a cutie!

  86. Bri
    Posted 7/7/2010 at 8:18 am | Permalink

    Thanks for updating! I check everyday just in case :) The I love you video was so sweet!

  87. Posted 7/7/2010 at 11:29 am | Permalink

    Um, some guy from a movie?! The one and only Mr. Big from Sex and the City. That’s how you roll in Cali, I see. Fun!

  88. Posted 7/7/2010 at 11:54 am | Permalink

    Those videos of Maddy are adorable! Love it when she asks for your hat and then your hair. And I laughed out loud when I saw the bird doo on maddy’s head.

  89. Posted 7/7/2010 at 1:40 pm | Permalink

    Wait, you refer to him as “some guy” at the birthday party. Oh, Matt, I think Brooke should introduce you to sex and the city: the complete collection.

  90. Briar59 Pam The Mn
    Posted 7/7/2010 at 1:52 pm | Permalink

    Great update! You three are adorable as always!

  91. Posted 7/7/2010 at 2:56 pm | Permalink

    Blood Bank is an excellent song. Good to hear from you again. Congrats on the book. Many many.

    Steph

  92. Michele
    Posted 7/7/2010 at 6:33 pm | Permalink

    Welcome back! Truly missed you and loved the update. Good luck with the edits….

  93. Amy
    Posted 7/7/2010 at 11:47 pm | Permalink

    I love the video of Maddy singing! My little man asks for Incubus, 311, and Tool and loves to sing right along with them. It’s a nice change from the Yo Gabba Gabba songs!

  94. Hope
    Posted 7/8/2010 at 5:54 am | Permalink

    You guys HAVE been busy! It’s great to read another wonderful blog post! Maddy is getting sooo big! She is too cute! I’m glad to see everyone having a great time. I have to say…Brooke needs to come out and do a closet make-over for me! LOL Don’t stay away so long next time!

  95. Posted 7/8/2010 at 12:34 pm | Permalink

    It was Mr. Big at the party !! Now that is awesome..looks like Maddy had a lot of fun !

  96. Corinne Cooper
    Posted 7/8/2010 at 12:49 pm | Permalink

    still here & still reading

  97. jacquie
    Posted 7/8/2010 at 5:01 pm | Permalink

    Didn’t you promise us a blog update for yesterday? ;)

  98. Posted 7/8/2010 at 10:43 pm | Permalink

    Great to see where you’ve been in the world lately. nice to see you three together having a good, happy, fun time.Maddy is growing so much (loved her party dress at Sophie’s party!). cheers!

    PS Please ask Brooke how she does it to always look so fabulous in each photo!

  99. Posted 7/9/2010 at 9:11 am | Permalink

    1) i am so jealous that you guys got to see Chris Noth!
    2) maddy just keeps getting cuter
    3) brooke is gorgeous!
    4) i can’t wait for your book!!

  100. JennyH
    Posted 7/9/2010 at 10:28 am | Permalink

    Holy Cats! Tell me you didn’t go to BBQ Days in good ole Belle Plaine! Love it!

  101. Posted 7/9/2010 at 11:13 am | Permalink

    holy jumpin hell.. her i love you daddy..really might push me over the edge towards baby number six..HA

    ya know i wonder if i spend too long online when i am looking at the photos of that birthday party and think to myself that fuzzy blob in the background weirdly looks like a sphor..and it is.

    You can see Mike hold Annabelle in a shot..

    and I have no idea who the guy is or from what movie.. but California baby birthday parties are the shiz-nat..and her little friends fat baby legs are heavenly.

  102. anita
    Posted 7/9/2010 at 10:17 pm | Permalink

    So, the friend with the hair and the glasses and the green flip flops. Hawt. That is all.

  103. Meg
    Posted 7/13/2010 at 10:12 am | Permalink

    Matt, you travel so much!!! Omg it must be so much fun. I would go everywhere if I could!Hope you travel more and take pictures please. Enjoy your time.Bye

  104. Liz
    Posted 7/14/2010 at 4:02 pm | Permalink

    I am a casual acquaintance of Yoni Wolfe’s and a year or so ago when I read a blog entry you wrote about hearing the song “Brook & Waxing” and how it was playing on your laptop (or something?) when Liz passed away. I sent Yoni the link because I thought he would appreciate the fact that his music has been so important to you. So, I just wanted to say that I’m so thrilled that you were able to meet him in person and that he was able to meet you too. Even though I don’t actually know you, I think you are both awesome people, and I’m not surprised in the slightest that Yoni’s letting you use his lyrics without any kickbacks.

  105. Posted 7/22/2010 at 10:24 pm | Permalink

    Nice work all around!

  106. Posted 8/1/2010 at 2:37 pm | Permalink

    AHHHH! Love that you visited Happy Chef in MANKATO, MN. Love that place (actually, just love the statue out front). I went to Gustavus, and drove by there no less than 100 times on my way to Target in ‘Kato.
    I think we grew up near eachother (yes, I’m a blog-stalker)…and some of the places you visit when you are here are familiar. I grew up in Orono, and am currently still living here.
    Anywho…love the pictures and can’t wait to read your book.

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