read it somewhere else, first:
lifetime has optioned my book, two kisses for maddy.
what does this mean?
well, nothing is ever guaranteed (especially in hollywood), but there’s a chance that my book will be adapted for a lifetime movie. some pretty amazing folks have signed on to make sure this thing is done well.
friends co-creator (yes, the friends) marta kauffman producer of many awesome films denise di novi, and her partner alison greenspan will executive produce the movie, if lifetime actually decides to make the thing.
this discussion has been happening for a long, long time, and i’ve had a lot of shit to consider, but ultimately it came down to fulfilling two requirements:
1. it has to be something liz would have been proud of.
2. it has to be something that won’t cause madeline to hate me someday.
i’ve been guaranteed by everyone involved that that my two requirements are first and foremost in their minds, which has led me to this place.
so i’m excited…i hope you are as well.
fire away with questions in the comments. i’ll do my best to answer them.
I’m not gonna lie, Lifetime scares me. BUT I trust your judgement and know you would only do this if you were sure they would honor Liz in the best way, in a way she deserves. So congrats!
Congratulations on the movie. I hope it’ll be another wonderful way to honor a woman whose life was cut far too short, that Maddy will love it someday, and that it’ll help the foundation. I have a question, but I don’t know how to word it, so I’ll just try. It’s only semi movie related, but I’ve always wondered if all your successes and all this change – the blog fame, the book, the movie, and even a new relationship, really makes you ‘healed’ or ‘recovered’ or however people say it? Do you ever still cry about Liz, miss her, or wonder/think about her? I always read people saying how great it is you’ve ‘moved on,’ and I guess I’m wondering if it’s even true that you have…because I can look at Liz and feel really sad for her, and I didn’t know her. I feel like it would be something you don’t really heal from, new relationship, successes, or no. But I could be wrong and I’m curious as to how it feels…I hope that makes sense and doesn’t sound intrusive or rude or off-topic.
Congrats again. I know it’s Lifetime, and it has certain connotations, but I think it can be great.
Emily
So exciting news! Maddie is such a beautiful little girl – and you are an amazing father, Matt. Have been reading you since I found you a few years back. Anyways – about that rocketpack – I’ve been a bit worried about your not coming through – so here’s a link for you to check out and get busy with – because you DO NOT want to disappoint your little Princess!!
http://www.doodlecraft.blogspot.ca/2012/04/super-sci-fi-rocket-fueled-jet-pack.html
That’s so exciting! Congratulations!
Omg congratulations!! And hey, Lifetime is starting to change a bit as of late – maybe your movie can be the one that leaves people going, “THAT was a Lifetime movie?” ha really, it’s possible! And nevertheless, you wrote a bestselling memoir that is being made into a movie produced by the creator of “Friends.” That is something to be very proud of, and Liz…as if the memoir and the blog and the raising a premature baby wasn’t already enough to make her crazy proud, add that to it and I just can’t even imagine. You have to know how proud she’d be of you, and I am really happy for you. No one deserves it more than you.
Congrats on the movie! I was writing down the date on a form at work and suddenly heard in my head, “August 13th is historically the best Saturday of the month, weather-wise.” Wondered where that came from and remembered your book. It’s your anniversary. I wanted to stop by and wish you a good rest of the day. I hope the happy memories overwhelm the pain. You really don’t know how strong you can be until it’s the only choice you have, but I still don’t know how you do all that you do and I know days like this must hit you especially hard. I hope you “feel” Liz, and look at Maddy as a testament to you and Liz.
http://www.facebook.com/Prays.For.The.Marlowe.Family?ref=stream
I find it so incredible how you’ve not just survived, but actually thrived in the aftermath of something that would bring most people to their knees. It’s also actually really common for people who witness a loved one’s death like you did to be traumatized afterward, and particularly since you were holding Liz and as hands-on as you were, it’s amazing that didn’t affect you. I can’t imagine doing all you’ve done were my spouse to die. Just getting out of bed would be a struggle, but you wrote a book that’s going to be a movie. You’ve found true love and a family with Brooke. It’s absolutely amazing how you got here.
Come back, Matt & Maddie! Please! I miss reading your posts.
you are a wonderful father and your daughter will be a beautiful woman like her mother
Matt, I came across your blog this summer as KARE 11 had a story of a man in Fergus Falls that is now in a similar situation as his wife suffered a brain annurysm at 32 weeks along. The baby is home now, with unknown special needs. At the end of the story they mentioned your blog. The last few weeks I have read your life story and ajqve purchased your book to start next. You are an inspiration to me to be the best wife,and mom that I can be. After being frustrated with my two girls tjat are ages 2 and almost 5, I step back and am thankful that I am here to experience those everyday life with them. You are amazing, no other words can I fond to express how wonderful you have made the most horrific thing tjat could happen. Congratulations on everything you have worked through, and for being Maddy’s everything.
Hey Matt and co. Where ya been? We need an update, atleast I do…
Matt, I came across your blog this summer as KARE 11 had a story of a man in Fergus Falls that is now in a similar situation as his wife suffered a brain annurysm at 32 weeks along. The baby is home now, with unknown special needs. At the end of the story they mentioned your blog. The last few weeks I have read your life story and have purchased your book to start next. You are an inspiration to me to be the best wife,and mom that I can be. After being frustrated with my two girls tjat are ages 2 and almost 5, I step back and am thankful that I am here to experience those everyday life with them. You are amazing, no other words can I fond to express how wonderful you have made the most horrific thing tjat could happen. Congratulations on everything you have worked through, and for being Maddy’s everything.
I am very happy for you! I think you will do your family proud. One comment though… you haven’t posted for over a month. As a long time follower of your blog, I would really like more updates…
My question is how does Brooke feel about you being involved with something like this? Is she really understanding of you being the motivator behind keeping Liz’s memory alive? Do you think she ever gets jealous that Liz is still such a big part of your life?
Also, do you plan to let Madeline watch it or will you make her wait until she’s older? If you make her wait, what age do you think you will suggest she watch it?
I can’t wait to see it no matter what!
hello Matt,Juat finished your wonderful book.happy to hear about the movie if they censor your potty mouth it won’t be the same.wish you .Brooke,Maddie the best life has to offer.
That’s so fun! Congratulations!! Will you and Maddy get to make a cameo?
KK